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Disgusting slut

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't stand for that. Did you report them?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Silly people

But giving them a reaction is what they seek

Keep shagging who you want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Insults can really hurt, but _iew is right, it's about them not you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow sorry you had to experience that. Report them as that's just unacceptable.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

aren't you glad you don't have to meet them?

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By *am-RaiderMan over a year ago

Corby

Choose not to care. Choose not to be offended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block, report, move on, find handsome black man you seek, fuck him senseless, and don't give the racist moron a second thought.

By post here, added to the status you've got up, you're giving them the reactions they feed off. Be the bigger person and rise above.

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By *uv2bseenCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

Ignore them guys and have your fun the way you want to.

What is it to do with others anyway?

Take care and have fun whichever way you choose.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Wouldn't have taken any notice of someone on a site trawling for sex with strangers as I am, hypocritically calling me out for my choice of playmates to be honest.

Nowt as queer as folk.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol.

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

bmfc??? Still trying to work out which football club this is lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting

bmfc??? Still trying to work out which football club this is lol"

Black Man Fan Club

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A little background they were here before and we think removed for racist comments however they ve returned under the guise of a single female ,yes we ve reported and reported every single pm to admin we hope they will deal with this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

Everyone is entitled to their preference but no need to be insulting about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for your posts guys we d like the thread closed now please because it is giving them the attention they crave just had to get it off our chest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This part of the web is truly an eye opener. I consider my self a man of the world as I have travelled and worked in most of it and I am not easily shocked or surprised as to human nature. The OP post is one of those times I am shocked it really is a sad place when insults are thrown based on the colour of skin. Takes allsorts I suppose........sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Choose not to care. Choose not to be offended. "

I thought being a 'disgusting slut' was a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Choose not to care. Choose not to be offended.

I thought being a 'disgusting slut' was a compliment

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Without the racist bit yes it is lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"A little background they were here before and we think removed for racist comments however they ve returned under the guise of a single female ,yes we ve reported and reported every single pm to admin we hope they will deal with this

I wonder if it's the couple who didn't meet black people, didn't meet people who had met black people, went through every verification to ensure there was at least six degrees of separation between anyone they would fuck having any sexual contact with a black person.

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd ignore them not exactly something you would say about a lady I most definitely wouldn't say that.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!"

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean. "

Exactly what I was just thinking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

Exactly what I was just thinking"

Some prejudices are more acceptable on here than others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least you hadn't already met them. I had an awkward conversation with someone after we had had sex with him telling me he doesn't meet women who have sex with black or bi men,of which I have met both. Stupid man should have asked before we fucked.

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By *icvicCouple over a year ago

callington

nothing wrong with meeting black guys my wife loves them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are a bit pc we admit and any kind of prejudice or discrimination we find offensive but racism ffs its 2016

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

In seven years that is the only night I recall on here. I think they introduced the 175 limit on threads after that as it almost crashed the site.

I also recall you telling them about their "tainted" list. To think people are that naive to think verifications tell the entire story of someone's sexual history.

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By *KMaxMan over a year ago

Bristol

Fuck'em.

Not literally of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Choose not to care. Choose not to be offended.

I thought being a 'disgusting slut' was a compliment

Ha ha ha! U can be mine anytime lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean. "

I think you miss the point somewhat. We all have preferences. I don't meet bi men but I wouldn't go through their verifications and the verifications of who'd they'd met and the verifications of the verifications ad nauseum.

Saying no blacks/bi/Asian should surfing. Who has the wherewithal to drill down so deep?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

Saying no blacks/bi/Asian should surfing. Who has the wherewithal to drill down so deep?!!

I don't think they are missing the point. I've seen profiles of men who won't meet women who meet bi men. It's exactly the same thing.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean. "

This..

Having big shouty statements about bi guys is fine apparently..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We take it as a compliment !

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By *unguya2zMan over a year ago

coventry..ish

Report them....and you have a great ass.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

That's brilliant! Wish I could've seen their faces when you told them

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

Saying no blacks/bi/Asian should surfing. Who has the wherewithal to drill down so deep?!!

I don't think they are missing the point. I've seen profiles of men who won't meet women who meet bi men. It's exactly the same thing."

I haven't seen that: yes, it is the same thing. Don't know how these people find time to meet with all their cross referencing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is allowed to have preferences.

