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I do expect a face pic in the first message tho | |||
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"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho "This for me, also | |||
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"What people forget, is that the only people who will see your pictures are those who have a Fab profile themselves. So you are kind of in the same boat. That being said we are slightly careful, and only post public pics where the face is partially hidden. " Anyone can make a profile though. I think it's naïve when some people think being on here their 'secret' is safe. People do get outed. | |||
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"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also "Same applies to us We are happy to supply face pics, they're in our friends gallery not private gallery and expect to see face pics within the first couple of messages | |||
 . Everybody has an image of people, they probably have an image of you. That image changes when you find somebody you know on here.  | |||
"We would love to have face pics on the site- occasionally we put them on, but I have a job in the public eye where it would probably be frowned upon, Pauls job is also dealing with public, if it wasn't for this we would always show our face and happily do so on pm" | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..)" And that's why I asked that part of the question. I wondered would some people interpret it as laissez-faire attitude to privacy. | |||
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"I have face pics up. My manager knows I'm on here as does my ex and a few friends. So I have sex with people? Big deal. " I kind of feel like that - it's just sex. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..)" Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy? | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy? "+1 | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy? "Possibly thinking about in a social meet environment maybe, You are recognised as a swinger so whoever you are with is also? If so H better stop going to lunch with her dad as he's 80!!
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy? "Completely agree with you. The comment above is completely ridiculous. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..)" On the plus side, it should deter married/attached men from wanting to meet me then!  | |||
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"I don't mind sending In a message and also like to see who I'm talking to but I keep mine private until messaging. " Bar my mirror pic! | |||
"I don't mind sending In a message and also like to see who I'm talking to but I keep mine private until messaging. Bar my mirror pic! "Haha I like that! | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy? "Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed. Lack of discretion- some Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -coupled with other factors- can show who these kinds of people are. I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this. | |||
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"I couldn't give a shite. I love sex. I have absolutely nothing to hide. Plus my hair is too good to hide away "I know that feeling. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- some Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -coupled with other factors- can show who these kinds of people are.
I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this. "Surely by having face pics available, you're not in a position to be blackmailed? For example I'm single so can't be threatened with telling a partner. My job is such that it's of no consequence anyway what I do in my private life. Even if some swingers were less than discreet, and perhaps showed my profile pics to their mates? What difference does it make if it's them looking for another couple on here anway? Plus, if they said "Oh we/l played with LordScars" most people would be like "Who…?  " | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- some Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -coupled with other factors- can show who these kinds of people are.
I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this.
Surely by having face pics available, you're not in a position to be blackmailed? For example I'm single so can't be threatened with telling a partner.
My job is such that it's of no consequence anyway what I do in my private life.
Even if some swingers were less than discreet, and perhaps showed my profile pics to their mates? What difference does it make if it's them looking for another couple on here anway? Plus, if they said "Oh we/l played with LordScars" most people would be like "Who…? ""Nail, head. | |||
"I couldn't give a shite. I love sex. I have absolutely nothing to hide. Plus my hair is too good to hide away "I have to agree with you there. Your hair is fab! | |||
"I couldn't give a shite. I love sex. I have absolutely nothing to hide. Plus my hair is too good to hide away
I have to agree with you there. Your hair is fab! "Diolch!x | |||
"I couldn't give a shite. I love sex. I have absolutely nothing to hide. Plus my hair is too good to hide away
I have to agree with you there. Your hair is fab!
Diolch!x"Chi'n iawn x | |||
I always do a social first anyway | |||
"I don't mind sending In a message and also like to see who I'm talking to but I keep mine private until messaging. " Me too although I have had public face pics up previously. Mines for a different reason though. I try to lure them in with my personality before I get shot down because of my looks. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- some Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -coupled with other factors- can show who these kinds of people are.
