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How many of you are really looking for NSA fun ?
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"Some meets we have are completely NSA, and that's great - especially when we are traveling. But others are regular and that's what we prefer and ask for on our profile. So I will say us, sometimes. "  | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " I agree and feel the same way. | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " Perfectly reasonable | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. I agree and feel the same way." I agree to a certain extent. You can't know if someone will become a friend,or never contact again after sex. | |||
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"I'm looking for NSA fun......I'm just having difficulty finding a lady who's looking for the same!! "Couldn't have put it better myself, that's exactly what I'm looking for | |||
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Occasionally a fuck develops into friendship though and i don't mind that really but beyond that i don't want or need anything more | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " Ditched for a better offer... They must have had rocks in their head.. because you are stunning! Also no strings please.. that doesn't mean I am not polite and civil though! | |||
"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " Yup, no strings should not be an excuse for no respect. | |||
"Bit of both. I equally enjoy exploring a woman's body, and developing sexual chemistry as much as having simple no strings. #sittingonthefence" At first glance, I thought your hashtag at the end said "sittingontheFACE"! Oops....sorry, I've not been awake long!  | |||
"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. Ditched for a better offer... They must have had rocks in their head.. because you are stunning! Also no strings please.. that doesn't mean I am not polite and civil though!" Hence the question ... She is stunning , but some who want more than NSA may prefer to meet someone with more relationship potential . And no strings doesn't mean one can't be polite and civil . It's odd that some think people like us who don't want friendship are curt and rude . Far from it , we are a very friendly couple believe it or not | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. I agree and feel the same way. I agree to a certain extent. You can't know if someone will become a friend,or never contact again after sex. " Oh definitely, and I've had plenty of one offs I've never seen again - but that's no much what I was looking for from the outset, that's just how it ended up going. | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " We'd agree with all that. We look for different things in people. We'd definitely go for no strings when meeting singles, but still has to be a connection there. We've tried the just turning up and fuck thing, as neither of us are 'people persons'. And it hadn't gone well. But we still haven't tried a club. So never say never. Though we have made the mistake of being friend zoned. And it's difficult to explore fantasies without building up trust first. As for definition of NSA, we'd say exclusivity? Not being obligated to another swinger as to who you meet? | |||
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"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "No Strings to Me is Perfect and Exactly what I Want Too Good to be True! I Don't Need a Complicated So-Called relationship either! . | |||
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"The only time I would play anonymously is in a club. NSA is definitely my reason for being here. Life is complicated enough for anything extra. Rock up, fuck and fuck off is perfect for what I'm looking for. " | |||
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"No strings. Like yourselves, although most of our meets are in clubs, we never even make introductions sometimes. Just good times, fuck n go...... Although we do also have repeat meets. Isn't that what swinging about, go out, fuck and come home....... then fuck some more together once home xxxxx Suzi"Yep , this is what works so well for us | |||
"Bit of both. I equally enjoy exploring a woman's body, and developing sexual chemistry as much as having simple no strings. #sittingonthefence" I wouldn't say exploring someone's body and having sexual chemistry is strings. Are you saying no strings is turning up,without much conversation,putting your cock in,pumping away for a few minutes,coming and going? | |||
"When I'm at the club I go to, I've had fun with people whose names I've not known and I've enjoyed it. But where I live in Reading, I'm not interested in one off fucks, they just do nothing for me. I must just have a different mindset when I'm in a club I think." That mindset you have in the club , is the one we have all the time | |||
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"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "I would say that ideally I am looking for a few 'friends with benefits' as the reward-to-work ratio for one-off meets is not very favourable for a less than perfect single guy like myself. However one-offs are fine by me because ultimately I'm looking for fun. I'm certainly not looking for exclusivity though. | |||
"Quickie one-off meets hold no interest for me. They don't hit the spot AT ALL at this moment in my life. I'm also not interested in exploring fantasies or pushing boundaries or anything of that nature. I find all that very tedious. I need something a bit more meaningful. I want to spend some quality time with a woman, both in and out of the bedroom. I like the thrill of getting know a woman beforehand. It's still no strings. It's just got a bit of substance to it that's all." | |||
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"I like to have at least some kind of connection on a purely non-sexual level with the women i meet whether it's shared interests or experiences etc.. After the sex I do keep in contact if only to say Hi once in a while. I couldn't just drop someone completely as you never know a further meet may be on the cards and i just think this is right on a purely human interaction level. " | |||
