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Roughly how many different men/women have you slept with 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

2 people for me that's it

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple over a year ago

Rugby

We've both slept with between 15 and 20.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We've both slept with between 15 and 20."
Fair play lol

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20

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Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive been with 28 women

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By *arkyandFiCouple over a year ago

lowestoft

About 40, not at the same time though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"About 40, not at the same time though

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God i hope not lol

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20 "

Yeah did have but he's moved away now , but bear in mind it's been 20 over 20 years so it don't sound too bad if I put it that way lol

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

is there still shame in numbers?

who's approval are we looking for anyway?

is this socially driven? have you been constantly told to suppress your nature?and how do you really feel, being part of the swinger scene?

these are imo, the interesting questions..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not even admitting it to myself, let alone anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Yeah did have but he's moved away now , but bear in mind it's been 20 over 20 years so it don't sound too bad if I put it that way lol "
Yeah fair play so say like one each year bet they must of loved it lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"2 people for me that's it "

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 40 women and exactly 6 men - and counting.

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

That's a loaded question and somewhat ambiguous .......

- lifetime number ?

- number this year ?

- number this month ?

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not even admitting it to myself, let alone anyone else

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Go on don't be shy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many?

If I told you, you wouldn't believe me.

Somewhere between 1-120.

All female I hasten to add.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's a loaded question and somewhat ambiguous .......

- lifetime number ?

- number this year ?

- number this month ?

lol

Today LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal."
Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's a loaded question and somewhat ambiguous .......

- lifetime number ?

- number this year ?

- number this month ?

lol

x"
Lifetime number

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"is there still shame in numbers?

who's approval are we looking for anyway?

is this socially driven? have you been constantly told to suppress your nature?and how do you really feel, being part of the swinger scene?

these are imo, the interesting questions..

My count is low compared to many on here but it's a result of doing what I wanted to do so it's fine for me.

I don't feel particularly positive or negative about it, it's just a fact.

I said on another thread but it's somewhere in the high teens or low twenties. It may even be mid twenties by now. I'm not sure exactly because I don't keep count.

It also depends on what I count as sex. Counting penetrative sex doesn't work because some of my partners were women.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Yeah did have but he's moved away now , but bear in mind it's been 20 over 20 years so it don't sound too bad if I put it that way lol Yeah fair play so say like one each year bet they must of loved it lol

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

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I hate the word slut I'd rather say high sex drive or kinky woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not even admitting it to myself, let alone anyone else

Go on don't be shy "

If I average it out since I first had sex, it's not quite as bad!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything "

And some guys your age have had more and some less.

You're giving yourself grief for no reason.

I can understand you want more sex but it's no negative reflection on you whatever the number is.

Relax. It's not healthy to put yourself under so much pressure.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

I hate the word slut I'd rather say high sex drive or kinky woman "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it "

Do you mean you had a sleepover or did you fuck them as well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 for me..all men..3 in the last month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 40 roughly Not quite sure Does that make me easy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Five, and that's in my lifetime! While I would love the opportunity to add to that, at the same time I'm happy that it's not 50+.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything

And some guys your age have had more and some less.

You're giving yourself grief for no reason.

I can understand you want more sex but it's no negative reflection on you whatever the number is.

Relax. It's not healthy to put yourself under so much pressure."
Lmao I'm not I'm just stating that's all lol

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

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why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I tried to count them last night but fell asleep at November 1967(12)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

Do you mean you had a sleepover or did you fuck them as well?

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No i fucked them lol yeah pretty sure that I did lmao

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything

And some guys your age have had more and some less.

You're giving yourself grief for no reason.

I can understand you want more sex but it's no negative reflection on you whatever the number is.

Relax. It's not healthy to put yourself under so much pressure.

Lmao I'm not I'm just stating that's all lol "

Your comments on the previous thread sounded like you think 2 is not enough and it bothers you.

My apologies if I misunderstood.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?"

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By *ntheswingCouple over a year ago

middlesbrough

Between us it's about 300. But that is spread over some 32 years of swinging, so it amounts to about 1 a month.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything

And some guys your age have had more and some less.