I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this. "Also, lack of discretion isn't solely the character trait of people with face pics available, I know plenty of people that don't show faces who have loose lips! | |||
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"What people forget, is that the only people who will see your pictures are those who have a Fab profile themselves. So you are kind of in the same boat. That being said we are slightly careful, and only post public pics where the face is partially hidden. Anyone can make a profile though. I think it's naïve when some people think being on here their 'secret' is safe. People do get outed. " This is so true I know someone married who was being black mailed . . A married woman who was playing away from home a guy who was a acquaintance of hers and her hubby . He somehow got talking to her online I think he had a I idea it was her from something in her profile . he sent a fake picture when she relied with one of her own he then came clean about who he was and started demanding money and sex. The moral of the story is this if you have a secret do all you can to keep it including no face picture public and other tings . that's why I don't have one . Although from time to time I do make it public for a few hours if I'm engaging in a forum post about asking to see someones face who you like the sound of . | |||
"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also "Me too, plus i don't want to scare people away | |||
"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also
Me too, plus i don't want to scare people away "Your baby face ain't scary | |||
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"I couldn't give a shite. I love sex. I have absolutely nothing to hide. Plus my hair is too good to hide away "what she said...a part from the hair part ''shaved head'' | |||
"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also
Me too, plus i don't want to scare people away
Your baby face ain't scary "
Thanks for that i owe you one. | |||
"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also
Me too, plus i don't want to scare people away
Your baby face ain't scary
Thanks for that i owe you one. "It was a compliment  | |||
"Definitely a fuck it moment here. I'm a single guy with nothing to hide so why not make it easier. " Same here! | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..)" I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. | |||
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"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho
This for me, also
Me too, plus i don't want to scare people away
Your baby face ain't scary
Thanks for that i owe you one.
It was a compliment "Sill owe you one | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) On the plus side, it should deter married/attached men from wanting to meet me then! " | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- some Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -coupled with other factors- can show who these kinds of people are.
I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this.
Surely by having face pics available, you're not in a position to be blackmailed? For example I'm single so can't be threatened with telling a partner.
My job is such that it's of no consequence anyway what I do in my private life.
Even if some swingers were less than discreet, and perhaps showed my profile pics to their mates? What difference does it make if it's them looking for another couple on here anway? Plus, if they said "Oh we/l played with LordScars" most people would be like "Who…? ""Ok. | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. " | |||
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"Ive got nothing to hide so i show my face" Exactly! I've done nothing to be ashamed of either. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. "Yes, because I'm dying to show my friends and family my most recent shag. Being on here and having a face pic up, just means that I don't feel ashamed to be on here. I completely respect an individuals right to privacy. But to accuse face pic members of perhaps not being careful with another members profile is just plain unfair. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine.
Yes, because I'm dying to show my friends and family my most recent shag. Being on here and having a face pic up, just means that I don't feel ashamed to be on here. I completely respect an individuals right to privacy. But to accuse face pic members of perhaps not being careful with another members profile is just plain unfair. "Some people. Some. Not all. If that doesn't refer to you why are you getting upset about it? | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine.
Yes, because I'm dying to show my friends and family my most recent shag. Being on here and having a face pic up, just means that I don't feel ashamed to be on here. I completely respect an individuals right to privacy. But to accuse face pic members of perhaps not being careful with another members profile is just plain unfair. "I said it all contributes to part of the impression you build of someone. I'm not accusing anyone of anything, but I will make up my mind about them based on the information presented to me. Just like you said a bonus of having your face up was less married men messaging you, a bonus of not having my face up is I tend to meet people with a need for a similar level of discretion to me, be that because of relationship status or career. Those are the people I'd rather meet. I don't see the problem. | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine.
Yes, because I'm dying to show my friends and family my most recent shag. Being on here and having a face pic up, just means that I don't feel ashamed to be on here. I completely respect an individuals right to privacy. But to accuse face pic members of perhaps not being careful with another members profile is just plain unfair. "It's not an accusation it's just an opinion / preference, that's all. | |||
