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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very useful people to meet. No worries about clingyness etc. Should there be an option on your account, a box to tick to look for married singles in the search tool? |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Very useful people to meet. No worries about clingyness etc. Should there be an option on your account, a box to tick to look for married singles in the search tool?"
I find the opposite. I don't meet them due, more than anything else to the drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very useful people to meet. No worries about clingyness etc. Should there be an option on your account, a box to tick to look for married singles in the search tool?
I find the opposite. I don't meet them due, more than anything else to the drama. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very useful people to meet. No worries about clingyness etc. Should there be an option on your account, a box to tick to look for married singles in the search tool?"
Bloody good call  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be up for that. Remove me from the searches of those who don't want it. It would have the benefits of the "affairs" sites in that it's easy to meet other married people, without the grimness of a site where men have to pay through the nose to message you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not this one again!
You're pulling out all the tropes this weekend.
I think it can be 'safer' for marrieds to meet each other.
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I agree, or with other like minded individuals that 'get it'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be up for that. Remove me from the searches of those who don't want it. It would have the benefits of the "affairs" sites in that it's easy to meet other married people, without the grimness of a site where men have to pay through the nose to message you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be up for that. Remove me from the searches of those who don't want it. It would have the benefits of the "affairs" sites in that it's easy to meet other married people, without the grimness of a site where men have to pay through the nose to message you. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How does it work with couples looking too meet on a single basis, with / without consent ~ tick box for that one too...."
I guess you could just tick a "married" box. Could be useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have met a few who's husband didn't know they were playing away, I think Shag might be interested in this thread though  "
I was just about to post as well and yes I would, it would be a good idea and I reckon now when the schools starts again, there will be an increase of horney ones  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have met a few who's husband didn't know they were playing away, I think Shag might be interested in this thread though "
I've met a few where their wives didn't know....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does it work with couples looking too meet on a single basis, with / without consent ~ tick box for that one too....
I guess you could just tick a "married" box. Could be useful. "
Would be very useful, would indicate their OH's were aware of the messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't want to meet a married man playing away can't be bothered with all the dramas and maybe getting caught up in a rather difficult situation . Plus would feel really sorry for the other half as I would hate it done to me. If not happy sexually or mentally leave them don't cheat. We just hope people are honest that we meet but I suppose you never know . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't want to meet a married man playing away can't be bothered with all the dramas and maybe getting caught up in a rather difficult situation . Plus would feel really sorry for the other half as I would hate it done to me. If not happy sexually or mentally leave them don't cheat. We just hope people are honest that we meet but I suppose you never know ."
You see i don't see that as my problem. That's their problem. Their guilt. Not mine. If they bring that to me then i have nothing more to do with them. Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.  "
Less chance of bunny murder!  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder! "
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook. "
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook.
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down....."
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook.
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down....."
Are the carrots for the bunnies to chomp on?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook.
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down.....
Are the carrots for the bunnies to chomp on?
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You lot are making me hungry  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook.
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down.....
Are the carrots for the bunnies to chomp on?
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It's to help them see in the dark silly...  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Less chance of bunny murder!
Exactly. I do tell them that I don't cook.
Couple of carrots, stock & lid down.....
Are the carrots for the bunnies to chomp on?
You lot are making me hungry "
We're just rabbiting on.
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"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single. "
Hilarious isn't it. Ive had a few, vanilla and swingers start 'making sure I understand its just sex' I usually tease them with "you think a lot of YOURSELF," and make them feel a bit uncomfortable, knowing I attach way less meaning to sex than they do, and i was actually calculating how little time I could get rid of them /leave without being rude, because I wanted a cup of tea.
I wouldn't knowingly meet someone who was cheating, but I wouldn't necessarily ask. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had genuinely single men tell me that they prefer to meet married women because it's clear it won't go any further than NSA.
I've been rejected for being single.
Hilarious isn't it. Ive had a few, vanilla and swingers start 'making sure I understand its just sex' I usually tease them with "you think a lot of YOURSELF," and make them feel a bit uncomfortable, knowing I attach way less meaning to sex than they do, and i was actually calculating how little time I could get rid of them /leave without being rude, because I wanted a cup of tea.
I wouldn't knowingly meet someone who was cheating, but I wouldn't necessarily ask."
I always ask permission of the female half where it's couples on here with single profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met men who were attached/married and whose partners were unaware. Looooong ago in our early days of naivety.
It's never sat right with us.
But Mrs is thinking of setting up her own profile, so what Clem is suggesting could be useful. But as with any extra feature, it may move it towards being a pay site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think drama and clingyness is based on individuality. Not marital status.
