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over a year ago
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I think so. Older men seem more attentive, less selfish and more assured. I think as I've got older I've also become more assured and confident. And not just in bed, I think this is true for men and women in many aspects of life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some older men are selfish when it comes to sex just as some younger men are.
Age really is irrelevant in my opinion."
Very True I've experienced this!  . |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am older and I don't believe I am better lover than younger guys. Actually the word lover makes me barf a little 
I am the same as I was when I was younger, a self absorbed shagger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"true,however statistically older men take more time? and care?"
I'm not aware of any statistics on the matter, but in my personal experience older guys are usually (not always) more confident and know what they like, and younger guys tend to be experimenting with things and acting out what they've seen in porn. However as with anything there are exceptions, I have met a 22 year old who blew my mind, and also a 56 yr old who bored me to tears  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think that comes with age and maturity,confidence?
however I still feel the older man has the edge for experience? more softer,gentler and passionate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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jesus,im bored of the 56 year old already within seconds,however I kind of get the feeling that it all boils down to the experience at the time I guess |
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"are older men, better lovers than the young guns?"
Not always. I believe any sexual experience is good or bad due to a combination of communication and effort from both or all involved.
Some men think they're great lovers and don't take the time to listen to verbal and non verbal signals from their partners and that isn't age dependent and some people will endure bad sex without saying a thing then moan about it afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that comes with age and maturity,confidence?
however I still feel the older man has the edge for experience? more softer,gentler and passionate?"
Playing devils advocate though, you can't teach an old dog new tricks. Some older men will think they're all that when they really aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that comes with age and maturity,confidence?
however I still feel the older man has the edge for experience? more softer,gentler and passionate?"
How can you express that opinion that is unless you have slept with a younger man?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's a fair comment,i just feel the older man takes his time,is it because of experience,or age,or he,s terrified the excitment might be to much/"
It depends on the man, not his age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that comes with age and maturity,confidence?
however I still feel the older man has the edge for experience? more softer,gentler and passionate?
How can you express that opinion that is unless you have slept with a younger man? "
Hes using his verifications to back up his assertion ,oh hang on may be not |
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"I think so. Older men seem more attentive, less selfish and more assured. I think as I've got older I've also become more assured and confident. And not just in bed, I think this is true for men and women in many aspects of life. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found I prefer younger men; I tried my age and older and they bored me silly. I think life brings some people down and they lose that fresh,glad to be alive persona. I need people who give me a lift and younger people do that,with a few exceptions. Some people are born old.
Sexually I found only the older men who still work out or do some kind of physical activity are compatible with me. I have body pain,which means I can't take a lot of weight leaning on me. A man has to be strong enough to keep his weight off me or I have to do the riding or take it from behind,which is ok but I want everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"that's a fair comment,i just feel the older man takes his time,is it because of experience,or age,or he,s terrified the excitment might be to much/"
How many older men have you had sex with? You sound as though you're speaking from experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my best sexual experiences have been with men in their 20s,worse with men in their 50s. Age doesn't mean they have learnt anything about sex or a woman's body. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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wow,cracking answer,and a fair one at that,but yes I kind of know what you mean about strength and keeping in shape,however from behind is a favourite no matter what age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ha ha ha mint im pissing myself here "
Or have you been disappointed by how "young guns" fuck you? Do you enjoy the way older guys tenderly kiss you and make love to your sweet sweet ass? |
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Hhhmm is older better than younger??
Not ever shagged any young guns myself so dunno..
Though surely regardless of performance ( where expectations are usually to high) being pleasing to the eye is ,I find, key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow,cracking answer,and a fair one at that,but yes I kind of know what you mean about strength and keeping in shape,however from behind is a favourite no matter what age"
The answer in one sentence "from behind" knock the back out the bitch really considerate lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have to take our time.
Stop for a nap etc...
Having been involved in many threesomes with I can honestly say age really isn't the factor.
You can learn alot watching others.
But there does definitely seem to be a cut off point on here for females looking for males.
45 after that you enter the twilight zone of Swinging.
It's probably more to do with appearance rather than ability.
While lot's of women on here claim personality over looks is more important.
You only need to read numerous thread's where ladies comment about fit guy's with abs etc..
There are guy's who are the exception to the rule.
But statistically +45S males probably do worse than any other on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having spent yesterday on site at a well known northwest festival yesterday and seen the exuberance of youth give me the more mature friend any day !
Youth is truly wasted on the young!
