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Have a lot of admiration for sexy / good looking people.
Must be hard consistantly being looked at longingly and often being chatted to just cos of looks. Must be times when its overwhelming and they feel its a curse.
Have two examples, I work in a mainly male employee env. How guys would flock round lasses esp sexy ones.,..I,d observe how at first its a bit of a thrill but soon notice signs that it becomes tedious.
Another I have a male friend now married but considered really dishy by the ladies.Even with this knowledge he gets women flirting with him without him inviting it.Once said he just gets fed up with it, sometimes wishes he was ordinary like me.Yet I,d be happy to spend a month in his shoes hhhmm the irony...,.. |
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"Have a lot of admiration for sexy / good looking people.
Must be hard consistantly being looked at longingly and often being chatted to just cos of looks. Must be times when its overwhelming and they feel its a curse.
Have two examples, I work in a mainly male employee env. How guys would flock round lasses esp sexy ones.,..I,d observe how at first its a bit of a thrill but soon notice signs that it becomes tedious.
Another I have a male friend now married but considered really dishy by the ladies.Even with this knowledge he gets women flirting with him without him inviting it.Once said he just gets fed up with it, sometimes wishes he was ordinary like me.Yet I,d be happy to spend a month in his shoes hhhmm the irony...,.."
Meh. I don't consider myself to be sexy or good looking, but I'm happy being me   |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women  "
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too |
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"Have a lot of admiration for sexy / good looking people.
Must be hard consistantly being looked at longingly and often being chatted to just cos of looks. Must be times when its overwhelming and they feel its a curse.
Have two examples, I work in a mainly male employee env. How guys would flock round lasses esp sexy ones.,..I,d observe how at first its a bit of a thrill but soon notice signs that it becomes tedious.
Another I have a male friend now married but considered really dishy by the ladies.Even with this knowledge he gets women flirting with him without him inviting it.Once said he just gets fed up with it, sometimes wishes he was ordinary like me.Yet I,d be happy to spend a month in his shoes hhhmm the irony...,..
Meh. I don't consider myself to be sexy or good looking, but I'm happy being me "
I'm happy with you being you too  |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too "
Honestly it's an effin nightmare |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too
Honestly it's an effin nightmare "
My sympathies... I'll just do a little jog.. Don't want to intimidate you by catching up  |
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Well, you are absolutely gorgeous secret xx
Just saw this sandman. Aww thank you... Virtual kisses blown your way xx"
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Ha like you say OP it would be nice to spend a month in a handsome hunks shoes and then I'll be able to make an informed comment on how hellish it must be
In the meantime I can only imagine it must be awful ... |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too
Honestly it's an effin nightmare
My sympathies... I'll just do a little jog.. Don't want to intimidate you by catching up "
I don't know, there's a few I wouldn't mind being caught by |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too
Honestly it's an effin nightmare
My sympathies... I'll just do a little jog.. Don't want to intimidate you by catching up
I don't know, there's a few I wouldn't mind being caught by "
Give me names, and I'll give them a kick up the arse to make them speed up!! |
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over a year ago
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I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too  x |
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"Have a lot of admiration for sexy / good looking people.
Must be hard consistantly being looked at longingly and often being chatted to just cos of looks. Must be times when its overwhelming and they feel its a curse.
Have two examples, I work in a mainly male employee env. How guys would flock round lasses esp sexy ones.,..I,d observe how at first its a bit of a thrill but soon notice signs that it becomes tedious.
Another I have a male friend now married but considered really dishy by the ladies.Even with this knowledge he gets women flirting with him without him inviting it.Once said he just gets fed up with it, sometimes wishes he was ordinary like me.Yet I,d be happy to spend a month in his shoes hhhmm the irony...,..
Meh. I don't consider myself to be sexy or good looking, but I'm happy being me
I'm happy with you being you too "
Why thank you very much littlemisssecret  |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x"
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie |
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over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie "
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good  x |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x"
Cute men deserve compliments too x |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x"
Do I?? |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??"
