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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.
We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).
Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.
Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.
Also. What was the best date you went on?
(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if that first date was her choice then take her to something you'd be interested in and that's important to you and see how that goes.
take advantage of what little nice weather we have left too if you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try a casino? Nice adult night, few drinks, some fun playing roulette and then a nice meal as most of them have a decent restaurant."
Just simply take her for a nice meal in a nice place and be nice......I will come to your wedding.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When is it? Doncaster Rovers are home vs Carlisle next Tuesday night ...
Just kiddin' - you could do something like when you were a teenager - ice skating that sort of thing. Something to make you both laugh a bit.
A cycle somewhere?
Theatre?
Walk through the countryside?
It's obvious I haven't been dating for a LOOOONNG time hey?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.
We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).
Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.
Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.
Also. What was the best date you went on?
(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone)"
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I had one with this French guy that I had spent 3 months pinning down to a rematch. Fit, cute, ginger, French... hot!
We met up for some food, went for a walk along the river, chatted, couple of drinks in a wine bar...
So I'd had 6 fucks in 6 days preceding that and although he was supposed to be the cherry one the cake, I really didn't feel like *another* fuck.
And yet it somehow descended into a sauna where we pulled this hawt little Texan bottom and a stunning Persian guy and had a mind-blowing foursome.
You know, the ones where you stop, look at the madness and think, WOW! This is like porn, only *I'm* in it!
Yeah. Good date.
Woke up with a smile on my face three days in a row.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about to a restaurant with stand up comedy?
Don't forget a bunch of exotic flowers and pulling the chair for her,refill her glass and don't ask for sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weather's still good so I'd go for something outdoors. See if there's any events on or just perhaps a boat trip down the river and the perfect picnic to finish off. Have fun whatever you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about something different? I know Doncaster has a good icerink, I think it's always a good choice, lots of laughs to be had, holding hands. Or maybe it's the old romantic in me because Paul first told me he loved me at the bottom of a ski slope next to a roaring fire (sigh) |
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"I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.
We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).
Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.
Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.
Also. What was the best date you went on?
(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone)"
Right op!
I've read your profile - and you sound like you have a great personality! If she finds you attractive (and guessing she does if she's agreed on a second date) then I doubt you've anything to worry about!
Why not see the new Bridget Jones movie then go for something to eat? In the unlikely (given your profile) situation that you're struggling for conversation, you can always talk about the film - leading on to favourite/worst film seen etc etc!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first |
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"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first "
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
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I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable. "
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed  "
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates. |
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates. "
Nah, you're doing it wrong  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong "
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend...... |
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......"
Ah, well, I have, as per, both |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both "
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women..... |
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women..... "
Keep shaking that tree |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....
Keep shaking that tree "
I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)
There was a distinct lack of sympathy.
"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?".... |
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....
Keep shaking that tree
I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)
There was a distinct lack of sympathy.
"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?".... "
Seems perfectly reasonable |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women..... "
I'd date you if we were closer, you fancied me and I was 15 years younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best date was the date I met ads, I waited on a really cold platform not sure if he would turn up, he did and his smile melted me right there I knew. Ok we kissed for about ten mins but still! We didn't do anything special, just went to the pub, drank diet s in front of the fire but it was bliss
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....
I'd date you if we were closer, you fancied me and I was 15 years younger. "
I'd fuck him if he were gay.
C'est la vie.
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"I'm good at dates.
They frequently end in bed
This happens to me a lot, when I date.
For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.
Nah, you're doing it wrong
Define "wong"...
I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......
Ah, well, I have, as per, both
I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....
Keep shaking that tree
I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)
There was a distinct lack of sympathy.
"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?".... "
A familiar rant |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow "
You'll have to let us know how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow
You'll have to let us know how it goes "
Were going to a ice hockey game on Sunday the 9th. But in the mean time were going to a mexican restaurant on Tuesday and then a few days later were off to ice skating. After ice skating im planning on finishing our date in A and E |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow
You'll have to let us know how it goes
Were going to a ice hockey game on Sunday the 9th. But in the mean time were going to a mexican restaurant on Tuesday and then a few days later were off to ice skating. After ice skating im planning on finishing our date in A and E"
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow
You'll have to let us know how it goes
Were going to a ice hockey game on Sunday the 9th. But in the mean time were going to a mexican restaurant on Tuesday and then a few days later were off to ice skating. After ice skating im planning on finishing our date in A and E"
Does A & E count as the fifth date then?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.
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Well for me it's usually Starbucks because by that point I'd have already forgotten her name...  |
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"I went on a date with the wrong guy once
You can't leave it there Diamond "
it would take to long to type out but id spent all evening going round the pubs with him having a laugh and when he walked me home i invited him in and thats when he came clean my mates had set me up good and proper. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first
If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.
Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?
I'm no expert on dates btw
I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.
Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow
You'll have to let us know how it goes
Were going to a ice hockey game on Sunday the 9th. But in the mean time were going to a mexican restaurant on Tuesday and then a few days later were off to ice skating. After ice skating im planning on finishing our date in A and E"
Ha ha ha...I'm sure you'll be just fine |
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"Your from Doncaster so it's got to be cactus jacks for the best Rex me X food in town "
I love cactus jacks, but I'm taking her to Chiquentos at xscape |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I've never really been on a proper date. You know the ones where its great with no expectations and ending the evening with a spine tingling kiss?
Maybe one day.
However OP I'd go with the food idea but maybe somewhere that provides plenty conversation ideas. Do a chocolate making day or something then drinks after? |
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"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)
I may get her opinion on the second option first "
I'm sure it'll be good no matter what
Personally I'd prefer the ice hockey to a casino
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"I went on a date with the wrong guy once
You can't leave it there Diamond it would take to long to type out but id spent all evening going round the pubs with him having a laugh and when he walked me home i invited him in and thats when he came clean my mates had set me up good and proper."
Came clean and what? Set you up..how?
Come on Diamond smiles, you have stuck your head above the parapet...reveal all |
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