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What body type do you prefer?

By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

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Just not to big. I want to be able to flip a woman easily to the next postion

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

Just not to big. I want to be able to flip a woman easily to the next postion

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

Your body type or similar

As long as the guy is in reasonable shape I don't really mind.

I'm very petite so an overweight guy just wouldn't work for me.

ive been with a couple of very well built guys who work out and they've told me they prefer women who have a more "normal" body type. There is little room for two people who are obsessed with their physiques!!!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

I would find you intimidating OP because ur ripped.

And that's not an Insult in anyway Id feel wobbly and wanna hide myself rather than get naked lol

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

like natural guys, who are comfortable in themselves, who are reasonably active and i find attractive in so many more ways than their body..but then i am not looking for a one off fuck..i find that as meaningless as huge biceps.x

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"A guy can't win

Oh, I dunno... you'll do.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yours!

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally I am less likely to be attracted to very skinny or very overweight people. I do find gym fit attractive but not over muscular body builder types.

Though I would be surprised if a super fit chap was attracted to me, I am comfortable in my own body.

Nita

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"I would find you intimidating OP because ur ripped.

And that's not an Insult in anyway Id feel wobbly and wanna hide myself rather than get naked lol "

That's exactly what I've been told a few times now, you have a fantastic figure by the looks of your pics, certainly no need to hide it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically"

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Someone manly who can throw me around, pin me to walls and such

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whichever type I've got hold of at the time!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not too thin I'm scared I'd squash them and not too fat so I can see what I'm trying to ride.

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Yours!"

well if you're ever in Birmingham

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I would find you intimidating OP because ur ripped.

And that's not an Insult in anyway Id feel wobbly and wanna hide myself rather than get naked lol

That's exactly what I've been told a few times now, you have a fantastic figure by the looks of your pics, certainly no need to hide it!

Thank u

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

You've got a good body. And we'll done on overcoming anorexia, that must have been tough xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*well, not we'll

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

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so that isnt compensating for a psychological problem then?

so you've actually proved my point...thanks..

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

It's more attitude than muscles.....if a bloke is gonna spend the whole meet admiring himself then that's more of a turn off. I've met ripped guys who are lovely and down to earth, I think that's where a social comes into it, if they're looking around to see who's looking at them then it's a no. If they spend the hour or so looking at you then you know they're not up their own arse.

Muscles don't make the man, it's what's inside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the bodies that are attached to the people I like.

All sorts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like curvey women,with a lovely squidgy bum

,,,,,me im just a guy, who cant be arsed to go to the gym,may be abit to podgy for some, but ive had women that love my body so im more than happy with that

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

My other half has a toned body, a six pack and Adonis Belt without even trying. Also has gorgeous skin and no wrinkles. He looks like Jason Statham and is health conscious.

I like his body and fit bodies in general. Op I think your body looks like a work of art, gorgeous, you've obviously worked hard at it but it does absolutely nothing for me sexually. It's like admiring a beautiful woman: I'm straight not blind. Can appreciate and admire without desire.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too self conscious about my own body to get naked with a body like the OP's. I'm all wobbly and jiggly... I couldn't be less firm & toned if I tried. I'm already very aware of my lumps & bumps, being next to someone so toned would only make me feel worse. My problem, not yours.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I like curvey women,with a lovely squidgy bum

,,,,,me im just a guy, who cant be arsed to go to the gym,may be abit to podgy for some, but ive had women that love my body so im more than happy with that

Cough cough

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Maybe it's because men tend to be more visually stimulated than women?

I also use pof and tinder and I find on there women will say things like

"If you've got half naked pics or gym selfies you're obviously self obsessed so jog on"

Ironic when there profile has a picture of them wearing dental floss with the caption

"No carbs before Marbs"

Followed by four pics of their bloody eyebrows which were apparently

"On fleek"

Whatever the fuck that means.

I'm proud of my body but if I was on a meet/date whatever you want to call it my attention would be solely focused on who I'm with.

Personality is paramount, if it comes in a nice sexy body too then that's a nice bonus

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

Your body is more the type Iike

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

A lot of women on here have low self-esteem issues. I would encourage them to meet ripped guys - the other side of the coin for them would be how good it feels to have someone really ripped actually desire you, and come back for more repeatedly!! In the end they might accept that many men find soft, curvy, feminine bodies as desirable as we find firm, masculine, muscular ones lol!!