I've had plenty of drama/jealousy from single women and married women. "
Lol! Yes you have! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think drama and clingyness is based on individuality. Not marital status.
I've had plenty of drama/jealousy from single women and married women.
Lol! Yes you have! "
I've also learnt a lot from this and did some growing up myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think drama and clingyness is based on individuality. Not marital status.
I've had plenty of drama/jealousy from single women and married women.
Lol! Yes you have!
I've also learnt a lot from this and did some growing up myself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think drama and clingyness is based on individuality. Not marital status.
I've had plenty of drama/jealousy from single women and married women.
Lol! Yes you have!
I've also learnt a lot from this and did some growing up myself. "
It's all a learning curve |
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Thats not always the case.
Most not all but most are cheating because something is obviously not right at home ie not getting the love or attention they need .
So when someone shows them a bit of attention on here it kinds goes to their head then when the attention is taken away thats when things turn sour for many |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't want to meet a married man playing away can't be bothered with all the dramas and maybe getting caught up in a rather difficult situation . Plus would feel really sorry for the other half as I would hate it done to me. If not happy sexually or mentally leave them don't cheat. We just hope people are honest that we meet but I suppose you never know .
You see i don't see that as my problem. That's their problem. Their guilt. Not mine. If they bring that to me then i have nothing more to do with them. Simple."
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama "
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also there's some of us, like you clem, whom are married and playing with our partners knowing.
This scenario should be the least dramatic.
Our preference too.
Mrs SB 
Fancy a fuck clem? "
Yes of course. |
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If you want a singles profile sort it with your partner & have fun with their consent, playing with married ladies as caused me hassle since i was a teenager so now i only meet someone's wife if hubby knows.
Yes there is less hassle sometimes playing with married people but their relationship outways a quick leg over on the side.
I meet lots of ladies on here for fun with Kim's consent but if she called a halt to it all i would. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,"
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married playing away is my preference: no strings, no clingyness, no desire for anything other than a few hours or a night of smiley rudeness.
And because they're not here with their partner there's no "my partner will be there watching, vetting candidates or joining in" stuff.
Just my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder how many people would be honest though? But I can see it would work for people specifically looking for married people. I prefer single, I just don't feel right knowingly meeting a married man playing away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married playing away is my preference: no strings, no clingyness, no desire for anything other than a few hours or a night of smiley rudeness.
And because they're not here with their partner there's no "my partner will be there watching, vetting candidates or joining in" stuff.
Just my preference. "
Not all single ladies are stalkers or clingy. A lot of attached or married men prefer the same in a lady and vice Versa |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs? "
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
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Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by"
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book. "
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married.
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book. "
I said in my experience they are clingy you made the assumption I'm tarring all married men with the same brush, though a few bad experiences can make the situation of putting. You also assumed a few regular messages means I think someone's clingy, no I realise they're making conversation
I'm 3 for 3 on married guys that get Pissy with me for meeting others when I could have met them on that day, well yes I could if I'd not already got plans with someone else.
There are also other complications with married men, they're restricted when they can meet, they can't accommodate and it's easier for me to meet guys that can, they often cancel at the last minute because the Mrs as thrown them a curve ball that's all unnecessary drama is rather not deal with
I'm also not the only person to say similar on this thread either |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
I said in my experience they are clingy you made the assumption I'm tarring all married men with the same brush, though a few bad experiences can make the situation of putting. You also assumed a few regular messages means I think someone's clingy, no I realise they're making conversation
I'm 3 for 3 on married guys that get Pissy with me for meeting others when I could have met them on that day, well yes I could if I'd not already got plans with someone else.
There are also other complications with married men, they're restricted when they can meet, they can't accommodate and it's easier for me to meet guys that can, they often cancel at the last minute because the Mrs as thrown them a curve ball that's all unnecessary drama is rather not deal with
I'm also not the only person to say similar on this thread either "
correct your not and I can assure you during our discussion I meant no offence to you but going off of the tone of your last message. I may have caused you offence for that I apologise because your wiliness to discuss the subject in a adult open and honest way does you credit . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you then have to trust to tick the right box - you will mostly never know if the truth is being told or not"
You mean, they could 'pretend' they are something they are not? That's a crazy notion.
A box ticked, helps people look for what they want. It doesn't mean they will find it. Exactly as it is already. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
I said in my experience they are clingy you made the assumption I'm tarring all married men with the same brush, though a few bad experiences can make the situation of putting. You also assumed a few regular messages means I think someone's clingy, no I realise they're making conversation
I'm 3 for 3 on married guys that get Pissy with me for meeting others when I could have met them on that day, well yes I could if I'd not already got plans with someone else.
