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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
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When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy. 
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications.  |
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over a year ago
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"When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy.
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications. "
In that past Iv looked at previous verifications to see what type of people they are meeting because, if they were fond of meeting women with usernames like "slutmeuptheshithole" or "bukakelover" or "iwillfuckanything" I would not be interested in meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We look to see if they know anyone we know, as that gives us comfort that they are worth meeting. It's also interesting to see if we have overlapping circles of friends. We look at the people they have met, whether they seem similar to us, ages etc. When we are scouting for couples for our parties we will look for the above, but also check from their verifications whether they have been to parties before. With single men we will check that they normally play with couples.
Never really understood why people make a judgement on numbers of verifications. The swing scene for us is extremely social, we attend a lot of parties, so course we're going to have quite a few verifications. Some people feel it's a reflection of too many partners, but surely having multiple partners is normal for the swing scene. |
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This is what i do. I look at the profile clock the verifications. If theres lots i will read the first couple.
Once ive made my decision i might go and give them a good read, sometimes theres a common theme.
Oh and sometimes if i scan them there might be a name i know pop out and it might be someone who has a reputation for meeting guys i like.
Its funny theres a couple of women ive never seen or spoken to but their names keep popping up on some profiles so i know we have similar taste in men.
Anyway ive never actually based who i meet on verifications.
But if they have a few i know there not looking for more than i can give
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy.
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications.
In that past Iv looked at previous verifications to see what type of people they are meeting because, if they were fond of meeting women with usernames like "slutmeuptheshithole" or "bukakelover" or "iwillfuckanything" I would not be interested in meeting them. "
Yes seen some usernames like these and know where you're coming from as it's a bit off putting |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"We look to see if they know anyone we know, as that gives us comfort that they are worth meeting. It's also interesting to see if we have overlapping circles of friends. We look at the people they have met, whether they seem similar to us, ages etc. When we are scouting for couples for our parties we will look for the above, but also check from their verifications whether they have been to parties before. With single men we will check that they normally play with couples.
Never really understood why people make a judgement on numbers of verifications. The swing scene for us is extremely social, we attend a lot of parties, so course we're going to have quite a few verifications. Some people feel it's a reflection of too many partners, but surely having multiple partners is normal for the swing scene. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always check veris. I'm sure it's a bit weird for guys to see that I've checked them out but I think it's a must! I personally like to see not only if I'm going to like the lady but if she is going to like me too! I'm put off by endless veris and certainly don't entertain people that have had loads, come off site then rejoin under a new name. They are the same pics for gods sake! To click, you've gotta be into the same things and be the same kinda person IMO LOL |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"OP is that why you hide your veris? "
I don't have any verifications. Someone sent me one based on me being in chat room but I didn't want to publish it.
I've only met two people from FAB. One I met on another site and introduced me to this one and other was a social meet and he didn't look like his pics so never saw him again.
I did send a pic to admin to be photo verified to come on the forums  |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"I always check veris. I'm sure it's a bit weird for guys to see that I've checked them out but I think it's a must! I personally like to see not only if I'm going to like the lady but if she is going to like me too! I'm put off by endless veris and certainly don't entertain people that have had loads, come off site then rejoin under a new name. They are the same pics for gods sake! To click, you've gotta be into the same things and be the same kinda person IMO LOL"
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"I play verification bingo.
Every time I read
'Well, what can I say...'
or
'treat this lady with respect'
I have to have a wank.
So far I've 1004 wanks today."
I've seen ones like this 'treat lady wit respect' and the other popular one is 'don't let this guy/girl pass you by' |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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No, not usually. I look at the pics, check the summary to check they don't smoke (or claim they don't) and how far away they are. Then I read the main profile text, followed by the message, if the pics and profile interested me.
I only check veris if I'm interested in meeting to see if they've actually had a meet, rather than just cam veris, and if it mentions they go to clubs. I don't usually check out the people leaving the veris though and I don't consider the veris themselves very important.
They're an indication at best and I'd rather make up my own mind about someone. |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"We look at the veries as they are sometimes funny and i'm nosy.
We don't base our decisions soley on them though.
Miss"
Must admit some make a good read. Plus they are nearly almost glowing references in the bedroom department |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do, and make all manner of judgements about people based on them. Not something I'd ever share with anyone, but they inform my opinion. Of course, if they don't display their verifications then it doesn't even cross my mind - so I think this is an example of where too much information can be a dangerous thing; and is another reason I never display mine. |
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over a year ago
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I like to read all the profile and veri's just so I can get a good idea who I'm talking to and possibly meeting.