"Everyone is different so want to some don't. I understand people who don't want to for work purposes but in that case a face picture via pm is sufficient. I like mine up. I'd rather that then my big bottom anyday "Some of us rather like your bottom | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. " Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. " People who go on about having nothing to hide tend to have not much to lose by way of career or whatever. Or they will be "lifestyle" swingers, of which I'm not one. And some of them *are* indiscreet. Some, not all. If that's not you, then great. But I don't know you so I don't know that. As you've alluded to, yes I am in a relationship. If I were single I still wouldn't display a recognisable face pic, my career is much too important to me. This is just my experience over a few years on the site and it's not an accusation of anything. It's one of my ways of homing in on those I prefer to meet, and it's not worth getting offended about. I'll meet those without public faces; you meet those with public faces, everyone's happy. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. People who go on about having nothing to hide tend to have not much to lose by way of career or whatever. Or they will be "lifestyle" swingers, of which I'm not one. And some of them *are* indiscreet. Some, not all. If that's not you, then great. But I don't know you so I don't know that. As you've alluded to, yes I am in a relationship. If I were single I still wouldn't display a recognisable face pic, my career is much too important to me. This is just my experience over a few years on the site and it's not an accusation of anything. It's one of my ways of homing in on those I prefer to meet, and it's not worth getting offended about. I'll meet those without public faces; you meet those with public faces, everyone's happy. " It's perfectly acceptable to hide peoples face pictures if that's actually what they wish to do, their profile, their choice and each to their own of course. I wouldn't dream of not meeting people just because they haven't chose to display a face picture, I wouldn't alienate them from my range of people who I would meet. Suggesting that people with public face pictures can't be indiscreet is quite absurd, do people seriously believe that after a meet, the next day we run screaming into a pub shouting "Guess who I've just met?" no of course we don't, we might not worry about who sees us or have anything to lose by displaying them, but it doesn't mean we arent sensitive to other people's right to privacy either. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. People who go on about having nothing to hide tend to have not much to lose by way of career or whatever. Or they will be "lifestyle" swingers, of which I'm not one. And some of them *are* indiscreet. Some, not all. If that's not you, then great. But I don't know you so I don't know that. As you've alluded to, yes I am in a relationship. If I were single I still wouldn't display a recognisable face pic, my career is much too important to me. This is just my experience over a few years on the site and it's not an accusation of anything. It's one of my ways of homing in on those I prefer to meet, and it's not worth getting offended about. I'll meet those without public faces; you meet those with public faces, everyone's happy. It's perfectly acceptable to hide peoples face pictures if that's actually what they wish to do, their profile, their choice and each to their own of course. I wouldn't dream of not meeting people just because they haven't chose to display a face picture, I wouldn't alienate them from my range of people who I would meet. Suggesting that people with public face pictures can't be indiscreet is quite absurd, do people seriously believe that after a meet, the next day we run screaming into a pub shouting "Guess who I've just met?" no of course we don't, we might not worry about who sees us or have anything to lose by displaying them, but it doesn't mean we arent sensitive to other people's right to privacy either. " What's your position on someone saying "I choose not to meet people who don't accommodate because in my experience they're always married"? Perfectly reasonable, yes? This is exactly the same thing. And from your own profile: "There are so many stories they can tell, I actually cringe when meeting new people with them because I don't know what's going to be said next! I share too much with these people! "
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with any of this, or anyone who shows a public face pic. Just that it's not for me, and is one of the things I use as a filter, based on my own experience. | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. People who go on about having nothing to hide tend to have not much to lose by way of career or whatever. Or they will be "lifestyle" swingers, of which I'm not one. And some of them *are* indiscreet. Some, not all. If that's not you, then great. But I don't know you so I don't know that. As you've alluded to, yes I am in a relationship. If I were single I still wouldn't display a recognisable face pic, my career is much too important to me. This is just my experience over a few years on the site and it's not an accusation of anything. It's one of my ways of homing in on those I prefer to meet, and it's not worth getting offended about. I'll meet those without public faces; you meet those with public faces, everyone's happy. It's perfectly acceptable to hide peoples face pictures if that's actually what they wish to do, their profile, their choice and each to their own of course. I wouldn't dream of not meeting people just because they haven't chose to display a face picture, I wouldn't alienate them from my range of people who I would meet. Suggesting that people with public face pictures can't be indiscreet is quite absurd, do people seriously believe that after a meet, the next day we run screaming into a pub shouting "Guess who I've just met?" no of course we don't, we might not worry about who sees us or have anything to lose by displaying them, but it doesn't mean we arent sensitive to other people's right to privacy either. What's your position on someone saying "I choose not to meet people who don't accommodate because in my experience they're always married"? Perfectly reasonable, yes? This is exactly the same thing. And from your own profile: "There are so many stories they can tell, I actually cringe when meeting new people with them because I don't know what's going to be said next! I share too much with these people! "
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with any of this, or anyone who shows a public face pic. Just that it's not for me, and is one of the things I use as a filter, based on my own experience. "If you choose not to meet people who can't accomodate, again that's your choice, but to suggest it's because they're all married would be a broad and sweeping statement. Again inaccurate, the comment from my own profile you've quoted, related to my own personal stories relating to me and NOT anyone else. You say you're not saying anything wrong but I disagree, you're suggesting that people with face pictures on show cannot be discreet. | |||
