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over a year ago
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude "
Have they replied to your message and you have then noticed they have deleted your message? Maybe they just like a tidy inbox. Don't think it's rude at all. |
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over a year ago
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude
Have they replied to your message and you have then noticed they have deleted your message? Maybe they just like a tidy inbox. Don't think it's rude at all."
Or they don't want to be caught!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude "
send them another message asking why? |
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude
Have they replied to your message and you have then noticed they have deleted your message? Maybe they just like a tidy inbox. Don't think it's rude at all."
This!
Some people really do need to chill! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"site supporter and ive just messaged her asking ill let you know just odd but women do get hundreds of messages suppose x"
It's a fair question. I usually keep the last message in my inbox but I'd be concerned too if they were deleting everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah all messages deleted like if its what women do on here thats cool just seems like she has no plans to meet ? "
I delete all my read messages. I'm a silver member any way so I can see the message history. I just like a tidy inbox.
People read into shit way to much on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not rude, if you don't delete, your older messages can drop.off the page, especially if you're a single gem, I save the ones I don't wanna lose"
Lol same here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I have a thread of messages I normally delete all but the last....sent or received. It's not rude...it's just tidy!
Or I switch to whatsapp or kik....then can delete all.
I'm sure lots of people do that. Not rude unless they deleted all, including your last unread message. That means one of two things....changed mind or fake.
You will live....just move on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah all messages deleted like if its what women do on here thats cool just seems like she has no plans to meet ? "
Probably. I would imagine that if she had wanted to meet you, she would have replied.
Is it rude? No, of course not.
She might have dented your pride. Now a "Feck off, you are ugly" reply would have been rude but deleting your message? No, that is not rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete a message as soon as it's read. Why would I want read messages in my inbox for?
I'm the same with texts, e-mails and whatsapp.
I have nothing to hide, just have a preference not to keep read messages. If someone got annoyed at me for that, I wouldn't be messaging them for much longer.
My inbox, my choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah all messages deleted like if its what women do on here thats cool just seems like she has no plans to meet ?
I delete all my read messages. I'm a silver member any way so I can see the message history. I just like a tidy inbox.
People read into shit way to much on here "
I've never read into shit.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah all messages deleted like if its what women do on here thats cool just seems like she has no plans to meet ?
I delete all my read messages. I'm a silver member any way so I can see the message history. I just like a tidy inbox.
People read into shit way to much on here
I've never read into shit. "
...okay? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I delete a message as soon as it's read. Why would I want read messages in my inbox for?
I'm the same with texts, e-mails and whatsapp.
I have nothing to hide, just have a preference not to keep read messages. If someone got annoyed at me for that, I wouldn't be messaging them for much longer.
My inbox, my choice "
Oooiii you scoundrel!! You just deleted my message - oh wait I haven't sent one lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah all messages deleted like if its what women do on here thats cool just seems like she has no plans to meet ?
I delete all my read messages. I'm a silver member any way so I can see the message history. I just like a tidy inbox.
People read into shit way to much on here
I've never read into shit.
...okay?"
Ahhhhhhhhh this way of communicating...no fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I delete a message as soon as it's read. Why would I want read messages in my inbox for?
I'm the same with texts, e-mails and whatsapp.
I have nothing to hide, just have a preference not to keep read messages. If someone got annoyed at me for that, I wouldn't be messaging them for much longer.
My inbox, my choice
Oooiii you scoundrel!! You just deleted my message - oh wait I haven't sent one lol."
Ahhhhh pipe down at the back 
You had my KIK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete daily now, I reply to anyone I,m interested in meeting maybe, then delete. If not interested I delete without replying. A lot of my messages are from much too far away, so instant delete for them. XXX |
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Whether a message is deleted is less important than if they're remaining in contact. People may delete to help them stay on top of their bulging inbox.
Message many people and forget them until they get back in contact.
People look at your profile with greater significance than the message, so ensure it's as good as it can be. And never chase up people you've messaged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whether a message is deleted is less important than if they're remaining in contact. People may delete to help them stay on top of their bulging inbox.
Message many people and forget them until they get back in contact.
People look at your profile with greater significance than the message, so ensure it's as good as it can be. And never chase up people you've messaged."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My inbox, my choice
Oooiii you scoundrel!! You just deleted my message - oh wait I haven't sent one lol.
'Scoundrel'.
Great word "
Don't encourage her!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude "
If someone deletes a message I sent without them replying to it.. I block them! Their loss!!  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude
If someone deletes a message I sent without them replying to it.. I block them! Their loss!! "
How far back on the forum did you go to find this thread???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when chatting to another swinger and your talking about meeting up ect and you see in sent messages deleted is it me or it that just rude
If someone deletes a message I sent without them replying to it.. I block them! Their loss!! "
What if someone sent you a message and you just block them for no reason, that just grinds my gears haha |
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