I went on dating sites and had a total of 3 (sexually pathetic) meets with middle aged men in 2 years...... until I feared never having good sex again and finally gave in to one of the gorgeous twenty-somethings that was always pestering me!

After 25 years 'off the market' I was killing myself laughing that I was bedding exactly the same guys as I was before I married!! Sorry but I LIKE seeing a six pack between my thighs sometimes!

I never questioned it again - I don't chase men, so if someone ripped comes after me I just accept they want me, wobbly bits n'all. Quelle domage!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Healthy people, moderate exercise and diet shows.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

After 25 years 'off the market' I was killing myself laughing that I was bedding exactly the same guys as I was before I married!! Sorry but I LIKE seeing a six pack between my thighs sometimes!

I never questioned it again - I don't chase men, so if someone ripped comes after me I just accept they want me, wobbly bits n'all. Quelle domage!!!

My kind of gal!!!

Exactly how I view it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like curvey women,with a lovely squidgy bum

,,,,,me im just a guy, who cant be arsed to go to the gym,may be abit to podgy for some, but ive had women that love my body so im more than happy with that

Cough cough

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

After 25 years 'off the market' I was killing myself laughing that I was bedding exactly the same guys as I was before I married!! Sorry but I LIKE seeing a six pack between my thighs sometimes!

I never questioned it again - I don't chase men, so if someone ripped comes after me I just accept they want me, wobbly bits n'all. Quelle domage!!!

Great post.

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

After 25 years 'off the market' I was killing myself laughing that I was bedding exactly the same guys as I was before I married!! Sorry but I LIKE seeing a six pack between my thighs sometimes!

I never questioned it again - I don't chase men, so if someone ripped comes after me I just accept they want me, wobbly bits n'all. Quelle domage!!!

Fantastic point! Women say they'd be too self conscious to get naked with someone who's ripped but if it was they guy who made initial contact then they obviously find that woman desirable.

It doesn't mean she needs to be a gym addict too, nor should it conjure up any unrealistic expectations of pornstar style sexual marathons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

Similar thoughts...women obsessed with their body are rarely relaxed enough for good sex IMHE.

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By *atie ShayTV/TS over a year ago

Here's one for you!

I love gym fit women, especially muscular olympian types such as Paige Hathaway... WOW!!!

Can't stand big muscles on a bloke though! Op - you have a cracking body but that's about as big as id go. I like a healthy bloke but definitely not gorillas lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

I don't bother messaging or replying to messages from any men's profiles which use the words "curves in all the right places", because we all know that means thin with big boobs and arse, and if you have a hint of stomach then get to fuck.

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Here's one for you!

I love gym fit women, especially muscular olympian types such as Paige Hathaway... WOW!!!

Can't stand big muscles on a bloke though! Op - you have a cracking body but that's about as big as id go. I like a healthy bloke but definitely not gorillas lol "

Paige Hathaway, hell yes.

I do love gym fit women but that doesn't mean that's all I like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

Didn't you just prove her right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like people with a fit and healthy psyche.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer ripped guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A guy can't win

Oh, I dunno... you'll do.

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pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

Didn't you just prove her right? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

I get what your saying and yes curves in the right places is probably the wrong way of putting it, I honestly don't mind a bit of a stomach. As I've said if I've made the initial approach then I'm most likely aware of the woman's shape and size and obviously like what I've seen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

Really? What a load of shit. o-£

Some people like to work out simply for the enjoyment of it. Or some, in my case, work out due to overcoming Anorexia

But keeping people into categories

Didn't you just prove her right? "

yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like people with a fit and healthy psyche."
yep works for me too the minds a beautiful place to start

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"I prefer ripped guys.

Hi there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like people with a fit and healthy psyche."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy, simple as!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a bit of muscle with a good layer of flesh over it,especially with a plump,round bum. I don't like the feel of tight muscles with skin over,or the veiny look under taut skin; it makes a face look drawn and tired.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Yeah I get what you mean - but I also ignore anything from anyone who bangs on about looking for milfs or BBWs or small women. If its enough of a preference to be bothering to write it on a profile or message and it's not what I am, then it makes you instantly feel like you're just being messaged because they're desperate. I don't want to be the "might give a chubby lass a try because the gym bunnies are all busy" person.