No-one has to be a c*nt about explaining / expressing them, though.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean. "

it wasn't just their preference to not meet with black people..... but the fact that they don't want to meet with people that hand met with people that has met with black people.....

I am all for preference... but there has to still be preference within reason....that was preference bordering on racism....

so how fact back down the "degrees of seperation" route do we get to keep saying "well a preference is a preference"....

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By *rinkydonkyMan over a year ago

Hinckley

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

You know some of us need a link now don't you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

Saying no blacks/bi/Asian should surfing. Who has the wherewithal to drill down so deep?!!

I don't think they are missing the point. I've seen profiles of men who won't meet women who meet bi men. It's exactly the same thing.

I haven't seen that: yes, it is the same thing. Don't know how these people find time to meet with all their cross referencing! "

I know, the mind boggles!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone is allowed to have preferences.

No-one has to be a c*nt about explaining / expressing them, though. "

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By *rinkydonkyMan over a year ago

Hinckley

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "
...... "a disgusting slut" don't worry about it my little fb gets that all the time..... she loves it....put on your profile ' sticks n stones will break my bones.... but big black cock excites me" lol ...good luck in your quest x

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By *hor ThumbMan over a year ago

bristol

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "
report them, thats un acceptable. Hate this stuff!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

it wasn't just their preference to not meet with black people..... but the fact that they don't want to meet with people that hand met with people that has met with black people.....

I am all for preference... but there has to still be preference within reason....that was preference bordering on racism....

so how fact back down the "degrees of seperation" route do we get to keep saying "well a preference is a preference"...."

What do you mean bordering on racism!! How could it be any more racist?? Are you waiting for them to turn up to a social in their freshly ironed Klan robes before you say "Hmmm, think one flew over the cuckoos nest here"

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol.

As we are a reflection of society,perhaps we could all simply accept that a minority of swingers will have racist,sexist& hompphobic _iews, thoughts &opinions..yes report and move on but making a big deal about it only plays into the hands of the bigots..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting report them, thats un acceptable. Hate this stuff!"

If there's one think Jerry Springer has taught me, it's that most racists have fucked a person of colour. Their anger comes from the fact that they secretly lust after black cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

Saying no blacks/bi/Asian should surfing. Who has the wherewithal to drill down so deep?!!

I don't think they are missing the point. I've seen profiles of men who won't meet women who meet bi men. It's exactly the same thing.

I haven't seen that: yes, it is the same thing. Don't know how these people find time to meet with all their cross referencing! "

I suspect it leaves them too exhausted to meet.

I've chatted to guys in the past who have been interested in meeting until noticing verifications from bi men. It makes for an interesting (for me) and awkward (for them) conversation

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By *hor ThumbMan over a year ago

bristol

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting

aren't you glad you don't have to meet them?

"
hi suzi, tried to message you but yih don't accept messages from couples it seems. Oh well, just wanted to say you're our kinda gal x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting ...... "a disgusting slut" don't worry about it my little fb gets that all the time..... she loves it....put on your profile ' sticks n stones will break my bones.... but big black cock excites me" lol ...good luck in your quest x"
Like that

we hope we have nt blown this up but it did upset us a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If there's one think Jerry Springer has taught me, it's that most racists have fucked a person of colour. Their anger comes from the fact that they secretly lust after black cock. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When couples do this with bi men, as opposed to black ones, then it's defended on here as a 'preference', whatever that is supposed to mean.

it wasn't just their preference to not meet with black people..... but the fact that they don't want to meet with people that hand met with people that has met with black people.....

I am all for preference... but there has to still be preference within reason....that was preference bordering on racism....

so how fact back down the "degrees of seperation" route do we get to keep saying "well a preference is a preference"...."

Completely agree "sorry dont meet black guys" is a sexual preference and we all have them "dont meet anyone who has had contact with black guys" is down right racist and should be a criminal offence in 2016 this shit should have ended a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hate this, thought swingers would be more liberal.

They must mean 90% of people they wish to meet in this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hate this, thought swingers would be more liberal.

They must mean 90% of people they wish to meet in this"

You're new here. Swingers aren't all that different from the majority of the population, at least if the forums are anything to go by.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems so which is a real shame

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Hate this, thought swingers would be more liberal.

