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By *omsta1 OP Man
over a year ago
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Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them? |
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?
Absolutely lol! "
I've walked away from previous social meets purely due to this!!! |
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
I've fked beautiful women, found them fkin evil, and still wanted to fk them. With unattractive women I can't even get started so I can answer the question. |
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
Completely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
Oh yes |
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
Definitely xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
Yes. I'm gorgeous, I will bore you to sleep though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. But I've also met people who are unattractive who have turned out to be absolute cunts and beautiful people who are lovely. It's not a straightforward attractive=horrible, unattractive=funny friendly kind dichotomy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't even usually get to meet stage! We have had a few guys who have wanted to meet who were very good looking but their arrogance suddenly made them very unattractive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totaly agree op
Looks is a important part of course
But if they are stuck up and just not a likeable person I loose intrest
But good looking people can be lovely
And not so good looking people can be cunts
But I feel that is easy gauge by a few back amd forth messages
I would never have sex with or meet someone who I didn't like personality wise |
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well i thought that would be slightly obvious that however beautiful someone is its no good if they arent nice or they are annoying. If the sex is good one way or another, they are clean, unselfish, easy enough to get on with then what they look like isnt so important, within reason that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years I've met (in all walks of life) good looking men who have turned out to be rather dull, almost relying on their looks as opposed to working on their personalities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years I've met (in all walks of life) good looking men who have turned out to be rather dull, almost relying on their looks as opposed to working on their personalities. "
agreed know both male and female people who are stunning but the personality that would make me prefer too watch paint dry than chat too them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally, I always say they have to engage my mind to make me want to take things further. I don't go for a "type" obviously I have to be attracted to them first, but I like to have lots of talk before a meet and a social is important so I can see what they are like. A man that can make me laugh works for me everytime, as does eye contact when they are talking to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've fancied lots of people who I had no initial attraction too. Yes, personality, intelligence and a sense of humour is a big sexual turn on. I'm still looking for it on this site 
But if you can't get past first impressions,? I don't know how many times I've read 'if I don't fancy you, what's the point of chatting?'
You think that ugly fella pulled that hot blonde because of his good looks? |
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OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice  He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story 
The right personality is much more important than looks! |
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks! "
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles "
Knock, knock...  |
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles
Knock, knock... "
Who's there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes most definitely. If they're attractive but nothing else there's never going to be any fun. A good conversationalist with some cheeky banter and a positive outlook is all the attraction for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks! "
But explain. Okay, somebody you think is hot. But has a personality similar to a hand car wash, you wouldn't get into bed with. I can relate to that.
But that person who you think is 'not your type' but their entertaining makes you laugh and can hold your attention. Would you take your clothes off for them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles "
There will be men sharpening their wit and flexing their conversation skills waiting for the profile preferences to change  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles
Knock, knock...
Who's there?"
Damn, I should have had one prepared. Ignore me. |
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles
Knock, knock...
Who's there?
Damn, I should have had one prepared. Ignore me."
Hatter! I almost had my knickers off awaiting the punchline! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles
Knock, knock...
Who's there?
Damn, I should have had one prepared. Ignore me.
Hatter! I almost had my knickers off awaiting the punchline! "
I panicked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction happens on many levels, obviously first is the look. But physical attraction isn't everything. Women who are full of themselves are a total turn off for me. I have slept with some really beautiful women, who really knew they were. Each time it's always the same, it's all about them. At the same time I've slept with women I'd consider amazing looking, who had no idea how good looking they are and had completely different experiences. Looks are not a measure of someone's personality but personality is far more important than looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely agree that you have to actually meet the person and spend some time with them. Personally I'm attracted to a combination of personality and looks. I love people who can make me laugh and find that this can be a turn on as it relaxes the atmosphere. I have to find some kind of connection which isn't solely based on looks
Kinky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good personality always attracts me first, even on here - I tend to meet off the forums here, so that's a good way to gauge a person's personality before even messaging them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good looks win every time on here. You wouldn't find out their personality because you wouldn't give them a chance of a meeting.
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But what one person classes as good looking, another person won't.
It's all subjective so you're wrong. |
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"OMG-definitely!!!
