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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Affairs or swing OP? I'm not sure what you're getting at but until you've walked a mile in someone's shoes and know their reasons maybe you should reserve judgement
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
Is there something in the Fab air today? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
Rightly or wrongly we are an animal that enjoys and sometimes craves sex but may not be satisfied at home. So suppose those married woman you refer to may be in that situation, like some married man, yes me as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
Ah, the "love" thing.
There are many versions of that. |
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I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.
Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.
MrsSB 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have been in those shoes and regretted it beard, also been in marriage where it happened. Have been swinging with a lady who has told a pack of lies, how do I know as her husband came to see me. |
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People cheat for various reasons op,no sex at home,greedy,feeling unwanted etc.
If they are honest about it,people can make an informed choice about meeting them.
I get the lying bit though,its not fair to drag people into their dramas.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
Probably be best to nip off to your nearest stately home and ask the question as the question you're asking is usually for the aristocracy.
Sex here is in the most part consensual between all relevant parties.
Yes there are people on here who have sex with others and not tell their partners. Thats their life, their choice, their conscience.
You're asking about partners that do know though.
Generally people here know their partners have sex with others.
It's um....kinda the point of the site
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.
Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.
MrsSB
PS fancy a fuck? "
Ever In ireland hit me up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
No everybody associates love with sex, some don't see having sex with others as a way of loving their partner any less
I guess we all _iew things different, so long as it's not your Mrs I wouldn't worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's their business leave them to it. I do wander if anyone has ever been spotted on here who is married by face pic or sorroundjngs in picture? I don't think I could insult my husband or OH by having conspicuous pictures up in my public profile if I were cheating. Bit mean. Sorry off topic carry on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was lucky as hubby put it my wife is a cheap whore! You aren't the first on fab to be fooled and you won't be the last. I would like to name and shame but I won't put more dishonour on the man. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I was lucky as hubby put it my wife is a cheap whore! You aren't the first on fab to be fooled and you won't be the last. I would like to name and shame but I won't put more dishonour on the man. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"
I love my wife but I'm not happy she went off sex a long long long long time ago I crave sex if I left her it would destroy her and my son. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know. I could speak for myself, but a) it's none of anyone's business, and b) I don't want to.
And I wouldn't presume to speak for anyone else the way a lot of people seem to do.
It's unfortunate if you've been caught up in someone else's drama, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get why were holding on to this Victorian _iew of love and sex Being mutually exclusive? If I love someone, and they want to play tennis with someone, I wouldn't stop that!, so why stop other physical activities, obviously I'd expect honesty and transparency, and safe sex, but other than that, go for it |
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I'm married and yes I love my hubby. He knows I'm on here. I tell him when I meet. He's not cuckold. He also has absolutely no sex drive at all. Not interested in women (or men). Tried everything. I'm the opposite, I have an extremely high drive. This works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get why were holding on to this Victorian _iew of love and sex Being mutually exclusive? If I love someone, and they want to play tennis with someone, I wouldn't stop that!, so why stop other physical activities, obviously I'd expect honesty and transparency, and safe sex, but other than that, go for it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in."
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious "
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime"
Why thank you |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime"
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list? "
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name "
Haaaa that's halarious poor clem |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name "
I think mine starts with an "L"; how am I doin' so far? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name
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Obviously I'm kidding!!  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name
Obviously I'm kidding!! "
Oh well
[ that is another one who slipped through my fingers ] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop judging others.
Simple.
Live your own life.
Mind your beeswax. "
None of your business what others do with their lives. Some cheaters are upfront on here, some will lie through their teeth. Just move on and don't get involved in other people's dramas |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?
clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.
I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious
It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime
Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?
For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name
Obviously I'm kidding!! "
I know - you just have to promise to show him your tits.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.
Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.
MrsSB
PS fancy a fuck? "
Totally agree shame I'm not getting any on fab  my better half does very well on another site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
maybe their a crap shag but 99.9% of them is awesome to that person |
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
I think I unstand ops thread...
However does make think of another awkward question.Often reading upset of women finding out that supposed single fella is married being a deal breaker.Though not so much if seeking a single " elusive" bi- woman only to discover is actually married ....?
Is this equally a dealbreaker ? |
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So the OP has been cheated on, but is now on a swinging site and complaining about married women being on here because one once cheated on her husband to be with him?
Thread sounds like sour grapes but correct me if I'm wrong |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"
I can see that people agree with you but I cannot understand this. If I were in love with someone, that would make me happy; why wouldn't it? |
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"So the OP has been cheated on, but is now on a swinging site and complaining about married women being on here because one once cheated on her husband to be with him?
Thread sounds like sour grapes but correct me if I'm wrong "
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"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
Some people believe in monogamous relationships and that sex only within that relationship is a way of being in love
Others don't, and believe there is a separation of sex and love and you can have a very happy, amazingly loving non-monogamous relationship that involves sex with others outside of the relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand
This
I don't judge others. What they do is their buisness. "
This. ^^^^^
My default response; not my monkey not my circus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.
Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.
MrsSB
PS fancy a fuck? "
Absoblimminlutely - you may have been looking at IP when you asked but it was obviously meant fir me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.
Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.
MrsSB
PS fancy a fuck? "
yeah sounds good |
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