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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Any in right now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So eloquently put

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now "
Oh come on it's a bit early for pop corn

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well let's call it as it is we can say Bbw if you want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Forums never cease to amaze me

There's one about bullying elsewhere

You should read it

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By *msmithWoman  over a year ago

bristol

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Any in right now Oh come on it's a bit early for pop corn "

I don't like popcorn for breakfast......might just stick with the coffee

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do you want to know OP? You like them? Or some other reason ? And what counts as fat?

Sarah

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Yes there will be, but they may not see your invitation to engage with you appealing.

Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why do you want to know OP? You like them? Or some other reason ? And what counts as fat?

Sarah "

. I love them Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a fat girl...whaddya want?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This will escalate quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

And a very sexy fat girl you are yum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

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Well that was my thought on it ms innocent and yum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

Hear hear! I don't mind being called a fat girl. I am essentially overweight because I enjoy eating tasty stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Hear hear! I don't mind being called a fat girl. I am essentially overweight because I enjoy eating tasty stuff"

And you are tasty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry I'm busy raiding the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

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By *yldstyleWoman  over a year ago

A world of my own


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not fat.

I am short for my weight!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't be daft, it's breakfast time.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman  over a year ago

small town near Munich


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One fat lump here....now what ?

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By *aul_the_nudistMan  over a year ago

WREXHAM


"Don't be daft, it's breakfast time."

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By *iverpool LoverMan  over a year ago

liverpool


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Yes there will be, but they may not see your invitation to engage with you appealing.

Good luck though.

"

Oh I don't know...The other half is snoring beside me, so this fat girl is at a loose end until he wakes up, brings me coffee and the promise of a shag.

Good morning op!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

"

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat

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By *orwegian BlueMan  over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Well, if there's one thread that you started reading and thought "this is gonna end badly", this was it...

What a turn of events..

op, I admire your balls..

No, I really do, I looked at your pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

I'm the opposite. I prefer chubby chasers. I'd rather be with someone that relishes my body as it is rather than wishing I was slimmer or making an acception for me because I have a pretty face or big boobs or whatever.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

How does that differ from milf, gilf, hot wife, cumsluts, small tits, huge knockers etc?

There are men that like specific things. Let's be honest we all fall into someone's wish list by virtue of being on this site so we can be precious about it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am here but as you don't have a fat cock you can get lost

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By *iverpool LoverMan  over a year ago

liverpool


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat "

your not going to get men messaging that are not interested in having sex with someone whos fat, and the guys that do message will be the ones that get turned on my by the larger sized woman.

so why avoid guys like that "like the plaque"?

He might get chatting with you and find your personality a turn off once chatting but seeing as this site goes on the visual aspect first and foremost until conversations start.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"Yes there will be, but they may not see your invitation to engage with you appealing.

Good luck though.

Oh I don't know...The other half is snoring beside me, so this fat girl is at a loose end until he wakes up, brings me coffee and the promise of a shag.

Good morning op! "

fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat

your not going to get men messaging that are not interested in having sex with someone whos fat, and the guys that do message will be the ones that get turned on my by the larger sized woman.

so why avoid guys like that "like the plaque"?

He might get chatting with you and find your personality a turn off once chatting but seeing as this site goes on the visual aspect first and foremost until conversations start.

"

There's a massive difference in someone wanting you because you're fat... and someone that likes your pics and wants you.

I know what I mean anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

Well said Miss Innocent.

There does seem to be a surprising amount of sense been spoken here [odd for Sunday forums?]. I've often found bbw to be somewhat misleading. While sone larger (or as you said, fat) ladies are indeed beautiful......some are just fat! It is an assumption that all big women are beautiful.....and I'm sure it's the same for many slimmer women ? I'll go and hide in the corner now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Well said Miss Innocent.

There does seem to be a surprising amount of sense been spoken here [odd for Sunday forums?]. I've often found bbw to be somewhat misleading. While sone larger (or as you said, fat) ladies are indeed beautiful......some are just fat! It is an assumption that all big women are beautiful.....and I'm sure it's the same for many slimmer women ? I'll go and hide in the corner now!"

