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What makes sex good?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chemistry.. that feeling you just want to fuck with that person with wild abandonment."
Totally agree. I've met plenty of good looking women but he chemistry wasn't there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The intensity. Im not interested in just putting it in. I need the touching, the kissing, starting off slow until we can no longer contain ourself and start fucking like wild animals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "
Thoughts shared no matter how perverse .
Recalling meets .
What we are gonna do next .
Passionate kissing .
Adjusting tempo and position .
etc.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The intensity. Im not interested in just putting it in. I need the touching, the kissing, starting off slow until we can no longer contain ourself and start fucking like wild animals"
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.
The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.
Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.
Humour. It should be fun. |
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There's gotta be a connection, an attraction. Call it lust, for loss of a better word.
That desire to want to be with that person, touching them, kissing, caressing.. Never wanting it to end..
That's what does it for me..
The kind of sex when you finish, collapse in each others arms and lay there exhausted grinning like the proverbial Cheshire cat.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has to be a connection on both parts
Love when you just can't keep your hands off each other. As soon as you get behind a closed door it's wild passionate sex. |
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"Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.
The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.
Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.
Humour. It should be fun."
Exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.
Yeah. That about covers it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.
Yeah. That about covers it. "
Put so much more eloquently than me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that anyone would ever want to get nekkid with me. I mean I'm not complaining or owt but really, what WERE they thinking!? 
Oh and on a serious note - the intimacy of sharing yourself totally with another person, it's one of the greatest gifts to both give and receive I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "
Somebody else involved. You know what, sometimes they don't even have to be here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "
Lights out trousers still round ankles, missionary position.
No talking or eye contact.
Bang away for 30 seconds and shoot my load.
Best sex ever.
Hello ladies anyone fancy a shag? |
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You can dwell alot on this in your mind over time one thing never takes precedent its always a mixture of things something which is called fantasy, to have someone who loves you as much as you love them then thats a different ball game, but I,m sure fantasy will play its part often given the chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "
you both need to have a connection..
with each other, preferably..
I'd say that was a good start |
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"Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.
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Yes, I love passion and intensity but I love that kind of deeply connected sex best. And because I am primal, losing myself emotionally in the moment is what trips my trigger most.  |
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The connection and the passion, mix that with hot kisses and the fact you can't keep your hands off each other make for a heady mix of intense sexual experiences, throw a little trust in so you can push a few boundaries and you are there   |
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Well since it's different for everyone, spend time finding out what turns that particular woman on. It's not 'one size fits all'. Some women may have very sensitive nipples, some may have little feeling there, for example. For me, I like a slow build up, kissing, caressing, my whole body is one erogenous zone. My neck, my tummy, my inner thighs, stroke me gently and I will literally get tingles all the way to my toes!
IME men tend to be too quick and forget that women need time to get aroused. If you take the time, the sex will be so much better for both of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.
The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.
Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.
Humour. It should be fun.
Exactly "
Absolutely this. |
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All kinds of things - contradictions, possibilities, pushing boundaries, comfort, fast or lingering, furious or tender, dressing up, undressing, the excitement of a new person, the ability of an older lover being able to push your buttons with delicious ease...
Take your pick |
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"All kinds of things - contradictions, possibilities, pushing boundaries, comfort, fast or lingering, furious or tender, dressing up, undressing, the excitement of a new person, the ability of an older lover being able to push your buttons with delicious ease...
Take your pick"
And always with a little humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No one thing. Everyone is different and finding that special touch or kiss is a big part of good sex. There's much more to good sex than a shag. The whole experience of being flirtatious and building trust to be able to push boundaries is a great feeling.
Anyone for a quickie?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chemistry!
This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being able to have a laugh and not take things too seriously. Ultimately, sex is ridiculous and I can't let go with anyone who I can't feel relaxed enough to open myself up at my most ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chemistry!
This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom "
Disagree to that.
I've had the best sex with someone who socially i couldn't stand don't get on with and ended up hating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chemistry!
This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom
Disagree to that.
I've had the best sex with someone who socially i couldn't stand don't get on with and ended up hating"
Each to their own but I need chemistry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour.
Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants "
Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.
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"Humour.
Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants
Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.
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The whole thing is hilarious! Two (or more) people slurping, sucking, rubbing, licking, fingering, penetrating each other. Imagine aliens watching what we do in the pursuit of pleasure. It's a very funny game where hopefully everyone is a winner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Humour.
Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants
Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.
The whole thing is hilarious! Two (or more) people slurping, sucking, rubbing, licking, fingering, penetrating each other. Imagine aliens watching what we do in the pursuit of pleasure. It's a very funny game where hopefully everyone is a winner. "
Aliens are into watching ? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about the 'fit'.
If you fit together it works & the sex is amazing, simple as that really."
Yes. And the 'fit' can be both physical, emotional, intellectual...so many levels.
The perfect connection cannot really be simply quantified. It will resist being scrutinised too closely. You could have an amazing time with someone, but if you had met them an hour or day later it could be a damp squib. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeing her respond to what I'm doing...from the moaning..to the quivering of the legs to the squirting to the screaming more...I'm all bout response try and do things differently each time to see the response |
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My first meet off here was the best fuck I've had, started talking to him in the morning and met him that night wasn't much to look at but there was something that made me want to meet him so glad I did, couldn't even tell you what he did that made it so good as he didn't do anything out of the ordinary but it was amazing and it just got better every time we it.
God I miss him  |
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