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For the men (tinder, pof, bumble vs fab)
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Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing. |
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"I'm on Tinder and was on POF for years and I reject anyone looking for NSA. I get that here with fewer complications."
It's weird because loads of people hook up on there than here. And I've seen quite a lot of women from here on other dating sites looking for "love" on there but after NSA here. It's confusing. And still waiting on a guy to tell me if they have any luck on there than here |
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Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet 
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on POF for 4 years and Tinder for about 2 and a half.
To date I've had one social meet on POF and not one single match on Tinder.
I'm clearly doing something wrong but haven't figured it out yet  .
Maybe I'm just not attracted to the women I like? Oh well |
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Fabswingers.
Clue is in the name.
A lot of single chaps come hoping for a fuck fest and bitterly disappointed when discovering many women here enjoy swinging and the social side as a lifestyle. Ethical NSA if you like.
Also, just a guess, ladies on other sites seeking NSA don't come here as they either don't know about it or don't want to call themselves a swinger.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on POF for 4 years and Tinder for about 2 and a half.
To date I've had one social meet on POF and not one single match on Tinder.
I'm clearly doing something wrong but haven't figured it out yet .
Maybe I'm just not attracted to the women I like? Oh well"
Said it before and I'll say it again. I don't understand this either. You look good in your pics, albeit I've not seen a face pic, but am sure you are a fine looking chap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tinder is generally more successful as its a more even ratio of men to women than here.
I enjoy this site for the forums and friends I speak to but if I had to pick 1 it would be tinder. |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining "
Pof does have a forum! |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!"
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it? |
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"Fabswingers.
Clue is in the name.
A lot of single chaps come hoping for a fuck fest and bitterly disappointed when discovering many women here enjoy swinging and the social side as a lifestyle. Ethical NSA if you like.
Also, just a guess, ladies on other sites seeking NSA don't come here as they either don't know about it or don't want to call themselves a swinger.
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your explication so makes sense. I do feel women just enjoy the social side of it than the lifestyle and men do think ooo newbie let's get to her quickly before any other dude does reason why some newbies don't even last a week on here. It's a sausage fest. And what the other guy said. Guys are so secretive about their double lives so her gives you more discretion |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?"
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway! |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!"
Bet you can't click on profiles on pof n see bodies as hot as yours doing the things you're doing though!  |
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"I was on Tinder but I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings"
You need a console controller add-on for your phone. Then input the following: Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, Start. |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!
Bet you can't click on profiles on pof n see bodies as hot as yours doing the things you're doing though! "
The photos are just a wee bit different on pof  . You can't even write the word 'cocktail' on there can you  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Do you guys not consider that you actually have to make a bit of an effort on those other sites and have face pictures whilst on here you think it is instashag and therefore think having a one line profile and picture of your cock is enough, coz after all the women here will just fuck anyone that messages? |
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"Do you guys not consider that you actually have to make a bit of an effort on those other sites and have face pictures whilst on here you think it is instashag and therefore think having a one line profile and picture of your cock is enough, coz after all the women here will just fuck anyone that messages? "
#didntread #bendover |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"I was on Tinder but I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings
You need a console controller add-on for your phone. Then input the following: Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, Start."
Konami code then haha |
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"Do you guys not consider that you actually have to make a bit of an effort on those other sites and have face pictures whilst on here you think it is instashag and therefore think having a one line profile and picture of your cock is enough, coz after all the women here will just fuck anyone that messages? "
Not all men. My approach to women is like how I am on tinder. And it is so hard to get a response or talk to woman, tbh I feel women feel they're so In control on this site they pick men off like flies or yesterday's garbage. But on tinder there more calmer and polite. I can't vouch for women because I don't have a woman's account and I'm sure it's hell everytime you log in. |
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Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here. |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!
Bet you can't click on profiles on pof n see bodies as hot as yours doing the things you're doing though!
The photos are just a wee bit different on pof . You can't even write the word 'cocktail' on there can you "
****tail....****-a-leaky soup....dunno what they've got against drinks n soup! C**ts! |
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"I was on Tinder but I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings
You need a console controller add-on for your phone. Then input the following: Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, Start.
