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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?
As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!
Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.
So what are your opinions/preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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same as you, a normal message really.
gets really boring being approached like i'm a definite fuck and all they have to do is ask when i'm free and send me a pic of thier dick.
i have dildos and sex toys, i want something more than a penis for sex, although i do want a penis obviously, a fairly big one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.
A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well
Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here
Dax |
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For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx"
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx"
You sir are genius ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?"
You would but I can't message you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
You sir are genius "
Not a genius (well a bit maybe) just like to find different ways to attract attention and get a response .
Doesn't always work but sometimes....and it's fun.
I try to use different messages of a similar ilk.
Give it a try, worse that can happen "MESSAGE DELETED" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well
Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here
Dax "
Thanks
With all the dick picw flying about ive ditched the teflon and donned my kevlar ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?"
i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great. |
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"Manners and respect go a long way with anyone and with the face pic you have up I should imagine you will do quite well
Dont take being ignored personally and a teflon coat to not let the negatives stick and you will be just fine on here
Dax
Thanks
With all the dick picw flying about ive ditched the teflon and donned my kevlar "
Wow....full protection then...my kevlar only comes out when I'm on the motorbike lol
Also worth looking into clubs and socials too. Get yourself out there and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?
i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great."
The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's
It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?
i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great.
The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's
It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?'"
actually yeah if i do fancy the guy i say thanks. not really fancied anyone for ages though. ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send well worded profile tailored messages, don't always work mind but there ya go.
I don't like receiving messages that say:-
Meet now
nice pics
suck now
hi
wanna meet
asl (yes I've had these too)
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just a little tip.... short messages like "hi, how are you?" Can be read without even opening the message so often stay "unread"
If you want someone to open the message and then most likely check out your profile you need to say something interesting in the very first line!
I don't answer messages that come across as "ok I've hit send message, now I expect you to make conversation with me"
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.
A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either "
This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a little tip.... short messages like "hi, how are you?" Can be read without even opening the message so often stay "unread"
If you want someone to open the message and then most likely check out your profile you need to say something interesting in the very first line!
I don't answer messages that come across as "ok I've hit send message, now I expect you to make conversation with me"
Mrs x"
Id like to give you a little tip Mrs... lol xx |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"For example
Hi
Sometimes on here you see an attractive lady and she generally falls into one of three categories
1) wow!
2) fucking hell wow!
3) pass me the tissues....
You are number 4) shit need more tissues.....
You are amazing xx
Haha why don't I get these as copy and paste messages ?
i do get wow, stunning, etc, there's not really anything to reply to so these messages aren't great.
The usual reply is either 'thanks' then a conversation can develop or often it's 'funniest thing Ive had" "lol" or 'thats a different opening message's
It's just better, in my opinion, than 'hi', 'how you doing?' or 'fancy a shag?'"
Haha don't get FAF messages much...
I like people with a sense of humour, and see it all as a bit of fun and banter... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually seldom receive rude first messages! Maybe my profile scares them!
Generally they are...'love your profile and pics'...which I don't mind them saying |
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"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.
A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either
This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one? "
Yes have more than one face picture. Maybe smile |
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"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?
As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!
Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.
So what are your opinions/preferences? "
I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.
A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either
This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one? "
If you have face pics I can see on your profile, then no, I wouldn't expect you to send me one. Others might though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A face pic attached to their first message is a must for me.
A normal message is good, not one that asks me to come suck their cock and not one that just says nice tits either
This is going to sound like a silly question. Bit I'll ask anyway. My profile pic is my face. So do I still need to send one?
Yes have more than one face picture. Maybe smile "
Yeah as I can see your smile from here lol
I do have a couple where I'm smiling. I did say it was a silly question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?
As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!
Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.
So what are your opinions/preferences?
I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.
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Yeah thats because i got fed up of the endless tirade of dick pics ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"So what are peoples preferences for sending and recieving first messages?
As a bi guy i was looking for guys to but ended up getting fed up with recieving endless dick pics!
Personally i just prefer a normal hi message but that can be boring.
So what are your opinions/preferences?
I would have demonstrated, OP, but despite the fact that you're 'looking for guys' you've blocked all men.
Yeah thats because i got fed up of the endless tirade of dick pics "
Nahh.
That's not the way to do it ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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