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How've you responded when you bump into an ex!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I haven't seen my ex for years. It's inevitable that I will bump into her at some point. I'd like to think I'd be cool and nice.. wishing her well and swiftly moving on! In reality, I'll probably panic and ignore her or I'll act like a nob as she was an ass over the house etc.
How do you guys react when you bump into yours? Able to keep your cool? |
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My recent Ex I see all the time, he loves a few streets away.....the kids dad....well I see him at drop offs with kids......I wish I didn't have to....I sometimes dream of bumping into him with a massive sword on purge night! Pmsl
Thank god it's only a film eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex-wife I have absolutely nothing to do with whatsoever but I'm not likely to bump into her.
My last ex I still get on with; we're better as friends than we were in a relationship, plus us getting on in this way is nice for the sake of our son.  |
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It's been a long time since I was in a relationship, but my ex I still used to meet up with on d*unken nights now she's engaged I think it would be awkward but probably say hi if her hubby to be wasn't with her as he dislikes me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My recent ex is my daugthers dad and we get on better now then we did togther but we always said we should of stayed friends.
My first ex I bumped into a few years ago n we just exchanged small talk but it was weird tbh. I was glad I looked good.  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friendly and polite, I'm a grown up "
This, even though the mother of my kids turned into satans spawn when she got with her new fella, but I keep calm for the sake of my kids, also I think it winds her up even more to see she isn't getting to me  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I bumped into an ex 2 years ago, we were stood at different tills in a supermarket and I could see he was looking at me, and I thought I recognise him from somewhere but couldn't place him! He was waiting for me outside when I left and my god what a difference from when I last saw him (once I eventually clicked), totally bald and a massive goatee (his hair used to be his pride of joy) We just has a polite catch up natter and then left......And this was the man who cheated on me god knows how many times, no point in harbouring grudges when things happened 20+ years ago but I did have a little snigger at his baldness 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My recent ex I see at least twice a week, she's mum to both my boys so see her when I pick them up and drop them off, plus we are still very good friends and have days out together as a family.
My ex wife (who I used to swing with)I hadn't seen for 7 years til last week when we bumped into each other. Had a really good chat and it went better than well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I saw my most recent ex I'd have to turn and walk away. I'm still pissed. My daughters dad we're polite, can even have a laugh if his gf is about, she's lovely, but when he's alone I avoid him. He's still a manipulative twat, and doesn't keep his hands to himself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't seen my ex for years. It's inevitable that I will bump into her at some point. I'd like to think I'd be cool and nice.. wishing her well and swiftly moving on! In reality, I'll probably panic and ignore her or I'll act like a nob as she was an ass over the house etc.
How do you guys react when you bump into yours? Able to keep your cool? "
shoot him clean between the eyes the bastard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of exes who,I think,would happily kill me if they saw me,,,All the others,we'd be civil probably.(It's usually been me that has done the 'dumping' so I have no reason to be antagonistic). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex husband lives in York so I'm not likely to but we would be friendly. We'd probably go for a drink together.
My most recent ex gave me a lift tonight somewhere I needed to go and waited in his car for me for 90 mins. We then went and had a drink at a pub together before he dropped me home.
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tried to be civil with her on her contact she was fine on her own
Each time we did meet I was intimidated and threatened by my ex and all her partners.
dosnt mean that she didnt call me to the kids as had it all too often
there old enough now so make there own way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Friendly and polite, I'm a grown up
This, even though the mother of my kids turned into satans spawn when she got with her new fella, but I keep calm for the sake of my kids, also I think it winds her up even more to see she isn't getting to me "
I think keeping calm and being cool is the way forward. Can't see myself ever thinking "damn, I wish I'd not been cool and calm then!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I worked with mine for 5 years after we broke up and it was fine after the initial 3/4 months of awkwardness. Different departments helped but we both managed them so had to have meetings and such. It was quite funny as we were early twenties and another managerial couple in their 30s split around the same time and the women was like a petty child in her professional handling of the situation. Now we live 100 miles apart but when I go home and bump into her occasionally we generally go for a coffee and have a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner left me 10 weeks ago. I was walking through our local town centre and she spotted me and asked how I was doing. I said ok and asked how she was. She burst into tears. Quite sad to be honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw him on a night out , said hello , he came over to say hello to all my friends and bought me a drink . We didn't work out but doesn't make him the devil lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friendly and polite, I'm a grown up "
This for me too, i (fem) see my ex about 2 times a week, we get along great now, we always will because of our kids and he has met Mr and my step daughter who lives with us.
If you have kids I always think you should try to get along for them, if not then I suppose it doesn't really matter what either of you think, you had time together, never regret it as even from bad can come good.
Just be polite and friendly |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I bumped into someone I've met on here during the school hols in the local swimming pool. We both had our children with us. I saw this gorgeous body before I realised it was him, when I did I was like 'Hell V you have great taste in men' We just said hi and carried on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although in heart of hearts know it was for the best and I that wasn't right for ex-wife and she's far better off without me think I'd just freeze and be ill, feeling quite gut wrenching nauseous due to memories and nerves just writing this, fortunately don't think we'll ever meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Polite, friendly, and ended up fucking her again last time I seen her  "
Yeah I do wonder if I'll think with my dick and say "good to see you.. fancy a fuck?"
