Would knowing others' sexual infection history influence your meets? If you knew someone had had the clap a dozen times and three times this year, or some other permutation, or crabs for most of their adult life - or would you just prefer to know they were treated? Might you have a limit? |
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If I knew someone had kept getting things, repeatedly, yes that would absolutely put me off because for me it calls into question their decision making and behaviours, and it wouldn't therefore be someone I wanted to meet.
Anyone can have a slip up, make a bad decision or just be unlucky but there's a limit to how many times that will wash. |
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"If I knew someone had kept getting things, repeatedly, yes that would absolutely put me off because for me it calls into question their decision making and behaviours, and it wouldn't therefore be someone I wanted to meet.
Anyone can have a slip up, make a bad decision or just be unlucky but there's a limit to how many times that will wash. "
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Wow!!!
Definitely turn off.
If someone can not respect thier own body and safety. ....how can I expect them to respect mine.
Sorry, I am responsible for my health and not going into risky behaviour for a bit of fun.
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"If I knew someone had kept getting things, repeatedly, yes that would absolutely put me off because for me it calls into question their decision making and behaviours, and it wouldn't therefore be someone I wanted to meet.
Anyone can have a slip up, make a bad decision or just be unlucky but there's a limit to how many times that will wash.
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You don't just catch things without firstly putting your self at risk. So I would avoid. However I would respect the fact that they are open as far too many people lie about their sexual health. |
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We generally assume that others adhere to strict testing and treatment programme but play with the assumption that anyone could be a vector for our own health to be compromised.
Thank goodness that health records are largely anonymous. It has been possible for some 'anonymised' health record data to still allow the individuals to be tracked down, once ages, gender, locations etc are used to determine matching people. Organisations that collect masses of data upon us, including those search and social sites, amongst others, are able to join the dots fairly easily.
At clinics I use random anonymous details, as I prefer to keep myself as untrackable - as far as possible.
Or would for some people it be a case of 'the past is the past', if someone regularly tests and comes along healthy for meets? |
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Mistakes can happen but if a person was a serial STD catcher it would be because of risk taking or a serious mental health problem (diminished responsibilities) & I wouldn't touch them with someone else's let alone my own. |
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