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx"
So what compliments do you have for me? X |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Great beard, and lovely eyes xx
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx
So what compliments do you have for me? X"
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Great beard, and lovely eyes xx
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx
So what compliments do you have for me? X "
Well?? |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Great beard, and lovely eyes xx
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx
So what compliments do you have for me? X
Well??"
I did write them haha. Must have gone a bit wrong.
Lovely beard, and eyes x |
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Great beard, and lovely eyes xx
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx
So what compliments do you have for me? X
Well??
I did write them haha. Must have gone a bit wrong.
Lovely beard, and eyes x"
Thank you darling xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't say I have that issue but I can imagine for any woman on here this site can be hard work regardless of other perception of their looks, that said all of the ladies that have posted on here are stunning not just in looks but in personality too x
Great beard, and lovely eyes xx
Maybe you need to add a 'Y' at the end of the first part of your username cutie
Haha, oooh you know how to make a fella feel good x
Cute men deserve compliments too x
Do I??
Of course! I'm spreading the love tonight! xx
So what compliments do you have for me? X
Well??
I did write them haha. Must have gone a bit wrong.
Lovely beard, and eyes x
Thank you darling xx"
You're welcome lovely xx |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women "
You knocked my socks off! LOL |
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I'm sure it probably can, as it tends to be a bit of a curse being at the extremes of anything.
You even see on here the assumption that very good looking people must automatically be shallow, bitchy, narcissistic, lack personality. There were girls I went to school with who were beautiful, who were bullied mercilessly because of it - the tall poppy syndrome. |
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I dont think it is as people will be attracted by your looks but they wont stay with you just because of your looks, if someone has a personality disorder being good looking wouldnt be enough. Men who have beautiful wives still cheat on them sometimes with less attractive women even. Some people dont get it that prince charles prefered Camila to Diana, it was because camila was more interesting, more inteligent, more fun and she liked sex, they both had the same things in common. |
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I don't know about looks but my boobs are a curse. Not many men can actually look me in the face while talking to me. At least women are more sneaky about taking a look |
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I don't do bad finding/meeting women & I am far from good looking, my philosophy is if I can make a women laugh (usually dropping my trousers does this) I can then charm her into anything else.
Make the most of what you have & if that's still not enough try develop better social skills to make yourself more interesting/apealing to targeted people. |
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My good looks are dismissed by being short....... so i end up being called cute.I do wonder what it would be like to be tall dark and handsome.
Im not complaining. |
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Invest in a shitty stick.
Ps. Miss secret. Even though I have adored you from Afar for aaagggeeesss. Just realised you live in the same town as my best mate! I'm coming to wine you when I'm down |
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"I'm often scared to leave the house, through fear of a real life repeat of that one Lynx advert where the guy was chased by 1000's of women
Oooh chocolate temptation yum.. I'd be running too
Honestly it's an effin nightmare "
Nice toes merry |
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"My good looks are dismissed by being short....... so i end up being called cute.I do wonder what it would be like to be tall dark and handsome.
Im not complaining."
god yeah " cute" that term gets right up my nose to. Think you,ve got problems being short ,try being part bald,middle aged ,ginger and ugly...then you,d understand. |
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When I send my face pic, I often get 'nice try fake!' I think lots of people considered good looking just know how to maximise what they've got. Good lighting can transform a face! |
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"When I send my face pic, I often get 'nice try fake!' I think lots of people considered good looking just know how to maximise what they've got. Good lighting can transform a face! "
One of my face photos got rejected as fake the first 3 times I tried to upload it...even though I'd only taken it that day  |
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Just because some have the bodies of God's and looks to match does make them the best of lovers. Horses are well endowed but doesn't make them sensitive lovers.... |
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I have been referred to as a 'fanny-magnet' admittedly I only heard the fanny part but i guess it was fanny-magnet!!
