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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering on peoples preference on telling friends or family about their fab/swinging life, are you open about it and care free or is it something you keep to your self/ between you and your partner, and how do friends/family react if you tell them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering on peoples preference on telling friends or family about their fab/swinging life, are you open about it and care free or is it something you keep to your self/ between you and your partner, and how do friends/family react if you tell them "
I wouldnt tell my family fee of my friends know and dont react badly! But woukd never tell my family ha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family and friends are not aware that I am on here. Though if they were to find out, they would not be so disgusted as to disown me. I'm not ashamed to be on here, hence the pictures. I just see my fab life, as my business, and nobody else's x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends and family think I'm pretty much certifiable just by virtue of being 41, unmarried and childless.
I think if they had an inlking that I very much enjoy all girl orgies and standing chatting with strangers in a club wearing little more than a smile, before doing the rude thing with Number One Chap infront of people I don't know; they would probably ship me off to the nearest asylum quicker than you could say strap on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats it you cant make everyone happy as long as you are thats all that counts"
majority of people are very judgemental but as you said as long as your happy with who you are is the main thing!
But I know my family woukd judge have a old school Irish mother tge wooden spoon woukd be out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats the thing some family/friends can be narrow minded and sometimes its not worth the hastle people knowing"
well my friends are ok with it iam a single guy who doest want a relationship due too a bad one a year ago!
Famiky are just old school so wouodnt agree and I already disappoint them enough ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was publicly outed on a social media site a couple of years ago by someone trying to embarrass me and all it did was confirm what people were already thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on your friends and family and there personalities
I tell some friends and some family and haven't had an issue in fact the majority of the time they have asked me to sort a meet for them lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im very much open about my swinging life, I never use to be it was always my little secret now I don't care who knows you only live once and I tend to enjoy it, I have nothing to hide. my friends and family arnt that shocked tbh lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those who know me well, know.
My mother queried the tab top that was showing on the lap top when I was showing her something else.
Got told if I can't be good, be careful.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't tell my friends and family if I meet a women on a night out, I'm sure they wouldn't really care, so other than a couple of close mates, my fab life is private.
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We are not at all ashamed however we know some of our friends and family would judge us. The reason we don't tell anyone is it's our little secret, our secret little life that only we know about and share together. We often chuckle and throw each other a little smirk we people ask us why we go away for weekends and don't we find it boring! If only they knew.
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I've got friends, family and neighbours who know but am selective. For safety alone it's worth having others who can look out for you, without them becoming shocked etc. You can be surprised who opens up and tells you of their swinging too. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Semi private / public
A lot of my friends are ex swingers so a lot know that I am still in scene
I might say I am going to a club and leave it at that
In terms of non swing friends they might joke when was the last time I went and I tend to shrug it off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A lot of different answers, i like the fact that single people especially females have at least one person who knows for security reasons, but also like the fact of it being a naughty personal secret, if only no one would judge.. They dont know what they're missing out on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't hide it...all my important people know and they are ok with it...and I don't really care if anyone else isn't...have only met one person that wasn't tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of our friends or family have any clue about what we get up to, if we were singles then maybe it would be different but I'm certain that they wouldn't understand why we do what we do!, I reckon they'd think we're unhappy with each other or something, couldn't be further from the truth...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody knows about me swinging other than the people i've fucked, some have stayed friends. I was in a long unhappy marriage until last year, where i was faithful to the same man for over 14 years, and I only discovered swinging when I left him. I'm pretty sure my friends and family would think I'm having some kind of mid life crisis and putting my health and safety at risk.
I'm having fun. I deserve fun. And I don't need anyone to put a downer on it for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends know I made sure after someone came up to me while I was out socialising! I made the decision after that to tell those who are important to me . The person thought they could have a position of power over me so I took it away from them . My friends weren't surprised and are supportive x |
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"Just wondering on peoples preference on telling friends or family about their fab/swinging life, are you open about it and care free or is it something you keep to your self/ between you and your partner, and how do friends/family react if you tell them "
It's called "private" life for a reason. I don't share the details of my bank account, the frequency or consistency of my stools or who I have sex with, among other things...and thankfully my friends don't feel the need to share every detail of their lives either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private. It would still be private if I was single or on here as a couple too. I have no desire to tell people about my sex life, it's none of their business. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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my parents know i date non exclusively and that includes staying out over night ( they arent stupid people)
my older kids and my friends know what i do and that im on here..plus someone always knows where i am going for safety reasons.
for the nosy peeps who ask about my love life..i cheekily say 'which one?' and then refuse to talk about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A lot of different opinions, i suppose different people have different opinions on private, some comparing sex to bank accounts, and some not caring who knows because they are having too much fun, its sad hearing about people trying to use it as power over people and im glad everyone who had that used against them stuffed it right back in their face and continued to do what they love |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its a private life to some people thats why i asked it, as we can see its not private to quite a few people but im sure they still wouldnt share their bank details, if they have open minded friends and family and they arent embarrased or ashamed why not tell people, this is a big part of some peoples lives, some people live for this, if you live for football or dancing you'd tell everyone surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had no choice in the matter, a girl I met on my last profile spotted me on a night out in Manchester and came over talking about the site while I was with my mates haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol couldnt swing it and pretend it was an online casino? Suppose its better in a club in front of friends i stead of at a family meal "
Yeah that's true! Haha every cloud and all that haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friends know I made sure after someone came up to me while I was out socialising! I made the decision after that to tell those who are important to me . The person thought they could have a position of power over me so I took it away from them . My friends weren't surprised and are supportive x "
Hey you never told me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends, family and neighbours know.
I don't meet much these days,but tend to use a club once a month.
My family are fine with it, friends find it curious and ask questions, as do my good neighbours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't told my family that L loves sucking my cock before I slip it into her wet pussy yet, so telling them that she likes to lick other women's pussy while I fuck her doggy fashion is probably a bit too much information.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering on peoples preference on telling friends or family about their fab/swinging life, are you open about it and care free or is it something you keep to your self/ between you and your partner, and how do friends/family react if you tell them
It's called "private" life for a reason. I don't share the details of my bank account, the frequency or consistency of my stools or who I have sex with, among other things...and thankfully my friends don't feel the need to share every detail of their lives either.
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I try to avoid the types that tell the whole world every aspect of their sex life as we're not compatible. Plenty of those types on the forums.  |
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