They must mean 90% of people they wish to meet in this

You're new here. Swingers aren't all that different from the majority of the population, at least if the forums are anything to go by. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems so which is a real shame"

Yeah sorry to be the one to break it to you. It's just like normal life really, but with more gangbangs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems so which is a real shame

Yeah sorry to be the one to break it to you. It's just like normal life really, but with more gangbangs. "

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

More liberal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems so which is a real shame

Yeah sorry to be the one to break it to you. It's just like normal life really, but with more gangbangs. "

lol at least humour shines through

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Hate this, thought swingers would be more liberal.

They must mean 90% of people they wish to meet in this

You're new here. Swingers aren't all that different from the majority of the population, at least if the forums are anything to go by. "

If the forums are anything to go by, swingers are a lot less liberal than the majority of the population! They are liberal with their attitudes to sex, and that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can "won't meet black people" not be racist? Would it be ok to write "won't meet disabled people" or "won't meet women who have had mastectomy surgery"? I don't think so. It's prejudice at best, and more probably it absolutely is racist!

"Looking for well endowed men" is a sexual preference.

"Looking for women with big tits" is a sexual preference.

"I won't meet anyone,of any shape size or personality trait if there skin is black" IS racist!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems so which is a real shame

Yeah sorry to be the one to break it to you. It's just like normal life really, but with more gangbangs.

lol at least humour shines through"

Yes, I rely on personality and witt to get meets because I've got a fuck ugly face.

- Him

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"How can "won't meet black people" not be racist? Would it be ok to write "won't meet disabled people" or "won't meet women who have had mastectomy surgery"? I don't think so. It's prejudice at best, and more probably it absolutely is racist!

"Looking for well endowed men" is a sexual preference.

"Looking for women with big tits" is a sexual preference.

"I won't meet anyone,of any shape size or personality trait if there skin is black" IS racist!!"

I disagree with you but understand your _iew and see why you think that.

I will meet black guys but won't meet Asian (indian subcontinent descent) guys.

I don't consider it racist.

I wouldn't judge or insult anyone else for meeting people I wouldn't meet though. That's just stupid.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Looking for well endowed men" is a sexual preference.

"Looking for women with big tits" is a sexual preference.

"I won't meet anyone,of any shape size or personality trait if there skin is black" IS racist!!"

I agree with this. If it was a sexual preference they wouldn't be meeting people who have very dark sun tans for three months of the year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looking for well endowed men" is a sexual preference.

"Looking for women with big tits" is a sexual preference.

"I won't meet anyone,of any shape size or personality trait if there skin is black" IS racist!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one"."

If we call it a preference then nobody will notice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we all have our types that turn us on more than others, doesn't mean racist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive? "

Absolutely not. It is however racist to suggest that every member of a certain ethnic group has the same, undesirable attributes.

If someone said I'm not attracted to white girls, end of story, they have in effect judged you and I to be the same, ignoring all of our differences and individual attributes, and deemed us both undesirable based only on the colour of our skin. That is racist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive? "

Why not just list the physical attributes you do / don't find attractive rather than assuming everyone in a given ethnic group has them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

Absolutely not. It is however racist to suggest that every member of a certain ethnic group has the same, undesirable attributes.

beat me to it!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one"."

Not only do I not consider I'm racist, I know I'm not.

I don't have to explain why I won't meet Asian guys to prove that though.

I've explained it on here before anyway. It's not because I think I'm superior or they are inferior, or because I think they're all the same.

I even realise it's highly likely there are some I would enjoy meeting. I've not met an Asian guy I've fancied in a club, but I'd be happy to play if I did. However, from here, no, I won't meet Asian guys. Not a single one.

Sex isn't a right, so I'm not discriminating against anyone by not wanting sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being racist doesn't mean that you're going to hang some poor soul from a tree. But it does mean that if you can dismiss someone purely from their skin colour or ancestry without even having a conversation with them,then you really need to ask yourself why. If you think the answer is "Out of all the people from that area of Asia i don't fancy or want to meet a single one of them" then I fear it's beyond merely 'preference'. IMO.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one"."

What if they don't find their facial features attractive or just don't feel any attraction towards brown skin,or Chinese people? Is it always a racist thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive? "

You think black people all look the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one".

What if they don't find their facial features attractive or just don't feel any attraction towards brown skin,or Chinese people? Is it always a racist thing? "

See above for people with a deep tan..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being racist doesn't mean that you're going to hang some poor soul from a tree. But it does mean that if you can dismiss someone purely from their skin colour or ancestry without even having a conversation with them,then you really need to ask yourself why. If you think the answer is "Out of all the people from that area of Asia i don't fancy or want to meet a single one of them" then I fear it's beyond merely 'preference'. IMO."

