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over a year ago
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if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used |
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used "
Someone said I _as nice on the nice thread, I thought it _as nice. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *Man
over a year ago
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used "
I'd take it as a compliment. We don't get many in life so take them in _hatever form they come. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used
I'd take it as a compliment. We don't get many in life so take them in _hatever form they come."
You're nice, _.
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By *Man
over a year ago
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used
I'd take it as a compliment. We don't get many in life so take them in _hatever form they come.
You're nice, _.
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Ah thank you Lickety. I think you're nice too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used "
Definitely think they didn't have a "nice" thing to say about me but rather than be insulting or to be polite used nice. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Depends on _ho says it and ho_ you _ant them to see you.
For the most part I'm happy to be nice. "
I'm sure I posted that I can think of better _ords to describe than nice but it's not there.
I'd describe you as precisely, meticulously, delightfully affable. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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nice is nice..
sometimes it's just a gut _ord that is honest..
I remember looking at a painting _ith some more 'arty' types(yes I like art), the tried to make me feel intimidated by saying "nice? _hat is that supposed to mean?".
For me it doesnt have to have anything more than a pleasure to my eye..so ONE _ord is all that is needed
no need to overthink things.. |
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"Depends on _ho says it and ho_ you _ant them to see you.
For the most part I'm happy to be nice.
I'm sure I posted that I can think of better _ords to describe than nice but it's not there.
I'd describe you as precisely, meticulously, delightfully affable. "
With eye-level nipples and an inability to read a tube map ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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"nice is nice..
sometimes it's just a gut _ord that is honest..
I remember looking at a painting _ith some more 'arty' types(yes I like art), the tried to make me feel intimidated by saying "nice? _hat is that supposed to mean?".
For me it doesnt have to have anything more than a pleasure to my eye..so ONE _ord is all that is needed
no need to overthink things.."
also its one reason _hy I _as never interested in art school...too many up themselves types..professing their individuality by copying others.t_ats. |
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over a year ago
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I get called nice, s_eet etc alot I accept the compliment but I understand your.point I _ish it _asn't the first _ord that people thought particularly on a s_inging site ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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does my head in _hen anyone says nice on here, not in the forums because it's probably genuine but in PM if someone _ants a 'nice' lady it usually means someone _ho _ill give the person _hat they _ant, a pushover maybe or that might be too strong of a _ord but someone _ho they think _ill let them be selfish. |
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"I get called nice, s_eet etc alot I accept the compliment but I understand your.point I _ish it _asn't the first _ord that people thought particularly on a s_inging site "
I doubt it is, it's just that as you get to kno_ you it turns out you're really nice ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used "
The context _ould be very important. For example, "you're a nice guy, but..." compared to someone looking at your naked body and giving a _ink and a nod and saying "nice". |
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"I get called nice, s_eet etc alot I accept the compliment but I understand your.point I _ish it _asn't the first _ord that people thought particularly on a s_inging site
I doubt it is, it's just that as you get to kno_ you it turns out you're really nice "
Thank you You're really nice too ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often..."
I get called cute all the time. |
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over a year ago
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"nice is nice..
sometimes it's just a gut _ord that is honest..
I remember looking at a painting _ith some more 'arty' types(yes I like art), the tried to make me feel intimidated by saying "nice? _hat is that supposed to mean?".
For me it doesnt have to have anything more than a pleasure to my eye..so ONE _ord is all that is needed
no need to overthink things.."
If you'd have said "nice juxtaposition of the different moods" _hile stroking your chin,I'm sure they'd have "mmmm'd" in affirmation _hile nodding their heads n stroking their goatees! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I get called nice, s_eet etc alot I accept the compliment but I understand your.point I _ish it _asn't the first _ord that people thought particularly on a s_inging site
I doubt it is, it's just that as you get to kno_ you it turns out you're really nice
Thank you You're really nice too "
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"Nice is like OK.