If it's not well received then just pretend it was a joke!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See my ex fairly often on the kids swop run. She's found a guy and now he's moved in with her and my kids. It's not said but I suspect there is a deep respect and honesty between us...tho if we hadn't kids we would not have anything to do with each other...very much her choice. I don't hanker for the past...but a part of my heart is always hers. |
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Interesting topic. Bumped into my (one and only) ex-bf at the airport.
We went to had dinner together while waiting for our flight, chatting about updates in our families.
Then I show him my pictures crossdressed.
His face changed and excuse himself almost immediately.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bumped in to a few and its all been nice and civil. Bumped into one and i wanted to tear her to bits (but grown up so could not be bothered) And i bumped into an ex bf couple of years back. Went for coffee and natter ended up going back to his and stayed the night. |
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Ex wife I get on with. ..youngest still lives with her. .
Freaked people out when we double dated with my last ex gf and her bloke... ex gf I didn't get on with for a while but now talk and occasionally stay with. ..nothing happens though (unfortunately !) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only ever fucked an ex once, and that was because during our relationship, I had some problems, and turned into a whiny little bitch boy, I couldn't just leave it as her thinking I was a broken shell of a man, who did as he was told, she had to see the real me, she had to meet the kinky butler, I owed it to my self confidence, so I gave it my a game, and that was the last stumbling block of my happiness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went shopping with my ex and his girlfriend on Sunday,looking for a garden rake. Spoke to him on the phone yesterday evening,regarding work invoices. If I bumped into him while I was out I'd ask for a lift home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually with a .38 slug right behind their ear as they're lying face down soaked in their own urine and faeces in a shallow grave. Did I mention I DESPISE my ex? Lol |
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"I haven't seen my ex for years. It's inevitable that I will bump into her at some point. I'd like to think I'd be cool and nice.. wishing her well and swiftly moving on! In reality, I'll probably panic and ignore her or I'll act like a nob as she was an ass over the house etc.
How do you guys react when you bump into yours? Able to keep your cool? "
Saw my ex for the first time in 18 months at our daughters wedding last week. We hugged and kissed and chatted while she was having her make up done.
Considering he did me out of £20k when he heard I had a boyfriend, and in the last conversation we had he called me a desperate slut when he found out I'd moved Ben in, I think I was rather amazing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on fairly good terms with most of my exes to be honest.
I see my latest ex regularly as he's the father of my children. It's a fairly good natured relationship unless he d*unk texts me. My feelings are that if you can't say how you feel sober, then just don't say it at all. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I haven't seen my ex for years. It's inevitable that I will bump into her at some point. I'd like to think I'd be cool and nice.. wishing her well and swiftly moving on! In reality, I'll probably panic and ignore her or I'll act like a nob as she was an ass over the house etc.
How do you guys react when you bump into yours? Able to keep your cool?
Saw my ex for the first time in 18 months at our daughters wedding last week. We hugged and kissed and chatted while she was having her make up done.
Considering he did me out of £20k when he heard I had a boyfriend, and in the last conversation we had he called me a desperate slut when he found out I'd moved Ben in, I think I was rather amazing! "
Is it possible the hugs n kisses were possibly slightly guilt based on his previous actions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite like most of my ex boyfriends and would happily have a natter and a glass of vino with them. The one that found out I was on here (many years after we split I'd like to add) and sends me a d*unk email every couple of months asking if I'm still 'whoring it up' slightly less so, which is a shame because he was such a nice chap and a great friend.
His friend that outed me to him however, if I EVER meet him again, he will suffer the wrath of a significantly cross Heels. Particularly if he's with his charming wife who probably doesn't know about his Fab profile, love of dogging and webcam fascination!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since two of our kids are still minors and we share custody, I see my ex-husband several times a week. It's easy to be civil, even have a laugh, because I just feel nothing for him. |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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Most of my exes i dont see often although when i have ive just been polite and had general chat with.
My most recent one i saw quite a lot of (hopefully still will) but id still do anything to help him out |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I quite like most of my ex boyfriends and would happily have a natter and a glass of vino with them. The one that found out I was on here (many years after we split I'd like to add) and sends me a d*unk email every couple of months asking if I'm still 'whoring it up' slightly less so, which is a shame because he was such a nice chap and a great friend.
His friend that outed me to him however, if I EVER meet him again, he will suffer the wrath of a significantly cross Heels. Particularly if he's with his charming wife who probably doesn't know about his Fab profile, love of dogging and webcam fascination!! "
Intrigued who he maybe!! |
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My ex was a complete psychotic that made my life a living hell .
I made the big mistake of bumping into her in poundland ( where she works ).
Did I act like an adult and have a polite chat and leave?
No
I'm afraid I panicked, chucked my shopping to one side and made a hasty exit.
I have no wish to have anything to do with her , let alone have a chat.....she is in the past and that is exactly where she can stay |
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