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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm meeting guys, when I have the energy to make myself look and feel as good as I can/want to. So, ergo, I'm not meeting right now because I'm knackered.
I'm knackered because I work full time and I have a horse who doesn't groom, feed, exercise himself or turn himself out (fortunately I don't have to muck him out). These things mean I am rarely home before eight at night, and I still have to feed myself and do all the household stuff that we all do. Being disabled, most things take me probably at least three times as long as someone non - disabled. I'm not whinging that's just life.
If I want to meet during the week, I need to really motor, and getting up at six thirty means the meet won't last long simply so I can get a decent nights sleep to do an effective job. So that means weekends only for meets. I still have the house and horse to do though and I want/need a lie in as well as seeing my friends and family. So shoot me.
I have several meets lined up, but they're in the future and I'll build in the time to make myself as presentable as possible. Unfortunately unlike some women, I need make up snd ask the other beauty things, to look and feel good about myself enough to hope the guy I'm meeting will want to fuck me.
I'm not looking for pity, I was merely wondering if anyone else feels similarly, wanting to look ones best, to feel as desirable as possible, but despairs at not having the energy or time to give ones best to a potential guy they're meeting for the most successful outcome.
I'm pretty sure Ive turned down one guy that has now tried to turn it back on me by trying making me feel this is unacceptable, I couldn't give a shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't justify yourself to anyone. You do what you want for whomever you want. If someone doesn't like that, fcuk 'em (not literally  )
They ain't worth your time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain."
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't justify yourself to anyone. You do what you want for whomever you want. If someone doesn't like that, fcuk 'em (not literally )
They ain't worth your time. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Post on a Friday night...........
Wanted, a small team of bathers, dressers and make-up artists, to include a cute man delivered on completion. A girl can ask  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do feel for you in your busy schedule.
I know women like to make up, but I for one like to see the lady without the make up the fineries. After all its the person we've come too see.
As for not mucking out, I went with a stable girl once that smell is pretty hard too disguise. So you are lucky there.
Just carry on as you are, at your own pace |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Post on a Friday night...........
Wanted, a small team of bathers, dressers and make-up artists, to include a cute man delivered on completion. A girl can ask "
I like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Work & life can get in the way of fun and we all sometimes feel knackered, unmotivated and just can't be bothered to do anything outside of the work/sleep cycle, you are not alone.
Maybe think about an "off the cuff" meet where one afternoon you say to yourself "right We are going to meet someone tonight" and we do it and it kinda re-energizes us and is a great pick me up, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be. "
It's really hard at times I know but try not to let the buggers grind you down. x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I certainly understood you and know exactly what you mean.
A couple of the posters on that thread clearly had issues of some sort but everyone else got it.
Yes, I've posted before about sometimes wanting to do spontaneous meets but not being/feeling able to because it takes me at least a few hours to feel adequately groomed and prepared for a meet.
I have sleep issues and other health problems that also leave me tired a lot of the time, which doesn't help. I don't keep myself as maintained as I would like as a result. Some days I struggle even to do the basics and I'll neglect to do things for myself so I can take care of my cats. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I certainly understood you and know exactly what you mean.
A couple of the posters on that thread clearly had issues of some sort but everyone else got it.
Yes, I've posted before about sometimes wanting to do spontaneous meets but not being/feeling able to because it takes me at least a few hours to feel adequately groomed and prepared for a meet.
I have sleep issues and other health problems that also leave me tired a lot of the time, which doesn't help. I don't keep myself as maintained as I would like as a result. Some days I struggle even to do the basics and I'll neglect to do things for myself so I can take care of my cats."
You got it, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be. "
Don't take other people comments to heart, some people have no voice in the real world and this is the place they can have a voice on an equal footing with everyone else  sometimes people are just mean, spiteful and nasty. Ignore them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be.
Don't take other people comments to heart, some people have no voice in the real world and this is the place they can have a voice on an equal footing with everyone else sometimes people are just mean, spiteful and nasty. Ignore them "
I guess they got what they are after. Serves me right for rejecting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be. "
It's not your fault people misunderstood. People often don't read threads properly or misunderstand. Your thread made perfect sense.
