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Are women on here just to attention seek?
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "You can't be everyone's type for one thing, and perseverance and patience is key in this realm. I know some women are attention seekers, some meet, some don't. Just focus on the ones who do engage with you. | |||
"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?" Agree  | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Some men are attention seekers too, there are lots of women on here who meet. XXX | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
Some men are attention seekers too, there are lots of women on here who meet. XXX"Me personally I'm definitely more of a doer I just show what I would do in a meet  | |||
"Yes...I am
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"Yes...I am
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Surely those with 100 plus veris have perfected the art of attention seeking! | |||
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"Yes...I am
Knew it!!! "It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week) | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "We are sure you have your reasons why you are on this site. Are they not allowed that same choice? Attention-seeking or not, it is entirely up to them. Regards. | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
Surely those with 100 plus veris have perfected the art of attention seeking!"Yeah , love the attention   | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week) "How about the week of 17th November 2018? | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "A week in Fabland is nothing. You'll need patience by the bag load. Sounds as if your expectations of the site were too high. Stick with it and try and keep a positive attitude. It can be hard on here at times but can also be great fun. | |||
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"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?"Let me check... 11/11/16 is my next appointment Or 3/12-5/12 2016 But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers  | |||
"Ironically with this post, is it not you that's seeking the attention? "
Men seek attention too. | |||
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"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?
Let me check...
11/11/16 is my next appointment
Or 3/12-5/12 2016
But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers "I'll give you a christmas special to remember | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?
Let me check...
11/11/16 is my next appointment
Or 3/12-5/12 2016
But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers " | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?
Let me check...
11/11/16 is my next appointment
Or 3/12-5/12 2016
But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers
"You have a big house in the country, can I hide with you? | |||
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p.s new pic up please fab xxx | |||
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"Yup self confessed attention seeker here who also meets cos it means I get even more attention. p.s new pic up please fab xxx"Consider yourself fabbed  | |||
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"Yes...I am
"Fairplay | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?
Let me check...
11/11/16 is my next appointment
Or 3/12-5/12 2016
But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers "Damn it!! I'm washing my hair on the 11th December is no good either I'm in Pantomime | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
How about the week of 17th November 2018?
Let me check...
11/11/16 is my next appointment
Or 3/12-5/12 2016
But after that I might leave the site because I can't cope with all the attention seeking and stalkers
Damn it!! I'm washing my hair on the 11th December is no good either I'm in Pantomime "Oh buggery | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!! Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom | |||
"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?" | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
We are sure you have your reasons why you are on this site.
Are they not allowed that same choice?
Attention-seeking or not, it is entirely up to them.
Regards."This is s good point, there are many and varied reasons people are on here. | |||
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"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!!
Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom "Strange isn't it that women don't throw themselves at the feet of men. I've never understood why not? | |||
"Some are. Some aren't. I am so fab my new pic ffs and stop moaning!!! Oh and if you are hoping to meet a woman older than yourself perhaps your username might put some off "My hero | |||
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"Isn't everyone here attention seeking. Otherwise how do they get meets?" This. | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "It's nothing you're doing fella .. it's not the ladies fault either .. . It's mine ..
I'm just too damned popular.. Yep they're all giving me all of their attention..
Welcome to the forums ...stick around join in and enjoy the place,  | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Hello O.P. Who knows why women are here ? What are you doing wrong ? Well you are showing that if you don't get your own way - immediately - then you invent half truths about people. You assume. | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
Good lord! Yet another 'I've been here a week now and I'm puzzled because women aren't throwing themselves at me so it must be their fault' thread!!
Lighten up and lose the neediness fella .. no one likes a moaner, unless it's in the bedroom "If the site allowed you to post prior to the 7 day period, let's say as soon as you joined ... how long do you think before someone posted I've been here .......and no meets ?   | |||
"Yup self confessed attention seeker here who also meets cos it means I get even more attention. p.s new pic up please fab xxx
Consider yourself fabbed "Thank you beautiful xxx | |||
"Some are. Some aren't. I am so fab my new pic ffs and stop moaning!!! Oh and if you are hoping to meet a woman older than yourself perhaps your username might put some off "this ( fab LL's pic) and your name is not conducive to your aim and you've been on here week? first post on the forums? lets hope they get less whingy as time goes on... | |||
If you want instant gratification, there are other ways OP.
