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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who does this? I can't believe you can connect with somebody so much, and say the right words over text, and turn each other on. my beliefs have recently been blown away.
Does anyone else use this to 'relieve' themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would only do this if planning to meet them, otherwise, it's a pointless waste of time."
I quite agree. Otherwise I can just see things going round in circles. I need a target or a Finish line. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."
Yes. Physical attraction that's then penetrates the mind. |
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"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't do it to 'relieve' myself but as a way of keeping a long distance relationship alive between meet ups...
there has to be that connection though..
Otherwise it's just chat isn't it? |
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It's the nightmare scenario for me, when someone seems to want an in person meeting but actually wants dirty talk/pics.
O had enough of it at sixth form to last a lifetime so it's got nil interest for me with a stranger |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."
Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text.
Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection... "
Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet |
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Mr mcduck and I do this all the time, usually if he's at work on nights and I'm all tucked up in bed, it's super horny and quite a tease, although it's perhaps a little different for us as we are together Mrs blue eyes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection...
Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet "
Or hoping it would then turn a potential, into a definite meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexting?! Can you not see my halo from there? I don't do such filthy things "
*Snort laugh*....jeez stop making me do that...!! Am trying to look sexy over here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead."
If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It works between Mrs N and myself. Probably because we know what buttons to press. It's never worked with randoms, usually end up giggling our asses off instead.
If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles. "
It's not even as cool as that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If only they knew you were halfway through Game Of Thrones say eating your bowl of super noodles.
It's not even as cool as that "
Not re-runs of pUnky BreWSter? Haha. Sorry taking this somewhere else.
Both sides of the text have to be really involved to make it work. |
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If the chemistry is strong I get turned on as soon as we connect, from the first 'Hello' lol! I occasionally indulge but most of the time I try to avoid it - I have enough trouble with sexual tension as it is!! |
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"Not everyone can get it right but there have been certain people I've done this with who are on the same wavelength and say the right things and it does have the desired effect. I think it's also a lot to do with the connection you have with someone. If that's right then they can turn me on with text.
Pretty much this,but not solely for relief, the mind is a turn on itself when as you've said there is a connection...
Oh no. Not normally as a relief...although that may be the outcome....mostly it's part of the build up to a fantastic meet "
Would only do it with people i have with repeat meets though as we would know eachother well enough by then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun.
I think it's supposed to be indecent hun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun. "
It can be a chuckle if its just a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it to relieve myself but it's good for a bit of teasing. I have a decent way with words so it can be good fun.
It can be a chuckle if its just a bit of fun "
It's a lot of fun with some |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Who does this? I can't believe you can connect with somebody so much, and say the right words over text, and turn each other on. my beliefs have recently been blown away.
Does anyone else use this to 'relieve' themselves? "
I will engage in this with the right person.
for me its not about relieve because I rarely masturbate ,masturbation is not my thing.
I view it as a poor substitute compared to the real thing and for that reason I rarely engage in it.
for me its about three things anticipation keeping things going and interesting in between meets and power.
anticipation speaks for its self a good bit of teasing chat before a play meet can enhance the meet.
in between meets it can be used to keep up the interest from both parties .
but my real reason for doing it is this.
the power one feels when one knows their words alone are turning another on fits with my sexuality big time .
the written word has power the person using the written word to express desire can use that power to turn another on and then get a kick out of knowing that.
for this reason I have in the past indulged ferns who never meet but use the dynamic of the written word to enhance their sex life .
you see by knowing they are getting off on my sexually that I have expressed in words can give me a small adrenalin boost and a feeling of power because I no my sexuality is turning them on so to me its worth it on occasions to indulge in this sort of play.
no where as big of a adrenalin boost or a feeling of power that a regular play meet with a fern gives me but still a small boost enough to make it worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"....worth while to me with the right fern of coarse.
Fern? Hehe, that made me giggle.....
Tree huggers eh ?
I was thinking of Charles talking to his plants...... "
Good lord no! . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't do it to 'relieve' myself but as a way of keeping a long distance relationship alive between meet ups...
there has to be that connection though..
Otherwise it's just chat isn't it? "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it, with someone I know but see all too rarely. You soon come up against the limitations of language though...! And it help to be ambidextrous. More Whatsapp now, texts are only used by Dominoes pizzas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only if I know them.
I'm not getting to see one of my favourite people - he's not on here...! - as often as we'd both like at the minute, so we write some erotic prose for each other every few days and email them back and forth. |
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