I'd think lots of women would agree that they can't often be bothered and would rather do without. You're certainly not alone. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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P.S. I mentioned your thread on the 'Memorable threads' thread because it was an example of utter madness and misunderstanding. The nuttiness that makes this forum unique. Not because of your OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"P.S. I mentioned your thread on the 'Memorable threads' thread because it was an example of utter madness and misunderstanding. The nuttiness that makes this forum unique. Not because of your OP. "
Love you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be.
Don't take other people comments to heart, some people have no voice in the real world and this is the place they can have a voice on an equal footing with everyone else sometimes people are just mean, spiteful and nasty. Ignore them
I guess they got what they are after. Serves me right for rejecting them "
Yes many people do take rejection badly! Don't worry about it, they soon scamper back to there sad little lives, much love to you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As well as a Spa team that deliver cute men (if I lived nearer I'd help ya).
There is always child labour exploitation. For a pocket money sized fee, you could pay someone who is horsey mad, to help turn your horse out occasionally to enable you to get home earlier
*disclaimer, the child exploitation was a joke* |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Thank you. Feeling pretty upset at how deliberately, unnecessarily unkind some can be.
It's not your fault people misunderstood. People often don't read threads properly or misunderstand. Your thread made perfect sense.
I'd think lots of women would agree that they can't often be bothered and would rather do without. You're certainly not alone. xx"
I believe at least one person on that thread had a vested interest in misunderstanding and was trying to turn it into something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure Ive turned down one guy that has now tried to turn it back on me by trying making me feel this is unacceptable, I couldn't give a shit. "
I forgot this bit you said.
Don't ever let anyone else make you feel shit. If they turn on you for whatever reason it just means you were right to turn them down.
Why would you feel bad for not meeting someone like that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain."
Exactly this.
I know it's flippin annoying when a man can have a refresh shower, stick on a suit and is ready.
But believe me, we understand the time, effort, money and pain that ladies go through.
It's appreciated.
And if anyone says anything other than this they are being disingenuous or deliberately mean. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Exactly this.
I know it's flippin annoying when a man can have a refresh shower, stick on a suit and is ready.
But believe me, we understand the time, effort, money and pain that ladies go through.
It's appreciated.
And if anyone says anything other than this they are being disingenuous or deliberately mean. "
Or genuinely knows absolutely fuck all about women and may not even have been intimate with a real one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Exactly this.
I know it's flippin annoying when a man can have a refresh shower, stick on a suit and is ready.
But believe me, we understand the time, effort, money and pain that ladies go through.
It's appreciated.
And if anyone says anything other than this they are being disingenuous or deliberately mean.
Or genuinely knows absolutely fuck all about women and may not even have been intimate with a real one.
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Yeah, I'll give you that. I hadn't even considered that because I don't have to deal with the lads online when school is out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Completely get this.
With work, kids and other commitments we both often feel like this.
We had planned to go a club Saturday night, had sitter sorted to have them overnight at theirs.
By the time we got sorted after school uniform shopping, visiting family, getting the kids fed, bathed and dropped off at the sitters, we were too tired to get sorted and go to the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Exactly this.
I know it's flippin annoying when a man can have a refresh shower, stick on a suit and is ready.
But believe me, we understand the time, effort, money and pain that ladies go through.
It's appreciated.
And if anyone says anything other than this they are being disingenuous or deliberately mean.
Or genuinely knows absolutely fuck all about women and may not even have been intimate with a real one.
Yeah, I'll give you that. I hadn't even considered that because I don't have to deal with the lads online when school is out "
I've found it's the older men who expect the works when they ask to meet. They want sexy lingerie, stockings,short skirt,cleavage,a face full of make up and want a fumble under a pub table. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"At least you don't have to get up too early in the morning, eh?
06.30am isn't early  "
I think it's possibly considered early by some.