I only have a couple of veris myself, one of which isn't there as they left fabs. Even when I was on here before I only had half a dozen as I'm not the busiest swinger in the world lol, but I am one of the nicest.
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"No, not usually. I look at the pics, check the summary to check they don't smoke (or claim they don't) and how far away they are. Then I read the main profile text, followed by the message, if the pics and profile interested me.
I only check veris if I'm interested in meeting to see if they've actually had a meet, rather than just cam veris, and if it mentions they go to clubs. I don't usually check out the people leaving the veris though and I don't consider the veris themselves very important.
They're an indication at best and I'd rather make up my own mind about someone."
I too take in those pointers as I'm a non smoker and like a man to be taller than me which isn't hard being 5.4..lol  |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"I like to read all the profile and veri's just so I can get a good idea who I'm talking to and possibly meeting.
I only have a couple of veris myself, one of which isn't there as they left fabs. Even when I was on here before I only had half a dozen as I'm not the busiest swinger in the world lol, but I am one of the nicest.
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Nicest swinger - like it  |
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Totally understand the long list of verifications but you have to think too like myself I go to clubs so meet people get new verifications but I have also been on the scence too for about 5 years
Verifications give you a glimpse of what might be if they are written correctly I think, but sometimes have to be read with a pinch of salt also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to read all the profile and veri's just so I can get a good idea who I'm talking to and possibly meeting.
I only have a couple of veris myself, one of which isn't there as they left fabs. Even when I was on here before I only had half a dozen as I'm not the busiest swinger in the world lol, but I am one of the nicest.
Nicest swinger - like it "
I think so anyway 
I certainly won't brag about being hung like a horse or having the manpower of a stallion. I have a good tongue though |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Totally understand the long list of verifications but you have to think too like myself I go to clubs so meet people get new verifications but I have also been on the scence too for about 5 years
Verifications give you a glimpse of what might be if they are written correctly I think, but sometimes have to be read with a pinch of salt also "
I feel it does give you an insight too |
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By *P1964 OP Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"I like to read all the profile and veri's just so I can get a good idea who I'm talking to and possibly meeting.
I only have a couple of veris myself, one of which isn't there as they left fabs. Even when I was on here before I only had half a dozen as I'm not the busiest swinger in the world lol, but I am one of the nicest.
Nicest swinger - like it
I think so anyway
I certainly won't brag about being hung like a horse or having the manpower of a stallion. I have a good tongue though "
Hahaha... Next you be telling me that you live in a stable |
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You are allowed to be fussy just because some people think you should meet everyone who messages you and that you should be grateful for any attention you get doesnt mean you should.
I always read peoples verifications and the ones they leave for others.
I wont usually meet men who have met a couple of women on here if i can help it.
I did have quite a few verifications but only have a couple shown now as a few have left this site, i blocked one person and another one blocked me, also i left this site last year so that all my verifications would be deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We look to see if they know anyone we know, as that gives us comfort that they are worth meeting. It's also interesting to see if we have overlapping circles of friends. We look at the people they have met, whether they seem similar to us, ages etc. When we are scouting for couples for our parties we will look for the above, but also check from their verifications whether they have been to parties before. With single men we will check that they normally play with couples.
Never really understood why people make a judgement on numbers of verifications. The swing scene for us is extremely social, we attend a lot of parties, so course we're going to have quite a few verifications. Some people feel it's a reflection of too many partners, but surely having multiple partners is normal for the swing scene. "
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"Totally understand the long list of verifications but you have to think too like myself I go to clubs so meet people get new verifications but I have also been on the scence too for about 5 years
Verifications give you a glimpse of what might be if they are written correctly I think, but sometimes have to be read with a pinch of salt also "
when i leave a serious verification
I try and leave information. Like one guy i meet i also know from gangbangs so i left him a verification on how well hes suited to gangbangs.
Cause if i was organising a gangbang id want to know the guys where experienced in that situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have a look to see what guys they are into, if they are into all toned and muscle I dont tend message being on the chubby side, had some nasty messages back from ones I have viewed telling me to "fuck off i'm not gay" and worse. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I always have a look to see what guys they are into, if they are into all toned and muscle I dont tend message being on the chubby side, had some nasty messages back from ones I have viewed telling me to "fuck off i'm not gay" and worse."
Assumimg that was what you were actually looking for, how would they expect you to know if they were gay without looking at their profile?
Just report any abusive messages. There's no need for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, but just to see what type of women they're into. No good if they meet lots of slim stunningly gorgeous petite sex nymphs as they'd keel over if they met me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, but just to see what type of women they're into. No good if they meet lots of slim stunningly gorgeous petite sex nymphs as they'd keel over if they met me.