There are also other complications with married men, they're restricted when they can meet, they can't accommodate and it's easier for me to meet guys that can, they often cancel at the last minute because the Mrs as thrown them a curve ball that's all unnecessary drama is rather not deal with
I'm also not the only person to say similar on this thread either
correct your not and I can assure you during our discussion I meant no offence to you but going off of the tone of your last message. I may have caused you offence for that I apologise because your wiliness to discuss the subject in a adult open and honest way does you credit . "
I wasn't offended so no apology needed though reading it back my response was quite abrupt so I could see why you got that impression from it |
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"you then have to trust to tick the right box - you will mostly never know if the truth is being told or not
You mean, they could 'pretend' they are something they are not? That's a crazy notion.
A box ticked, helps people look for what they want. It doesn't mean they will find it. Exactly as it is already. "
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
I said in my experience they are clingy you made the assumption I'm tarring all married men with the same brush, though a few bad experiences can make the situation of putting. You also assumed a few regular messages means I think someone's clingy, no I realise they're making conversation
I'm 3 for 3 on married guys that get Pissy with me for meeting others when I could have met them on that day, well yes I could if I'd not already got plans with someone else.
There are also other complications with married men, they're restricted when they can meet, they can't accommodate and it's easier for me to meet guys that can, they often cancel at the last minute because the Mrs as thrown them a curve ball that's all unnecessary drama is rather not deal with
I'm also not the only person to say similar on this thread either
correct your not and I can assure you during our discussion I meant no offence to you but going off of the tone of your last message. I may have caused you offence for that I apologise because your wiliness to discuss the subject in a adult open and honest way does you credit .
I wasn't offended so no apology needed though reading it back my response was quite abrupt so I could see why you got that impression from it "
that's a relief as the last thing I wanted to do was cause you any offence like I said I enjoyed the discussion thanks |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol. "
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If someone contacts me and during the conversation they ask if I'm married, my honest answer is yes but separated and live alone.
In some cases the enquirer ends the conversation there and then, that's fair enough and not a problem for me. It's their prerogative.
In some cases the enquirer accepts the fact and only wants to continue as chat on here. Again, fair enough.
Otherwise, folks have said they're happy to continue and we progress things from there.
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Wouldn't want to meet a married man playing away can't be bothered with all the dramas and maybe getting caught up in a rather difficult situation . Plus would feel really sorry for the other half as I would hate it done to me. If not happy sexually or mentally leave them don't cheat. We just hope people are honest that we meet but I suppose you never know ."
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I state on my profile that am married as there is no box to tick, if people message me I explain the circumstances ( yes my hubby does know that I play away but not details as he doesn't want to know that part, he allows me my freedom in the knowledge that I come back to him and his life stays the same, he is older than me by 12 years and due to is trying for a baby for a long time our sex life fizzled out to nothing - plus he is super vanilla - obviously more complicated than that) I'd rather be honest with people so they don't get expectations. I don't want emotional attachments but I don't just want fuck and goes either - FWB is good for me. |
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Just cos someone is married doesn't mean it's all chocolates and roses at home.
Married maybe...
Happy and loving; probably not.
Tied into a mortgage or family; more than likely
Obviously there are those that do go out screwing people like their husbands friends or work colleagues and come home after to the loving partner that is blissfully unaware..
Then that is a kick in the bollox.
Does it make either one better than the other? Probably not is the answer...
Some may see it as tit for tat and they are perfectly entitled to their opinion, but I can assure them it's not the case..It's not about revenge but about fulfilling your own desires.
It does sometimes seem the married people on these sites seek each other out.. It's almost like a former of social leprosy.
Just saying from experience.. |
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over a year ago
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"I state on my profile that am married as there is no box to tick, if people message me I explain the circumstances ( yes my hubby does know that I play away but not details as he doesn't want to know that part, he allows me my freedom in the knowledge that I come back to him and his life stays the same, he is older than me by 12 years and due to is trying for a baby for a long time our sex life fizzled out to nothing - plus he is super vanilla - obviously more complicated than that) I'd rather be honest with people so they don't get expectations. I don't want emotional attachments but I don't just want fuck and goes either - FWB is good for me. "
Similar situation to me. We played as a couple but he hated it and he told me to create my own profile. All the people I have met know my predicament and accept it. It's not always black and white! |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?"
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol. |
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over a year ago
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol."
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
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over a year ago
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising "
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ? |
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"you then have to trust to tick the right box - you will mostly never know if the truth is being told or not
You mean, they could 'pretend' they are something they are not? That's a crazy notion.
