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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To find a normal, sane, attractive ( yes it's in the eye of the beholder) girl?
I've been on here ages, hammered the swiping app and been on countless socials but approaching 36 with no obvious defects or mental illness problems current it's beginning to make me jaded slightly.
Unless I'm missing something - which is quite likely with Aspergers- i'm doing something very wrong.
Without wanting to sound needy how did others meet their partners?
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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"Fast approaching 48 and pretty much given up on the whole happy ever after thing. All together now awww poor blade  "
Unless you're a Disney Princess no such thing as happy ever after  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it's quite a long an in depth story that needn't concern us here but quite literally i struggle to meet women even for dates.
I'm able to speak to their face, not chest, and don't think I'm boring but there's an ingredient missing that means not one of the girls over the last 10 years has shown interest even as friends.
The thing that springs to mind is the grey man effect.
I'm not desperate but trying to figure out why that interest isn't there.
It's beginning to change my personality not for the better. |
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"Well it's quite a long an in depth story that needn't concern us here but quite literally i struggle to meet women even for dates.
I'm able to speak to their face, not chest, and don't think I'm boring but there's an ingredient missing that means not one of the girls over the last 10 years has shown interest even as friends.
The thing that springs to mind is the grey man effect.
I'm not desperate but trying to figure out why that interest isn't there.
It's beginning to change my personality not for the better. "
What's the gray man effect |
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"Well it's quite a long an in depth story that needn't concern us here but quite literally i struggle to meet women even for dates.
I'm able to speak to their face, not chest, and don't think I'm boring but there's an ingredient missing that means not one of the girls over the last 10 years has shown interest even as friends.
The thing that springs to mind is the grey man effect.
I'm not desperate but trying to figure out why that interest isn't there.
It's beginning to change my personality not for the better. "
You're going to have to be more specific. Could there be aspects of your Aspergers that people aren't understanding or possibly misinterpreting, could it be that you aren't picking up on things that other people might? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your meet rate is one person per month. What more do you want?
Keep meeting folk and life will just do what id does. Try and force it and you'll just frustrate yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your meet rate is one person per month. What more do you want?
Keep meeting folk and life will just do what id does. Try and force it and you'll just frustrate yourself "
 I couldn't agree more. |
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