You're giving yourself grief for no reason.

I can understand you want more sex but it's no negative reflection on you whatever the number is.

Relax. It's not healthy to put yourself under so much pressure.

Lmao I'm not I'm just stating that's all lol

Your comments on the previous thread sounded like you think 2 is not enough and it bothers you.

My apologies if I misunderstood."
I'm not trying to have any sympathy or anything like that I'm just saying that's all I've quickly learned patience is key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?"

I agree with this also. If a woman said to me she had slept with 200 men or more it wouldn't bother me. She just enjoys sex, simple as that! As long as she's careful and plays safe then why should she be judged?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Male 15, and fem over 30

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Five, and that's in my lifetime! While I would love the opportunity to add to that, at the same time I'm happy that it's not 50+."

Why?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Five, and that's in my lifetime! While I would love the opportunity to add to that, at the same time I'm happy that it's not 50+.

Why?"

I guess it's not wanting to be labelled a "player", but then again I ended up joining Fab....! Maybe I should make more effort to add to that number!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Five, and that's in my lifetime! While I would love the opportunity to add to that, at the same time I'm happy that it's not 50+.

Why?

I guess it's not wanting to be labelled a "player", but then again I ended up joining Fab....! Maybe I should make more effort to add to that number!

Anyone who thinks badly of you for it is an idiot.

The consensual fun you have is your business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Between us it's about 300. But that is spread over some 32 years of swinging, so it amounts to about 1 a month."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Five, and that's in my lifetime! While I would love the opportunity to add to that, at the same time I'm happy that it's not 50+.

Why?

I guess it's not wanting to be labelled a "player", but then again I ended up joining Fab....! Maybe I should make more effort to add to that number!

Anyone who thinks badly of you for it is an idiot.

The consensual fun you have is your business."

Thanks, have always been shy as well, so making an approach to a lady has always been difficult to me. I think I surprised myself by joining a club!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

You're only 23! It's not a competition. Relax. There's no need to put pressure on yourself like that.

I was with my first serious boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, for 8 years. Until I was 26 I'd had sex with one person.

Someone I dated several years ago was a virgin at 29.

You're in no way abnormal.

Yeah sex with 2 people only once out of them 2 people wasn't a regular fuck or anything

And some guys your age have had more and some less.

You're giving yourself grief for no reason.

I can understand you want more sex but it's no negative reflection on you whatever the number is.

Relax. It's not healthy to put yourself under so much pressure.

Lmao I'm not I'm just stating that's all lol

Your comments on the previous thread sounded like you think 2 is not enough and it bothers you.

My apologies if I misunderstood."
It can be sexually frustrating at times though must admit

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

"
i think men feel they need experience in order to please ..if a woman has 'too many lovers' he feels he may not be 'good enough' that's his 'insecurity'. if a woman likes sex and has desires and goes out to fulfill them, she is termed un attractive..that's her insecurities.. both feed into each other..but where did it all come from this suppressing of natural expression ?... that is society construct, for control..to take us as far away from our natural state as possible and locked into mental and emotional patterns of 'acceptable behaviour..first started by those who put a middle person in between you and the infinite..the repressed religious zealots..if you are free to express with free access to nature, people, affection, , with your own urges and desires, then they cant tell you what to do..all power hierarchies would crumble and those who wish to be in 'charge' wouldnt be able to harness any part of your life force for themselves...so they make you want to be a slave to their system by invoking at every possible turn, negative beliefs about yourself..they were given to you and some people swallowed them hook line and sinker

and that is my informed piece of writing for today.. be well and happy everyone and you are all amazing humans xx dont forget it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im probably above the average because I spent a number of years as a professional musician which seems to be quite an aphrodisiac - getting ladies (fuelled by alcohol) over the awkward 'face like a smacked arse' issue

so not really counted but it's a few - always safe though thats the key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