" You say you're not saying anything wrong but I disagree, you're suggesting that people with face pictures on show cannot be discreet. " I'm not suggesting they cannot, I'm suggesting that *in my experience* they often aren't. And that's my experience, which I choose to rely on. | |||
" You say you're not saying anything wrong but I disagree, you're suggesting that people with face pictures on show cannot be discreet. I'm not suggesting they cannot, I'm suggesting that *in my experience* they often aren't. And that's my experience, which I choose to rely on. " Would that not be coincidental? We're there other factors leading to them not being discreet? | |||
" You say you're not saying anything wrong but I disagree, you're suggesting that people with face pictures on show cannot be discreet. I'm not suggesting they cannot, I'm suggesting that *in my experience* they often aren't. And that's my experience, which I choose to rely on. " It pains me to say this but my experiences when going through a toting up process would back this post up . I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush when I say this because from my own experiences there were exceptions on both sides of the line during the toting up process So going on a case by case look at my own experiences those who had my face picture on show were on the whole more discrete and more thoughtful about mine and there discretion. . | |||
" You say you're not saying anything wrong but I disagree, you're suggesting that people with face pictures on show cannot be discreet. I'm not suggesting they cannot, I'm suggesting that *in my experience* they often aren't. And that's my experience, which I choose to rely on. Would that not be coincidental? We're there other factors leading to them not being discreet?" Maybe. But I don't really care to research to find out. My approach now works just fine for me so I don't feel the need to change it. | |||
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"guess LordScar and Ruby wont be hooking up "He doesn't like marrieds | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- **some** Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -**coupled with other factors- can** show who these kinds of people are.
**I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this.** "I wish people could read. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- **some** Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -**coupled with other factors- can** show who these kinds of people are.
**I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this.**
I wish people could read. "Where's the fun in that | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) Open to abuse how exactly? Also, I'm confused, how does me having my face pics show I have a lack of discretion or respect for peoples privacy?
Open to abuse- people get blackmailed/ outed.
Lack of discretion- **some** Swingers love to tell anyone and everyone about the minutiae of their sex lives and everyone they fucked. Public face pics -**coupled with other factors- can** show who these kinds of people are.
**I didn't say that everyone with public face pics is like this.**
I wish people could read.
Where's the fun in that " True. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine.
Yes, because I'm dying to show my friends and family my most recent shag. Being on here and having a face pic up, just means that I don't feel ashamed to be on here. I completely respect an individuals right to privacy. But to accuse face pic members of perhaps not being careful with another members profile is just plain unfair.
Some people.
Some. Not all.
If that doesn't refer to you why are you getting upset about it?"How am I getting upset about it? I just think it can go both ways. People without face pictures can be indiscreet. So I don't understand why that argument needs to be brought up, in regards to why people show their face pics on their profiles? | |||
"guess LordScar and Ruby wont be hooking up
He doesn't like marrieds "Doesn't say anywhere on my profile that I don't meet married people, but I do prefer to know first so I can at least have the option | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. " I completely agree with this | |||
"guess LordScar and Ruby wont be hooking up
He doesn't like marrieds
Doesn't say anywhere on my profile that I don't meet married people, but I do prefer to know first so I can at least have the option "I was basing this on comments on a thread last week rather than your profile. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) And that's why I asked that part of the question. I wondered would some people interpret it as laissez-faire attitude to privacy. "
Some do. Some don't. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this "I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all. | |||
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"What people forget, is that the only people who will see your pictures are those who have a Fab profile themselves. So you are kind of in the same boat. That being said we are slightly careful, and only post public pics where the face is partially hidden. " don't think this is Strickly true as a lot of profiles can be browsed on line with out a profile on here mind I would stand corrected if I'm wrong on that | |||
"guess LordScar and Ruby wont be hooking up
He doesn't like marrieds
Doesn't say anywhere on my profile that I don't meet married people, but I do prefer to know first so I can at least have the option
I was basing this on comments on a thread last week rather than your profile. "I chose to answer this in a PM rather than take this subject off course. | |||
"What people forget, is that the only people who will see your pictures are those who have a Fab profile themselves. So you are kind of in the same boat. That being said we are slightly careful, and only post public pics where the face is partially hidden. don't think this is Strickly true as a lot of profiles can be browsed on line with out a profile on here mind I would stand corrected if I'm wrong on that "You can hide that in your privacy settings, so only fab users can search for you | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this
I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all. "Was this aimed at me? | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this
I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all.
Was this aimed at me? "No, littlemisssecret | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this
I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all.