Also if the lady paramedic I was chatting to is on fab I do love a lady in a uniform!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest with age not only comes maturity, generosity and empathy when it comes to sex but also options you never thought of when young. Namely....not bothering at all, nipping to the pub or going to a tool exhibition the NEC |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wow,cracking answer,and a fair one at that,but yes I kind of know what you mean about strength and keeping in shape,however from behind is a favourite no matter what age"
I like it but don't want it constantly,I like the man on top and he has to be able to hold his weight off. I'm not saying all younger men can do that but the pool of men able to is not as big when you get to my age,plus there are less single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op you need to realise getting through the door ie getting a meet stems from charisma not some hope that guys your age make better lovers,this site is very individualistic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having spent yesterday on site at a well known northwest festival yesterday and seen the exuberance of youth give me the more mature friend any day !
Youth is truly wasted on the young!
Also if the lady paramedic I was chatting to is on fab I do love a lady in a uniform!!"
I like the exuberance of youth. I spent 30 years with a miserable couch potato who wouldn't go anywhere,or do anything interesting unless it was family days out,and then he would find something to grizzle about. I want stimulus and to feel alive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not saying there aren't lively over 50s in the world,there are many more in the younger age groups and they are easier to find. I've had my brain stimulated by plenty of under 30s,they aren't all uneducated,sex machines. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes all sorts really young and old. The main thing is just be yourself and enjoy people for every aspect of who they are. Good meets mixture of both sex and conversion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been with anyone more then a few years older then me but that's cos I prefer younger fitter men. I also go for looks over persanality every time. I want nsa sex not a relasionship. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been with anyone more then a few years older then me but that's cos I prefer younger fitter men. I also go for looks over persanality every time. I want nsa sex not a relasionship. Xxx"
Ditto i feel i perform better than i did in my 20s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the man. I find a lot of older men are less likely to throw me around the bedroom (albeit it takes a bit of oomph to throw me about) and would be happy to just lay there and have their cock sucked for hours.
I like raw passion and physicality, so if they can give me that then fair enough, but I'm still waiting.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the older man has the ability to watch and listen for the tell tale signs when covertly touching and caressing, and figuring out between the oo's and the ahh's what touched the spot and what didn't...giving him the nod as to where the lady like's likes her pleasure to be. So in my humble opinion, it's not so much the age of a person, more the interest and experience which gives someone the edge... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not saying there aren't lively over 50s in the world,there are many more in the younger age groups and they are easier to find. I've had my brain stimulated by plenty of under 30s,they aren't all uneducated,sex machines. "
Of course Nana wouldn't it be a sad world if we sometimes dipped our toe in the ocean of perceived non conformity. My experience with younger ladies is that their world revolves around stuff that I see as irrelevant and for me. The best example I can offer is an assignation with a very nice 34 year old lady earlier this year. We met by chance (through work) and we had what I woul call the 9 weeks syndrome. Despite my advancing years I think the bed room antics were mutually beneficial and on more than a few occasions it was not moi that wanted to sleep!
But and it was a big but the 9 weeks coincided with the run into the Brexit vote. The age gap was clearly highlighted in the fact that her voting intention were based on what her friends on face book were going to do and during dinner that night I asked to stop looking at her phone and speak about.........well anything. Sadly assignation didn't quite make it to 10 weeks it was fun but give me a mature lady with an opinion and confidence any day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of my best sexual experiences have been with men in their 20s,worse with men in their 50s. Age doesn't mean they have learnt anything about sex or a woman's body. "
Very true.
And sex is a lot better if there is some a mutual attraction  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having spent yesterday on site at a well known northwest festival yesterday and seen the exuberance of youth give me the more mature friend any day !
Youth is truly wasted on the young!
Also if the lady paramedic I was chatting to is on fab I do love a lady in a uniform!!
I like the exuberance of youth. I spent 30 years with a miserable couch potato who wouldn't go anywhere,or do anything interesting unless it was family days out,and then he would find something to grizzle about. I want stimulus and to feel alive "
I'm sure you'd get plenty of stimulation and made to feel alive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not necessary age but a man who has been in a previous long term relationship or previously married are usually better in bed as they have learnt what it's like to be with a woman long term they are more aware of a woman's reactions in my opinion and usually take guidance.
Is say not necessarily age as a 25 yr old may have come out of a 10yr relationship where as a 45 year old could have been a player all his life and actually not have a clue how to satisfy a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"are older men, better lovers than the young guns?
Generally yes, but then I like a chat as well as sex, and younger fellas just don't get my jokes x lol x"
You need a new joke book lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not necessary age but a man who has been in a previous long term relationship or previously married are usually better in bed as they have learnt what it's like to be with a woman long term they are more aware of a woman's reactions in my opinion and usually take guidance.