i think men feel they need experience in order to please ..if a woman has 'too many lovers' he feels he may not be 'good enough' that's his 'insecurity'. if a woman likes sex and has desires and goes out to fulfill them, she is termed un attractive..that's her insecurities.. both feed into each other..but where did it all come from this suppressing of natural expression ?... that is society construct, for control..to take us as far away from our natural state as possible and locked into mental and emotional patterns of 'acceptable behaviour..first started by those who put a middle person in between you and the infinite..the repressed religious zealots..if you are free to express with free access to nature, people, affection, , with your own urges and desires, then they cant tell you what to do..all power hierarchies would crumble and those who wish to be in 'charge' wouldnt be able to harness any part of your life force for themselves...so they make you want to be a slave to their system by invoking at every possible turn, negative beliefs about yourself..they were given to you and some people swallowed them hook line and sinker

and that is my informed piece of writing for today.. be well and happy everyone and you are all amazing humans xx dont forget it x"

What a cracking post!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

and that is my informed piece of writing for today.. be well and happy everyone and you are all amazing humans xx dont forget it x"

Very thought-provoking and insightful......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

I must be a total slut then cus i have had sex with way way more than 20 people !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"9 for me"
Seriously lol

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By *pg26Man over a year ago

valleys

6 for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So long as we're not judging people for having low numbers as well....

I know this is a swinging site so probably the wrong audience, but it is totally ok to not want to have sex with loads of people over your lifetime too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20

Fair play to you do you have any regulars out of them 20

Lol 1 a yr , I was in s 9 yr relationship n then a 4 yr OBE so in between ive had a few if I had to sit down n think n recall my mind it wud probs me more than 20 but then I sound like a total slut

why do you think that makes you a slut..? why not a healthy full blooded woman who likes sex..?

and that is my informed piece of writing for today.. be well and happy everyone and you are all amazing humans xx dont forget it x"

If I could send u a private message I would....great piece of writing and strong heartfelt posts....clap hands....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol "

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

"
No it isn't lovely fair play to you seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So long as we're not judging people for having low numbers as well....

I know this is a swinging site so probably the wrong audience, but it is totally ok to not want to have sex with loads of people over your lifetime too. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 40 xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"About 40 xx"
MMM love that bondage photo you've got

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

How can it be good or bad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

How can it be good or bad?

"
It isn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

How can it be good or bad?

It was they way he asked seriously, don't get what that means. No reason for it not to be right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"9 for me Seriously lol

Yes... Is that a good or a bad seriously?

How can it be good or bad?

It was they way he asked seriously, don't get what that means. No reason for it not to be right."
Never ment nothing by it

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By *bsolute LibertinesCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Roughly, none

Gently, plenty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Um a few women and one "man" if you're including being raped in the ass at 8.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it "

They have all been different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it

They have all been different."
Yes they have lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea! I could tell you this week, or this month. But no idea beyond that.

Not enough.... That's my final answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than 50. It's about living out fantasies for me/us. To be an alter-ego to that in my normal everyday life. It's been fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no idea! I could tell you this week, or this month. But no idea beyond that.

Not enough.... That's my final answer

"
Lmao welcome to my world then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have fucked 29 women so far and I have done few of my things on my bucket list too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Marjorie is my number 13 apparently it's her lucky number

Betty

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By *avewestcumbriaMan over a year ago

Whitehaven

Not enough.

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

the question is pointless and meaningless studies prove guys round up woman round down .

the reason for this is most guys want to be judged on how successful they are at getting sex. most woman don't want to be judged on how successful they are at getting sex .

blame that on society.

my numbers are my own business no one else's business .all I know is this I'm looking for quality stand out sexual encounters ,encounters that are hard to forget and as it takes two to tango .

the chemistry has to be real from both parties and that is something that is sometimes easy to find and at over times a nightmare to find .

that means my sex life goes through peeks and lows .at a peek I could have five or six partners in crime meeting me regularly at a low time one or two.

it is what it is .

my total and the total of others means nothing to me all that matters to me is whether my sex life is in full swing or not.

if its not I try to improve it if it is in full swing I just enjoy the moment and have fun.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

Not nearly enough...fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not nearly enough...fancy a fuck?

