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Roughly how many different women/men have ppl slept with

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Was chatting to a couple that day and there asked how many women have u slept with i said roughly this many dnt really count and she said ur chatting crap and asked me to prove how on earth im i supposed to do that i said i cant prove anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My answer was 20/30 roughly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself "

Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself

Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well

Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

I used to cut notches in one my bedposts as a guide.

It seemed like a good idea at the time but now all the paint has gone and it's starting to rust.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself

Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well

Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications

Ha ha!! Would be funny if they where always honest no one is ever going to write a bad verification!! Met her terrible blow job!! Or got in to the sack and action started so quickly just ended as quickly as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know its not possible to prove but she said thats too many i dnt think thats too many from if u do the maths roughly 2 different a year is easy far any bloke sometimes ppl on here r too stuck up not all some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pi plus 60.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I used to cut notches in one my bedposts as a guide.

It seemed like a good idea at the time but now all the paint has gone and it's starting to rust."

That made me laugh thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

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By *ongtalljonMan over a year ago

North Wales

How many women have I slept with?

That's quite easy.

Yep, definitely only 2.

Next question, how many have I made wild passionate love with? Errm, dunno. Quite a lot.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

"Pi plus 60."

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pi plus 60.

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?"

It was a crazy night that involved 14 midges that counted for the 0.14

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pi plus 60.

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?"
lol well worked out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself

Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well

Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications

Well I had a shit meet and he wanted verifying. I told him k had nothing nice to say and refused to verify. There are always ways around it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Roughly 20,I have a terrible memory n the last time I answered this question on here I spent a good half hour counting on my fingers n racking my puny brain trying to remember my earliest shags!

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Are we talking this week?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ummm maybe u need to go back and get a letter of confirmation from every woman you have slept with to prove yourself

Ha ha!! Have to get a feedback form and rate performance as well

Oh yes. Ex sexual partner references are a must ... Oh wait those are verifications

Well I had a shit meet and he wanted verifying. I told him k had nothing nice to say and refused to verify. There are always ways around it

Well I had one meet that cried when I said it wasn't going any further!! Surprisingly didn't ask for a verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Where is everyone hiding

Haha 0.14 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pi plus 60.

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?"

Wouldn't that be 63.1415927?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pi plus 60.

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?

Wouldn't that be 63.1415927?"

Well I think most people can work out how you sleep with 63 people ha ha how do you get the 0.14

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck....

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Even if i tried i could not count i cant remember if iv locked the house door or not forget how many women haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck....

Suzi"
That many then

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck....

Suzi"

The thought horrified me too, that's why I suggested last week.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had 2

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock

xxxxxxSuzi

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"My answer was 20/30 roughly "

Iv'e never been to bed with a rough woman, but I've woke up with a few though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock

xxxxxxSuzi"

Ha ha loving that

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Jeepers....I'm not counting back to my first fuck....

Suzi

The thought horrified me too, that's why I suggested last week.

Oh yeh, last week sounds way better, that's easy ....one xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock

xxxxxxSuzi"
lol ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol.....my lips remain sealed, except when they are wrapped around a throbbing cock

xxxxxxSuzi"
Silence is bliss isn't it

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Are we talking this week?

Are you NobbyNobs in disguise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably more than the average bear! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Somewhere between too many and not enough.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off "

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

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I take you never settled down then. I agree with you then

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

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why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

over 200.

i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years.

i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"over 200.

i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years.

i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me."
I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"over 200.

i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years.

i'm not gonna deny myself sex just because i'm single and nobody wants to hook up regular enough for me.I've just been In a relationship for years and it seems like I've got a lot of catching up to do "

yep.

we all know men would fuck just as many women if they could.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

why get offended to my opinion, I was just honest, I wouldn't want to marry someone who has been around the block a few times that's all, and maybe your right my mind isn't as open as your legs are so maybe you should block me "

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"over 200.

i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years.

Careful you don't shag too many women. You don't want to use up your lifetime allowance too early

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked."
well played

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"over 200.

i've been in a relationship that lasted over a decade, and several others that lasted a few years.

yep.

we all know men would fuck just as many women if they could.