Is say not necessarily age as a 25 yr old may have come out of a 10yr relationship where as a 45 year old could have been a player all his life and actually not have a clue how to satisfy a woman "
I'd have to disagree with that. I was with someone for 30 years,the sex was abysmal and he was cold and devoid of passion. He didn't kiss me for 27 years,only gave me oral a handful of times and never once kissed my back,shoulders or run his hands over my body. And he said I was a plank in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having spent yesterday on site at a well known northwest festival yesterday and seen the exuberance of youth give me the more mature friend any day !
Youth is truly wasted on the young!
Also if the lady paramedic I was chatting to is on fab I do love a lady in a uniform!!
I like the exuberance of youth. I spent 30 years with a miserable couch potato who wouldn't go anywhere,or do anything interesting unless it was family days out,and then he would find something to grizzle about. I want stimulus and to feel alive
I'm sure you'd get plenty of stimulation and made to feel alive "
I try to make sure I choose those who stimulate me and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not necessary age but a man who has been in a previous long term relationship or previously married are usually better in bed as they have learnt what it's like to be with a woman long term they are more aware of a woman's reactions in my opinion and usually take guidance.
Is say not necessarily age as a 25 yr old may have come out of a 10yr relationship where as a 45 year old could have been a player all his life and actually not have a clue how to satisfy a woman
I'd have to disagree with that. I was with someone for 30 years,the sex was abysmal and he was cold and devoid of passion. He didn't kiss me for 27 years,only gave me oral a handful of times and never once kissed my back,shoulders or run his hands over my body. And he said I was a plank in bed. "
Whereas,the 34 year old man I have been seeing for 6 years,who has never been in a relationship,is passionate,tactile,adventurous,giving and extremely satisfying. |
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"Depends on the man. I find a lot of older men are less likely to throw me around the bedroom (albeit it takes a bit of oomph to throw me about) and would be happy to just lay there and have their cock sucked for hours.
I like raw passion and physicality, so if they can give me that then fair enough, but I'm still waiting.
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Haha, yes, finding mature men that can keep up is hard!! I think age is irrelevant, it depends totally on the individual - I had some fabulous young lovers in my youth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not necessary age but a man who has been in a previous long term relationship or previously married are usually better in bed as they have learnt what it's like to be with a woman long term they are more aware of a woman's reactions in my opinion and usually take guidance.
Is say not necessarily age as a 25 yr old may have come out of a 10yr relationship where as a 45 year old could have been a player all his life and actually not have a clue how to satisfy a woman
I'd have to disagree with that. I was with someone for 30 years,the sex was abysmal and he was cold and devoid of passion. He didn't kiss me for 27 years,only gave me oral a handful of times and never once kissed my back,shoulders or run his hands over my body. And he said I was a plank in bed.
Whereas,the 34 year old man I have been seeing for 6 years,who has never been in a relationship,is passionate,tactile,adventurous,giving and extremely satisfying. "
Just goes to show it's not about age it;s about the individual.
Some guys just don't know what there are doing regardless of age.
Your 34 year old is a luck guy |
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"are older men, better lovers than the young guns?"
Older more experienced
But younger men i found have defo more stamina...
I usually go for the older man but now im 34 the older men are becoming old men |
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"are older men, better lovers than the young guns?
Generally yes, but then I like a chat as well as sex, and younger fellas just don't get my jokes x lol x
You need a new joke book lol"
Hey, i'll have u know I'm a hoot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have to take our time.
Stop for a nap etc...
Having been involved in many threesomes with I can honestly say age really isn't the factor.
You can learn alot watching others.
But there does definitely seem to be a cut off point on here for females looking for males.
45 after that you enter the twilight zone of Swinging.
It's probably more to do with appearance rather than ability.
While lot's of women on here claim personality over looks is more important.
You only need to read numerous thread's where ladies comment about fit guy's with abs etc..
There are guy's who are the exception to the rule.
But statistically +45S males probably do worse than any other on here. "
I always like to be the exception - I'm 54, I do OK here! |
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There are some drawbacks to being the older man....
Remembering you have a meet!
Remembering to meet up!
Remembering why you are meeting!
(Looks out of window!)
Now where was I?
Is this E-bay?
My god! Whats all these photographs! They're selling people on E-bay!! |
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"I've never been with anyone more then a few years older then me but that's cos I prefer younger fitter men. I also go for looks over persanality every time. I want nsa sex not a relasionship. Xxx"
Crikey if a guy said this he would get slaughter.
Just saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm more relaxed and confident than I've ever been. And that helps a lot.
I'm still quite tame compared to many people on fab, but I'm far better now at letting my imagination run wild which also helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some drawbacks to being the older man....
Remembering you have a meet!
Remembering to meet up!
Remembering why you are meeting!
(Looks out of window!)
Now where was I?
Is this E-bay?
My god! Whats all these photographs! They're selling people on E-bay!!"
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