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Yeah go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been on here for ten years so between that and dating, it's literally in the hundreds. I used to keep a book during my very promiscuous uni days and I remember it coming up to 300 even back then.

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been on here for ten years so between that and dating, it's literally in the hundreds. I used to keep a book during my very promiscuous uni days and I remember it coming up to 300 even back then.

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "

Good for you! I don't feel any shame either for the number, particularly as hubby has always encouraged me to live out my naughty fantasies and loves me doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I mostly leave before we go to sleep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't 'slept' with anyone on here...but I've fucked a fair few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than some, and less than others !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "
Fair play if you enjoy it why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since I last posted I can say that it's still 7

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think mine works out about 80 but spread over 15 years

and yep I'm a horny devil

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since I last posted I can say that it's still 7

Since the thread started I have thought about sleeping with about 20 different Women, Most of them multiple times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't 'slept' with anyone on here...but I've fucked a fair few

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nice one pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one's business but my own

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By *ananas57Couple over a year ago

lake ariel

All I can say is a lot, never kept track

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Before the age of 35? 2. Since? A few more. God, mid-life crises are fun...

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By *hrisANtifCouple over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

We're both in the high 20s with Chris just edging ahead! Pre-swinging Chris was at 19 while Tif was only at 5 so fair to say Tif has done a little more making up over the last couple of years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Her , over 2,000

Him , about 250 .

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

About 150 women since you ask.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

N9 9ne from this site but about 90 ish women from when I had a social life

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By *rotiquexxxMan over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Thread title says different. Like people sleep with the same type of people. That's deep.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Around 30 I'd guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 this year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"11 this year "
but tend to get either judged because most are from party meets some repeat meets from previous encounters in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is there a facination to seek the answer.... As we have seen above we generally have a libertine attitude on fab.

It's an invasive question - does the answer benefit anyone?

A few encounters doesn't say you are useless at play just as 100 encounters doesn't say you might be brilliant at it. Number does not qualify quality and compatibility nor does a high number mean they will have sex with you or that they don't care for their sexual health.

It really isn't any of your business - and what counts as sex - BJs - even Presidents debated that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is there a facination to seek the answer.... As we have seen above we generally have a libertine attitude on fab.

It's an invasive question - does the answer benefit anyone? Totally agree it's quality and the satisfaction of being asked will u see me again shows you have made an impact

It really isn't any of your business - and what counts as sex - BJs - even Presidents debated that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we are talking about full blown penetrative sex, 26 before getting married, then 14 in the 3 years we've been exploring the lifestyle.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Slept the night maybe 5 or 6

Shagged or sucked off 100s

high 100s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7. My lucky number

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely more since turning 40.... Many years of believing (entrenched) that sex wasn't something nice girls did let alone enjoy had an effect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite a lot really. It's not about the quantity,it's about the quality. I'm pretty good at sniffing out a quality fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me, 17. MrWho has slept with quite a lot more. The number of sexual partners a person has had doesn't have any influence over my opinion of them. It's just sex.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a list!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 women and likely 200 men. But I have decided to stop there........ No more women for me.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

No idea.

I stopped counting when I was in my early 20s

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Lifetime total 9

The last year 3

This month 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had sex with 30 or so women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

What in my whole life or via fab??

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about."

This.

And I aint about to get a pen and paper out to see if I can tot them up either.

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By *appysunflowerWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Howling with laughter here!!!

blah blah blah

People come this is a chuffing sex site for all said and done, we are on here to enjoy that what vanilla life does not let us do

So belt up! Enjoy it and stop bloody counting for God sake!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around 20, not exactly king of the swingers

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about."

Nor me... I just like lists!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"

Only cause I have a list!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Only cause I have a list!

Do they have a little star rating too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"

I can't. I have the worse memory in the world.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"

Most I didn't even speak to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about.

Nor me... I just like lists!

And I like spreadsheets

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet. "
you made me chuckle out loud with this..

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about.

Nor me... I just like lists!