Its cos the fat fills the wrinkles out! Makes me look youthful!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Well said Miss Innocent.

There does seem to be a surprising amount of sense been spoken here [odd for Sunday forums?]. I've often found bbw to be somewhat misleading. While sone larger (or as you said, fat) ladies are indeed beautiful......some are just fat! It is an assumption that all big women are beautiful.....and I'm sure it's the same for many slimmer women ? I'll go and hide in the corner now!

Its cos the fat fills the wrinkles out! Makes me look youthful! "

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Well said Miss Innocent.

There does seem to be a surprising amount of sense been spoken here [odd for Sunday forums?]. I've often found bbw to be somewhat misleading. While sone larger (or as you said, fat) ladies are indeed beautiful......some are just fat! It is an assumption that all big women are beautiful.....and I'm sure it's the same for many slimmer women ? I'll go and hide in the corner now!"

Personally I see it as a "ready reckoner".

I struggle to believe anyone would think every fat woman sees herself as a bbw, however everyone seeing bbw will think fat...If that makes sense.

Would you take milf, BBC, hot wife etc literally?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And that is all!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

"

Sadly, 'fat' is seen as a pejorative term, whilst 6 pack, hot and hung are not.

No one ever got a complex about being called 'hot and hung' (except Dick Turpin).

I'm not saying it's right, but it's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Well said Miss Innocent.

There does seem to be a surprising amount of sense been spoken here [odd for Sunday forums?]. I've often found bbw to be somewhat misleading. While sone larger (or as you said, fat) ladies are indeed beautiful......some are just fat! It is an assumption that all big women are beautiful.....and I'm sure it's the same for many slimmer women ? I'll go and hide in the corner now!

Its cos the fat fills the wrinkles out! Makes me look youthful! "

Cake is THE best collegen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me. "

Variations on a theme.

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By *unnynbugsCouple  over a year ago

Neath

To quote Family Guy "fat girls need love too.... But they gotta pay!"

Not the _iews of the poster just what came to mind when I saw the post lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably less fat girls here than there is dickheads!!! Honest to god some people

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"Any in right now "

Nothing else matters, just women who are fat?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

Sadly, 'fat' is seen as a pejorative term, whilst 6 pack, hot and hung are not.

No one ever got a complex about being called 'hot and hung' (except Dick Turpin).

I'm not saying it's right, but it's just how it is.

"

Not when a sexy man is kissing and stroking your body and telling you how much he loves your fat body

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference."

Since it became a derogatory term, perhaps? If somebody doesn't want to be called fat, don't call them it. There are plenty of other terms for those who are well versed with the English language.

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat

your not going to get men messaging that are not interested in having sex with someone whos fat, and the guys that do message will be the ones that get turned on my by the larger sized woman.

so why avoid guys like that "like the plaque"?

He might get chatting with you and find your personality a turn off once chatting but seeing as this site goes on the visual aspect first and foremost until conversations start.

"

I don't have a type so I tend to meet people I like as individuals. People use fab differently; I know there are many who use it to look for people with one specific physical quality since that's what turns them on but that's not how I use it. So I would avoid someone that only wanted me for a single aspect of my physicality as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me. "

Perfectly put X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me. "

Perfectly put X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now "

I think they all left when the fuckwit walked in

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By *punkytits50Woman  over a year ago

Reading

what about the slim girls ? oh and I'm fat by the way but trying to get rid of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nice thread OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now

I think they all left when the fuckwit walked in "

So using the word fat is wrong but it's OK to call someone a fuckwit?

Talk about double standards.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I'm not a fan of the term BBW. It is those kind of terms that try to hide fat that make fat a shaming matter.

Fat is fat. It's perception that makes it a negative word.

Good on those that have decided to own the word.

Face it. You're fat. It's like we used to say 'what a bonny baby' ......... we meant FAT kid.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now "

I'm fat. I'm wayyyyyy too stunning for you tho so please don't message me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

Sadly, 'fat' is seen as a pejorative term, whilst 6 pack, hot and hung are not.

