Apparently for newly registered profiles there's a page that comes up after your first log in with green and red flashing lettering proclaiming that there is no "art" to meeting and that it is an often over thought and over analysed practice! They say all you have to do is bash out a few messages saying "fancy a shag darlin'?" and you're well on the way to a whirlwind time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do ."

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Temper temper

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sympathy?

No not sympathy at all. well what do you want then"

Read my profile. After all thats what it is there for ?

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Meets are hard and messaging even harder. Grrrrrr"

If it was my Op I'd have said..

Meat is hard.... Massaging gets me even harder..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????"

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not another one !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meets are hard and messaging even harder. Grrrrrr"

you meant to be hard on a meet pal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sympathy?

No not sympathy at all. well what do you want then

Read my profile. After all thats what it is there for ?"

You've only been on two months!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Temper temper

temper. Little me ??? Nah. If Heineken made men then id be probably be the best man in the world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Temper temper

temper. Little me ??? Nah. If Heineken made men then id be probably be the best man in the world "

Ooh I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's at least one of these threads everyday ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sympathy?

No not sympathy at all. well what do you want then

Read my profile. After all thats what it is there for ?"

It's a bit of a glum status for one, I am sorry to say OP. I doubt responses will be forthcoming to such a self pitying status. Women like to feel like they are bagging a catch... Or is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Temper temper

temper. Little me ??? Nah. If Heineken made men then id be probably be the best man in the world "

If Heineken made carlsberg,

Would it be the best carlsberg in the world? Hmm...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????"

Nope, I've had no meets either

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????"

You've been on just 2 months lol!!

What exactly where you exspecting as to how quick you'd get a meet and how often you'd be meeting??

Just maybe your exspections are abit unrealistic.

If your messages are being deleted or ignored then maybe you just aren't what they want .There's vast numbers of threads giving advice to guys ..go read them .

As for the petulant "maybe I should just be a nasty horrible twat " Really not doing you any favours .

This site is mearly a tool for people to use ...the success of that solely dependent on how the individual takes advantage of it .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's hard to meet people, yes. The frustration you feel had been felt by most people here at some point. I think lots of people join thinking it is going to be easier than it is - we're no exception.

It takes time to figure out what works for you and what doesn't work for others. It takes effort to find people you want to meet who also want to meet you.

Meeting people at socials is always a good way of approaching it, too. Sometimes "just another online profile" turns out to be more real in person, if you get what I mean.

Good luck and have fun.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Sympathy?

No not sympathy at all. well what do you want then

Read my profile. After all thats what it is there for ?"
i mean by posting your thread, do you think people will start all of a sudden meeting you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So negative in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

Again its on my profile. Ive asked for social meets a coffee etc in a public place. Socials and meets at clubs are extortionate for single guys bit i was going to my first meet at chams the end of oct but whats the point if no one chats to you here.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meets are hard and messaging even harder. Grrrrrr

If it was my Op I'd have said..

Meat is hard.... Massaging gets me even harder..

Haha drum roll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shave your legs and pop a frock on. Trust me; it's not just guys who message you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

I'm no Darwinian but I'm pretty sure someone face to face is miles more likely to speak ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

Just keep badgering the same folk with the same message over and over again til they reply!

Remember kids, 99 no's and 1 yes,

Is still a yes

Stay classy folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

I'm no Darwinian but I'm pretty sure someone face to face is miles more likely to speak ?"

I agree but if no one talk to me in here why the hell wohld i pay £30 - £60 to go to a club to be ignored. ?????.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to fab. Op keep at it n you will prevail.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

I'll leave that to the proper swingers to answer. It'll be different at a club or social though I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry I missed anywhere where it said it was going to be easy .

Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. If you don't have that then leave as plenty on here that do .

Tbf ive had plenty of patience. Ive tried messaging but just get ignored and blocked for the nicest of messages. Maybe i should become a nasty horrible twat then maybe it would be different ????

Have you actually been out to meet people or are you wanting to do it by fingerblasting your phone?

Coz that probably ain't gonna happen unless you make the effort to socialise properly

I'm no Darwinian but I'm pretty sure someone face to face is miles more likely to speak ?

I agree but if no one talk to me in here why the hell wohld i pay £30 - £60 to go to a club to be ignored. ?????. "

In my experience, guys who smile and are friendly in clubs are never ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 months is no time at all, look out for your local socials and get along, don't expect to play there but you can network and build friendships, patience and perseverance is the key.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you think its a waste then dont bother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just offer a social with a Bombay bad boy pot noodle and a curly wurly it gets the fab women throthing at the gash.Ffs I'm giving away all my secrets here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dunno fella; I know why I do though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Welcome to fab. Op keep at it n you will prevail.

xxx"

Thanks. Think ive messaged every woman on Fab though. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if you think its a waste then dont bother "

Cant remember ever saying it was a waste tbf.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just had a look at your pics, were you by any chance a member of Madness? Lol

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Hang ‘em from the yardarm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks. Think ive messaged every woman on Fab though. Lol "

Theres your problem then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After joining I did a few searches, sent some messages and winks. I had a few chats but nothing came of any of them.

Seems if I lived in the midlands I'd be better off but there ya go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After joining I did a few searches, sent some messages and winks. I had a few chats but nothing came of any of them.

Seems if I lived in the midlands I'd be better off but there ya go. "

I live in the Midlands and no you wouldnt be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just had a look at your pics, were you by any chance a member of Madness? Lol"

Nope

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Negativity breeds negativity a self forfilling prophecy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway point I originally intended to make was in answer to you question op. We bother because it's amusing if you put expectation aside and just enjoy chatting, the forum, fabbing and generally perving

If I end up meeting someone, it will be because we must and it will be fucking amazing.

In both senses lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway point I originally intended to make was in answer to you question op. We bother because it's amusing if you put expectation aside and just enjoy chatting, the forum, fabbing and generally perving

If I end up meeting someone, it will be because we must and it will be fucking amazing.

In both senses lol"

You are on a roll tonight with your insightful comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just take the site with a pinch of salt, as well as some of the comments on here..stick to the forums for general banter and opinionated chatter, message a few if u get a reply all well and good, if not you haven't lost anything.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Just chill OP, you'll get a shag eventually when your number comes up

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

So don't bother, we don't

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