No! No! He's concerned about going round the block too much. He'd never sully himself in that way in case women don't want to marry him!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played "

And true.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Dear deity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true."
I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that "

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite."
I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss."

Saying you'd find it a turn off if a woman has had more than 10 sexual partners isn't insulting?

Try telling every woman you chat to on here that, upfront, and see what they think!

Since I, and most of the women on here, have had more than 10 partners, you've judged and insulted every one of us, at the same time as being on here trying to get sex with those very same women you find a turn off!

But no, you've not insulted anyone

Sheesh!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Goodness, someone suggests I'm a slag and have been round the block too much and I make a fuss.

Go figure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I've had more men than roast dinners.....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Well I've had more men than roast dinners.....

OMG you trollop!

Wait. How many roast dinners have you had? Is it less than 9? You may be ok!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss."

Actually OP - read back through the thread.....you have been incredibly rude and insulting to the women on here who like to have a very varied, active sex life with multiple partners.....the very thought that I might meet someone with your attitude and I might give them a wonderful sexual experience without knowing what their double standards are has made me vow that I will from now on always ask any potential meet......how many do you think is too many?????? (Unless I am mid gangbang and my mouth is full and the potential next in line has just joined the fun....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn.... I just spent ages typing a polite private message to the OP.....telling him I have just read his profile....." dear genuine guy, you didnt spell genuine correctly in your profile but never mind, that is forgiven......what is not forgiveable is your opening statement that you are honest and open-mindex. You should re-write your profile and state that women who have had more than 10partners turn you off.....that way us ladies who give sexual pleasure generously to many partners can avoid squandering their delights on the undeserving bigot that you are......"

Unfortunately when I pressed send I got the fab UNLOS message.

Hope he didn't perv too many ladies pics before he went!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite. I haven't insulted anyone, your the one kicking up a fuss.

Apparently we're good enough for a leg over but not for any respect due to him having "standards".

My standards mean I won't shag anyone who thinks it's ok for him to shag around casually, willy nilly but not for me, or any other woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

speaking as an older gentleman,i don't think it,s a numbers game to be revealed.

it,s more about the experience,we all have different needs wants and desires,which you can only experience from multiple partners

.besides a true gent does,nt brag on his level of partners,he keeps them as treasured pleasurable encounters,and enjoys every experience on it,s own merit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite."

Hypocrite indeed - the OP finds it a turn off if a woman has slept with more than 10 guys, yet he said he's slept with about 20 or 30 women?!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite.

Hypocrite indeed - the OP finds it a turn off if a woman has slept with more than 10 guys, yet he said he's slept with about 20 or 30 women?!

It wasn't the OP that made the comment about it being a turn off.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Bravo...

*claps hands

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

If partner numbers were an issue, this should be asked before meets of course.

It's no ones business as realistically who is going to count or validate.

On their bikes with such bollocks

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If partner numbers were an issue, this should be asked before meets of course.

It's no ones business as realistically who is going to count or validate.

On their bikes with such bollocks"

I don't even know the answer.

High teens/low twenties is as precise as I can be.

This really is the wrong site for anyone to be getting prissy about how many people others have met.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Bravo...

*claps hands"

You might feel differently if it was you being called names

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.I take it you never settled down then

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I've been in two long term relationships, one of 8 years and one of 7 years. The answer is still more than 10

BTW, you are *not* open minded

MARRY?!

You do realise what this site is?

As for how unacceptably open my legs apparently are

it's the ultimate in hypocrisy to be on a site like this looking for "leg overs" (to use your phrase), yet looking down on and insulting the women you're trying to get these "leg overs" with.

Just when you think you've heard it all!

You realise some of the women you're trying to shag on here meet men for group sex and gangbangs and can easily have sex with more than 10 guys in one afternoon/evening?!

#gobsmacked.

well played

And true.

I've just came out of a 14 year marriage, I got married at 19 and have to lovely boys. Now I'm looking to have fun but I do have standards is there anything wrong with that

If you're going to insult women who've had more than ten partners in their entire life, yes, there's something wrong with that

You're also not going to find many women who've had fewer than ten partners, in total, on here!