And I like spreadsheets

I like furrowing my brow and going into my memory palace when needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lost count years ago, must be 100+ women. No bs

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think its more than 10 less than 100

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By *reygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"
didnt know there names when was with em never mind now .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The people I'm meeting now are important. Not ghosts of the past.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Only cause I have a list!

Do they have a little star rating too?

No... the name is enough to ring a little bell in my head... some sound more like the noise on Family Fortunes when they get the answer wrong through.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see the shame in it. Sex is beautiful and natural, so I'm never going to apologise for my past or the fact I adore sex. "

Doll x

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By *chooloffilthWoman over a year ago

Manchester

More than 1...and less than the population of Vatican City

V x

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"The people I'm meeting now are important. Not ghosts of the past. "

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Never kept count as the number isn't something I've ever been particularly concerned about.

Nor me... I just like lists!

And I like spreadsheets

Are there any pie charts or graphs involved?

..thinking about them just gets me all......lol

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By *ananas57Couple over a year ago

lake ariel

"2 women and likely 200 men. But I have decided to stop there........ No more women for me."

Why no more women?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"More than 1...and less than the population of Vatican City

V x"

Which would total?

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

No idea, if I sat down for a while and tried I could probably work it out, but we don't keep score so... just look at our veries and do the maths yourself lol.

As for "most at once"... Jayne is 4 guys, and Mart is 5 ladies and him in a sweaty heap!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"
Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

300-400 women

10 or so men

4 TVs

Do I get a prize?

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet. you made me chuckle out loud with this..

We used to see a guy who used to be on Fab who kept a spreadsheet. Apparently I was number 180. He didn't start having sex til he was twenty four, but made up for it in 10 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet. you made me chuckle out loud with this..

We used to see a guy who used to be on Fab who kept a spreadsheet. Apparently I was number 180. He didn't start having sex til he was twenty four, but made up for it in 10 years. "

Sounds like my sort of chap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2 women and likely 200 men. But I have decided to stop there........ No more women for me.

Why no more women?"

Just not for me

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By *ames6ft5Man over a year ago

North London / Herts

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet. you made me chuckle out loud with this..

We used to see a guy who used to be on Fab who kept a spreadsheet. Apparently I was number 180. He didn't start having sex til he was twenty four, but made up for it in 10 years.

Sounds like my sort of chap

It's quite incredible the aphrodisiac effect of MS Excel or a Google Sheet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's my business!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with? "

Yup. And all of their fab pseudonyms!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?

Yes, it's on the spreadsheet. you made me chuckle out loud with this..

We used to see a guy who used to be on Fab who kept a spreadsheet. Apparently I was number 180. He didn't start having sex til he was twenty four, but made up for it in 10 years.

Sounds like my sort of chap

It's quite incredible the aphrodisiac effect of MS Excel or a Google Sheet."

Please! Strictly Excel. A Google Sheet is no substitute.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

So far about 12

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

76 and now im on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2 people for me that's it "

really only 2

,,fuck I feel like a total slut now,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ive no idea,,im always amazed folk keep a count

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

do they have to be different? I've slept with the same one a number of times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No idea - but it's a lot!

It's no big deal to me and it won't be a big deal to the chap I end up with (if I ever end up with someone) because if it is, then he's the wrong person for me!

Simple really! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"do they have to be different? I've slept with the same one a number of times

aye n I bet you had more fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No idea - but it's a lot!

It's no big deal to me and it won't be a big deal to the clap I end up with (if I ever end up with someone) because if it is, then he's the wrong person for me!

Simple really! Xxx"

sorry..i couldnt resist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll say a hundred but I'm lying....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 30 but none since I've been on here!

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

Nothing has changed since the previous thread.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can you remember the names of all the people you've slept with?"

I never knew the names of some of them.

Some I got in passing, although Will from the USA isn't exactly a lot of information.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 men and 4 women

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By *akeyousmile30Man over a year ago

greenwich

"2 people for me that's it "

Cherry popped at 16 now 40

I reckon 250 plus!!

It's my hobby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

However many it is - and I genuinely have no fricking idea - add 1 more!

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