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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is starting to get to me. I can't remember the last time I reached managed to cum while having sex. even when the sex is great there comes a time where you just can't give anymore. Thinking this is more in the head putting pressure on myself to make sure I please the woman before my own pleasure. Anyone had similar issue or have any thoughts? |
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Did you answer your own question? Self-pressures and perhaps not letting yourself be in the moment, fully enjoying every possible sensory pleasure. You'll be a great partner if your intentions are right but also letting go.
Would group fun take the focus away from just you having full responsibility for one person?
Or maybe discuss with others first that this has happened and you'd like to explore a different approach, so that they can support you getting to cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just a man thing!
I'm very much like this. I'm so self conscious that I don't come very often.
With my regular partner it's a bit different but I have told him that although I don't always cum it doesn't mean I'm not enjoying myself. For me it's not the ultimate goal.
Can you cum when you wank? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Paul used to be like this, he could only cum solo, he warned me before the first time we had sex as he didn't want me to think it was to do with me. Anyway after we had been together a few months he was "cured" and he always cums with me now. However he rarely cums when we play with others, so it's definitely to do with pressure and nervousness op X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you cum when you wank? Does it bother you that you can't cum when you have sex? If it doesn't bother you then be happy.  Maybe tell the other person beforehand to take the pressure off. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the above poster. And if it does bother you then stop wanking. Guarantee that if you don't wank for a week you'll be cumming like a waterfall |
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