Konami code then haha "
Are you denying that it works on you?  |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here. "
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
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Why confused?. |
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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago
...the naughty spot. |
I was on a so called 'dating site' but I got more lude suggestive messages than I ever did here. I deleted my profile...I'd never date anyone who spoke to me like that without provocation or any kind of rapport. I'm here because it's honest...but I have no illusions of meeting a partner here. Bit frustrating really... |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?. "
Not confused more like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabswingers.
Clue is in the name.
A lot of single chaps come hoping for a fuck fest and bitterly disappointed when discovering many women here enjoy swinging and the social side as a lifestyle. Ethical NSA if you like.
Also, just a guess, ladies on other sites seeking NSA don't come here as they either don't know about it or don't want to call themselves a swinger.
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I'll go with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here. "
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here. "
I'm classy
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both "
Loool |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you guys not consider that you actually have to make a bit of an effort on those other sites and have face pictures whilst on here you think it is instashag and therefore think having a one line profile and picture of your cock is enough, coz after all the women here will just fuck anyone that messages?
Not all men. My approach to women is like how I am on tinder. And it is so hard to get a response or talk to woman, tbh I feel women feel they're so In control on this site they pick men off like flies or yesterday's garbage. But on tinder there more calmer and polite. I can't vouch for women because I don't have a woman's account and I'm sure it's hell everytime you log in. "
If you want my postcode so you can look at the mens profiles in my area, let me know! And then you will know I am speaking the truth, it's funny how men feel/fear that women have control on here when men have control on every other aspect including pay differences, such a shock to the system eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both "
So do you fuck anyone meet then.a hour later just fuck.
Do you send messages saying fancy some fun tonight with out chatting?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here. "
You know what though,calling women sluts and slags who are looking for sex says a lot about your mindset,regarding women. Are you on Tinder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But they are dating sites where as fab is a swinging site? So how can they be compared? Yes some do hook up and start relationships on here but that's not what it's about.
The girls on Pof and tinder say they want NSA but often want more - believe me I know loads of friends on those sites, where as I think on sites like fab woman are focussed more on just sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both
So do you fuck anyone meet then.a hour later just fuck.
Do you send messages saying fancy some fun tonight with out chatting?. "
I've met men an hour after initial contact. In fact I'm on my way back from his now as we're still fucking 6 years later. So,I'm a slut and a slag by your reckoning. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like "
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
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over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both
So do you fuck anyone meet then.a hour later just fuck.
Do you send messages saying fancy some fun tonight with out chatting?. "
I don't think you realise what you're saying ... Read what you have put , girls on fab are classy , tinder are stick up skanks ... And I'm on BOTH |
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"But they are dating sites where as fab is a swinging site? So how can they be compared? Yes some do hook up and start relationships on here but that's not what it's about.
The girls on Pof and tinder say they want NSA but often want more - believe me I know loads of friends on those sites, where as I think on sites like fab woman are focussed more on just sex "
Well I am talking about women asking for NSA Sex from here but these women have no meet verifications and been here months or even year. But women on tinder and rest of them ask for casual relationship. In other words I want NSA fun. A woman from tinder said to me few months ago (April) said dude this Is sweet of you to do this on a date but I just be happy with popcorn harribo and dick from you |
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"Do you guys not consider that you actually have to make a bit of an effort on those other sites and have face pictures whilst on here you think it is instashag and therefore think having a one line profile and picture of your cock is enough, coz after all the women here will just fuck anyone that messages? "
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
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You have cock pics on pof/tinder?
If I was getting messages like that from lasses on any site I'd be filling my boots  |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!"
it's dead the forum. occasionally a man will come along whinging about nobody wanting to meet him (he has no pics usually as well).
as for OP, i wouldn't even have known about fuck sites if my ex hadn't been on them, and that is how i found out the world of online fuckings.
i have out fucked both of my cheating boyfreinds in the first day on joining. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like "
Yeah that's what I should have used |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Either my tinder is broken or I'm way below any standards in the eyes of females there. I get approximately 1 match a month which never replies.
Pof is even worse... |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
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Not dissing you for being honest
Sluts n' slags though
I've never sent that kind of message to a guy as an opener. Fair play to anyone who does though.
Suppose you never know what anyone's intentions are until you get to know them a bit?
There will always be white knights
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
I must be a classy stuck up skank as I'm on both
So do you fuck anyone meet then.a hour later just fuck.
Do you send messages saying fancy some fun tonight with out chatting?.
