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Have you ever had a moment where just one thing has tipped you over the edge to actually cut ties , maybe after a long long time of going back and forth ?
Think I'm there |
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"Have you ever had a moment where just one thing has tipped you over the edge to actually cut ties , maybe after a long long time of going back and forth ?
Think I'm there "
Yup. Best thing I did. Cut ties. Game over. |
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"Have you ever had a moment where just one thing has tipped you over the edge to actually cut ties , maybe after a long long time of going back and forth ?
Think I'm there "
Yes I ended my 11year marriage last year, it was a relief to finally admit that I didn't love him but I felt that if been living a lie for about a year. Then I met Mr SlapnTickle and never looked back xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After being in a relationship for 23 years,we were arguing and he said i was no more than shit on his shoes.I would have walked to the end of the earth for that man,but those words killed everything in an instant,and i wouldnt pee on him now if he was on fire,hes been trying for two years to get me back ,but never in a million years, finished ,over,gone,booooooooom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, lots of times. I'm still friends with my ex husband and several ex boyfriends. I wish I felt differently about the exhusband though. I wish I loved him like he deserves. |
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"Have you ever had a moment where just one thing has tipped you over the edge to actually cut ties , maybe after a long long time of going back and forth ?
Think I'm there "
Yes and it turned my worrld upside down but it was so worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hardest thing I did was end a long term relationship. I know I'm only young, but if I hadn't had done that, I would still be with her now and I wouldn't be doing the things I'm doing or going travelling.
It was hard but it was best. I'll always care about her though. |
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My regret was not walking out first but I didn't have the financial security or confidence to do it as he'd made sure my self esteem was rock bottom. I knew after he'd left that I'd never loved him and towards the end despised him and how he treat me. Now it's 8 years later alright money is tight but I have a nice house and I'm happy as my daughter isn't living in an alcoholics shadow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever had a moment where just one thing has tipped you over the edge to actually cut ties , maybe after a long long time of going back and forth ?
Think I'm there "
I think once you've hit this stage its very hard to go back.. By the sounds of things that's not necessarily a bad thing.. Do whats best for you and be happy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yup - hubby did one thing that tipped the whole thing over the edge- for me i say it was like flicking the light switch on for me and i actually saw the whole picture - worst time at the time but the best thing in the long run - |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah, I gave a few chances and the doubts were growing and then when the next thing happened I was completely sure it was right and ended it.
It was only a matter of time after the doubts started to form. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this may feel harder before it feels easier "
It always does you have to go through the pain before things get better its all a part of the process - good luck and things will get better x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this may feel harder before it feels easier "
yup, it's going to be rough, which is why it took me as long as it did. But it was still a rough road when I did it. Delaying had just prolonged the misery.x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After being in a relationship for 23 years,we were arguing and he said i was no more than shit on his shoes.I would have walked to the end of the earth for that man,but those words killed everything in an instant,and i wouldnt pee on him now if he was on fire,hes been trying for two years to get me back ,but never in a million years, finished ,over,gone,booooooooom."
That's an awful thing to say  good for you for walking and not looking back.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this may feel harder before it feels easier "
It will do, you've got to hit the bottom to come back up but, if you're as unhappy in the relationship as it comes across, then it'll be worth it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes.
It took me a while to see the coercion and bullying, all wrapped up as charm, but I have less anxiety since cutting the ties.
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How was the coercion and bullying wrapped up as charm, genuinely interested. |
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