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An emotional or mental connection make an intimate moment more fulfilling - yay or nay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There has to be a spark a connection, you should be able to laugh and talk .

And maybe walk the pooch ha ha

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By *horltzMan  over a year ago

heysham

Depends if your after a bit of wham bham thank you ma'am or something a bit deeper , if the latter then yes in my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yay. Mental stimulation is rather important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yay. 'Nuff said.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"Yay. Mental stimulation is rather important to me."

Agree With the hatter, I prefer planned meets whereby you can tease and build the tension for days, makes the meet far more explosive X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thoughts?"

definitely yes...and even more so in the context of a long term arrangement...

but not if its an NSA, wham bam type meet...as that is usually all about the sex and not the person doing it

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By *MaleMan  over a year ago

Part of my pleasure is the mutual pleasure and urge to pleasure. If I didn't click with who I was with enough then it simply aint happening be it a potential wham bam situation or an all dayer or nighter.

Without the pleasure its no pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yay. Mental stimulation is rather important to me.

Agree With the hatter, I prefer planned meets whereby you can tease and build the tension for days, makes the meet far more explosive X"

Agreed, the tease and anticipation can make things that bit more intense.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman  over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Not into all that i just want sex and a bit of company.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes,without it I may as well go to a club,lay on a bed and welcome all comers.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"Yay. Mental stimulation is rather important to me.

Agree With the hatter, I prefer planned meets whereby you can tease and build the tension for days, makes the meet far more explosive X"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes,without it I may as well go to a club,lay on a bed and welcome all comers. "

Or use a dildo on myself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a big yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to want to fuck your mind.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes. mental is good, but even my bdsm test showed me to be very primal in my taste - good sex for me is not only about passion and intensity but preferably overwhelming raw emotion too.

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By *ustfortonightMan  over a year ago

Kent

Yeah connection makes sex better... That's not to say it needs to head towards anything more, but hitting g it off and enjoying each other company in a non sexual way is as important to me as physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes,without it I may as well go to a club,lay on a bed and welcome all comers.

Or use a dildo on myself."

My thoughts exactly

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By *oward1978Man  over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes, definitely Without it I'd just rather stick to wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have to want to fuck your mind.

"

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By *onhorMan  over a year ago

here

Mental connection without doubt. Although physical the joy in sex is in the mind.

Emotional, not always.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It starts with thoughts, creates the emotion and then the physical......

Defo connection....

Mwah x

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yay

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By *ucyfur77Woman  over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Absolutely

Seduce my mind and we will have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definate yay here, although some guys say they can fuck a women with no connection whatsoever, personally, if the minds don't connect, nothing will be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As yes from me. I'm not adverse to there being no connection, but it's always a bonus when it happens.

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By *ficouldMan  over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

An emotional and mental connection is required for me, nothing else would be good enough.

Some wouldn't care..

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple  over a year ago

home sweet home


"Yes,without it I may as well go to a club,lay on a bed and welcome all comers. "

This

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes for me or its just mechanical XXX

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