I work part time and on those days, I'm in work for 4.45. When I'm working for myself, I'll have a lie in until 5-5.30.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you all the way. I like to be prepared and don't always feel like spontaneous meets. If a guy wants to meet you and feels strongly, then he will wait for your "perfect moment" when you have had the time to make yourself ready and prepared. Just think; then it would all be worth the effort. If a guy won't be patient, then they aren't worth your beautiful company.
Best xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the majority completly understood what you meant. Please don't feel you need to explain.
Exactly this.
I know it's flippin annoying when a man can have a refresh shower, stick on a suit and is ready.
But believe me, we understand the time, effort, money and pain that ladies go through.
It's appreciated.
And if anyone says anything other than this they are being disingenuous or deliberately mean.
Or genuinely knows absolutely fuck all about women and may not even have been intimate with a real one.
Yeah, I'll give you that. I hadn't even considered that because I don't have to deal with the lads online when school is out
I've found it's the older men who expect the works when they ask to meet. They want sexy lingerie, stockings,short skirt,cleavage,a face full of make up and want a fumble under a pub table. "
Glad I'm not old yet then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least you don't have to get up too early in the morning, eh?
06.30am isn't early
For him, no.
He's one of those farmer types."
Yeah, but they have little afternoon naps
I get up at 05.30am, but I consider anything before 7am early personally. |
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Totally agree with you. I have an autoimmune issue whuch causes horrific fatigue and can fluctuate day to day. Along with working full time there are days I can just about get myself dresses let alone primp and preen in preparation for a meet.
Which sucks. Mind is willing body is so not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look. "
Baby growlers (growlets) feel soft and nice under fingertips |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look.
Baby growlers (growlets) feel soft and nice under fingertips "
I don't mean a growlet, I mean literally half a growler. And the other half bald |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look. "
Epilator . ouch!
So a grov or a vler? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look.
Epilator . ouch!
So a grov or a vler?"
I have a high pain threshold |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look.
Epilator . ouch!
So a grov or a vler?
I have a high pain threshold "
I've had a bad experience with an epilator on more than one occasion, which may be colouring my view.
I'm um rather um fleshy down there  Fleshy areas can be badly suited to the use of epilators. Sections of skin can become pinched and trapped between the rotating bit and the edge of the device.
It's happened enough times that epilating there no longer happens under any circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look.
Epilator . ouch!
So a grov or a vler?
I have a high pain threshold
I've had a bad experience with an epilator on more than one occasion, which may be colouring my view.
I'm um rather um fleshy down there Fleshy areas can be badly suited to the use of epilators. Sections of skin can become pinched and trapped between the rotating bit and the edge of the device.
It's happened enough times that epilating there no longer happens under any circumstances."
I know the pain - I've nipped a fleshy bit many a time but have got more adept at holding bits taught and other bits out of the way.
I did love my lycon waxes, but it grows back so quickly on me I felt like I was spending a fortune and only getting a week smooth. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"My September resolution is to keep on top of my grooming so it's a series of small jobs rather than a mammoth, Herculean task. Half an hour with the epilator and I now have only half a growler. It's a good look.
Epilator . ouch!
So a grov or a vler?
I have a high pain threshold
I've had a bad experience with an epilator on more than one occasion, which may be colouring my view.
I'm um rather um fleshy down there Fleshy areas can be badly suited to the use of epilators. Sections of skin can become pinched and trapped between the rotating bit and the edge of the device.
It's happened enough times that epilating there no longer happens under any circumstances.
I know the pain - I've nipped a fleshy bit many a time but have got more adept at holding bits taught and other bits out of the way.
I did love my lycon waxes, but it grows back so quickly on me I felt like I was spending a fortune and only getting a week smooth. "
If I ever decide to use a different method of hair removal there, I can guarantee it won't be my epilator.
I'd rather try a flame thrower. I reckon it would be less painful and do less damage to my skin! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Hi, Just a thought but an exgf rode someone's horse for free, The owner was too busy during the week to do it with work & other stuff taking up her time. So my gf would muck him out, groom, change straw whatever during the week & was allowed to ride him Tues/Thurs. She could go for a bit of a walk anyday but a proper ride/gallop only on the above days. The owner would ride & do the jobs at the weekend..