I've met men an hour after initial contact. In fact I'm on my way back from his now as we're still fucking 6 years later. So,I'm a slut and a slag by your reckoning. "
Did you chat first or just say fancy a fuck first message?. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
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Worried about catching stuff?! Ah right interesting... |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
You have cock pics on pof/tinder?
If I was getting messages like that from lasses on any site I'd be filling my boots "
Pof is crap used to be good new layout sucks Tinder instashag shag sex in UK yes I do get messages like that and would rather be here. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
You have cock pics on pof/tinder?
If I was getting messages like that from lasses on any site I'd be filling my boots "
The girls he's talking about are what we call on fab "fake" profiles. No real conversation just straight to the point and if you actually trace it up. There all cam girls. So to the guy who said there all sluts. There not mate. Just fakes. I merely on about. I can talk to women the same on both tinder and fab. But on tinder women seem to more wanna fuck me than fab. Like For instance last two women on fab spoke to me for like 24hrs then sadly declined me later. Saying not for them. Now tinder last two women. One could of met tonight as she was in my area visiting relatives and other making arrangements on Monday. Contrast of the two is why I am puzzled |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
Worried about catching stuff?! Ah right interesting..."
Yeah always have been my friend meet a lass I was going to but I heard about her rep few months go by my friend gets chlamydia if that is spelt correct and it was second women he had I ever fucked I feel sorry for him but so glad I never met her so yeah I have reasons first message was on tagged fancy a fuck so I said I don't know you we chatted then i got told her rep and deleted her as the women who told me I have known most of my life. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
You have cock pics on pof/tinder?
If I was getting messages like that from lasses on any site I'd be filling my boots
The girls he's talking about are what we call on fab "fake" profiles. No real conversation just straight to the point and if you actually trace it up. There all cam girls. So to the guy who said there all sluts. There not mate. Just fakes. I merely on about. I can talk to women the same on both tinder and fab. But on tinder women seem to more wanna fuck me than fab. Like For instance last two women on fab spoke to me for like 24hrs then sadly declined me later. Saying not for them. Now tinder last two women. One could of met tonight as she was in my area visiting relatives and other making arrangements on Monday. Contrast of the two is why I am puzzled"
Believe me they real I report any and all fake profiles only two on here.
I have met a few of these so called fake profiles talked on mobile or via text to the rest
Are you on about the fakes who say see me on.cam card is for proof of age only etc I will do whatever you want on cam also profile pictures are clearly fake pictures edited to look great is this what you mean?. |
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"If you are youngish and in a city, you will absolutely get laid off Tinder. No idea on the others.
I must be oldish then  "
Maybe you're falling down on the location part? You're not too old, my single 30ish friends seem to get loads of hookups from Tinder  |
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"If you are youngish and in a city, you will absolutely get laid off Tinder. No idea on the others.
I must be oldish then
Maybe you're falling down on the location part? You're not too old, my single 30ish friends seem to get loads of hookups from Tinder "
I don't even get matches  . Perhaps it is the location, yes I'll use that excuse  |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!
it's dead the forum. occasionally a man will come along whinging about nobody wanting to meet him (he has no pics usually as well).
as for OP, i wouldn't even have known about fuck sites if my ex hadn't been on them, and that is how i found out the world of online fuckings.
i have out fucked both of my cheating boyfreinds in the first day on joining. "
Haha Gaun yersel! |
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"If you are youngish and in a city, you will absolutely get laid off Tinder. No idea on the others.
I must be oldish then "
Dude your a like at your sexual peak as a man. Think Ruby's right. Need to bi in bigger city. Manchester London Birmingham Edinburgh etc |
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Several months on Tinder got me nothing, but then only had a couple of meets from a year on here and a couple off adult friend finder the year before that. Pictures and profiles were pretty similar on all three. Did way better on Sex in the UK but think that's gone down hill as well recently. |
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"Well I've just logged onto pof a couple of hours ago after not having been on it for a couple of months n in those two hours I've had three women send me a first message....one I politely knocked back,the other two are hot though n one in particular seems keen to meet
I could be on fab for a year n not have received as many messages!
No forum on pof though,n even if there was it wouldn't be half as entertaining
Pof does have a forum!
Must've overlooked that! Lol
How does it compare to this one then....what do you think of it?
