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"Does it bother people on here that the person is meeting discreetly because they have a partner?
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It doesn't bother us but we'd not meet with them if it was the arrangement. |
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"Does it bother people on here that the person is meeting discreetly because they have a partner?
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Not our business but we don't knowingly meet people in a relationship where the other person doesn't know. |
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Swinging originated with couples. Swapping partners and sex with other couples. It has evolved to include a vast array of sexual adventures with multiple partners. Of course there must be trust and respect for that to work well.
Q: Why the fuck would anyone think that it would be ok to blatantly disregard and disrespect that level of trust?
A: People that don't understand what Swinging is. |
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences  "
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we are all adults,it,s upto the individuals I geuss,if it upsets you they are married or have a partner,i would say don't meet?
it,s more excititng for me if they do have a partner/married |
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny "
I'm liking the last bit... I feel inspired   |
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny I'm liking the last bit... I feel inspired "
Miss Honey- motivational speaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like you say it's their choice to cheat but they should also allow their meet to have an informed choice by being honest.
It's also my choice not to want to meet them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny "
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny "
Well you're not really because other people's actions also influence it. |
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"Like you say it's their choice to cheat but they should also allow their meet to have an informed choice by being honest.
It's also my choice not to want to meet them "
I get this, but if its nsa and you'll never see them again does that change your mind?
Also, what about guys that happily take ladies home after a night out- knowing they aren't single and vice versa?
(I totally said I wasn't getting into a debate didn't I ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it's NSA but I suppose I'm a bag of conscience and know there's some lady at home being deceived by a bloke, whilst she is washing his undies and cooking his tea thinking he's at work he's really balls deep in me in a travelodge. I just don't wanna be a purposeful part of that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will put some people off you, it will encourage others to you, some people couldn't give a shit either way and a lot of people will say one thing to the forum masses and another entirely in private messages. Or at least that's my experience. |
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"I know it's NSA but I suppose I'm a bag of conscience and know there's some lady at home being deceived by a bloke, whilst she is washing his undies and cooking his tea thinking he's at work he's really balls deep in me in a travelodge. I just don't wanna be a purposeful part of that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny I'm liking the last bit... I feel inspired
Miss Honey- motivational speaker "
until saturday when hell will be unleashed |
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny I'm liking the last bit... I feel inspired
Miss Honey- motivational speaker
until saturday when hell will be unleashed "
Friday...at around 8pm.
Weather warning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it bother people on here that the person is meeting discreetly because they have a partner?
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It doesn't bother me if they have been honest to me about it, it's when they lie saying they are single when actually they are married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own I say. Nobody knows what happens behind closed doors. It's the men/woman who are unfaithful just for the sake of sex that I don't understand , if I found out my OH was on here with pictures verifications etc I'd be gutted but they their conscience not mine hey.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they are discreet we have no problems with it.
Also when we meet men I tend to prefer the slightly older guy and I find that most are in a relationship. The only things I ask is that they are upfront about it to us.
Happily meet married woman too.
The only exception we have to the rule is we don't like meeting fuck buddy couples where one or both are married to someone else. Yeah that probably makes no sense but when we meet couples we prefer couples that have been together some time or are married to each other as we just feel the dynamics work better that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny "
And this is one of the biggest problems with today's world. The self entitlement of some beggars belief. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging originated with couples. Swapping partners and sex with other couples. It has evolved to include a vast array of sexual adventures with multiple partners. Of course there must be trust and respect for that to work well.
Q: Why the fuck would anyone think that it would be ok to blatantly disregard and disrespect that level of trust?
A: People that don't understand what Swinging is. "
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"We are all grown ups, do as you wish big enough to cheat, big enough to accept the consequences
Well yeah I guess
I'm not getting into a debate about it.
I just think people should be allowed to do as they please- whatever that may be.
You are keeper of your own destiny
And this is one of the biggest problems with today's world. The self entitlement of some beggars belief. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally speaking if I knew someone was in a relationship I wouldn't meet them. I could do without the hastle if they got caught and don't fancy a angry husband banging at my door.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally speaking if I knew someone was in a relationship I wouldn't meet them. I could do without the hastle if they got caught and don't fancy a angry husband banging at my door.
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That should of said in a relationship and playing away. If there both swingers then it's fine with me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know it's NSA but I suppose I'm a bag of conscience and know there's some lady at home being deceived by a bloke, whilst she is washing his undies and cooking his tea thinking he's at work he's really balls deep in me in a travelodge. I just don't wanna be a purposeful part of that.
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Brilliantly put! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd only meet someone who had a partner as long as their partner was OK with it. I am in a happy loving open relationship and I tell her about everyone I message and meet. Each to their own and that but I prefer complete and open honesty. |
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