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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm so so nervous to meet anyone on here. I chat to a lot of people and really really want to meet but I pussy out! I don't know why, I'm never like this. I feel I'm a confident person but when it comes to meeting for sex, I get so so flustered. It's always been a fantasy to have a sex buddy/fun friend. What do I do?! How do I conquer it?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so so nervous to meet anyone on here. I chat to a lot of people and really really want to meet but I pussy out! I don't know why, I'm never like this. I feel I'm a confident person but when it comes to meeting for sex, I get so so flustered. It's always been a fantasy to have a sex buddy/fun friend. What do I do?! How do I conquer it?!"
Hey mate, stick at it. It's normal to have some nerves when meeting. Try and stay relaxed and I'm sure someone would be happy to meet you.  |
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Just relax, be yourself and if it makes you more relaxed get to know them with a little chatting then arrange a social with no expectations. You may not get as nervous before hand. Also remember the other person is as likely to be nervous as you are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys, I've been told to just be calm and meet for a drink and relaxed coffee or something along those lines. I still feel nervous though! Like a first date! Haha. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Arrange a social first in a cafe or pub. I still get nervous....but it's excitement and anticipation. Enjoy the adrenaline rush and think of it as meeting a new person. It's not a job interview, you are not there to be assessed...just smile, relax, chat. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I get nervous about three days before. But it's like an exciting nervous. I quite enjoy the feeling, it's like being young again "
Really?
I don't usually get nervous at all with people I've never met before because until they show up, I don't expect them to turn up. By the time they show up it's too late to bother being nervous.
With people I've met before, I'm usually not nervous, or only a little nervous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get nervous about three days before. But it's like an exciting nervous. I quite enjoy the feeling, it's like being young again
Really?
I don't usually get nervous at all with people I've never met before because until they show up, I don't expect them to turn up. By the time they show up it's too late to bother being nervous.
With people I've met before, I'm usually not nervous, or only a little nervous."
Yeah every time!
Ive only met one person from
Here more than once. That's not nerves now just excitement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so so nervous to meet anyone on here. I chat to a lot of people and really really want to meet but I pussy out! I don't know why, I'm never like this. I feel I'm a confident person but when it comes to meeting for sex, I get so so flustered. It's always been a fantasy to have a sex buddy/fun friend. What do I do?! How do I conquer it?!"
I'd say start with social meets, see each as just that.
I've had a few meets that have turned into lots of fun but I always assume each is just a social xx |
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Speaking as someone who has conquered what was once quite severe social anxiety, I would suggest taking it slow.
If you find pubs, cafes or coffee shops reasonably comfy then arrange a social at such an establishment. Socials are less scary and have few expectations.
Meeting at yours, in familiar surroundings, might also help but some people are wary of meeting in a guy's house...at least first time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once you've got the first one out of the way it gets better.
If you were closer I'd meet just for coffee to get over your first time nerves.
Good luck op |
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