No one ever got a complex about being called 'hot and hung' (except Dick Turpin).

I'm not saying it's right, but it's just how it is.

Not when a sexy man is kissing and stroking your body and telling you how much he loves your fat body "

I wouldn't want that. Just 'I love your body' ....... no need for the FAT , THIN, DISPROPORTIONATE or any other descriptive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Boom! Way to start a Sunday!

I prefer to be called skinny rather than slim.

Where are all my white knights when that happens?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference.

Since it became a derogatory term, perhaps? If somebody doesn't want to be called fat, don't call them it. There are plenty of other terms for those who are well versed with the English language. "

No point trying to sugar coat it,if somebody is fat then they are fat.

Having said that I would avoid using the term if I knew somebody was so sensitive about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me. "

my fav quote about my weight is " I'm not fat.. I'm waterlogged "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it "

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

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By *punkytits50Woman  over a year ago

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"I, personally, hate the word fat. Pretty sure my body is made up of mostly water, some fat and a few other trace elements like the next person. It does not define me.

I prefer rubenesque or voluptuous but that's just me. my fav quote about my weight is " I'm not fat.. I'm waterlogged " "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?"

Id say not get offended by it

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By *punkytits50Woman  over a year ago

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"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?"

Lol @ jumped up cunty little shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Lol @ jumped up cunty little shit "

The expression says more about the person using it then the person its implied to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it "

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Lol @ jumped up cunty little shit

The expression says more about the person using it then the person its implied to "

It really doesn't. Other than that I think I'm better than jumped up cunty little shits who go around trying to hurt other people by slagging off their appearance - and hell yes I am better than those people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it "

some people can't do much about it if it's medication causing the weight gain

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it "

I am doing something about it. I am less fat now then I have been in my entire adult life. So although I appreciate that I am still fat, I no longer embrace it. Pictures won't tell anyone that and anyone calling me fat because of them won't endear themselves to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and thie word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?"

Its only words on a screen. Be the berrer person and dont take the bait. Unless you like the drama of course

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and thie word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?

Its only words on a screen. Be the berrer person and dont take the bait. Unless you like the drama of course "

I already am the better person, believe me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and thie word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?

Its only words on a screen. Be the berrer person and dont take the bait. Unless you like the drama of course

I already am the better person, believe me."

Keep telling yourself that. Positive thoughts reap positive actions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm fat - because I love food . No two ways about it . Only reason it would ever bother me is if someone used it in the middle of play - ie - god you're so fat I love it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and thie word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?

Its only words on a screen. Be the berrer person and dont take the bait. Unless you like the drama of course

I already am the better person, believe me.

Keep telling yourself that. Positive thoughts reap positive actions "

They do - I can see you live by this yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

Sadly, 'fat' is seen as a pejorative term, whilst 6 pack, hot and hung are not.

No one ever got a complex about being called 'hot and hung' (except Dick Turpin).

I'm not saying it's right, but it's just how it is.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and thie word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

Id say not get offended by it

Sure, it's that easy. Or how about other people just don't be shits in the first place? Why should I change my behaviour, not them?

Its only words on a screen. Be the berrer person and dont take the bait. Unless you like the drama of course

I already am the better person, believe me.

Keep telling yourself that. Positive thoughts reap positive actions

They do - I can see you live by this yourself."

Im glad you've noticed. Allways happy to help others with a positive outlook

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By *andymanstuMan  over a year ago

lovecum

Hey love your suck able nips x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey love your suck able nips x"

Random

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey love your suck able nips x

Random "

Trying to figure out who it was meant for lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey love your suck able nips x

Random

Trying to figure out who it was meant for lol "

Me i think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This will escalate quickly "

Threads on here usually do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This will escalate quickly

Threads on here usually do "

Yeah, but no ones been killed with a Trident yet, so we're all good....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

"

Bloody good point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?"