As for the original question and body types I like, I tend to prefer fit men whose bodies are the result of sport or manual work rather than gym sculpting. It's a different kind of muscle look. But aside from the extremes of very over or underweight, bodies aren't my number one priority in whether I fancy a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi sexy people, obviously everyone has their preferences but is there a particular body type that really gets you going or really puts you off?

Personally I like most body types but would draw the line at bbw, I obviously would love slim and toned but I love a woman with curves in the right places too.

I only ask as I work hard on my physique and have found a few women who have said they wouldn't meet as it would make them self conscious of their own body.

A guy can't win

After 25 years 'off the market' I was killing myself laughing that I was bedding exactly the same guys as I was before I married!! Sorry but I LIKE seeing a six pack between my thighs sometimes!

I never questioned it again - I don't chase men, so if someone ripped comes after me I just accept they want me, wobbly bits n'all. Quelle domage!!!

Fantastic point! Women say they'd be too self conscious to get naked with someone who's ripped but if it was they guy who made initial contact then they obviously find that woman desirable.

It doesn't mean she needs to be a gym addict too, nor should it conjure up any unrealistic expectations of pornstar style sexual marathons.

I don't feel self-conscious with them,and I've had a few. I found that most weren't passionate and banged away,like they were using me as a workout; with a few exceptions of a couple of younger Marines,who were sensual and passionate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours. "

That is far from what most men mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like very tall and chubby men. that's my initial preference.

after that idk what i like until i see it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A nice man is a nice man regardless of body type...and I just like nice men so... I only have a preference for guys that are or appear to be at least a bit younger than me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as they have a pulse...................

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would find you intimidating OP because ur ripped.

And that's not an Insult in anyway Id feel wobbly and wanna hide myself rather than get naked lol "
you would be fine with me lol.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I like people with a fit and healthy psyche."

Haha, you might be in the wrong place here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean. "

I'm lucky I'm not most men then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours. "

I think you're in the minority there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours. "

Your opinion is valid but she's right,men who want curves in all the right places aren't talking about a fat stomach.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

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"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean. "

You think?? I think most men have someone just like Ruby in mind when they say 'curvy' women!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Another self obsessed , look at me thread .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just someone who doesnt insist on needing a mirror every ten mins will do

Personality

'Draw the line at bbw'?

Surprised you've not been lynched

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another self obsessed , look at me thread ..... "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a rugby player build, yummy! Guys with gym bodies although gorgeous to look at, I'd find it hard to relax with as I'm big,the dreaded F word, lol. And at the back of my mind be wondering what they were there with me (yes I know everyone likes something different).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean.

You think?? I think most men have someone just like Ruby in mind when they say 'curvy' women!"

Not just the men!

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Someone manly who can throw me around, pin me to walls and such

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to think my body is reconditioned bomb site

still a work in progress and thanks to All the local restaurants whose food & wine have helped me create this pleasure haven for the discerning lady. Tickets now being sold for all the main visitor attractions!!! Want to ride the big one?? ( I wish... Ok want to ride the only one Ive got so it will have to do??) Apply within!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean.

You think?? I think most men have someone just like Ruby in mind when they say 'curvy' women!"

I think "curvy" is different from "curves in all the right places"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another self obsessed , look at me thread ..... "

Another unneeded negative comment....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another self obsessed , look at me thread .....

Another unneeded negative comment...."

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By *BWcpl49Couple over a year ago

Reading

I never judge anyone on how they look I personally prefer younger slimmer guys but I never judge a book by its cover beauty is in the eye of the beholder I've always struggled with my weight over the years mainly due to having type 1 diabetes and daily insulin injections which doesn't help when your trying to loose weight

I know I could do a lot better than I do but in my case every day is a struggle

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By *BWcpl49Couple over a year ago

Reading

"I never judge anyone on how they look I personally prefer younger slimmer guys but I never judge a book by its cover beauty is in the eye of the beholder I've always struggled with my weight over the years mainly due to having type 1 diabetes and daily insulin injections which doesn't help when your trying to loose weight

I know I could do a lot better than I do but in my case every day is a struggle

PS I see a lot of women classed as SBBW and I just think to myself you are a classic case of type 2 diabetes

stop what your doing now ! you can reverse type 2 diabetes in my case you cant reverse type 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love big built guys, not fat just big solid built, prefer the more power lifter/strong man build to muscular guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just someone who doesnt insist on needing a mirror every ten mins will do

Personality

'Draw the line at bbw'?