The distinction between real life and fantasy life hits here - attractive people have a far easier time because people look at a pic and think oooohhhh whereas they see me and cant see that Im a witty charming intelligent bon viveur with a penchant for the pretty lady and the sexual prowess of a caged tiger in the bedroom - endowed with the techniques to crash ladies to orgasm time after time until they beg for mercy - and yet still remain incredibly humble and grounded!! Cant see that from my pics |
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"I have been referred to as a 'fanny-magnet' admittedly I only heard the fanny part but i guess it was fanny-magnet!!
The distinction between real life and fantasy life hits here - attractive people have a far easier time because people look at a pic and think oooohhhh whereas they see me and cant see that Im a witty charming intelligent bon viveur with a penchant for the pretty lady and the sexual prowess of a caged tiger in the bedroom - endowed with the techniques to crash ladies to orgasm time after time until they beg for mercy - and yet still remain incredibly humble and grounded!! Cant see that from my pics "
No you can't see anything from your pictures , something your not good at hey |
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"I have been referred to as a 'fanny-magnet' admittedly I only heard the fanny part but i guess it was fanny-magnet!!
The distinction between real life and fantasy life hits here - attractive people have a far easier time because people look at a pic and think oooohhhh whereas they see me and cant see that Im a witty charming intelligent bon viveur with a penchant for the pretty lady and the sexual prowess of a caged tiger in the bedroom - endowed with the techniques to crash ladies to orgasm time after time until they beg for mercy - and yet still remain incredibly humble and grounded!! Cant see that from my pics
No you can't see anything from your pictures , something your not good at hey "
I didn't take the pics or theyd have obviously been world class too  |
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"I have been referred to as a 'fanny-magnet' admittedly I only heard the fanny part but i guess it was fanny-magnet!!
The distinction between real life and fantasy life hits here - attractive people have a far easier time because people look at a pic and think oooohhhh whereas they see me and cant see that Im a witty charming intelligent bon viveur with a penchant for the pretty lady and the sexual prowess of a caged tiger in the bedroom - endowed with the techniques to crash ladies to orgasm time after time until they beg for mercy - and yet still remain incredibly humble and grounded!! Cant see that from my pics
No you can't see anything from your pictures , something your not good at hey
I didn't take the pics or theyd have obviously been world class too "
Ahh I see  |
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Not sure I can comment on the sexy/attractive thing but standing out gets boring quickly. I was out for a few drinks with friends on Saturday and was both the centre of attention for abuse and questioning. As well as people feeling it's ok to touch me.
All of this from men too, so I can imagine being an attractive women wouldn't be far off this 
Over the years, it's certainly changed my opinion of how why and when to approach a women on a night out. |
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"Invest in a shitty stick.
Ps. Miss secret. Even though I have adored you from Afar for aaagggeeesss. Just realised you live in the same town as my best mate! I'm coming to wine you when I'm down "
Invite wouldn't go amiss |
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"Not sure I can comment on the sexy/attractive thing but standing out gets boring quickly. I was out for a few drinks with friends on Saturday and was both the centre of attention for abuse and questioning. As well as people feeling it's ok to touch me.
All of this from men too, so I can imagine being an attractive women wouldn't be far off this
Over the years, it's certainly changed my opinion of how why and when to approach a women on a night out. "
You mean it's not ok to touch you? Damn |
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"It is a daily struggle
So you've heard?
Yeah someone told me, clearly I wasn't talking about myself- I'm not vain
I'm not attractive Hatter- just sexy as fuck
I'm sorry I'm on one today "
Amazingly sexy |
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"Not sure I can comment on the sexy/attractive thing but standing out gets boring quickly. I was out for a few drinks with friends on Saturday and was both the centre of attention for abuse and questioning. As well as people feeling it's ok to touch me.
All of this from men too, so I can imagine being an attractive women wouldn't be far off this
Over the years, it's certainly changed my opinion of how why and when to approach a women on a night out.