I haven't used it for year's to be honest. They don't seem to make it easy to find for some reason so how popular it is nowadays I don't know. It's nothing like this anyway!
it's dead the forum. occasionally a man will come along whinging about nobody wanting to meet him (he has no pics usually as well).
as for OP, i wouldn't even have known about fuck sites if my ex hadn't been on them, and that is how i found out the world of online fuckings.
i have out fucked both of my cheating boyfreinds in the first day on joining.
Haha Gaun yersel! "
haha, thanks.
tbf i only joined up to see their profiles, then got loads of guys asking me for sex straight away. |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
You have cock pics on pof/tinder?
If I was getting messages like that from lasses on any site I'd be filling my boots
The girls he's talking about are what we call on fab "fake" profiles. No real conversation just straight to the point and if you actually trace it up. There all cam girls. So to the guy who said there all sluts. There not mate. Just fakes. I merely on about. I can talk to women the same on both tinder and fab. But on tinder women seem to more wanna fuck me than fab. Like For instance last two women on fab spoke to me for like 24hrs then sadly declined me later. Saying not for them. Now tinder last two women. One could of met tonight as she was in my area visiting relatives and other making arrangements on Monday. Contrast of the two is why I am puzzled"
Ah right,the "Would you like to see me shake my ass on cam?I'm a horny n bored 23yr old student n my room mate has just gone out" girls.
They're easy to spot....when they ask if you're an ass or a boob man I say neither, I'm into animals n necrophilia
Usually they're bots n don't miss a beat but once one replied "WTF you fucking creep!"
Still wasn't paying to see her on cam though.....even necrophiliacs have standards! |
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"Sluts slags use Tinder instashag
Real women are here and I notice almost all of them are nice genuine women.
Not stuck up skanks
I also find women here seem classy if you want to meet for a fuck go else where if you want to meet women have a online conversation and meet genuine women that you don't need to do std test the following week come here.
Why confused?.
Not confused more like
Sorry I speak my mind from being here I find women chat and are nice.
Other sites fancy a fuck that's the message.
Nice cock I want to suck you dry so I delete.
I would rather spend forever on here chatting to good women then go on other sites fuck and be worried about catching stuff it may just be me who thinks like this.
Worried about catching stuff?! Ah right interesting...
Yeah always have been my friend meet a lass I was going to but I heard about her rep few months go by my friend gets chlamydia if that is spelt correct and it was second women he had I ever fucked I feel sorry for him but so glad I never met her so yeah I have reasons first message was on tagged fancy a fuck so I said I don't know you we chatted then i got told her rep and deleted her as the women who told me I have known most of my life. "
I'm not sure I understood that,so you're saying you can't get chlamydia from a woman from this site? |
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"Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing."
I'm on Tinder for a relationship. I'm on here for NSA. The two aren't really comparable in my eyes. |
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"Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing.
I'm on Tinder for a relationship. I'm on here for NSA. The two aren't really comparable in my eyes."
if you don't mind me asking. when you match with lets say 3 guys, do you keep swiping or try to see if there's any spark? |
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"Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing.
I'm on Tinder for a relationship. I'm on here for NSA. The two aren't really comparable in my eyes.if you don't mind me asking. when you match with lets say 3 guys, do you keep swiping or try to see if there's any spark?"
I'm a shitebag and rarely send a first message, unless they seem amazing. Talking to two guys a lot just now, and two a little bit. Not convinced I'll end up meeting any of them. |
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"Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing.
I'm on Tinder for a relationship. I'm on here for NSA. The two aren't really comparable in my eyes.if you don't mind me asking. when you match with lets say 3 guys, do you keep swiping or try to see if there's any spark?
I'm a shitebag and rarely send a first message, unless they seem amazing. Talking to two guys a lot just now, and two a little bit. Not convinced I'll end up meeting any of them."
Fair enough, thanks for reply. |
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I thought tinder was just for hook ups - I didn't even realize people really used it for dating.
Anyway, I've always wondered why so many single guys come on fab for sex. I wouldn't if I were a single guy - I think I'd have better luck on a night out. |
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"I thought tinder was just for hook ups - I didn't even realize people really used it for dating.
Anyway, I've always wondered why so many single guys come on fab for sex. I wouldn't if I were a single guy - I think I'd have better luck on a night out. "
I use tinder for dating too, with no success but still.