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"Looking for NSA, but, I don't think that "no strings" has to mean anonymous, unknown, one-off and impersonal. I think trust, respect, friendship, attraction and an appropriate amount of intimacy can co-exist with "no strings". " | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. Yup, no strings should not be an excuse for no respect." Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " This is exactly how I feel as well | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. This is exactly how I feel as well " | |||
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"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "My only experience of this was one time meeting a girl advertising "no strings fun". So I get to the designated meeting point and a few minutes later she turned up. She then took a conker out of her pocket with a hole drilled in it and started throwing it at me. Wtf's all the about?...Crazy bitch. Put me right off it did, never again!  | |||
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"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "Reading some of the threads there seems to be an increase of people being offended/slighted/hurt because their casual fuck has had the temerity to see other people! You can find love anywhere, I met my other half here but neither of us was looking. He's not what I look for on here, and as a Dutch man who's lived half his life in France with those sophisticated ladies a big, black woman with an attitude was certainly not his dream date, but cupid has a sense of humour. If all involved knows the score: no harm, no foul! However, if not...well, we see the fallout every day: not pretty! | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?
My only experience of this was one time meeting a girl advertising "no strings fun". So I get to the designated meeting point and a few minutes later she turned up. She then took a conker out of her pocket with a hole drilled in it and started throwing it at me. Wtf's all the about?...Crazy bitch.
Put me right off it did, never again! "You mean you don't go to meets armed with your own conker? Pfft, amateur  | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "To answer your question...no strings. I have family, friends and a partner: enough drama for me. That said, I've known my playmates for years, some we touch bases every couple of months or so. For me, people I play with are friends, but I don't make demands on their times or they on mine and no hissy fits/nose out of joint if they play elsewhere. | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?
My only experience of this was one time meeting a girl advertising "no strings fun". So I get to the designated meeting point and a few minutes later she turned up. She then took a conker out of her pocket with a hole drilled in it and started throwing it at me. Wtf's all the about?...Crazy bitch.
Put me right off it did, never again!
You mean you don't go to meets armed with your own conker? Pfft, amateur "Hmmmm...... (ponders)  | |||
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"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " I agree totally. | |||
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"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ? "Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated. Possibly for those in a relationship of some kind,NSA can be a fulfilling addition,a spark to their flame but I find that NSA is not really an adequate substitute for,,,,what? really...I don't want the kind of relationship where you're in each others pocket 24/7,with all the stress and responsibility that entails. I,personally,would prefer rather than 'No strings attached' a kind of 'not many strings attached and even then,only loosely',kind of arrangement (or two or three). The possibility of dates,meals out,drinks,dancing laughs and,of course,wild uninhibited sexy fun,,,,just none of the mundane ness of everyday life together. A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes. | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?
Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.
Possibly for those in a relationship of some kind,NSA can be a fulfilling addition,a spark to their flame but I find that NSA is not really an adequate substitute for,,,,what? really...I don't want the kind of relationship where you're in each others pocket 24/7,with all the stress and responsibility that entails.
I,personally,would prefer rather than 'No strings attached' a kind of 'not many strings attached and even then,only loosely',kind of arrangement (or two or three). The possibility of dates,meals out,drinks,dancing laughs and,of course,wild uninhibited sexy fun,,,,just none of the mundane ness of everyday life together.
A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.
"I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied. And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'. I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway. But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess. | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?
Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.
Possibly for those in a relationship of some kind,NSA can be a fulfilling addition,a spark to their flame but I find that NSA is not really an adequate substitute for,,,,what? really...I don't want the kind of relationship where you're in each others pocket 24/7,with all the stress and responsibility that entails.
I,personally,would prefer rather than 'No strings attached' a kind of 'not many strings attached and even then,only loosely',kind of arrangement (or two or three). The possibility of dates,meals out,drinks,dancing laughs and,of course,wild uninhibited sexy fun,,,,just none of the mundane ness of everyday life together.
