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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you meet... Yay or naythe majority of this site are in a conundrum of some sort but what it's got to do with anything?btw"
Im interested... Some do some dont.. |
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Personally, yes. I don't know them; their personal circumstances have nothing to do with me.
I think everyone is allowed to have their own stance on it though. Like, I think people saying "no" are just as valid and entitled, of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter, op? "
Nah... I dont judge anyone.. Each to own.. Merely wondered as i find most people say no. Im honest about it on my profile. I know it divides people so thought id chuck it out there for discussion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is it these cheats want absolution or possible leads ? In general people respect honesty anyone with an ounce of human decency is going to want to be involved in the possible hurt of another person ,if you don't get that we would nt want your company  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you know it divides people then you know your answer. Some will. Some won't. Some will use it as an excuse to have a dig and take the moral high ground. I wouldn't even bother asking the question on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah , we aren't naive enough to think that most of the guys we've played with aren't married or in a relationship "
I'm not naive enough to think everyone is telling the truth either, but it's not nice when when you get a phone call from someone's partner when you were told they were single. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it these cheats want absolution or possible leads ? In general people respect honesty anyone with an ounce of human decency is going to want to be involved in the possible hurt of another person ,if you don't get that we would nt want your company "
Very judgemental... Ask anyone whose replied tes, bet i haven't contacted them. Maybe, just maaybe, i took an interest in peoples viewpoints.... No need to use words like decency. You dont know peoples situations...
I probably wouldn't want your company either... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it these cheats want absolution or possible leads ? In general people respect honesty anyone with an ounce of human decency is going to want to be involved in the possible hurt of another person ,if you don't get that we would nt want your company
Very judgemental... Ask anyone whose replied tes, bet i haven't contacted them. Maybe, just maaybe, i took an interest in peoples viewpoints.... No need to use words like decency. You dont know peoples situations...
I probably wouldn't want your company either..."
Judgment or opinion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you know it divides people then you know your answer. Some will. Some won't. Some will use it as an excuse to have a dig and take the moral high ground. I wouldn't even bother asking the question on here."
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it these cheats want absolution or possible leads ? In general people respect honesty anyone with an ounce of human decency is going to want to be involved in the possible hurt of another person ,if you don't get that we would nt want your company
Very judgemental... Ask anyone whose replied tes, bet i haven't contacted them. Maybe, just maaybe, i took an interest in peoples viewpoints.... No need to use words like decency. You dont know peoples situations...
I probably wouldn't want your company either..."
So you want peoples opinions but then attack them if they don't correspond with what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... "
nope its our opinion its you that needs to judge is what you do right or wrong ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... "
No it is their opinion on a fact. If you are having sex with a person not your partner, and your partner is unaware, you are then a cheat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement...
No it is their opinion on a fact. If you are having sex with a person not your partner, and your partner is unaware, you are then a cheat!"
Judgment would be something like this - all cheats should be hung, drawn and quartered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement...
No it is their opinion on a fact. If you are having sex with a person not your partner, and your partner is unaware, you are then a cheat!
Judgment would be something like this - all cheats should be hung, drawn and quartered "
This subject is done over and again on here and opinions vary ,whatever your circumstances just get on and enjoy FAB  |
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I feel sad for anyone attached who feels the need to be on here behind their partners back really,as somewhere along the line thing's aren't right for them. I don't particularly like being single,but at least I don't have any of that crap to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement...
No it is their opinion on a fact. If you are having sex with a person not your partner, and your partner is unaware, you are then a cheat!
Judgment would be something like this - all cheats should be hung, drawn and quartered This subject is done over and again on here and opinions vary ,whatever your circumstances just get on and enjoy FAB "
However, if you ask for opinions, you'll get them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement...
No it is their opinion on a fact. If you are having sex with a person not your partner, and your partner is unaware, you are then a cheat!
Judgment would be something like this - all cheats should be hung, drawn and quartered This subject is done over and again on here and opinions vary ,whatever your circumstances just get on and enjoy FAB
However, if you ask for opinions, you'll get them "
Precisely |
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... "
can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something."
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this."
Its quoting one part of our original post which goes on to ask why are you asking for absolution or leads ,yes we re guilty of judging his post but not his circumstances which in our opinion would nt be for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this.Its quoting one part of our original post which goes on to ask why are you asking for absolution or leads ,yes we re guilty of judging his post but not his circumstances which in our opinion would nt be for us "
It wasn't your post I was quoting from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't judge each to their own it's a sex site not a confession box
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To judge can mean to assess or condemn. I'm sure you do judge (assess) people as to whether you want to meet them or not. Likewise those you think judge (condemn) others are also assessing their suitability. Non-single single  men are merely assessed. Their cheating factor could just be a filter as much as age/ethnicity/height etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to be brave/foolish and say Yay! Then I'm going to hide behind the sofa  "
Agreed!
A bloke who is cheating may be mess likely to pester you all the time. Well, maybe. |
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this."
what are u on about i asked a simple question and like everyone else i can have an opinion and my opinion is 98% of cheaters are scumbags. |
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this. what are u on about i asked a simple question and like everyone else i can have an opinion and my opinion is 98% of cheaters are scumbags."
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this."
olso what does bieng a couple have anything to do with it lolso by your logic u have to be in a relashinship to disagree with cheating aye ok then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this. what are u on about i asked a simple question and like everyone else i can have an opinion and my opinion is 98% of cheaters are scumbags."
I never said you couldn't have an opinion. I said he didn't need a reason to be on here. Nobody does. |
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"Opinion or judgement...
'what is it with these cheats... '
I' d call that judgement... can i ask why u are cheating because people are going to judge u due to the fact that about only 2% percent of unfaithful people on here (male and female ) have a valid reason like there partner has a medical issue or something.
He doesn't need a valid reason just like you don't need a valid reason to look for sex on here either. The fact you're on as a couple has no bearing on this. what are u on about i asked a simple question and like everyone else i can have an opinion and my opinion is 98% of cheaters are scumbags.
I never said you couldn't have an opinion. I said he didn't need a reason to be on here. Nobody does. "
again i asked a simple question jus like everyone else can ask away to me for my reasons to be on here its no big deal is it. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a one to one, it would be a no all the time..
However, in a club situation, no questions seem to be asked so i am none the wiser. "
We agree if someones in a club no blame can be attached to anyone its a level playing field |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a one to one, it would be a no all the time..
However, in a club situation, no questions seem to be asked so i am none the wiser. We agree if someones in a club no blame can be attached to anyone its a level playing field "
Ermmmm nope. The person who is cheating is aware of his/her cheating - hardly a level playing field.
I wouldn't knowingly go with a cheater but ignorance can be bliss. |
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