You're a hypocrite.

Hypocrite indeed - the OP finds it a turn off if a woman has slept with more than 10 guys, yet he said he's slept with about 20 or 30 women?!

It wasn't the OP that made the comment about it being a turn off."

Oh dear. Oh god. Yikes! Now I read back and find out I have wronged the OP!!! So sorry. Please accept my humble apologies. Public apology on here - the OP is not the poster who put the insulting comments about women with more than 10partners. The OP is in fact open-minded, respectful and has a sense of humour! Hope he has a sense of forgiveness too!

Private apology on its way too OP! M xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi ppl it was not me making any comments of how many ppl is wrong some misunderstanding it was another bloke x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Hi ppl it was not me making any comments of how many ppl is wrong some misunderstanding it was another bloke x "

's ok, we know

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Hi ppl it was not me making any comments of how many ppl is wrong some misunderstanding it was another bloke x "

It's funny though, on a thread discussing you being told 20-30 is too many, which is both ridiculous and none of their business, someone else decides to do the exact same thing and insult women who've had more than 10 partners!

Unbelievable!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just woke up after nodding off whent through the forum one person even deleted there profile after the aggro haha

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

I dare not say lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was chatting to a couple that day and there asked how many women have u slept with i said roughly this many dnt really count and she said ur chatting crap and asked me to prove how on earth im i supposed to do that i said i cant prove anything "

Of people are going to worry about how many you slept with then I'd give them a wide birth! I'd also say...

None of your fucking business

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By *uddlybear2015Man over a year ago

BEDFORD

I've not slept with any women 'roughly' I'm always the perfect gentleman!

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I've slept with one or two women roughly.. I've been quite gentle with the rest

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The last guy told me I wasn't rough enough.

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting.

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"and here it is for all to see a poster states a preference. in my opinion a silly vanilla mind set and preference . then he's baited by others who fall out side of his preference by them commenting about his personal choice in such a way so as to bait him into biting.

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake ."

States a preference?

Calling women who've had more than ten sexual partners insulting names on a SWINGING SITE on which he is looking for casual sex is stating a preference?!

The thread is about a man being told 20-30 partners is too many and everyone agrees that it's unreasonable and none of their business.

Nobody thinks them "stating their preference" is acceptable.

But someone makes insulting comments that women who've had more than 10 partners are loose sluts who've been around the block too many times and are a turn off and that's a preference?

Bollocks.

Those sort of judgements and insults have no place on a site like this, particularly when it's clearly double standards and hypocrisy.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Honest...judgemental and insulting

To-may-to...to-mah-to

Still, I realise you're only saying that because I agreed with Lady T yesterday and you're sore about it. That's what's sad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apparently men lie about the amount of woman they have slept with, apparently we double it!

1 woman, I have slept with 1 woman! So 1 divided by 2 is 0.5......... I have slept with 2 midgets!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Apparently men lie about the amount of woman they have slept with, apparently we double it!

1 woman, I have slept with 1 woman! So 1 divided by 2 is 0.5......... I have slept with 2 midgets!!!

Careful, gloswingers will get jealous

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By *uddlybear2015Man over a year ago

BEDFORD

"The last guy told me I wasn't rough enough."

Oooer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around about 50 a little more if I count the ones I can't remember if we did anything...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lilred doesn't kiss and tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Roughly??? A few.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea how many

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than 10. I realise I'm no longer marriage material,but that's ok,been there,done that and the sex was shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nobodies business but your own really - and a pointless question if they disbelieve your reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had had full penetrative sex with 25 men before I met my husband 12 years ago at the ago of thirty. I was always a bit slutty and liked men. Since we started hotwifing 3 years ago, and attending swing parties a year and a half ago, I have clocked up a further 14 men for proper sex. A fair bit a soft play with various men and women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only seven.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've consulted the spreadsheet, and the answer is 28. I'm sure that makes me too slutty for some and not slutty enough for others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

42...