You mean it's not ok to touch you? Damn "
Depends who's doing the touching and where ruby
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Reading some of these replies I feel like my experience has been pretty different to most. Maybe it's a cultural difference between the US and UK. From my experience, people I've known that are really attractive definitely have an easier time of things. They milk it, too. They may find some things harder, but on average I don't think they'd choose to be less attractive. |
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Looks don't count for everything as it happens - i'm not a great looking guy but I sing and play guitar for a living and I get girls who wouldn't look twice at me if I wasn't a musician - a theory that has been tested and the result was noticeable. I started chatting to a girl who really didn't seem interested - I went up and played the first set and she was like ' why didn't you mention you were playing?' And a very very different level of interest - not an isolated case.
So looks are a massive advantage but not the be all and end all. If you want to find diamonds ladies you might have to dig in the dirt a bit. Same goes for the guys who just want someone pretty on their arm - more to life than pretty things |
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"It is a daily struggle
So you've heard?
Yeah someone told me, clearly I wasn't talking about myself- I'm not vain
I'm not attractive Hatter- just sexy as fuck
I'm sorry I'm on one today "
You're alright I guess. |
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I don't really think about it to be honest. You get used to being stared at and I'm adult enough to not let other people get to me. Of course,everyone wants me because I'm beautiful,but some of them will get to know me and realise I'm also a lovely person and nice to talk to. The really lucky ones find out I'm amazing in bed too. It's not a curse,it's a blessing.
Children and animals love me too. |
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"It is a daily struggle
So you've heard?
Yeah someone told me, clearly I wasn't talking about myself- I'm not vain
I'm not attractive Hatter- just sexy as fuck
I'm sorry I'm on one today
You're alright I guess. "
I'm somewhere between deranged and delirious right now  |
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"It is a daily struggle
So you've heard?
Yeah someone told me, clearly I wasn't talking about myself- I'm not vain
I'm not attractive Hatter- just sexy as fuck
I'm sorry I'm on one today
You're alright I guess.
I'm somewhere between deranged and delirious right now "
What do you mean right now? Isn't that you're natural state of being? |
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"It is a daily struggle
So you've heard?
Yeah someone told me, clearly I wasn't talking about myself- I'm not vain
I'm not attractive Hatter- just sexy as fuck
I'm sorry I'm on one today
You're alright I guess.
I'm somewhere between deranged and delirious right now
What do you mean right now? Isn't that you're natural state of being?"
I'm usually so placid |
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"Looks don't count for everything as it happens - i'm not a great looking guy but I sing and play guitar for a living and I get girls who wouldn't look twice at me if I wasn't a musician - a theory that has been tested and the result was noticeable. I started chatting to a girl who really didn't seem interested - I went up and played the first set and she was like ' why didn't you mention you were playing?' And a very very different level of interest - not an isolated case.
So looks are a massive advantage but not the be all and end all. If you want to find diamonds ladies you might have to dig in the dirt a bit. Same goes for the guys who just want someone pretty on their arm - more to life than pretty things "
Thats a good post mate  |
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its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry |
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I like being decidedly average in "real life". It means very few people try to talk to me or notice that my hair is a mess.
It must be really stressful being beautiful as people always notice when you dont look perfect and expect you to be on show all the time and get touchy feely, genuinely sounds like my idea of hell. I can kind of understand why many good lookers have less than shining personalities, it would make me an arsehole! Lol |
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry"
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw. |
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw."
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw.
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Brains beats beauty for me nothing is a bigger turn off than a bimbo who thinks stupid is sexy - just my 2p worth. |
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"^ I think this one neatly proves my point about negative assumptions about good looking people on here."
I know. I'm beautiful inside and out. I don't take advantage of that,I'm quite humble about it. |
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw.