Wondering if this would work with yourself?
Best Wishes & do what you need to do, bollox to anyone that has a pop..x
H |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi, Just a thought but an exgf rode someone's horse for free, The owner was too busy during the week to do it with work & other stuff taking up her time. So my gf would muck him out, groom, change straw whatever during the week & was allowed to ride him Tues/Thurs. She could go for a bit of a walk anyday but a proper ride/gallop only on the above days. The owner would ride & do the jobs at the weekend..
Wondering if this would work with yourself?
Best Wishes & do what you need to do, bollox to anyone that has a pop..x
H"
Thank you, I can't let others ride him. It's complicated but basically it's excellent physio for me and we compete, so we need to train together, but thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although..I can't think of a time when I had a meet with soneone who'd put on lingerie...
Unless pants are 'lingerie'..."
Jeeze...thought you would be buried under a pile of thongs and stockings and suspenders!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it's an uncommon thing that the OP is feeling. Sometimes i'd love to meet but by the time i get home, i'm beat. I work twelve hr shifts. If i'm on days, i'm up at 5am and don't get back from work until 7.30. That's if i come straight home after. If i'm on nights, i'm up at 4 or 5pm and back next morning around 7.30am. Then into bed! Although, i would like to meet. I just don't have the time to give to someone else. When there are more important things to me, that i want to spend my free time on. Like family, friends and me.
I know we all get ourselves spruced up for a meet but i wouldn't think that the OP needs any makeup to look pretty. From your pics, you have a natural beauty that doesn't require any. Just an observation. Nothing else and no offense intended. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think it's an uncommon thing that the OP is feeling. Sometimes i'd love to meet but by the time i get home, i'm beat. I work twelve hr shifts. If i'm on days, i'm up at 5am and don't get back from work until 7.30. That's if i come straight home after. If i'm on nights, i'm up at 4 or 5pm and back next morning around 7.30am. Then into bed! Although, i would like to meet. I just don't have the time to give to someone else. When there are more important things to me, that i want to spend my free time on. Like family, friends and me.
I know we all get ourselves spruced up for a meet but i wouldn't think that the OP needs any makeup to look pretty. From your pics, you have a natural beauty that doesn't require any. Just an observation. Nothing else and no offense intended. "
That's really nice of you, thank you |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I was surprised at how the other thread went Lady T and a bit saddened that you feel you have to justify yourself. You really don't.
So are you saying you turned a certain poster down on the other thread and he reacted badly? If so, what a bloody bellend
Ps I quite like the smell of horse shit |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Although..I can't think of a time when I had a meet with soneone who'd put on lingerie...
Unless pants are 'lingerie'...
Jeeze...thought you would be buried under a pile of thongs and stockings and suspenders!!!! "
It wasn't a criticism though...
"posh pants" are not high on my list of stuff that I care about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm meeting guys, when I have the energy to make myself look and feel as good as I can/want to. So, ergo, I'm not meeting right now because I'm knackered.
I'm knackered because I work full time and I have a horse who doesn't groom, feed, exercise himself or turn himself out (fortunately I don't have to muck him out). These things mean I am rarely home before eight at night, and I still have to feed myself and do all the household stuff that we all do. Being disabled, most things take me probably at least three times as long as someone non - disabled. I'm not whinging that's just life.
If I want to meet during the week, I need to really motor, and getting up at six thirty means the meet won't last long simply so I can get a decent nights sleep to do an effective job. So that means weekends only for meets. I still have the house and horse to do though and I want/need a lie in as well as seeing my friends and family. So shoot me.
I have several meets lined up, but they're in the future and I'll build in the time to make myself as presentable as possible. Unfortunately unlike some women, I need make up snd ask the other beauty things, to look and feel good about myself enough to hope the guy I'm meeting will want to fuck me.
I'm not looking for pity, I was merely wondering if anyone else feels similarly, wanting to look ones best, to feel as desirable as possible, but despairs at not having the energy or time to give ones best to a potential guy they're meeting for the most successful outcome.