Isn't that the answer to everything?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

We always have a chuckle when we go to the GUM clinic for a regular check-up, because on the form it says 'how many partners have you had in the past 12 months' . Well Mrs Bun is always double mine , because she plays with the man and the woman, and me just the woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around 20, maybe?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"Pi plus 60.

How do you sleep with 0.14 people?"

60 plus a very round person??

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im just practicing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 6

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we talking this week?

Are you NobbyNobs in disguise

Had to laugh!!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Only 6

Congratulations, you are not a bow legged slut and are still suitable marriage material!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the last 20 years 4 but pre that well over a 100

yes I was a bit of a dog in my younger years! Oh for the good old days

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

Slept with 1.

Fucked many others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slept with 1.

Fucked many others."

I like that answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't tend to count to be honest. The past 4 years 5 people though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"46"

That's 23x more than me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only 6

Congratulations, you are not a bow legged slut and are still suitable marriage material!

This is true

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7! Unless I get extra if they have changed name on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogomous

but now I'm single it's changed

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogamous

but now I'm single it's changed "
ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

15 for full sex, a few more with just foreplay etc

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone."
ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely no idea.

As we are in Cap D'Adge, it's been 6 this week including my wife... tough life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogamous

but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though

I was with kids dad 14 yrs. then spent 4 years single went a bit crazy in them years. But the past 3 years I spent 2 with my ex 1 yr celibate and the past two months since being on here I've had 4 meets (hussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

But.. but.. I'm much better behind a keyboard

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

i find it interesting that there seems to be resistance in doing that. i understand connection and mutual attractiveness, but it seems like, its more of an underlying thing, maybe psychological..i dont know, dont wish to assume..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Somewhere between too many and not enough.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"46

That's 23x more than me

I was kidding....

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogamous

but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though

"
nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my verification summary hidden for a reason

I'm a terrible slut!

haha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I think that's a bit of an assumption really. I'm usually posting on the forums while doing something else eg waiting for the bus, at work, watching the tv. I wouldn't have thought it's the case for many people that they're spending time posting on the forums that they could be using fucking people.

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure I want to say now!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. "
so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

I didn't start until I was 18. I've had two monogamous relationships of 8 years and 7 years respectively and I've had a couple of long periods of not shagging anyone.ok..why not? (if i may be so bold as to ask..)"

One was due to a period of chaos in my life, including being homeless for a while. I wasn't getting out and meeting anyone and didn't have the headspace or energy to organise meets this way. I had so much else to worry about that sex just wasn't something I thought about.

The other main time was due to insecurity and lack of confidence. I hid in my comfort zone, well away from anything to do with sex. That became habit and was very difficult to break out of. Even once I felt better I did nothing to change things for a very long time.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've consulted the spreadsheet, and the answer is 28. I'm sure that makes me too slutty for some and not slutty enough for others."

I hope you aren't joking... I do actually keep a list in "notes" on my phone

First name and where they were from (so i can remember who they were) and the date. The date goes in brackets if we didn't have full sex. Mine comes to 28 too, but that covers both men and women, and those I only had oral etc with. I was in a relationship for 14 years with a very boring man, and was faithful to him the entire time. The majority of the 28 have been since I left him.

Unfortunately women do get judged by their number, although I'm surprised to see it on here!! I've not told mine to anyone except this forum. In the real world, that and my weight are personal and no one else's business. I don't need judging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to concern myself with the 'number' of women I'd had sex with, believing it made me more of a man as those numbers went up.

Until I realised that a real man doesn't settle for less than what he wants, and the QUALITY of the meets you have, and the people you meet, is vastly more important than the number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always answer more than last week.... less than next...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Until I realised that a real man doesn't settle for less than what he wants"

Actually lets amend that - less than what he's happy with.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. "

Truth in both I think. Generalising about most things is going to get it wrong sometimes and be right sometimes.

As ever, I make off the cuff comments, no bad intentions

As long as people are doing what is right for them and not harming any body else, then it's all good

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual? "

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only seven.

"
Try only having sex with 2 people then

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Thanks. Life has its ups and downs. I have good spells and less good spells.