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I blame fab for my fatness... threads like these keep me on my arse just to see the out come

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey love your suck able nips x

Random

Trying to figure out who it was meant for lol "

I think it was for all the *heavy* ladies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all. "

I did believe it, I wish I hadn't. It's easy to say "don't let people" hurt you. But if they're deliberately trying to be hurtful, sometimes they succeed - and they are the ones who should modify their behaviour, not the person who is being subjected to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone needs loving doesnt matter wat size or shape you are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all. "

That's because it's true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all. "

Yes I agree and shows being offended is a hobby of some people's.

The insult was misused but you were offended anyway?

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

I prefer, and use, fat. But girl? I'm a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

Yes I agree and shows being offended is a hobby of some people's.

The insult was misused but you were offended anyway? "

Being offended isn't a hobby of mine. I also haven't been a size 12 since I was 17. As a 17 year old, I had less perspective than I've got now, so something which I would brush off now did hurt and offend me. I don't think I should feel ashamed of that.

And anyway, none of this changes the fundamental fact that the people throwing the comments out which they intend to be hurtful are the ones who are the cunts and should change their behaviour.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

I did believe it, I wish I hadn't. It's easy to say "don't let people" hurt you. But if they're deliberately trying to be hurtful, sometimes they succeed - and they are the ones who should modify their behaviour, not the person who is being subjected to it. "

We are all different.

The only people who have ever hurt me with words were my parents and husband. I can't imagine being hurt by anything anyone on here would write: they don't have that power.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not talking about people on here. Jumped up cunty little shits exist outside the walls of the Fab forums as well as inside.

Ok I'm out

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

cake.... did anyone say cake!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

I did believe it, I wish I hadn't. It's easy to say "don't let people" hurt you. But if they're deliberately trying to be hurtful, sometimes they succeed - and they are the ones who should modify their behaviour, not the person who is being subjected to it. "

Fair point and I agree.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

I agree, but largely because I prefer to meet with people who won't make a fetish of my physical attributes and want to enjoy my personality when enjoying bodies mingling together.

People are attracted to physical types though and it is unlikely for me to get a man to get to know my personality, on here, if they don't find my body appealing.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm not a fan of the term BBW. It is those kind of terms that try to hide fat that make fat a shaming matter.

Fat is fat. It's perception that makes it a negative word.

Good on those that have decided to own the word.

Face it. You're fat. It's like we used to say 'what a bonny baby' ......... we meant FAT kid. "

Absolutely spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well let's call it as it is we can say Bbw if you want "

I qualify for fat but not bbw. Say what you want

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

i would agree with you.....

but when i say the same thing and replace the "fatty" words for those that relay to colour to get across the same meaning ... i get absolutely slaughtered!!!!!

the problem is people will agree with you right up until you touch on a preference they like and then you hit a nerve

you are "impenging on their freedoms"

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

Yes I agree and shows being offended is a hobby of some people's.

The insult was misused but you were offended anyway? "

That rather dismisses the complexity of mental wellbeing and our emotions. Fat usually isn't just a simple matter of being greedy and liking cake. Women are bombarded with messages about how to look and be from very early childhood.

I know why I am fat. I know I have fewer hang-ups about this now than I did as a size 8 17 year old being told I must not gain a pound as at my height I'd look too fat. I felt fat then. Now as an old fat woman I am more concerned that my vast clothes collection fits me - that's all.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman  over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

No it's not an identity - you have fat, you are not fat. Just like you have finger nails, you are not finger nails

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

i would agree with you.....

but when i say the same thing and replace the "fatty" words for those that relay to colour to get across the same meaning ... i get absolutely slaughtered!!!!!

the problem is people will agree with you right up until you touch on a preference they like and then you hit a nerve

you are "impenging on their freedoms""

I almost posted about the fetishism of colour but the comments will be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

fat girl right here xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

No it's not an identity - you have fat, you are not fat. Just like you have finger nails, you are not finger nails "

I'm sure the OED would not just state fat as a noun. As an adjective it has validity.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

No it's not an identity - you have fat, you are not fat. Just like you have finger nails, you are not finger nails "

Have you seen some profile avatars?