Surprised you've not been lynched

Not everyone finds fat attractive and some assume fat people are lazy and do nothing all day but stuff their faces and watch Jeremy Kyle.

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Another self obsessed , look at me thread ..... "

Hahaha just wanted to add that to get some attention for yourself did you?

Did you bother to read any of the thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone who is a different body type to me. Bony bits bashing together isn't nice!

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By *uicyJay1Man over a year ago

Manchester

Me like the sexy milf!!

personality is key for meeee

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer 'average' body types, not overweight or too slim. Although if I'm attracted to someone I'd be quite pleased if they were 'gym fit'

Either way as long as they can throw me around a bit it's all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who is a different body type to me. Bony bits bashing together isn't nice! "

I say that about fat men

Clash of the bellies just don't work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My (mr) general preference is petite to medium build women so generalising at sizes 8 to 12/14 and under 5ft 8. Larger women really don't do it for me.

But decent teeth and hands are important.

Mrs likes what she calls 'normal' guys neither skinny nor muscle bound. Toned is fine but a stomach is good, not a large belly though. Broad is a good description. Dark hair. No beards and again good teeth.

She likes her women feminine and not on the bigger size.

Personally I would like a body similar to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size 12/16 with curves and around 5,5 in height, a "go large" version of Betty boop would be perfect!.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Men - I tend to be attracted to slim/average/meduim build.

Ladies - It varies. I've been attracted to a variety of sizes/shapes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My own preference is for a guy around 5'10 to 6ft around 14-15 stone. I prefer slightly overweight to skinny guys and muscular ripped is great. I don't want to meet a guy who's belly is so great I can't find his cock..no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies I prefer same build as me, quite busty and good curves...around size 12

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Another self obsessed , look at me thread ..... "

Well the op can do a look at me thread any day of the week as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like my girls pinup style, big butt, smaller waist, like me but with bigger tits

Guys, I like dad bods but also gym bods as long as they aren't too defined

Gotta be absolutely gorgeous tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Muscular and gym-fit. It's all about the huge chest and arms or me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The head and what's inside the thing,

Or should I say what's not haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone who is a different body type to me. Bony bits bashing together isn't nice! "

I'm distinctly lacking in bony bits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One with a brain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean.

You think?? I think most men have someone just like Ruby in mind when they say 'curvy' women!

I think "curvy" is different from "curves in all the right places""

Fair enough. I think it's semantics and I fail to see how any man with blood running through their veins instead of piss wouldn't find a body shape like yours magnetic. Tbh you'd look odd if your lovely round belly didn't match your lovely round arse and your lovely round tits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy/bbw beauty at its purest

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

Your so spot on there's a big difference between staying healthy through physical exercise and trying to modify your body for no other reason that to impress others .

One is about you and your life the other is about how others view you which is a pointless exercise for the simple reason you can't please everyone there fore its best to only please yourself and let others make their mind up based off of that .

This post let's be honest here smacks of look at me in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like tall, muscular, strong men

--Red

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curvy/bbw beauty at its purest

Hang on I'm on my way

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By *workout OP Man over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

Your so spot on there's a big difference between staying healthy through physical exercise and trying to modify your body for no other reason that to impress others .

This post let's be honest here smacks of look at me in my opinion .

To be honest I train for my own benefit not to please others, I've been doing it for years and there's no way I'd have put that much time and effort into training techniques and diet purely for the sake of getting laid.

And it's obviously a look at me thread for fuck sake, I'm asking why women would chat to me, agree to meet then bottle it due to my body.

A bit hard to get feedback on that if if I don't get people to look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love big built guys, not fat just big solid built, prefer the more power lifter/strong man build to muscular guys"

Gutted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

Your so spot on there's a big difference between staying healthy through physical exercise and trying to modify your body for no other reason that to impress others .