A box ticked, helps people look for what they want. It doesn't mean they will find it. Exactly as it is already.
thats my point so its a waste "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a married man, finding a married woman is ideal for the mutual discretion that you are looking for. It also makes for a better understanding of your needs and back story.
I'd definitely go for a tick box |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find married men easier to communicate with and make arrangements with. Less game playing and BS too. Because of their circumstances they understand the need to plan ahead and use a diary. We've had a lot of trouble with single guys who don't want to plan a meet weeks in advance, (which I understand as I was single and child free once). The flip side is that married men can be quite restrictive with what they can offer, especially with weekend play, and I don't like the clock-watching. They can be less good at controlling their emotions compared to single men who've chosen to be single as a lifestyle choice. I'm generalising of course, but that's our experience. |
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I'm married, I have a boyfriend, and i'm on here, what does that make me?!
But like some have said already, it's never as simple as that. Me and my husband split a year ago, we're just not divorced (yet). My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for about 8 months. We've played together, had a joint profile, I've played alone... Every combination possible.
My experience of being with married men, is that they get too attached. They see it as an "affair", and get pissed off when I can't fit in with them because their availability is so limited. They expect to be my first port of call. The clingyness is a turn off for me... If I wanted an actual relationship with someone, it wouldn't be with someone already taken. Fucking is fine, but never more. Like someone said already, if there's any guilt involved it's on their side not mine. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"We find married men easier to communicate with and make arrangements with. Less game playing and BS too. Because of their circumstances they understand the need to plan ahead and use a diary. We've had a lot of trouble with single guys who don't want to plan a meet weeks in advance, (which I understand as I was single and child free once). The flip side is that married men can be quite restrictive with what they can offer, especially with weekend play, and I don't like the clock-watching. They can be less good at controlling their emotions compared to single men who've chosen to be single as a lifestyle choice. I'm generalising of course, but that's our experience. "
I agree with everything you say here.on the whole I find single people more selfish if I'm honest more self centred when it comes to meets and in general harder to stay friends with over a long period of time than married people who seem on the whole to be slightly more mature in there life out look and in their behaviour towards their play partners .
but again that's my experience based on playing with women not men and as we all know their are some differences between the sexes attitudes on the whole when it comes to play partners . |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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It would work for both, those looking for those married, also for those who choose to avoid them.
Those not bothered either way, could just ignore that filter/box when searching.
Of course, you would need for people to be honest for it to work.
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ? "
No i am going by my own escapades & what women have told me, you ask me to explain why i thought what i did & I did.
I am not talking for every married guy on here only giving one side & i ain't saying single guys are the opposite to married guys you are so stop being rude & offensive & stick the subject of the thread "Married"
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ?
No i am going by my own escapades & what women have told me, you ask me to explain why i thought what i did & I did.
I am not talking for every married guy on here only giving one side & i ain't saying single guys are the opposite to married guys you are so stop being rude & offensive & stick the subject of the thread "Married"
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Sorry I'm not being rude at all. You stated being married made you more unrestanding and less like a sex pest (in other words) maybe you shouldn't of generalised it. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ?
No i am going by my own escapades & what women have told me, you ask me to explain why i thought what i did & I did.
I am not talking for every married guy on here only giving one side & i ain't saying single guys are the opposite to married guys you are so stop being rude & offensive & stick the subject of the thread "Married"
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Sorry I'm not being rude at all. You stated being married made you more unrestanding and less like a sex pest (in other words) maybe you shouldn't of generalised it.
How am I saying married men are different? I was disagreeing with your comment saying they were more understanding. Also I can't see how I've been offensive. If I have I'd love to know how? I found your post Patronising and was challenging you on that. |
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ?
No i am going by my own escapades & what women have told me, you ask me to explain why i thought what i did & I did.
I am not talking for every married guy on here only giving one side & i ain't saying single guys are the opposite to married guys you are so stop being rude & offensive & stick the subject of the thread "Married"
Sorry I'm not being rude at all. You stated being married made you more unrestanding and less like a sex pest (in other words) maybe you shouldn't of generalised it.
How am I saying married men are different? I was disagreeing with your comment saying they were more understanding. Also I can't see how I've been offensive. If I have I'd love to know how? I found your post Patronising and was challenging you on that. "
And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
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"My experience is the opposite, exceptionally clingy and not worth the drama
I'm very surprised by that as the only little bit of drama I have ever had was from a single fern years ago.
on fet socials most of the drama I here about is all from single people .
but hay experiences differ from people to people ,
Why so surprised, Married men generally get a rough ride on here, so is it really hard to believe that when they find someone willing to meet them they try to hold onto them at all costs?
yes because every married fern I've ever played with was just looking to supplement her life and escape from reality for a evening here and there.