At the moment I'm 'just tits' here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

Yes I agree and shows being offended is a hobby of some people's.

The insult was misused but you were offended anyway?

Being offended isn't a hobby of mine. I also haven't been a size 12 since I was 17. As a 17 year old, I had less perspective than I've got now, so something which I would brush off now did hurt and offend me. I don't think I should feel ashamed of that.

And anyway, none of this changes the fundamental fact that the people throwing the comments out which they intend to be hurtful are the ones who are the cunts and should change their behaviour. "

Fair enough. I have been offended alot in the past too. I try and switch it off now.

I played a rock in a a school play once.

I had to lay on the floor, right at the back in a rolled up ball, with a blanket over me ffs

I'd like a nice wobbly woman to fuck anyway. My excuse for an ex was 27 and a size 10 34d, I was still here looking for other women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone else got any more popcorn. Just got through two bags watching this. The peanut m&m's are looking decidedly enticing at the moment.

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

Apparently I'm fat according to the bloke I turned down on Friday

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I'm fat atm but after my spine is fixed I shall be able to carry on with my weight loss and health regime

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There nothing wrong with fat..fat can be beauty at times.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the word fat offends so much then do something about it

If not then embrace it

I don't get offended being called fat now I'm a size 16, because I am. I got mightily offended being called fat when I was a size 12, because I wasn't, and the word was just being thrown at me to try to hurt me. What should I have done about it then, dieted down to a size at which no cunty jumped up little shit could ever use my weight against me?

You must have believed what he said or you wouldn't have been upset about it. Some people think size 12 is fat.

People can only use stuff against you if you let them.

If people said I was a dirty old man I wouldn't be upset at all.

Yes I agree and shows being offended is a hobby of some people's.

The insult was misused but you were offended anyway?

That rather dismisses the complexity of mental wellbeing and our emotions. Fat usually isn't just a simple matter of being greedy and liking cake. Women are bombarded with messages about how to look and be from very early childhood.

I know why I am fat. I know I have fewer hang-ups about this now than I did as a size 8 17 year old being told I must not gain a pound as at my height I'd look too fat. I felt fat then. Now as an old fat woman I am more concerned that my vast clothes collection fits me - that's all."

Puzzled as to why the lass's post attracted so much unkind criticism tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women are allowed to look for 6 packs and hot men and tall men and big cocks.

Why is 'fat' any different?

Sadly, 'fat' is seen as a pejorative term, whilst 6 pack, hot and hung are not.

No one ever got a complex about being called 'hot and hung' (except Dick Turpin).

I'm not saying it's right, but it's just how it is.

Not when a sexy man is kissing and stroking your body and telling you how much he loves your fat body

I wouldn't want that. Just 'I love your body' ....... no need for the FAT , THIN, DISPROPORTIONATE or any other descriptive."

To be fair I did call my body fat first. He said fat after I used the term. I also remind him it's old as well as fat. Being called old and fat doesn't bother me,regardless of who says it. I don't allow words to hurt me

I love his hot body,he loves my fat body; it's a description of a physique.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

"

I wish you'd post more often. Sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

"

People are offended by something when they have an issue with it,for whatever reason. I don't have issues,insults don't offend me. It's not easy to overcome these issues,and some people never do,so we shouldn't be telling people to not be offended.

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By *urvacious_40Woman  over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK

Jesus Christ, don't even get me started on this subject cos i won't bloody stop....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The word fat isn't offensive, the context it's used in can be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Holla

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By *asokittyWoman  over a year ago

Nr Worksop

My only issue is people choosing you because you're fat not *who* you are. Fetishising people is not ok.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

People are offended by something when they have an issue with it,for whatever reason. I don't have issues,insults don't offend me. It's not easy to overcome these issues,and some people never do,so we shouldn't be telling people to not be offended. "

I wasn't telling anyone not to be offended I didn't mean it to come across that way.

Of course people are offended because it's an issue - all I meant was is that if people don't use certain words to describe things it doesn't make the unspoken words not true!