I have to actively look for guys I want sex with because there just don't seem to be that many. If, for some reason, I'm not looking, I'm probably having little to no sex. I tend to need to find and choose guys myself because I feel uncomfortable and run a mile if they hit on me, (which I know is stupid).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've consulted the spreadsheet, and the answer is 28. I'm sure that makes me too slutty for some and not slutty enough for others.

I hope you aren't joking... I do actually keep a list in "notes" on my phone

The spreadsheet is real

times, dates, places etc. I like data

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. "
no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

Surely most of us on a swingers site wouldn't have a clue, unless yr 18 or so and just starting out. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Im a believer in quality over quantity

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Thanks. Life has its ups and downs. I have good spells and less good spells.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Im a believer in quality over quantity

your lovely ain't you miss raspberry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7. The answer is always 7.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Only seven.

Try only having sex with 2 people then

You're only 23 though!

Give yourself a break.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake ."

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Im a believer in quality over quantity

"
good job the majority of mine were quality then..

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!"
i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogamous

but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though

nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively.."

How do you know I was talking about just sex!! Ahh see you just assumed didn't you ,

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically."
i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Being monogamous

but now I'm single it's changed ive had three ltr's up to that were monogamous ( took up 17 odd years of my life) i still managed to have wild patches in between though

nothing wrong with being 'crazy' who termed it that anyway..why is wanting sex 'crazy'? i think its called part of living expressively..

How do you know I was talking about just sex!! Ahh see you just assumed didn't you , "
anyone who deems themselves crazy in any aspect isnt crazy at all..maybe be going through stuff..but they aren't insane..and if you want to say i assumed fair enough...i was just focused on topic.. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before I joined fab in 2010 it was 28 and I knew each and every name. Since fab , I lost count.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Ps to all the men on this sex site who like to judge women.....it's a fucking sex site!!!!!!!i didnt read the supposed judgement..not that i care anyway..im just saying im just interested in people..and sexual liberty and what that means for others x"

One "open-minded" guy said women who've had more than 10 sexual partners are a "turn off", have "been round the block too many times" and he wouldn't want to marry a woman like that because he "has standards".

Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.

He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x"

I don't and it does cause me problems!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.

He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread."
i dont want to be marriage material..i want to live my life in a way that makes me happy, and i do. if someone wants all of me it would be my past present and future anyway..and that is unlikely i sure as hell am not going to sacrifice my living now for something that is unlikely to happen..( who the heck would want such a man anyway???

) xx

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x

I don't and it does cause me problems!"
you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We stopped counting along time ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've slept with 4 men and 1 women

I've had sexual encounters with a few more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's either 3 or 4.... I can't remember

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I've slept with 4 men and 1 women

I've had sexual encounters with a few more

"
hello lovely..how are you..where you been hiding? xx

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.

He left although I can't say why because it would be classed as dirty laundry. Suffice to say there's more to it than what's on this thread.i dont want to be marriage material..i want to live my life in a way that makes me happy, and i do. if someone wants all of me it would be my past present and future anyway..and that is unlikely i sure as hell am not going to sacrifice my living now for something that is unlikely to happen..( who the heck would want such a man anyway???

) xx"

Exactly. Why on Earth a guy would join a swinging site looking for sex and then slate the women for being too promiscuous is beyond me.

The suggestion we're good enough to fuck, (if there are no "better" options), but not worth respect or suitable to date or marry, pisses me right off though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've slept with 4 men and 1 women

I've had sexual encounters with a few more

hello lovely..how are you..where you been hiding? xx"

I'm good thanks. How's you ?

Just been busy with work and home life x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x

I don't and it does cause me problems!you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x"

I so do!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I've slept with 4 men and 1 women

I've had sexual encounters with a few more

hello lovely..how are you..where you been hiding? xx

I'm good thanks. How's you ?

Just been busy with work and home life x"
im great..its good to see you xx

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im surprised by the lack of 'action' posted on here..what have you all been doing with yourselves over the years..?

Maybe some are too busy on the forum to get down to action lol

Time to put the keyboard away guys and venture out of the door....