I've never meet a married fern who wanted out of her marriage I find people who are truly unhappy with a relationship end that relationship if its as bad as to make them look for love and attention elsewhere.
but like I said everyone's experiences are different .
Married women don't get as hard of a time on here, so it would stand to reason they wouldnt care as much if someone didn't want to meet them again, afterall their next meet would be easier to come by
makes sense but your assuming all married guys are desperate don't have a few play partners on the go and there for are going to become clingy because they are incapable of replacing a woman who doesn't treat them in the way they treat her .
I regularly message my play partners once a day or every other day keeping in touch. I don't pressure for meets but in general I don't need to as we have a on going arrangement when we meet .
the messaging every day or every other day is all part of keeping the friendship alive it has nothing to do with being clingy .
I have male friends who message me and I message them around three to four times a week just idol chit chat about the footy or work and a regular sex friend is no different in my book.
Your right here mate just because a guy is married he is no different in meets to a woman, i meet more women than most single guys on here mainly because i am married
Yes i know I'm used but I'll suffer lol.
You meet more woman than single men because your married. Sorry but that's bollocks. How are you working that out ? Did you do a survey? Or is it your opinion ?
Most single ladies know what they want so find married guys (with their wifes consent) easier to make friends with as they dont want a relationship just friendship & sex.
Being married a guy is used to being around a woman & is not arkward in their mannerisms when talking befriending or getting down to the nitty gritty, also they are not over eager in their sexual demands & chomping at the bit to get a leg over as they can take it or leave it.
Ladies I've met on here have stayed good friends & we meet up when it suits either person as its usually for sex with no complications as afterall we are here for swinging...most anyway lol.
I think i meet ladies because I'm married & a safe bet to them but I could be wrong & it could be my magnetic charm as i don't have much money lol.
Sorry but you say 'being a married man makes you more understanding of woman , that's another load of bollocks!
And patronising
Your putting single men into a box as being crap in bed and awkward around woman and because your married you have the upper hand ?
No i am going by my own escapades & what women have told me, you ask me to explain why i thought what i did & I did.
I am not talking for every married guy on here only giving one side & i ain't saying single guys are the opposite to married guys you are so stop being rude & offensive & stick the subject of the thread "Married"
Sorry I'm not being rude at all. You stated being married made you more unrestanding and less like a sex pest (in other words) maybe you shouldn't of generalised it.
How am I saying married men are different? I was disagreeing with your comment saying they were more understanding. Also I can't see how I've been offensive. If I have I'd love to know how? I found your post Patronising and was challenging you on that.
And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
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So in your opinion married men are more used to woman and how they work just because they are married? So single men are less experienced ? |
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
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I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is |
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is "
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"If I m reading this right the claim is married men understand women better than single ? What utter tosh "
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I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is "
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
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Sorry but your twisting it I don't have hangups with married men atall! Or woman! Where have I once said that? What I do have a problem with I you saying married men understand woman more than single men.
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
I think it applies to the one claim generalisation or claims without foundation don't go down well on here "
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"Not this one again!
You're pulling out all the tropes this weekend.
I think it can be 'safer' for marrieds to meet each other.
I agree, or with other like minded individuals that 'get it'."
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"I'd be up for that. Remove me from the searches of those who don't want it. It would have the benefits of the "affairs" sites in that it's easy to meet other married people, without the grimness of a site where men have to pay through the nose to message you. "
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
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Merely an observation
And I don't have hang ups I shag one that plays with his mrs' permission quite regularly
I just don't shad the ones that aren't as its doesn't suit my needs to |
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And I found your post equally patronising that you thought married men arn't more used to women & their mannerisms, the forums are for discussion & _iews usually clash.
I think your discussion is evidence that married men clearly are act silly none the wiser in regards to understanding women than the next bloke is
You seem to have tunnel vision in your way of understanding others & are twisting whatever i say so you can be heard louder on this thread...bless if i had known you had such hang ups on married guys i wouldn't have said anything
Merely an observation
And I don't have hang ups I shag one that plays with his mrs' permission quite regularly
I just don't shad the ones that aren't as its doesn't suit my needs to "
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"Being a married man, finding a married woman is ideal for the mutual discretion that you are looking for. It also makes for a better understanding of your needs and back story.
I'd definitely go for a tick box"
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"makes no difference to me apart from segregating married men i can and cant ( according to someone else) meet..
nonsense...
the voice of wisdom strikes once again "
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