It's how the words are used and in what context!

x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

People are offended by something when they have an issue with it,for whatever reason. I don't have issues,insults don't offend me. It's not easy to overcome these issues,and some people never do,so we shouldn't be telling people to not be offended. "

No, but we can advise them to learn to ignore strangers on the net.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you want to know OP? You like them? Or some other reason ? And what counts as fat?

Sarah "

This is true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you want to know OP? You like them? Or some other reason ? And what counts as fat?

Sarah

This is true."

It isn't true it is a set of questions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference."

And there's the problem

Right there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference.

And there's the problem

Right there "

What's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally would go 4 personality b4 looks or size.

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat "

I hate being shoved into the BBW category. I'm fat because I'm a cake lover.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I personally would go 4 personality b4 looks or size. "

But you can't see someone's personality.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you want to know OP? You like them? Or some other reason ? And what counts as fat?

Sarah

This is true.

It isn't true it is a set of questions "

It is and the OP did answer further up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also hate the term BBW!

I much prefer fat because that is simply as it is!

Being offended is a choice - I am fat and choose not to be offended if someone describes me that way because it's true!

People are offended by something when they have an issue with it,for whatever reason. I don't have issues,insults don't offend me. It's not easy to overcome these issues,and some people never do,so we shouldn't be telling people to not be offended.

I wasn't telling anyone not to be offended I didn't mean it to come across that way.

Of course people are offended because it's an issue - all I meant was is that if people don't use certain words to describe things it doesn't make the unspoken words not true!

It's how the words are used and in what context!

x"

Sorry,I wasn't aiming that at you personally

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan  over a year ago

Colchester


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat "

Yeh but only an idiot would see you as just fat, you're more curvy with it all in the right places with THEE most gorgeous blue eyes Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Liking someone who is fat isn't a fetish. It's personal taste.

No one says only being attracted to slim people is a fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are women on here who have said they like fat men and don't like the muscular men; that's personal taste.

Liking fat cocks,also personal taste. It's what you do with them that turns it into a fetish,isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Find and a six pack on lady's errr

Gimme curves far more appealing

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon

Oh, dear lord

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Oh, dear lord "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you are fat then I don't see the problem with somebody calling you fat.Or searching for fat people if that's his preference.

And there's the problem

Right there

What's the problem?"

I was called

Fat

Fatty

Fat bastard

Hey fatty bum bum

Ect ect at school

I was bullied

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By *asokittyWoman  over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I personally would go 4 personality b4 looks or size. "

On here. Just for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In.. Only if sunday dinners being offered and dessert than snacks later. I'm fat you know, girls gotta get fed before, after and during sex.

Doll x

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By *asokittyWoman  over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"There are women on here who have said they like fat men and don't like the muscular men; that's personal taste.

Liking fat cocks,also personal taste. It's what you do with them that turns it into a fetish,isn't it? "

This is true. Maybe I need to rethink how I look at it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather be called fat than a bbw

It's just a word. I am fat. If I don't want to be called fat, then I shouldn't be fat

Hear hear! I don't mind being called a fat girl. I am essentially overweight because I enjoy eating tasty stuff"

same

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm fat and have no problem saying it. Im overweight because I don't like exercise but I like my food. Plus I'm a short arse, I'd be ok if I were a few inches taller.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't like the word fat as it has been used to me in a derisory way too often. Over weight is fine, but hey fatty or fat bird etc just makes me feel shite. I guess we've all had different experiences which effect our reaction to certain words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't get it? If you're fat then you're fat. It's just another adjective surely. Not a derogatory term. I'm fat and don't care if someone calls me it because it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm fat. And after speaking to my GP and being told that not everyone is born to be slim, I doubt I'll be slim anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get it? If you're fat then you're fat. It's just another adjective surely. Not a derogatory term. I'm fat and don't care if someone calls me it because it's true. "

I think it depends on your life experience though. If fat has been used as a word of weapon , why would I like it ? And it has.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get it? If you're fat then you're fat. It's just another adjective surely. Not a derogatory term. I'm fat and don't care if someone calls me it because it's true.

