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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To what extent do you feel your tastes in sex / fetish etc have been affected by the people you've been with?
For me; I'm an exhibitionist and as well as enjoying sex in risky places, I enjoy (at times) a partner to "accidentally" flash strangers etc and both enjoy the buzz.
In wondering where this stemmed from; I had a girlfriend at 17 who loved flashing and would purposely flash her knickers etc. Pretty sure I fully pin it on her why I'm now such a kinky bugger! Ha I wonder if my tastes would've developed in time even without these experiences!?
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My tastes aren't influenced by previous relationships and I'm not sure they're influenced by experience but if I try something and like it I'll want to do it again  but I'm likely to only try something if i think I'll like it anyway.
Gawd I'm even confusing myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Erm... I guess I've had particular sexual relationships where I've felt more comfortable to share my likes & dislikes and to explore new things, so I suppose those affected my tastes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I guess this is the whole nature vs nurture thing. Are our tastes (or ability to at least "try out" potential new tastes) innate within us? Or are our tastes and sense of "I'll give it a go" more part of who / what has influenced us!?
Hmmmm
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"I guess this is the whole nature vs nurture thing. Are our tastes (or ability to at least "try out" potential new tastes) innate within us? Or are our tastes and sense of "I'll give it a go" more part of who / what has influenced us!?
Hmmmm
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I'm not a risk taker by nature so I suppose that impacts on my sex life. I'm pretty sure for instance that I would really hate to be gang banged so I will never, ever try it just to see if I'm wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Our tastes have nothing to do with any past relationships .
Meeting each other has allowed us to develop together as a couple in a way that has no bearing or influence from the past . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To what extent do you feel your tastes in sex / fetish etc have been affected by the people you've been with?
For me; I'm an exhibitionist and as well as enjoying sex in risky places, I enjoy (at times) a partner to "accidentally" flash strangers etc and both enjoy the buzz.
In wondering where this stemmed from; I had a girlfriend at 17 who loved flashing and would purposely flash her knickers etc. Pretty sure I fully pin it on her why I'm now such a kinky bugger! Ha I wonder if my tastes would've developed in time even without these experiences!?
Others thoughts re your own tastes? "
Definitely, I was innocent and happy with monogamy until, aged 16, a girlfriend fucked half the college behind my back... then I realised I liked it. Dumb bitch could have done it in front of me!! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"My tastes aren't influenced by previous relationships and I'm not sure they're influenced by experience but if I try something and like it I'll want to do it again but I'm likely to only try something if i think I'll like it anyway.
Gawd I'm even confusing myself. "
I agree with the above.
I've been with Mr B since we were teenagers, so no previous relationships to influence me.
My experience of what's normal from my family was to only sleep with someone once your married. It was daring to leave the lights on.
Not sure what happened with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two Scottish army men I've fucked have both been extremely filthy in the bedroom, could go all night and just knew how to fuck the shit out of a woman. Not literally, thankfully...but yeah...so now I have a thing for Scottish men and blokes who've been in the army 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two Scottish army men I've fucked have both been extremely filthy in the bedroom, could go all night and just knew how to fuck the shit out of a woman. Not literally, thankfully...but yeah...so now I have a thing for Scottish men and blokes who've been in the army
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I've had a few of those; two of them being Marines,which would make me interested if a man said he was a Scottish serviceman -just in case  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first experiences with younger men taught me that talent(for want of a better word) doesn't come with age,where sex is concerned.
My first regular partner after my husband taught me that I don't like to be called Mistress,especially by men telling me what they want. |
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The experiences have helped me to perfect my tastes, having been fully satisfied with some and moved on. Like someone else, I've been really happy with fit, strong and dirty marines, so enjoy their pleasuring. I've also been involved with sports guys and enjoy guys in sports role play too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh yes, as you stated before OP, nature and nuture have a massive impact on what made our sexual taste.
Remind me this scene if 'Ex-Machina' :
Nathan : Caleb, what's your type?
Caleb: Of girl?
Nathan: No, salad dressing.
Yeah, of girl; what's your type of girl?
You know what, don't even answer that.
Let's say its black chicks.
Okay, that's your thing. For the sake of argument, that's your thing, okay?
Why is that your thing?
Because you did a detailed analysis of all racial types and you cross-referenced that analysis with a points-based system?
No!
You're just attracted to black chicks.
A consequence of accumulated external stimuli that you probably didn't even register as they registered with you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yes, as you stated before OP, nature and nuture have a massive impact on what made our sexual taste.
Remind me this scene if 'Ex-Machina' :
Nathan : Caleb, what's your type?
Caleb: Of girl?
Nathan: No, salad dressing.
Yeah, of girl; what's your type of girl?
You know what, don't even answer that.
Let's say its black chicks.
Okay, that's your thing. For the sake of argument, that's your thing, okay?
Why is that your thing?
Because you did a detailed analysis of all racial types and you cross-referenced that analysis with a points-based system?
No!
You're just attracted to black chicks.
A consequence of accumulated external stimuli that you probably didn't even register as they registered with you.
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Hah, good quote. Some interesting scenes in that movie but underwhelming overall. |
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