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Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
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over a year ago
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"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
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It is a common complaint. It is not restricted to single males, though they tend to be the first to express the issue.
You could improve your chances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting people interested enough to start chatting is key and to do this you really need to sell yourself to stand out over everyone else who has messaged the person you just have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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you're not gonna click with everyone on here, simple as that.
the forums are less sex anyway, like people will lfirt with those they've no chance of meeting, so if oyu only try to tlk to those you fancy it's not gonna work, it's a vocal place so you need to join in with people who you think you'll get on with chatting to. |
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"I'm always open to constructive criticism 
I'm not whinging I just wanted to know if it was just me "
Your profile says very little about you and a few more pics would help too.
Try to get to a local club or a social event. that helps get verifications which show you as a genuine person on here.
Other than that, it is a case of getting yourself known as a polite, well mannered person.
Above all else, wear teflon armour...non stick and dont take people not responding to messages to heart |
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"I'm always open to constructive criticism
I'm not whinging I just wanted to know if it was just me "
If you are open to constructive criticism great.
Take a critical look at your profile. How favourably do you think it compares to other ones of high standards, and secondly in our personal opinion two of your public pics appear distasteful to us.
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"I'm always open to constructive criticism
I'm not whinging I just wanted to know if it was just me
If you are open to constructive criticism great.
Take a critical look at your profile. How favourably do you think it compares to other ones of high standards, and secondly in our personal opinion two of your public pics appear distasteful to us.
Hope it helps."
 
I would agree with that.
Not enough information or detail in your text and those distasteful photos need deleting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always open to constructive criticism
I'm not whinging I just wanted to know if it was just me "
Read your profile. Does it make you stand out? Does it describe you?
The photos? Is a puddle of semen on the floor likely to attract a lady? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always open to constructive criticism
I'm not whinging I just wanted to know if it was just me
Read your profile. Does it make you stand out? Does it describe you?
The photos? Is a puddle of semen on the floor likely to attract a lady?"
Exactly, it made be a little bit sick in my mouth......delete, delete, delete |
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"you're not gonna click with everyone on here, simple as that.
the forums are less sex anyway, like people will lfirt with those they've no chance of meeting, so if oyu only try to tlk to those you fancy it's not gonna work, it's a vocal place so you need to join in with people who you think you'll get on with chatting to."
Sorry to hijack but your hair looks amazing feir!!!
As for the post OP, it's always difficult breaking into new forums. Just join in and post people will then start to get to know you from seeing you around |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you're not gonna click with everyone on here, simple as that.
the forums are less sex anyway, like people will lfirt with those they've no chance of meeting, so if oyu only try to tlk to those you fancy it's not gonna work, it's a vocal place so you need to join in with people who you think you'll get on with chatting to.
Sorry to hijack but your hair looks amazing feir!!!
As for the post OP, it's always difficult breaking into new forums. Just join in and post people will then start to get to know you from seeing you around "
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Thank you for all feedback I rarely look at my own profile and I believe someone I know has had access to my profile as I should only have a pic of my face and my only other pic is private I'm not sure where the others are from il be deleting immediately |
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Go to a club you cut out the rigmerole of having to be the one guy in a woman's inbox full of ''want to lick custard off my elbow'' and '' iyish dwunk end 1 tawt you w3re prty".
Instead you get to meet and greet based on looks, in an atmosphere that has no expectations. And act upon it immediately should you both feel so inclined.  |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
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Its not just you but in our case it's nerves among other reasons |
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"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
Its not just you but in our case it's nerves among other reasons "
You guys are stunning you have nothing to be nervous of
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
Its not just you but in our case it's nerves among other reasons
You guys are stunning you have nothing to be nervous of
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Thank you, I'm the nervous one and he says he's happy to be with me and not meet anyone just yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wondering why you called this thread 'the ease of meeting people' ..
I thought I was going to get your magic formula 
I only wish I had the answers lol "
network. Let friends matchmake? Put it about... On the grapevine as it were, among your social circle and let it ripple out that you seeking. |
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"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
Its not just you but in our case it's nerves among other reasons
You guys are stunning you have nothing to be nervous of
Thank you, I'm the nervous one and he says he's happy to be with me and not meet anyone just yet "
I guess confidence will come with time I still say you are both stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I find it hard enough meeting new people when I'm on a night out and a few beers have lessened the inhibition! Probably got no chance on here
But hey, we live in hope.... |
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"Not being able to accomadate does sometimes lessen the chance's of meets
But you cant accomodate so why is it always they guy that has to ???"
It isn't but just think about it for 10 seconds - is it the best idea for women to invite strange men into their homes?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not being able to accomadate does sometimes lessen the chance's of meets
But you cant accomodate so why is it always they guy that has to ???"
She isn't saying the guy has to accommodate, she's saying it will lessen the chance of meets as an alternative such as a hotel needs to be arranged which is all extra hassle. |
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"Hi is it just me that is finding it hard to meet new people in here and as a lot of people are only talking to members they have been friends with for some time and various other legitimate reasons.
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It's just you.  |
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