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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know, why is it ok for women to play away behind their partners back, but not ok for men?
Oh, you're not setting up a punchline for a joke!? 
Um, in that case I guess it's the same for both but I find the ladies make far less of a song and dance about it and don't keep dwelling on it.
And double standards of course. Some peoples moral compasses and righteousness slips when it's a married bisexual lady that is happy to play with a couple for example than a fella
My advice : don't worry about it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say just block those who say they're not interested and move onto chatting to those who don't mind that you're playing away. There's someone on here for everyone. Patience, perseverance and you'll find someone to play with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say just block those who say they're not interested and move onto chatting to those who don't mind that you're playing away. There's someone on here for everyone. Patience, perseverance and you'll find someone to play with. "
thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know, why is it ok for women to play away behind their partners back, but not ok for men?
Oh, you're not setting up a punchline for a joke!?
Um, in that case I guess it's the same for both but I find the ladies make far less of a song and dance about it and don't keep dwelling on it.
And double standards of course. Some peoples moral compasses and righteousness slips when it's a married bisexual lady that is happy to play with a couple for example than a fella
My advice : don't worry about it! "
Thanks and il try not too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend "
Oh that's just double standards  |
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"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back? "
because most blokes dont give a shit and most guys morals go out the Window when they realize the amount of guys there are compared to girls so just no longer care if the girl is attached or not. as long as they can get a meet from the elusive "single" female on here.woman on here can easily get a meet on here while olso keeping there preferences and morals intact . |
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"Thanks people, and yeah there are more fish in the sea, and hopefully il find someone that doesn't mind "
noticed on your profile you say u seen that your gf is on hear cheating.you should have a lil chat with her about the possibility of making a couples profile.makes much more sense than u both cheating and i can pretty much gurantee with her help u will be much more successful with meets as couples get a better hit rate. . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her "
Life's too short for stupid game playing,
You sound like a pair of kids  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationships come with varying boundaries - playing in secret/behind partners back isn'the swinging ? My opinion but surely it's cheating/infidelity if the partner knows nothing ? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun
behind their partners back? "
In my eyes, it's not acceptable for anyone to cheat, but there are always people who will meet cheaters, so good luck OP
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It's okay for both to be on here
But having a vagina does minimise the shit thrown at you.
I dunno, have you seen some of the shit messages some of us vagina owners receive? "
nope but read 15463544 threads about it |
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"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her "
yes but the problem is she could easily have 100 meets before you have one.all because she has a vagina and u dont . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend "
That's just hypocritical though!
Women who play away get slated too. Those that don't like it will pass you by, those that aren't bothered won't care and will message if attracted. A few sanctimonious busybodies will try to put you down.
It's really nobody's business but your own, so why does anyone else's opinion matter?  |
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"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back? "
think that's a misconception..
of course some will think that way and vice versa but that certainly doesn't mean its 'ok'..
pretty sure that those who are not in favour of such things are consistent, regardless of gender.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend
That's just hypocritical though!
Women who play away get slated too. Those that don't like it will pass you by, those that aren't bothered won't care and will message if attracted. A few sanctimonious busybodies will try to put you down.
It's really nobody's business but your own, so why does anyone else's opinion matter? "
or they'll call you a cunt!!
But their opinion is stupid and not worth bothering about! |
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"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her
Life's too short for stupid game playing,
You sound like a pair of kids "
Indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both are as bad and need to borrow a pair and communicate with their partner maybe if they put as much effort into their relationship as they did into getting laid they would get it at home as well |
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