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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely if you are a member of fab you know if you are bi or not? What is the definition of bi curious? For me it would mean I've never been with anyone of the same sex but I'd like to try it. After that, surely you're either bi or straight? I'm definitely bi just FYI x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've put bi curious for me as I haven't yet been with another women.....and definitely want to try it! Once I've had my first taste  I'll then know if I'm bisexual and will change what my profile says  |
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Imagine if your sex choices were limited by your first experience! Many wouldn't bother again, for the couple of seconds of someone's fumbling with us.
Bi interests include many who don't find the same gender fanciable but can enjoy the play.
Some tastes change over time too - so things aren't set in stone.
We typically don't like each gender in the same ways, for the same things - but also can. It's too easy to want to jump to simplify things, so that we fit others into the same or a very similar box to the one that we are fixed in.
People just are not like that. Assume that they can be very different to you and you'll likely be right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like playing with women in group/threesome scenarios, but don't really have an interest in one on one meets with women. It is all situational for me. So I put bi-curious. No matter how many women I play with, it will remain as bi-curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a fair few bi people find it off-putting that some of us choose 'curious' but that's the option which best suits me. I prefer bi-playful, because I enjoy playing with a lady with my Husband but I wouldn't have a romantic relationship with one and wouldn't meet 1:1 (purely because that would feel like cheating).
Ultimately, it doesn't really matter to me if someone disapproves of my curious status, if someone finds such minor things annoying we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As there is no bi-playful option I choose to put curious as only bi situationally in a mmf not interested in men apart from if play was to happen in a group meet scenario. |
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