I have been talking to and trying to ease my wife towards introducing another guy in to our sex life. We have had great open discussions on it but she says she couldn't do it. It always ends up with us having the most amazing sex so it know it turns her on. I don't want to go down the 'get her pissed' route so would like some advice if anyone been in the same position. Cheers |
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over a year ago
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Simple answer, you don't try and 'persuade' her. She's said she can't do it. She gets off on the fantasy of the idea but clearly doesn't want it to be a reality. Leave it there |
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I'd have a really good look at what's more important to you, a good relationship with mutual respect and a happy partner, or threesomes. If it's the former then you need to realise that trying to coerce your partner into something they have explicitly stated they don't want to do is a sure fire route to singledom. If it's the latter then you need to end the relationship and find somebody you're compatible with. |
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Was going to give advise about respecting your wifes decision but if your bangin others to "keep the boredom at bay" i doubt you have a great deal of respect for her anyway |
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"Was going to give advise about respecting your wifes decision but if your bangin others to "keep the boredom at bay" i doubt you have a great deal of respect for her anyway "
No i did think the same
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"Was going to give advise about respecting your wifes decision but if your bangin others to "keep the boredom at bay" i doubt you have a great deal of respect for her anyway " i agree with you ive got ne respect for people who do this behind there partners back really not nice!! Imagine how she would feel if she found out?? Which she will......
If you have so much amazing sex why cheat then?
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