I'm pretty sure Ive turned down one guy that has now tried to turn it back on me by trying making me feel this is unacceptable, I couldn't give a shit. "
My motto is if they don't appreciate you at your worst they don't deserve to see you at your best  |
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"I don't think it's an uncommon thing that the OP is feeling. Sometimes i'd love to meet but by the time i get home, i'm beat. I work twelve hr shifts. If i'm on days, i'm up at 5am and don't get back from work until 7.30. That's if i come straight home after. If i'm on nights, i'm up at 4 or 5pm and back next morning around 7.30am. Then into bed! Although, i would like to meet. I just don't have the time to give to someone else. When there are more important things to me, that i want to spend my free time on. Like family, friends and me.
I know we all get ourselves spruced up for a meet but i wouldn't think that the OP needs any makeup to look pretty. From your pics, you have a natural beauty that doesn't require any. Just an observation. Nothing else and no offense intended.
That's really nice of you, thank you "
It's my pleasure. I was a little taken aback with you saying...
"Unfortunately unlike some women, I need make up snd ask the other beauty things, to look and feel good about myself enough to hope the guy I'm meeting will want to fuck me."
When i first looked at your profile, I thought you were absolutely stunning. I haven't changed my thought on that either. There are so many women on Fab. Being on and off the site for about three yrs now, i've done my fair share of perving! But i have not seen any that would compare to just how lovely you look. I'm just very sorry that i have not presented myself in a more gentlemanly and understanding manner in the past. |
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I think a lot of us wish we had a magic booth we could go into when we are looking a bit unkempt and then "ta-dah"! we emerge meet ready.
Sadly not so. Life gets in the way.
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over a year ago
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Which sort of epilator do you use? I want to get a new one! Am slowly getting used to the epilation of more delicate areas.. aided with wine and an ice pack! |
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over a year ago
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Wow. Some wilful obnoxiousness going on in that first thread. Chin up, Lady T. Meet who you want, when you want and do stuff at a pace that works for you. No point half-arsing it. |
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"I'm meeting guys, when I have the energy to make myself look and feel as good as I can/want to. So, ergo, I'm not meeting right now because I'm knackered.
I'm knackered because I work full time and I have a horse who doesn't groom, feed, exercise himself or turn himself out (fortunately I don't have to muck him out). These things mean I am rarely home before eight at night, and I still have to feed myself and do all the household stuff that we all do. Being disabled, most things take me probably at least three times as long as someone non - disabled. I'm not whinging that's just life.
If I want to meet during the week, I need to really motor, and getting up at six thirty means the meet won't last long simply so I can get a decent nights sleep to do an effective job. So that means weekends only for meets. I still have the house and horse to do though and I want/need a lie in as well as seeing my friends and family. So shoot me.
I have several meets lined up, but they're in the future and I'll build in the time to make myself as presentable as possible. Unfortunately unlike some women, I need make up snd ask the other beauty things, to look and feel good about myself enough to hope the guy I'm meeting will want to fuck me.
I'm not looking for pity, I was merely wondering if anyone else feels similarly, wanting to look ones best, to feel as desirable as possible, but despairs at not having the energy or time to give ones best to a potential guy they're meeting for the most successful outcome.
I'm pretty sure Ive turned down one guy that has now tried to turn it back on me by trying making me feel this is unacceptable, I couldn't give a shit. "
You've taken the time to write this in order to explain what was blindingly bleeding obvious from your initial post?
I've not read through the responses in this thread, but I reckon I can guess. Supportive, empathetic and understanding.
As it says in Desiderata; ignore the dull and the ignorant, they are vexations to the soul.
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I understood exactly what you were saying in the previous threads OP Lady T. Took a very bizarre and unnecessary turn, pity they never took the time to read it properly before looking the fool.
So to answer that question.
I have been in a can't be arsed mood about meeting for a few months, so I haven't. Hubby asks if I fancy going to our favourite club, I think about it for 10 seconds, list the things I need to do to get ready and just can't be bothered. Seems like too much effort, PJs in front of the TV is so much easier. |
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