IMO too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same? "

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won't meet Scandinavians. I'm sure they are lovely people. But they're just to tall and blonde." Said no-one. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance. "

Asian guys don't do it for me.... it a choice thingy, but no need to be rude..

Morgan xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance. "

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

Yup, even the mixed race ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sigh.

Attention seeking and jealousy.

Sad behaviour.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I could say the same for everyone who has a preference which excludes an entire group of people.

Hell, even straight men or women. Should they be willing to have a conversation with every man/woman, in case there's an attraction?

Just because they've never yet been attracted to a man/woman, is it not homophobic and discriminatory to state they aren't attracted to roughly 50% of the population, who all have different personalities and attributes?

I don't have time to have a conversation and meet everyone who is interested in me. I prioritise those I am most likely to be attracted to, based on my experience.

I'm not saying I'm not attracted to any Asian guy but I'm more likely to be attracted to other guys, so I prioritise them. That means I don't meet Asian men.

I tend not to meet the over 50s for the same reason.

If there's someone Asian/over 50 here I'm definitely attracted to, it's different. That has happened a few times with over 50's but only once, ever, with an Asian guy.

I don't have a responsibility to meet everyone just to prove I'm not discriminating against anyone.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist"

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "
Does bmfc stand for black male female couple if so what's wrong with that is the other couple racist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Silly people

But giving them a reaction is what they seek

Keep shagging who you want to"

exactly,no need to feed their discrimination

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one".

What if they don't find their facial features attractive or just don't feel any attraction towards brown skin,or Chinese people? Is it always a racist thing? "

No, it isn't.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting Does bmfc stand for black male female couple if so what's wrong with that is the other couple racist."

Black Mens Fan Club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

Yeah, guys from the far east have similar physical characteristics and I don't find them attractive. But me not fancying them doesn't make them worth less. Not in my eyes, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist"

Do YOU?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As we are a reflection of society,perhaps we could all simply accept that a minority of swingers will have racist,sexist& hompphobic _iews, thoughts &opinions..yes report and move on but making a big deal about it only plays into the hands of the bigots.."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Block and move on"

Yep. It's really that easy.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition."

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

Yeah, guys from the far east have similar physical characteristics and I don't find them attractive. But me not fancying them doesn't make them worth less. Not in my eyes, anyway. "

It's also quite common in Essex. Better watch out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm attracted to someone regardless of race il have sex with them (if they wanted that is ) I wouldn't rule out a race. Just my opinion X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

Yeah, guys from the far east have similar physical characteristics and I don't find them attractive. But me not fancying them doesn't make them worth less. Not in my eyes, anyway.

It's also quite common in Essex. Better watch out. "

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them."

Yes, much better put than I was able to

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

I remember.

I had a message around then telling me I need to make it clear on my profile that I'm not white as my pictures can look like I'm 'just tanned'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them."

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes that's me or so I m told by a couple yesterday evening because we as a couple meet black guys ,at the time they had a status saying bmfc was disgusting "

Some people are really nasty i for one like what i see and would jump for the chance to play with you both .you have done all you can by reporting them i hope it gets sorted out soon xx

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it racist to not find the physical attributes of someone sexually attractive?

You think black people all look the same?

No, however Chinese or Japanese men's eyes aren't attractive to me , for instance.

Ah, so you think Chinese and Japanese people all have they same eyes. Well that's fine then.

Yeah, guys from the far east have similar physical characteristics and I don't find them attractive. But me not fancying them doesn't make them worth less. Not in my eyes, anyway. "

Yes, the probability is that they do, even if it's not a 100% chance.

If you know you are far less likely to find them attractive, it seems sensible to me to use the finite time you have available for meets to meet people you are more likely to find attractive.

Anyone expecting someone to chat to and meet absolutely everyone in case there's an attraction is being unrealistic imo.

I fancy far more white/black guys (and sometimes mixed race guys) than I do Asian guys. So I meet white/black (and sometimes mixed race) guys for preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism. "

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another. "

No it isn't. That's just a made up definition from people who want to claim that black people can't be racist. Racism is, to paraphrase MLK who knew a thing or two on the subject, 'judging someone by the colour of their skin rather than the content of their character'.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another. "

Or discrimination against someone- such as turning them down for a job or housing - because of their race or skin colour.