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Morning and welcome back sadly I can't say it privately, seems to be a problem with me today |
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"Yes, but just to see what type of women they're into. No good if they meet lots of slim stunningly gorgeous petite sex nymphs as they'd keel over if they met me.
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I've been put off someone before because every single verification was from a woman or female half of couple with a boob job. I'm not putting my squidy sagging real pair up for comparison with that. No way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to read all the profile and veri's just so I can get a good idea who I'm talking to and possibly meeting.
I only have a couple of veris myself, one of which isn't there as they left fabs. Even when I was on here before I only had half a dozen as I'm not the busiest swinger in the world lol, but I am one of the nicest.
Nicest swinger - like it
I think so anyway
I certainly won't brag about being hung like a horse or having the manpower of a stallion. I have a good tongue though
Hahaha... Next you be telling me that you live in a stable "
If I did, I'd be talking Pony lol |
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"I always have a look to see what guys they are into, if they are into all toned and muscle I dont tend message being on the chubby side, had some nasty messages back from ones I have viewed telling me to "fuck off i'm not gay" and worse.
Assumimg that was what you were actually looking for, how would they expect you to know if they were gay without looking at their profile?
Just report any abusive messages. There's no need for it."
Not bothered by the abusive messages I just ignore them, like you say no need for it and I just find it childish or maybe they have insecurities about being gay or bi...lol |
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"When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy.
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications. "
Well, if you look at my summary, you'll see I've had about 90 meets. If you look at the verification summary, you'll make your own judgement based purely on numbers. If you read my profile, there is an explanation. If you read the 4 verifications I am showing you'll think two people think I'm nice and two think I'm a shit shag. They are, of course, joke verifications. They certainly do filter out the foolish from contacting me though so serve a useful purpose. I don't want to meet anyone who is daft enough to go by number of verifications only as it never tells the full picture and if people are too blinkered to realise that, then fine. Don't contact me. |
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"Yes, but just to see what type of women they're into. No good if they meet lots of slim stunningly gorgeous petite sex nymphs as they'd keel over if they met me.
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well maybe but just because you dont look the same as them doesnt mean the person you meet wont enjoy the sex. |
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"Yes, but just to see what type of women they're into. No good if they meet lots of slim stunningly gorgeous petite sex nymphs as they'd keel over if they met me.
well maybe but just because you dont look the same as them doesnt mean the person you meet wont enjoy the sex."
Grumpy cat what a sexy natural look you have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always check veris, if not verified by meet or last Veri was 2yrs ago I get curious why  & unlikely to meet that person. They tell u aswell type of play ur meet enjoys e.g. rough hard-core or slow sensual & like many folks too many do put me off aswell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you aware that person with 1 verification may have met 500 people and only display 2 while a person who met 30 people have displayed 24?
Valid point !"
Yes but when you get a verification does it not show on your profile automatically but only you choose to show it, so it will state how many verifications you've got regardless if you choose to show it? |
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"Are you aware that person with 1 verification may have met 500 people and only display 2 while a person who met 30 people have displayed 24?
Valid point !
Yes but when you get a verification does it not show on your profile automatically but only you choose to show it, so it will state how many verifications you've got regardless if you choose to show it? "
Everyone has the option to display there count or not, so if they choose not to then you won't know |
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I don't show my summary cos I had someone veri after seein some of my vids on kik but I do explain this in my pro and he was reported/blocked. Other than that I hold socials atm so I receive quite a few so I tend to just show the most recent few.
As for other veris tbh I also take them with a pinch of salt especially the "grafic" ones. I'm my experience they can be fake. Xxx |
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"Are you aware that person with 1 verification may have met 500 people and only display 2 while a person who met 30 people have displayed 24?
Valid point !
Yes but when you get a verification does it not show on your profile automatically but only you choose to show it, so it will state how many verifications you've got regardless if you choose to show it?
Everyone has the option to display there count or not, so if they choose not to then you won't know "
Ahh thank you I thought your count got published regardless and it was up to yourself to display who it was off and the text X |
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"When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy.
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications.
In that past Iv looked at previous verifications to see what type of people they are meeting because, if they were fond of meeting women with usernames like "slutmeuptheshithole" or "bukakelover" or "iwillfuckanything" I would not be interested in meeting them. "
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"When someone makes contact with you and you view their profile, do other members browse through their verifications to see what 'types' of people they've met off the site previously?
I tend to do this and make my judgement on the person whether to continue discussions with them or not and wondered if this is the norm or is it me being fussy.
It also puts me off when I see too many verifications. "
I don't read them. The summary tells me so much more |
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