This post let's be honest here smacks of look at me in my opinion .

And it's obviously a look at me thread for fuck sake, I'm asking why women would chat to me, agree to meet then bottle it due to my body.

A bit hard to get feedback on that if if I don't get people to look."

I think so long as your happy with how you look other people's opinions don't matter

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By *arrasicMan over a year ago

birmingham

But there no women to mach you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One with a brain

Got my attention. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like tall, muscular, strong men

--Red"

I should add, a man that can make me laugh is a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The types of bodies that get me going are attached to women I like.

The types of bodies that put me off are attached to those I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like people with a fit and healthy psyche.

Haha, you might be in the wrong place here!

We're not renewing our membership when it expires in 3 days

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Yours!

well if you're ever in Birmingham

So let me get this straight, you have just been contacted by a beautiful woman who quite possibly wants to party or at least chat. She's not exactly a million miles away and your response is basically "If you want it you'll have to come and get it"

Is this because you have

A. A high opinion of yourself because you are ripped..

B. No time to travel cos you can't miss out on the gym.

C. You're just plain stupid.

D. You don't own a car because the gym is just a short walk away.

Just an idle lighthearted observation, nothing meant to be insulting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One with a brain

Oh hi

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"dont like ripped guys, they are usually trying to compensate for something else psychologically

dont like overweight guys, i cant get on top easily and i like eye contact when giving oral

Your so spot on there's a big difference between staying healthy through physical exercise and trying to modify your body for no other reason that to impress others .

This post let's be honest here smacks of look at me in my opinion .

And it's obviously a look at me thread for fuck sake, I'm asking why women would chat to me, agree to meet then bottle it due to my body.

A bit hard to get feedback on that if if I don't get people to look."

Really not about getting laid then good for you if that's the case why not keep it covered up use only dressed shots .

I used to from the age of 16 to 28 cut five ton of glass a week. turning it into double glazed sealed units that meant I moved around 30 to 40 ton of weight in a average week every week month in month out .

This lead me to have a 28 inch waist 44 inch chest totally ripped stomach back and arms only five foot 8 tall but a perfect triangle.

I used to keep my top on during holidays unless swimming in the pool as well as my top on in public at all times .

For one simple reason if I took my top off the looks i received from woman made me feel like a piece of meat not a man not a human being but a piece of meat .

Even my girlfriends at the time would receive dirty looks from other woman if they were hand in hand with me and my top was off .

So like I said if your doing it for yourself keep your top on it stops the problem your talking about in this post to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curvy/bbw beauty at its purest

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So you want women who look a certain way, ie not fat (which is totally fine, btw, not criticising that preference at all) but then you're surprised that some women feel they might not measure up?

Well I know no one gives a fuck about my opinion, but I think you're wrong. Curves in all the right places means natural and healthy looking like yours.

That is far from what most men mean.

You think?? I think most men have someone just like Ruby in mind when they say 'curvy' women!

I think "curvy" is different from "curves in all the right places""

Either way I am sure you qualify! I do know what you are trying to say, but I think far fewer are bothered than you see to believe.

My very first 'pink legs' pic on here was one I did for about the last POF guy I had a 'meet' with - to check that he was Ok to meet cos I'd put a few pounds on since my dating site pics. I've had it hidden lately but it has 3800 odd fabs now - Ok guys, I get the message!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also like the tall,lean look. The struggling student look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Skinny guys

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Someone who is a different body type to me. Bony bits bashing together isn't nice! "

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am less into very skinny or overweight people. I do very much appreciate a toned physique, although if you're a body builder type who's almost as wide as tall whose photos are all gym selfies I'm probably not going to be keen. That is as much because talking to guys like this at the gym they can be a bit single minded, with their focus on either the gym or themselves , as their appearance.

OP in answer to your question, I admire guys with a great physique although it usually makes me feel guilty for not getting to the gym more than I do. That said I'm comfortable enough in my curves and wouldn't be intimidated. If I'm meeting someone we have already clicked based on personality so would assume they're not judging me for lack of 6 pack.

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By *hil39Man over a year ago

Dagenham

Female

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I also like the tall,lean look. The struggling student look