But sex not being a human right and all, and nobody being entitled to sex with me, not wanting sex with someone is not discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

That definition doesn't exclude black people from being racist.

And yes, I agree with what Martin Luther King said, but I don't see how it contradicts the accepted definition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess that's the danger. People don't consider that they are racist. "I'm not a racist, but i won't meet anyone from the Indian sub-continent. Not a single one".

If we call it a preference then nobody will notice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

Or discrimination against someone- such as turning them down for a job or housing - because of their race or skin colour.

But sex not being a human right and all, and nobody being entitled to sex with me, not wanting sex with someone is not discrimination."

- The way you described your preference, it's not racist.

- Simply saying "No Asians" is a racist statement, even if it doesn't come from a racist person. - You could easily say "I generally prefer white or black guys, whilst I don't entirely rule out Asians, you probably won't get a reply". That's not racist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

That definition doesn't exclude black people from being racist.

And yes, I agree with what Martin Luther King said, but I don't see how it contradicts the accepted definition. "
Very true one of the biggest racists on the planet now is Robert Mugabe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

Or discrimination against someone- such as turning them down for a job or housing - because of their race or skin colour."
which still is a value judgment.

" But sex not being a human right and all, and nobody being entitled to sex with me, not wanting sex with someone is not discrimination."

Yeah, exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now they were a couple with serious issues!!!

I remember that night all them years ago... and i have to say it's still one of the nights i have been most proud to have been on fab swingers as everyone turned on them in disbelief...

the most ironic thing about it was when i "informed" them their verification list wasn't quite as "pure" as they thought it was.....

I remember.

I had a message around then telling me I need to make it clear on my profile that I'm not white as my pictures can look like I'm 'just tanned'."

How very sad some people are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""I won't meet Scandinavians. I'm sure they are lovely people. But they're just to tall and blonde." Said no-one. Ever. "

What if a black man said I only have sex with black women because I don't find white women attractive?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

My experience tells me I am far less likely to be sexually attracted to Asian men.

I have finite time for meets so I filter by ruling out groups I'm less likely to be attracted to.

It's not because I think all Asian men look the same or are the same in any way.

I realise I'll probably be excluding people I would be attracted to and enjoy meeting.

I choose my meets based on what I know I like and what I know I don't and choose the people most likely to match the former and not the latter.

For the same reason I won't meet guys I consider too young, too short, too old, too large, who smoke...

There may be 18 year olds on here I'd find hot and have a great time with. I'll still say no thanks to 18 year olds and meet older guys instead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....Very true one of the biggest racists on the planet now is Robert Mugabe "

I think he murders far more black people than white. Don't confuse a self centred maniac for a racist, he's beyond that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

That definition doesn't exclude black people from being racist.

And yes, I agree with what Martin Luther King said, but I don't see how it contradicts the accepted definition. "

It's not the accepted definition. It's a premise used for people who want to use the following fuzzy logic: "White people have all the power. The power is institutionalised. Institutions are racist against against black people. Therefore, black people can't be racist".

Just ask Ken Livingstone's former race adviser Lee Jasper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""I won't meet Scandinavians. I'm sure they are lovely people. But they're just to tall and blonde." Said no-one. Ever.

What if a black man said I only have sex with black women because I don't find white women attractive? "

Yes that's racist. Black people can be racist too.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont like men with beards or lots of tattoos, is that racist

No because "beard" and "tattoo" isn't a race.

To exclude anyone due to race is racist by definition.

Only if you assume they're being excluded because they are being considered inferior in some way.

I don't think anyone is inferior to me because of their race or skin colour.

I just don't necessarily fancy them or want to have sex with them.

A feeling of superiority is not a necessary prerequisite for racism.

Yes it is. Racism is the belief that a race has certain characteristics that make it superior or inferior to another.

Or discrimination against someone- such as turning them down for a job or housing - because of their race or skin colour.

But sex not being a human right and all, and nobody being entitled to sex with me, not wanting sex with someone is not discrimination.

- The way you described your preference, it's not racist.

My profile, when visible, certainly does not say No Asians.

It says "I'm mainly attracted to white men and sometimes black or mixed race guys. I am not usually attracted to Indian/Pakistani men and am not interested in meeting them."

That was worded as carefully as I could manage.

I don't believe there are no Asian men I would be attracted to.