Was this aimed at me?
No, littlemisssecret"Comparing making an assumption that someone may be married based on their accommodation status, and making the assumption that some people with face pictures are complete blabbermouths, who do not know the meaning of discretion are completely different things in my opinion. One is more offensive than the other. Feel free to disagree with me. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this
I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all.
Was this aimed at me?
No, littlemisssecret
Comparing making an assumption that someone may be married based on their accommodation status, and making the assumption that some people with face pictures are complete blabbermouths, who do not know the meaning of discretion are completely different things in my opinion. One is more offensive than the other. Feel free to disagree with me."Those are your words, not mine, and clearly is not what I said. It is exactly the same thing - making an assumption about a group of people based on your own experience. My approach serves me extremely well, so I'll continue to use it. | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I tend to agree with this. It's just part of the overall impression. I like to meet people who are careful with their own privacy; they're more likely to be careful with mine. Are you seriously suggesting that people who have their face pics available to view, are more likely to go shouting their mouth off about who they have played with? What a sweeping statement, and no doubt wholly inaccurate to say the least. I could counter argue with the comment with all the single people hiding their face pics are just cheating on their partners! However I know that's absurd, and would be a silly thing to say, well except in your case because that would be true. People with their face pics on show have nothing to hide, but that doesn't make us indiscreet blabber mouths who go around shouting about our latest conquests either, personally I find the comment a little egotistical to think that we do. I completely agree with this
I've seen you say that you don't meet people who don't accommodate because in your experience they tend to be married. I don't see how my approach is any different to this at all.
Was this aimed at me?
No, littlemisssecret
Comparing making an assumption that someone may be married based on their accommodation status, and making the assumption that some people with face pictures are complete blabbermouths, who do not know the meaning of discretion are completely different things in my opinion. One is more offensive than the other. Feel free to disagree with me.
Those are your words, not mine, and clearly is not what I said.
It is exactly the same thing - making an assumption about a group of people based on your own experience. My approach serves me extremely well, so I'll continue to use it. "This is just going to go around in circles. We both obviously have our own opinion on there being different levels of offensiveness in regards to assumptions made. So continue to use your tools, stick to your opinions and prosper. And I will continue to the same. | |||
"I don't have a public face pic because I have children and I don't want to be outed and it cause embarrassment for them.
I do expect a face pic in the first message tho "This | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..)" I kind of feel like this and am more wary, for reasons of both family and career I am very careful with mine | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I kind of feel like this and am more wary, for reasons of both family and career I am very careful with mine" But if your family know & you work for yourselves?? | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I kind of feel like this and am more wary, for reasons of both family and career I am very careful with mine But if your family know & you work for yourselves??" Fair enough then, however I sometimes worry if taking pics at meets etc that others won't understand just how much of an issue pics becoming public would be to me | |||
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"Face pics don't do it for me. I insist on c**k shots in the first message. Afterall it is his c**k that want to f**k" Sorry but I need to be attracted to someone first and foremost not their cock! It's the individual who has a cock, unless you just fuck total cocks | |||
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"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I kind of feel like this and am more wary, for reasons of both family and career I am very careful with mine But if your family know & you work for yourselves?? Fair enough then, however I sometimes worry if taking pics at meets etc that others won't understand just how much of an issue pics becoming public would be to me " That's not true for me personally. I respect another person's need to be discreet. Just because I am comfortable showing my face, doesn't mean that I would disrespect another's need for secrecy. If somebody was to not honour your need to be discreet, it would make them a very low person indeed x | |||
"Face pics don't do it for me. I insist on cock shots in the first message. Afterall it is his cock that want to fuck" Very true. | |||
"I think having public face pics leaves people open to abuse. It can also show the lack of discretion/ lack of respect for other people's privacy they have 'in real life'. (Can... not always..) I kind of feel like this and am more wary, for reasons of both family and career I am very careful with mine But if your family know & you work for yourselves?? Fair enough then, however I sometimes worry if taking pics at meets etc that others won't understand just how much of an issue pics becoming public would be to me That's not true for me personally. I respect another person's need to be discreet. Just because I am comfortable showing my face, doesn't mean that I would disrespect another's need for secrecy. If somebody was to not honour your need to be discreet, it would make them a very low person indeed x" I agree with this just because I have my face on show is no sign I wouldn't be discreet. For me as a male who isn't ripped body wise I feel my face would do me more good than a cock and headless body profile pic. | |||