I think it depends on your life experience though. If fat has been used as a word of weapon , why would I like it ? And it has. "

It's been said in a horrible way to me too but I guess I just don't let it get to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love them!x

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By *artytwoCouple  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"My only issue is people choosing you because you're fat not *who* you are. Fetishising people is not ok. "

Or Black? or Asian? or Dwarfism? etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't get it? If you're fat then you're fat. It's just another adjective surely. Not a derogatory term. I'm fat and don't care if someone calls me it because it's true.

I think it depends on your life experience though. If fat has been used as a word of weapon , why would I like it ? And it has. "

It's been used as a weapon towards me. When I put on 9 stone my ex's choice of insult was fat,doughnut eating cunt. I laughed at his sad attempt at putting me down. I have a brain,that was my defence.

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good"

Haha now I won't stand for being called tubby!!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple  over a year ago

markinch


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague! "

Sorry to burst a bubble lol, but fat skinny ugly gorgeous, if he getting a ride, most guys be there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good

Haha now I won't stand for being called tubby!! "

Better than being called a lard arse...isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This turned into a very interesting morning read

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good

Haha now I won't stand for being called tubby!!

Better than being called a lard arse...isn't it?"

I like bacon so my arse may actually be lard.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good

Haha now I won't stand for being called tubby!!

Better than being called a lard arse...isn't it?

I like bacon so my arse may actually be lard. "

Guess it might save on lube?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good"

That comment could be taken two ways.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got called an oompha lumpa a couple of weeks ago. Every day of my life up until about 6 months ago I would have been a blubbing mess at a comment like that, but now? I turned round and told him that my fat ass earns me more money than his brain ever will and I wiggled my ass all the way out of there while his friends laughed at him. I'm at the heaviest I've ever been now (apart from when pregnant) but I'm fitter than ever and my curves are my career so no one can shame me. I'm no more offended by being called fat than I am at being called blonde, they are just words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"His profile asks for tubby girls! If he gets a meet before me I give up for good

Haha now I won't stand for being called tubby!!

Better than being called a lard arse...isn't it?

I like bacon so my arse may actually be lard.

Guess it might save on lube? "

That's what spit is for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got called an oompha lumpa a couple of weeks ago. Every day of my life up until about 6 months ago I would have been a blubbing mess at a comment like that, but now? I turned round and told him that my fat ass earns me more money than his brain ever will and I wiggled my ass all the way out of there while his friends laughed at him. I'm at the heaviest I've ever been now (apart from when pregnant) but I'm fitter than ever and my curves are my career so no one can shame me. I'm no more offended by being called fat than I am at being called blonde, they are just words "

Try being a fat,blonde,Essex girl then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got called an oompha lumpa a couple of weeks ago. Every day of my life up until about 6 months ago I would have been a blubbing mess at a comment like that, but now? I turned round and told him that my fat ass earns me more money than his brain ever will and I wiggled my ass all the way out of there while his friends laughed at him. I'm at the heaviest I've ever been now (apart from when pregnant) but I'm fitter than ever and my curves are my career so no one can shame me. I'm no more offended by being called fat than I am at being called blonde, they are just words "

I love this!! Good for you. They are indeed just words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than meeting a man that only wants to fuck you because your fat . You can have a face like the back end of a bus but as long as ur fat I'll give you some

So yes I'm fat but I avoid fatty chasers like the plague!

what about women that only want BBC or guys with 6 packs, or well hung toned tanned guys.

its just a preference and this guys preference is ladys who are overweight.

There isn't much difference but maybe that's where I'm different I have to have more than aesthetics to fuck someone, I need to be attracted to them but it's usually their personality that gets me to bed.

So that's why personally threads like this make me shudder and I would avoid any men that were only interested in me because I'm fat "

On here the first attraction for me is their looks, however if there's no personality to go with those looks I lose interest. I don't however make contact with people that I have no attraction to in the hope that their personality will shine through

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any in right now "

What percent body fat are you looking for? Everyone has it, by not being specific you included every woman on Fab

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