I met a guy IRL who does not have to work at attracting women…so he's never learned how to be nice He's amazed that I'm not interested. He has commitment issues though-but that's another story
The right personality is much more important than looks!
Totally get this, it's like they'll reel you in with their 6 pack but can't hold a conversation.....like un wrapping an empty parcel!
Ur more likely to get me by making me laugh rather than flexing tour muscles
Knock, knock...
Who's there?
Damn, I should have had one prepared. Ignore me.
Hatter! I almost had my knickers off awaiting the punchline!
I panicked "
Awwww |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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People sometimes forget that before a meet, there's a human approach. Depending on the counterparts, it can be funny, sensual or indecent. But always requires a little creativity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at my own photos and think they're rubbish - I don't seem to be able to take a selfie without squinting and doing a forced smile.
No idea how to take one that captures my personality
Hoping that when I can get one that looks like me I'll stop scaring everyone away, lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good looks win every time on here. You wouldn't find out their personality because you wouldn't give them a chance of a meeting.
But what one person classes as good looking, another person won't.
It's all subjective so you're wrong."
No I'm not. This is what I was pointing out. Recently, a polite woman was talking to me, complimentary and looks quite sexy, her profile was nice, she said the same to me. But, she hadn't seen my face yet (I thought she had)
I sent it. All I got was , sorry, don't fancy you!! That's it. Nothing more
So this said, I am obviously somebody taste. As I fancy woman whom other guys don't.
My point is, she would have met me if she fancied me. Then, she would have found if I had a personality or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look at my own photos and think they're rubbish - I don't seem to be able to take a selfie without squinting and doing a forced smile.
No idea how to take one that captures my personality
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The camera hates me too. It horrible against all these make models on here isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have a saying. Attraction is what gets me there. Personality is what keeps me there "
I prefer
Attraction is what got me here, now turn around so I can slap your ass
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have a saying. Attraction is what gets me there. Personality is what keeps me there
I prefer
Attraction is what got me here, now turn around so I can slap your ass
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Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol"
We kind of did a social thing |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
We kind of did a social thing "
OK fine. But puzzles win me over 100%, so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
We kind of did a social thing
OK fine. But puzzles win me over 100%, so. "
You could've warned me before hand that you're determined and logical and brilliant at them |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol"
I did a social with a guy- he decided to tell me he could easily fall in love with me- I just kept drinking the wine |
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?"
Ya I find that, but I honestly find a personality more attractive anyway. |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
We kind of did a social thing
OK fine. But puzzles win me over 100%, so.
You could've warned me before hand that you're determined and logical and brilliant at them "
I didn't want to put you off taking me to the kids science centre tho. |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
I did a social with a guy- he decided to tell me he could easily fall in love with me- I just kept drinking the wine "
KEEPER. lol |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
I did a social with a guy- he decided to tell me he could easily fall in love with me- I just kept drinking the wine
KEEPER. lol"
Not a chance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
We kind of did a social thing
OK fine. But puzzles win me over 100%, so.
You could've warned me before hand that you're determined and logical and brilliant at them
I didn't want to put you off taking me to the kids science centre tho. "
We were not the only adults in there Hap |
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"Yeh, definitely.
This is why I don't ever have any kind of social with guys I meet here. Most of them turn me right off when they start talking. If I can just get them down to it, there's less time to fuck up and I can just screw a fit bod. Lol
We kind of did a social thing
OK fine. But puzzles win me over 100%, so.
You could've warned me before hand that you're determined and logical and brilliant at them
I didn't want to put you off taking me to the kids science centre tho.
We were not the only adults in there Hap "
Without accompanying kids tho....? |
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By *omsta1 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find that you meet some people and think mmm you're beautiful and then you find out that actually they are an arse and the physical attraction dies? Conversely some people become much more physically attractive once you get to know and like them?
Ya I find that, but I honestly find a personality more attractive anyway. "
Much more eloquent than my ramblings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. But I've also met people who are unattractive who have turned out to be absolute cunts and beautiful people who are lovely. It's not a straightforward attractive=horrible, unattractive=funny friendly kind dichotomy. "
Well said! |
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