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over a year ago
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There is no way I could ever be in a monogamous relationship again. I don't think humans are built for monogamy as if we were we would only have sex to procreate not for pleasure. Social conditioning has created monogamy.
Saying that I happily take fab breaks and managed to not have a swing meet for 2 years but I always come back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is no way I could ever be in a monogamous relationship again. I don't think humans are built for monogamy as if we were we would only have sex to procreate not for pleasure. Social conditioning has created monogamy.
Saying that I happily take fab breaks and managed to not have a swing meet for 2 years but I always come back. "
For a minute then i thought you said fag breaks hahahhah 
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over a year ago
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We pretty much have it made at the moment. We were both here previously as single swingers and want to stay in the swinging world as a couple. We're happy to be doing this at the moment and although there's lots we've done together there is still lots we both have on our bucket list. Couldn't go back to a vanilla relationship / lifestyle now I don't think. We enjoy kink too much
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Monogamy is not for me. I wouldn't settle with someone who wanted that now.
I'm ruined!    "
I'm the same, I'm not sure if the adage of 'once; always' fits for everyone but certainly for me I couldn't go back to monogamy
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think once you spend a decent amount of time here as a single, going to clubs, enjoying socials and having meets etc.
You'll really find it difficult to go back to monogamy.
I tried it and simply couldn't deal with the closed mindedness towards the swinging lifestyle vanilla people seem to have. Hence why I came back to fab. |
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over a year ago
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Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol
My god have i ruined myself!
This must be why im here on and off ha!
I say i want something serious but end up back here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol
My god have i ruined myself!
This must be why im here on and off ha!
I say i want something serious but end up back here?"
You do realise that you can have a loving relationship too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol
My god have i ruined myself!
This must be why im here on and off ha!
I say i want something serious but end up back here?"
There's no reason you can't have a loving relationship from here.
I do feel being on here has to a certain degree, jaded my view towards vanilla dating though. |
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over a year ago
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Hmm i love the fun of nsa, whilst im single, but if i was to meet someone would that change? Not sure, maybe i should find someone on here and try it hah |
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"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol
My god have i ruined myself!
This must be why im here on and off ha!
I say i want something serious but end up back here?
You do realise that you can have a loving relationship too?"
I gave up swinging for a while. My ex wasn't into it and I respected that. I had no intention of cheating on her. Now I'm single I'm happy to find like minded people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After being in a relationship for 19 years I wont settle down into a monogamous lifestyle again.
I like my freedom and love meeting new people and learning new things.
The clubs the sex the social side etc
This life suits me. |
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