I can understand that going out is an easier way to hook up but some of us single guys don't enjoy it |
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"Alright been on and off fab and other dating sites for years but for last two months only used fab. Had two meets which is great. But guys do you find tinder easier in getting NSA fun than fab. Before anyone starts saying I'm a heartbreaker and not being truthful on tinder. It's the women who ask for NSA sex or a casual fling. So my question is why don't they use fab Lool. All confusing.
I'm on Tinder for a relationship. I'm on here for NSA. The two aren't really comparable in my eyes.if you don't mind me asking. when you match with lets say 3 guys, do you keep swiping or try to see if there's any spark?"
Surely that would depend on what type of liaison you were looking for? If a 1 night stand was needed for tonight you would probably keep swiping until you see someone suitable |
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Right. This annoys me. THIS is why I don't meet guys in clubs for NSA.
If I want NSA sex I want it to be decent. I want to know they're up for the things I'm into. I don't tend to approach guys in clubs and say "Hey, having a good night? What's your stance on rimming?"
Also from here I can see if they're verified, get a bit of chat first and have a basic idea if they're a nutcase. When I'm out and I've had a few (dozen) drinks, any sense of that goes out the window and I'd essentially be putting myself at risk.
I could easily bring a guy home from any night out if I wanted to. But I'd rather have good, dirty sex less frequently than a shite, vanilla pump every weekend. |
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"Right. This annoys me. THIS is why I don't meet guys in clubs for NSA.
If I want NSA sex I want it to be decent. I want to know they're up for the things I'm into. I don't tend to approach guys in clubs and say "Hey, having a good night? What's your stance on rimming?"
Also from here I can see if they're verified, get a bit of chat first and have a basic idea if they're a nutcase. When I'm out and I've had a few (dozen) drinks, any sense of that goes out the window and I'd essentially be putting myself at risk.
I could easily bring a guy home from any night out if I wanted to. But I'd rather have good, dirty sex less frequently than a shite, vanilla pump every weekend."
Fair play to you love that |
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"Right. This annoys me. THIS is why I don't meet guys in clubs for NSA.
If I want NSA sex I want it to be decent. I want to know they're up for the things I'm into. I don't tend to approach guys in clubs and say "Hey, having a good night? What's your stance on rimming?"
Also from here I can see if they're verified, get a bit of chat first and have a basic idea if they're a nutcase. When I'm out and I've had a few (dozen) drinks, any sense of that goes out the window and I'd essentially be putting myself at risk.
I could easily bring a guy home from any night out if I wanted to. But I'd rather have good, dirty sex less frequently than a shite, vanilla pump every weekend."
This is true for yourself/women in general but I think they are pointing out for guys its much easier to go out than fight the odds on here. |
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"This is true for yourself/women in general but I think they are pointing out for guys its much easier to go out than fight the odds on here."
I think most girls with common sense won't go home with guys from clubs now tbh. None of my mates would even think of it, it's just not worth the risk. |
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"This is true for yourself/women in general but I think they are pointing out for guys its much easier to go out than fight the odds on here.
I think most girls with common sense won't go home with guys from clubs now tbh. None of my mates would even think of it, it's just not worth the risk."
I agree with you if I was female I wouldn't take the risk. I'm too old for clubs now so I stick to tinder/here if I'm lucky. |
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over a year ago
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I have several vanilla male friends who have never got laid off of a so called sex site including this site .they have no trouble getting laid on POF .
I wrote one of my friends profile on there making it very obvious he was only looking to scratch a itch every once in a while .with a friendly out going sociable female friend he now has five semi regular fwb and has had numerous one night stands from there .
It has done him the world of good after becoming depressed and insecure after his divorce.
So those saying woman on there are only looking for a life partner no doubt there are a good few who are but just as many are looking for uncomplicated male company every now and again when the mood takes them.
Female friends have told me on the whole there is a big difference with how guys approach them between a sex site and a casual dating site and in my opinion that's why lots of woman dip there toe into the sex meets online world and after a week of dealing with scary disrespectful fuckwits leave deciding that world is to cold and to in your face for there tastes .
Single normal polite articulate guys can succeed in both worlds but if your vanilla in your tastes POF will offer you far more opportunities that site like fabswingers will just like they have done for a couple of vanilla friends of mine . |
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"I have several vanilla male friends who have never got laid off of a so called sex site including this site .they have no trouble getting laid on POF .
