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over a year ago
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"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available"
This 
I've had people message me and say they are only a few miles away and we should fuck !! Errr just because you're near doesn't mean I want you near me  it's just not a good enough reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available"
This
If someone happens to be local, we get on, and there's mutual attraction, possibly.
But I wouldn't just meet for the sake of meeting because they're local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on who it is. Won't meet some in just because they're local and are available
This
I've had people message me and say they are only a few miles away and we should fuck !! Errr just because you're near doesn't mean I want you near me it's just not a good enough reason "
For those very reasons - they are nearby and assuming I want to fuck , is reason to NOT meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though "
Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though
Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration "
Lmao I'm actually being serious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes it feels like I have tried to message 95% of the population locally but to no avail bit I do tend to find local people don't want to meet locals no matter how discrete you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them
No we wouldn't
Wanna fuck? 
Seeing as you asked so eloquently.
Hell the fuck yes!!!!!!! "
I am very eloquent & subtle thanksverymuch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But if they meet all your parameters u wouldn't discount them
No we wouldn't
Wanna fuck?
Seeing as you asked so eloquently.
Hell the fuck yes!!!!!!!
I am very eloquent & subtle thanksverymuch "
Here's equally subtle.
Get your sexy ass to Stoke!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Believe me I've messaged 95% of the women in Birmingham but no reply don't work like that ah were near eachother lets fuck doesn't work like that at all they want to know a bit more about you first before meeting if the possibility did arise that someone wanted to meet me from my area then yeah I would if we shared the same feelings towards eachother doubt I'm going to get that though
Have you really messaged 95% or is that a slight exaggeration "
Joking really I've messaged the ones with a decent profile believe me some of the women in birmingham mainly say I'm so and so age and I'm looking to meet men and couples i say good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol"
That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.
Being frustrated is wasted energy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol
That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.
Being frustrated is wasted energy"
Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol
That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.
Being frustrated is wasted energy Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao "
That's totally over my head. Never seen it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I find frustrating is u find a lady on your age range and they want younger and u just missed the bout by a year lol
That's just the way of fab, you can't allow yourself to be frustrated by something you have no control over. i.e your age or the persons age limits they're looking for.
Being frustrated is wasted energy Reminds me of frozen when powerlessness occurs LET IT GO LET IT GOOOO Lmao
That's totally over my head. Never seen it"
Heard it way too much i work in a arena where they have Disney shows every single year  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not too local
I had a guy that lives a few streets away from me mailing me for months, he seemed a nice enough guy so I was happy to chat to him
He couldn't see my problem, I think he saw us being 5 mins away as a bonus and convenient for regualr meets, I saw it as a possible disaster, I've had a few guys get arsey on me when I've not wanted to meet them again, I just don't need that from a guy on my door step |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not too local
I had a guy that lives a few streets away from me mailing me for months, he seemed a nice enough guy so I was happy to chat to him
He couldn't see my problem, I think he saw us being 5 mins away as a bonus and convenient for regualr meets, I saw it as a possible disaster, I've had a few guys get arsey on me when I've not wanted to meet them again, I just don't need that from a guy on my door step"
Can definitely see that would be a major problem I also wouldn't want it that close either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh I see your point of view stalker on the doorstep not what u want but there are genuine local people around its finding one"
Yes the problem is you don't know who's genuine and who's not good at rejection till you meets them, buy that time it's to late
Best to avoid everybody too local |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeh I see your point of view stalker on the doorstep not what u want but there are genuine local people around its finding one
Yes the problem is you don't know who's genuine and who's not good at rejection till you meets them, buy that time it's to late
Best to avoid everybody too local "
Agreed!
They may never have had a problem with rejection before but they could still get obsessed with someone or take rejection badly at any point.
You can never be sure. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Hot scarlet stars I love steamy windows lol x
He had no public pics and no verifications on show.
I met him anyway. "
(My mum mode: on)
OMG! You could have ended up dead in a ditch
(My mum mode: off) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I tend to read verifications and verifications verifications I know not always a good way to judge someone but if they have had a few meets it's a yard stick to go by |
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