Brains beats beauty for me nothing is a bigger turn off than a bimbo who thinks stupid is sexy - just my 2p worth. "
I think people are missing the point. Ultimately brains trumps looks for me too. But why are you automatically assuming that the beautiful woman must be a bimbo or stupid? There's no correlation between being ugly and being more intelligent or having a better personality, however much we might like to tell ourselves that to make us feel better. |
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw.
Brains beats beauty for me nothing is a bigger turn off than a bimbo who thinks stupid is sexy - just my 2p worth. "
What about when they have both,like me?
You know,at school,the boys were too scared to chat me up,because I was tall,slim with long blonde hair,blue eyes and big boobs. I was also top of the class. It's not all plain sailing at the top you know.
Too beautiful and too clever |
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"Looks don't count for everything as it happens - i'm not a great looking guy but I sing and play guitar for a living and I get girls who wouldn't look twice at me if I wasn't a musician - a theory that has been tested and the result was noticeable. I started chatting to a girl who really didn't seem interested - I went up and played the first set and she was like ' why didn't you mention you were playing?' And a very very different level of interest - not an isolated case.
So looks are a massive advantage but not the be all and end all. If you want to find diamonds ladies you might have to dig in the dirt a bit. Same goes for the guys who just want someone pretty on their arm - more to life than pretty things "
That reminds me of Peter Crouch who when asked what he would have been if he wasn't a footballer, replied with "a virgin" |
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"its all very well being beautiful on the outside, but those that are beautiful on the inside as well are a little harder to come by...
who wants a good looking air head, who is only interested in those of a similar ilk? not for me, sorry
Why is being dim witted or air headed always attributed to beautiful people, I know some rank average and ugly people who are thick, I also know some stunning looking, brainy and very sharp people, both men and women btw.
Brains beats beauty for me nothing is a bigger turn off than a bimbo who thinks stupid is sexy - just my 2p worth.
I think people are missing the point. Ultimately brains trumps looks for me too. But why are you automatically assuming that the beautiful woman must be a bimbo or stupid? There's no correlation between being ugly and being more intelligent or having a better personality, however much we might like to tell ourselves that to make us feel better."
Same can be said for men. I think the long and short of the situation is simply, don't judge a book by its cover. |
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"Looks don't count for everything as it happens - i'm not a great looking guy but I sing and play guitar for a living and I get girls who wouldn't look twice at me if I wasn't a musician - a theory that has been tested and the result was noticeable. I started chatting to a girl who really didn't seem interested - I went up and played the first set and she was like ' why didn't you mention you were playing?' And a very very different level of interest - not an isolated case.
So looks are a massive advantage but not the be all and end all. If you want to find diamonds ladies you might have to dig in the dirt a bit. Same goes for the guys who just want someone pretty on their arm - more to life than pretty things
That reminds me of Peter Crouch who when asked what he would have been if he wasn't a footballer, replied with "a virgin" "
Best reply ive ever heard to that question!! |
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"Well have not read the entire thread so forgive me if someone has already said.
"it's hard being really really good looking"
(blue steel)
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I've been saying it in my head all the way down the thread if that counts |
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A man once walked into glass doors in a nightclub because of my beauty.
He turned his head,said "God you're beautiful" and walked smack bang into an unopened glass door partition (that story is actually true). |
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Ive never been beautiful but ive always got by.
Ive aged well and am enjoying it.
I know what kind of person i am and i think thats why ive got such lovely people in my life
Ive been blessed on someways.
Im happy with the way i look and smile |
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"People don't understand how difficult it is.. You see a beautiful face in a nightclub, make love eyes back and it's just your own beguiling reflection. "
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"We meet all types in our work & swinging from stunning to average in looks but they are all beautiful to us as its the person inside thats sexy not the shell."
Lovely answer |
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"Well have not read the entire thread so forgive me if someone has already said.
"it's hard being really really good looking"
(blue steel)
I've been saying it in my head all the way down the thread if that counts "
I only just popped into the thread now I'm back from work to moan about how hard life is for me being really really really ridiculously good looking. Great minds. |
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