It takes time, even for us "attention seeking chicks" so you need to be patient! | |||
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"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success! If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)! I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles! * Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?! * Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps? * Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet? * Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you. * Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed. * Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look. * Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man! That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! "youre a very nice man to do this for him..thankyou..it was noticed by someone xx | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "come over to Ireland and I'll meet ya  | |||
"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success! If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)! I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles! * Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?! * Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps? * Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet? * Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you. * Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed. * Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look. * Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man! That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! youre a very nice man to do this for him..thankyou..it was noticed by someone xx"You're welcome good lady, and thank you for your kind words, always appreciated! xx | |||
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"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me "I'd do more than get nekkid with you | |||
"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me "Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week) "Next week? | |||
"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me
Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics "Number uno attention seeker | |||
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"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me
Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics
Number uno attention seeker "I got yours didn't I | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "OP your 26 years old. dear god man what are doing on here if you want a cougar get your bloody arse down the local club on a over 40s night dress smart smell nice and be polite you will pull . that's providing your not a fuck wit and can actually talk to a woman with out going bright red and stammering like a idiot. jesus 26 and I'm presuming single needing to use a site like this to get ones kicks the mind bogies. when I was 26 I got what ever I wanted by attending the right club and then putting my social skills to good use. and yes that includes older women women my own age or younger and yes kinky women to. bloody hell get off your arse and off the internet social interacting the old fashion way bets the internet into a pulp when it come to pulling for fun , | |||
"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me
Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics "I'll turn you, yet!
Hope you had a good time! | |||
"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me
Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics
I'll turn you, yet!
Hope you had a good time!"
Amazing time thanks xx | |||
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"A week? I've been here a few months and had little luck; a couple of play sessions in a club has been my only success! If you're a single man, unfortunately the odds are stacked against you (like trying to use a colander to bail out water from a sinking ship)! I try to be as helpful as I can, so will offer the same advice as I do to others, but again, don't expect miracles! * Have a look at your profile - put in your bio what you can offer a woman. Remember, you are just one amongst HUNDREDS of single men on here, so why should a woman pick you above every other man? Imagine you're a lady when looking at your profile - would you want to meet you?! * Can you accommodate? If not, say why! Not saying so will automatically lead a woman to assume you have something to hide, like ooh....a girlfriend or wife perhaps? * Check your spelling and grammar! Sounds daft I know, but simple errors like this can be off-putting to a woman. If you can't be bothered to get the basics right, then what will that say to a potential meet? * Upload plenty of pics! I believe torso shots, underwear shots, suit pics and smiling pics are popular with the ladies on here! I uploaded some pics of me in my job inter_iew suit and my profile _iewings shot up!!! No cock shots though! If you must however, maybe keep those to your "friends only" section. There are lots of threads on here though about profile advice; do a search for those and pick out some pointers from these that may suit you. * Contribute to the forums whenever you can, that is a good way to get you noticed. * Get to a club or social if possible. This will give you the opportunity to meet fellow Fabbers, show that you are indeed a real person, and maybe help get you some vital verifications! The "Meets and Events" section on here is a good place to look. * Finally, have patience! Some members have been on here for months, maybe longer, without getting a meet! Don't expect too much from this site, especially as a single man! That's enough rambling from me anyway, good luck to you, and welcome to Fab! "Them's wise words right there. | |||
"They won't meet you so it's a problem with them (i.e. they're just attention seekers)? They won't meet you so you assume they won't meet at all? Or could it actually be you just haven't found anyone who wants to meet you yet? Two weeks here is no time at all. Very few guys, if any, turn up here and find themselves knee deep in fanny by dinner time. There are loads of guys here compared with the number of women/couples. Your expectations of the site may have been a bit off the mark. Be patient and stick with it." And here's a few more, particularly the last paragraph. | |||
"Yes...I am
Knew it!!!
It's common knowledge surely, I'm not here to meet (this week)
Next week? "I'm away next weekend | |||
"Yes, I'm here seeking the attention of horny males and females who'd like to get nekkid with me
Stupid holiday!!! I didn't notice the new pics
Number uno attention seeker
I got yours didn't I "I wouldn't call that an achievement really . You only have to look stunning | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Of course we're here for attention. That doesn't mean we're self seeking idiots who don't meet--when we find the right one(s). | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention?
Of course we're here for attention.
That doesn't mean we're self seeking idiots who don't meet--when we find the right one(s)." hello | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Somewhat of an oxymoron there we think ! You've been here a week. ? Many are here 5 years and never achieve a meet !! | |||
"So been on here a week or so now, and I'm still yet to find someonewho can even exchange more than one message let alone meet. I understand I'm not 'verified' but how am I meant to get verified if no one will meet me lol? I'm Definitely normal and I'm definitely not a time waster. Before you guys say I need face pictures or what ever. I do. And I send them with every first message. So what am I doing wrong or is it just the case that of all the women apart from the ones with 100+ meets are just here for attention? "Somewhat of an oxymoron there we think ! You've been here a week. ? Many are here 5 years and never achieve a meet !! | |||