I just don't meet that many people I want to have sex with, it isn't deeper than that. so would you classify yourself as a highly sexed individual?

Not really, no. But I certainly don't think I'm unusually low either. no i wasnt saying you were xx just interesting to find out peoples view of themselves its so unique xx

I love sex and have a mad sex drive. Unless I have a partner or people I can meet regularly, it's often easier to go cold turkey and go without completely than deal with the gnawing desire for sex I get when I'm getting it only sporadically.i agree with this x i have been consciously celibate before..but i am glad i came on the scene and i do have regularity..i could see it would cause me problems if i didnt x

I don't and it does cause me problems!you need to get out more xxxxx hugs x

I so do!"
make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it matter? Everyone has a past...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 in three years but I guess I need another 20 years to catch up most of you guys here

On a bright side I might have slept with those 6 couple hundred times tho

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

at that point he is ripped to shreds for no other reason than being honest and he leaves kind of sad really but it is what it is .

as for my take on the OP original question how many people I have slept with is no ones business apart from mine .

that opinion of mine is part of my reason for not liking or using the verify system on this site apart from having one private to prove along with my photo veri that I'm real and not a fake .

Er I think u will find he didn't just state an opinion but was derogatory towards women who have had more partners than fingers!

So sunshine, I suggest you go back and re read the thread!

No baiting going on, just some cool women defending their right to make sexual choices.

Just like u men do, and don't get bad mouthed for it!!!!!!

Naturally, he was here looking for nsa sex.

) xx

Exactly. Why on Earth a guy would join a swinging site looking for sex and then slate the women for being too promiscuous is beyond me.

The suggestion we're good enough to fuck, (if there are no "better" options), but not worth respect or suitable to date or marry, pisses me right off though.

I decide who I shag. I don't condemn anyone here, male, female or Intersex, for having too much/too little sex and anyone who thinks they can judge and insult me, or tell me who or how many men it's acceptable for me to shag, can fuck right off."
i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I think I'd be put off by someone who DIDN'T have very many sexual partners. It would suggest that they might not be much fun, and that's IF you ever got them into bed in the first place...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to know, if she's had more than the fingers you can hold up I'd find it a turn off

I'm 43. You expect me to have had sex with no more than 10 people in 27 years?! It'd be a turn off if it were more than that?!

And you're on a swinging site?!

Blimey.

By the way, I'm a turn off. You should probably block me for being an outrageous slut and having sex with someone more often than one every 2.7 years

I think I'd be put off by someone who DIDN'T have very many sexual partners. It would suggest that they might not be much fun, and that's IF you ever got them into bed in the first place...

I think that's just as unfair an assumption as the one that lots of partners mean they have low standards/will fuck anyone. Bit of a sweeping assumption about people's reasons for having a low number of previous partners.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx"

I should but I'm not very organised. I'm getting better though.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman.."

Or they are controlling and/or stuck in decades long since past.

It beggars belief the attitude exists in some on here though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only seven.

Try only having sex with 2 people then

You're only 23 though!

Give yourself a break."
Yeah but still 2 though my first time having sex was 16 my second one was only a year and a half ago it's easy saying give yourself a break

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"make some plans sweet, plenty of social opportunities..never know where it might lead xx

I should but I'm not very organised. I'm getting better though."
good stuff x hope to see you out and about soon then x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'd be put off by someone who DIDN'T have very many sexual partners. It would suggest that they might not be much fun, and that's IF you ever got them into bed in the first place...

It was meant more as a light-hearted jibe at Mr 'I wouldn't touch any of you on here because you're all slags but please someone have sex with me' Guy than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i believe this 'type' are totally insecure and that cos of their lack of 'experience'..i feel they don't think they will compare well..due to this they project that onto the woman..

Or they are controlling and/or stuck in decades long since past.

It beggars belief the attitude exists in some on here though."

Yer and there was me thinking I'd left those twats in the vanilla world!

The only good thing (and this is where I love forum) those people are in the minority. And you're not surrounded by friends or colleagues spouting the same up tight bollox.

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