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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I was on my profile before I met a couple and the fantasy for them was far better than reality as the guy didn't like seeing his woman play with another guy, had to stop half way through the meet as he freaked out, hence the fantasy been better than reality.
Hasn't put me off but they left the site within 5 mins of me leaving. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Is the idea better than the reality in most swingers case?
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no vivid imagination playing out in this reality is awesome..dare to dream and then live it..hot, and keeps the twinkle in your eyes x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is the idea better than the reality in most swingers case?
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It always is if the idea is extremely specific, but f the idea is loose enough to allow for fun to evolve then no it isn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noooooo! but enjoy the fantasy of what's going to happen the doing it and then the talking about it after.
Think the people you met were not obviously In the right frame of mind or really didn't know what to expect. We met a couple where it was obvious it was him who had been doing all the pressuring so we decided not to play, you can usually tell early on. |
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"When I was on my profile before I met a couple and the fantasy for them was far better than reality as the guy didn't like seeing his woman play with another guy, had to stop half way through the meet as he freaked out, hence the fantasy been better than reality.
Hasn't put me off but they left the site within 5 mins of me leaving."
Precisely the same thing happened to me on my very first meet on the site....thankfully that was the only time it did, and they still have a profile but not met anyone sine |
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Some fantasies should remain just that, I've found, but others need the light of day to fully appreciate.
Thing is, you don't know til you try, so in my opinion, it's best to have both.
I think a lot on here are in fantasy mode, and unfortunately will never have the courage to just go for it.
I'm glad I'm not one of them. |
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