A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.
I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied.
And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'.
I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway.
But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess."For example,tonight,,,sat at home alone (feeling ever so slightly lonely if I'm honest),,,I could go to the pub,I could pick up some guy,any guy, for a bit of wild abandon or I could just advertise on here 'looking to meet tonight',,,it just doesn't appeal. Right now,I'd rather just have a kiss n cuddle. Just don't want to have to get a mortgage together,choose wallpaper and go grocery shopping together for that. There must be a happy medium,,,the kisses n cuddles,,,the wild sex when you feel like it,,,,just none of the boring bits.Like I said,,,not many strings attached. | |||
"It is apparent that there are a lot of people on fab looking for more than just NSA sex . Which is cool , each to their own and all that .... But how many are really just looking for simple sexual hook ups , no complications , no drama , no exclusivity ? Now and again we have an amazing meet and don't even know the names of those we play with ! And surprisingly the anonymity make it all the more horny . So over you you .... Strings , or no strings ?
Quite frankly,I feel a bit disillusioned with the whole idea of NSA.I've not really experienced much of that but what I have experienced has left me feeling empty and deflated.
Possibly for those in a relationship of some kind,NSA can be a fulfilling addition,a spark to their flame but I find that NSA is not really an adequate substitute for,,,,what? really...I don't want the kind of relationship where you're in each others pocket 24/7,with all the stress and responsibility that entails.
I,personally,would prefer rather than 'No strings attached' a kind of 'not many strings attached and even then,only loosely',kind of arrangement (or two or three). The possibility of dates,meals out,drinks,dancing laughs and,of course,wild uninhibited sexy fun,,,,just none of the mundane ness of everyday life together.
A few 'friends with benefits' is what I'm talking about,I guess. I just fancy the friendship as much as the benefits sometimes.
I'm the same. It's why i used to fuck loads of guys in a day because usually no guys left me satisfied.
And someone described sub drop on here and the after care they needed and i thought 'well, i get the same thing after being used for NSA sex with most guys, i want the hugs and that'.
I think a lot of people don't get how important it is not to leave a person feeling used, for 1 on 1 sex anyway.
But like swinging is mostly married couples so they can give that after care to each other i guess.
For example,tonight,,,sat at home alone (feeling ever so slightly lonely if I'm honest),,,I could go to the pub,I could pick up some guy,any guy, for a bit of wild abandon or I could just advertise on here 'looking to meet tonight',,,it just doesn't appeal. Right now,I'd rather just have a kiss n cuddle.
Just don't want to have to get a mortgage together,choose wallpaper and go grocery shopping together for that.
There must be a happy medium,,,the kisses n cuddles,,,the wild sex when you feel like it,,,,just none of the boring bits.Like I said,,,not many strings attached."i'd like proper regular sex with someone who give a shit. and yeah they don't have to commit to me either, i'm very independent. | |||
"I think I have a different definition of strings to some. I'm looking for uncomplicated and no strings. I have a relationship, I don't need another. I want no connection to my home life, and real life always comes first. But I want to chat to people about things other than sex, might meet them socially with no promise of sex, would be pissed off if I was, for example, ditched at the last minute for a better offer. I like the people I fuck to feel like friends of sorts, I treat them as such and expect the same back. It makes the sex better for me. I don't think those are strings - but others may disagree. " Very well put  | |||
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"I thought this was a really interesting thread. Yes we are looking for NSA sex, but I suspect some would frown on our more personal friendship-based approach and say it negates NSA. To us 'no strings attached' means the sexual relationship is not exclusive, there are no requirements for frequency of meetings, and there is no involvement in personal lives. However, that doesn't stop us making an effort with our playmates. When we meet we would always make an evening of it, eg go out for some drinks, or invite to our house for dinner. Some people call that dating (which seems to be a dirty word on Fab), but we call it having a nice time with friends. And to us, what is better than having a night out with friends and having some hot kinky sex thrown in!" That sounds like a lot of fun, it's something we have done as well and hope to do again. | |||
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