I wrote one of my friends profile on there making it very obvious he was only looking to scratch a itch every once in a while .with a friendly out going sociable female friend he now has five semi regular fwb and has had numerous one night stands from there .
It has done him the world of good after becoming depressed and insecure after his divorce.
So those saying woman on there are only looking for a life partner no doubt there are a good few who are but just as many are looking for uncomplicated male company every now and again when the mood takes them.
Female friends have told me on the whole there is a big difference with how guys approach them between a sex site and a casual dating site and in my opinion that's why lots of woman dip there toe into the sex meets online world and after a week of dealing with scary disrespectful fuckwits leave deciding that world is to cold and to in your face for there tastes .
Single normal polite articulate guys can succeed in both worlds but if your vanilla in your tastes POF will offer you far more opportunities that site like fabswingers will just like they have done for a couple of vanilla friends of mine ."
I have had two female friends misled by guys on Pof claiming to be after dating but actually after just shagging. So I avoid POF because least here you know it is what it is. |
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I deleted the tinder app as i didn't get one match in two weeks and it's nowhere near as good as this site, pof is ok but there aren't that many women who are up for nsa fun near me, there are lots who want to date me on there but that's not what i want and i don't want to lead people on or break any hearts, only bed springs |
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"I'm on Tinder and was on POF for years and I reject anyone looking for NSA. I get that here with fewer complications.
Yup, and I can't check out their willy first on POF! "
Are you searching the dating threads?  |
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"I'm on Tinder and was on POF for years and I reject anyone looking for NSA. I get that here with fewer complications.
Yup, and I can't check out their willy first on POF!
Are you searching the dating threads? "
I usually check 'em out yes! |
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I'm not on tinder but on OKC and Bumble. I was on Match but all the dates I went on were boring as he'll as I was probably trying to hide the naughty side of me.
Met one person off OKC but no naughtiness.
I use different sites for different things.
Fab is what I call 'Honest Tinder'. On here I'm straight up and honest about what I want and know people are more open minded. Whilst I'd love to find something more serious I don't think fab is where I'll find it. It's great to explore and hook up and I've also been lucky to make some genuine friends. |
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"I was on Tinder but I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings
You need a console controller add-on for your phone. Then input the following: Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, Start.
Konami code then haha "
Good spot was a cheat for ISS on SNES X) |
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"I can't get any bloody replies on tinder, or bumble, or pof! Fucking fuckers! "
Can't tell if that's a joke or not, but same. I honestly wonder where these girls are that the OP is talking about. If I do get a match on Tinder I never broach the subject of sex, I just do what I do on here or on POF. Which is to strike up a conversation. Doesn't get me anywhere though. |
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"I can't get any bloody replies on tinder, or bumble, or pof! Fucking fuckers!
Can't tell if that's a joke or not, but same. I honestly wonder where these girls are that the OP is talking about. If I do get a match on Tinder I never broach the subject of sex, I just do what I do on here or on POF. Which is to strike up a conversation. Doesn't get me anywhere though."
Totally not a joke. I get matches, I message them but no one ever replies |
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"I can't get any bloody replies on tinder, or bumble, or pof! Fucking fuckers!
Can't tell if that's a joke or not, but same. I honestly wonder where these girls are that the OP is talking about. If I do get a match on Tinder I never broach the subject of sex, I just do what I do on here or on POF. Which is to strike up a conversation. Doesn't get me anywhere though.
Totally not a joke. I get matches, I message them but no one ever replies "
I very rarely get matches but I have the same problem. No one replies after I message them. On here I got winked at a few weeks ago by a couple, I sent them a message and got no reply which I thought was really bloody weird. |
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"I only use fab never heard of others ever
only fab is a swingers site...the others are 'dating' apps"
With all due respect to your choice, you don't regard it as such. |
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So after scanning through this thread a month ago, I decided to try Tinder again, put a profile up saying I was a swinger so as to be totally up front about everything and have only had a handful of matches, one social meet yesterday and she seems interested in the scene and may start coming to clubs with me once we've got to know each other a bit better. Was also encouraged by two vanilla nights out where I picked up girls who also were fascinated by what I told them about the swingers clubs scene after we'd been text flirting for a few days. Think there might be quite a few single girls out there in the vanilla world who don't realise they want to be swingers |
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