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Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all judge without realising, but we should try not to. We don't know what it's like to be that person, and we're all wired up differently and have different circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all judge without realising, but we should try not to. We don't know what it's like to be that person, and we're all wired up differently and have different circumstances. "
???? some people just like to stir things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wish my H would bring my shoes back the little arsehole! (Before I get pounced apon that is her given name by herself for me to call her.  it's a long story  ) xxx |
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"Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them .....
and hope they haven't taken the car to catch up with you stealing their clothes!  "
*...and then you'll have their shoes and a good head start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all judge some do it more verbally than others....but we all do it and are guilty just the same.
It's both humbling and grounding to walk in someone else shoes. Sometimes we assume those better off than ourselves to have it much easier either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar
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I do judge but it takes a lot and first I have to be certain or as close as about my thoughts.
If I was to judge society as a whole, we are all depressed and not really ever content with anything ? |
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"Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?"
I'm not sure about the psychology behind this ........ I think it's been moulded/misinterpreted to suit.
I'd go as far as to agree it can reveal something the judge dislikes but it can't define them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently judging a person defines who you are and not them ?
I'm not sure about the psychology behind this ........ I think it's been moulded/misinterpreted to suit.
I'd go as far as to agree it can reveal something the judge dislikes but it can't define them. "
I have to agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar
I do judge but it takes a lot and first I have to be certain or as close as about my thoughts.
If I was to judge society as a whole, we are all depressed and not really ever content with anything ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course we all judge .
Actors playing specific roles are chosen as they will be judged by the audience to portray that role .
As is the case with documentary type programmes , media , newspapers etc.....
And on here , especially on here .
They do this , they do that , they don't kiss , they like a hairy muff , they do bareback , they like dogging , they don't do socials , they have how many verifications , look at those action shots , ewww...... Cum shots , cock pics , he's bi , that tv looks like a bloke in a dress , she's fat , beards , and the list goes on ..... We show pics for visual judgement , we write a profile to show what we like and dislike , and are judged by each and every person who reads it and looks at the pics .
There really isn't any need to walk in someone else's shoes before judging them . It's a done deal the moment we set eyes on them . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Of course we all judge .
Actors playing specific roles are chosen as they will be judged by the audience to portray that role .
As is the case with documentary type programmes , media , newspapers etc.....
And on here , especially on here .
They do this , they do that , they don't kiss , they like a hairy muff , they do bareback , they like dogging , they don't do socials , they have how many verifications , look at those action shots , ewww...... Cum shots , cock pics , he's bi , that tv looks like a bloke in a dress , she's fat , beards , and the list goes on ..... We show pics for visual judgement , we write a profile to show what we like and dislike , and are judged by each and every person who reads it and looks at the pics .
There really isn't any need to walk in someone else's shoes before judging them . It's a done deal the moment we set eyes on them ."
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Why does it have to be a mile ?
A mile aint really that great a distance to walk ?
Why not 10 miles ? Or a bit more ?
Why a mile ?"
A mile is more than long enough if the shoes are ill-fitting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does it have to be a mile ?
A mile aint really that great a distance to walk ?
Why not 10 miles ? Or a bit more ?
Why a mile ?
A mile is more than long enough if the shoes are ill-fitting.
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Barefoot and carry the shoes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ewwww! Sounds like a recipe for athletes foot. You can keep your socks on. 
Appreciate the sentiment though. There is the concept that we need to judge in order to maintain personal safety. I try and keep it to a minimum. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ewwww! Sounds like a recipe for athletes foot. You can keep your socks on.
Appreciate the sentiment though. There is the concept that we need to judge in order to maintain personal safety. I try and keep it to a minimum. "
I guess that makes sense |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
We can all be overly judgemental on the basis of. A few Ill chosen words..
Surely a poorly worded sentence shouldn't be the basis of our decision making..
Step back, think about it and then move on..
Of course, if they are a repeat offender then just block the buggers. |
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