It's neither here nor there. "
I'd describe a flo_er as a nice thing...it's not an OK thing.
if I said someone is 'nice', as opposed to she's 'OK'
Which is the compliment?...it is pretty clear to me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
I get called cute all the time. "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used
I'd take it as a compliment. We don't get many in life so take them in _hatever form they come.
You're nice, _.
Ah thank you Lickety. I think you're nice too
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Thank you. I'm rarely called nice.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Context is key. If someone I kno_ or had some form of rapport _ith said I _as nice I _ouldn't mind in the slightest. A random saying 'you look nice' or 'you seem nice' just seems a generic blah sort of comment. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Context is key. If someone I kno_ or had some form of rapport _ith said I _as nice I _ouldn't mind in the slightest. A random saying 'you look nice' or 'you seem nice' just seems a generic blah sort of comment."
See: You sound like fun. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often..."
yeah ok marc
but I think you get my point, some _omen _ould take offense, to being called 'cute', as it might have childlike implications..
I'll agree some smooshy _ords like 'babe' do my head in- but to millions of people it is their language of affection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
yeah ok marc
but I think you get my point, some _omen _ould take offense, to being called 'cute', as it might have childlike implications..
I'll agree some smooshy _ords like 'babe' do my head in- but to millions of people it is their language of affection. "
I got your point, but I still like the _ord cute ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
I get called cute all the time.
Oh, rub it in! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nice is nice..
sometimes it's just a gut _ord that is honest..
I remember looking at a painting _ith some more 'arty' types(yes I like art), the tried to make me feel intimidated by saying "nice? _hat is that supposed to mean?".
For me it doesnt have to have anything more than a pleasure to my eye..so ONE _ord is all that is needed
no need to overthink things..
If you'd have said "nice juxtaposition of the different moods" _hile stroking your chin,I'm sure they'd have "mmmm'd" in affirmation _hile nodding their heads n stroking their goatees! "
it got even better _hen _e came to the chair made of beer cans, obviously, it _as a social commentary on the youth of today..
to me it _as simply 'pish'. |
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
I get called cute all the time. " i got called today as _ell ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
yeah ok marc
but I think you get my point, some _omen _ould take offense, to being called 'cute', as it might have childlike implications..
I'll agree some smooshy _ords like 'babe' do my head in- but to millions of people it is their language of affection.
I got your point, but I still like the _ord cute "
a__ courtney you are my peek_eekychoo xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok _ords _e cannot use no_:
nice
stunning
cute
sexy
theres hardly anything left..
I like being called cute - though it doesn't happen often...
yeah ok marc
but I think you get my point, some _omen _ould take offense, to being called 'cute', as it might have childlike implications..
I'll agree some smooshy _ords like 'babe' do my head in- but to millions of people it is their language of affection.
I got your point, but I still like the _ord cute
a__ courtney you are my peek_eekychoo xxxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nice is nice..
sometimes it's just a gut _ord that is honest..
I remember looking at a painting _ith some more 'arty' types(yes I like art), the tried to make me feel intimidated by saying "nice? _hat is that supposed to mean?".
For me it doesnt have to have anything more than a pleasure to my eye..so ONE _ord is all that is needed
no need to overthink things..
If you'd have said "nice juxtaposition of the different moods" _hile stroking your chin,I'm sure they'd have "mmmm'd" in affirmation _hile nodding their heads n stroking their goatees!
it got even better _hen _e came to the chair made of beer cans, obviously, it _as a social commentary on the youth of today..
to me it _as simply 'pish'."
Lol! Aye,I think the main difference bet_een a lot of so called modern art n a pile of pish is in the amount of big n clever _ords used to describe the 'meaning' behind it!
Poncey pontificating plonkers! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Nice is like OK.
It's neither here nor there.
I'd describe a flo_er as a nice thing...it's not an OK thing.
if I said someone is 'nice', as opposed to she's 'OK'
Which is the compliment?...it is pretty clear to me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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As most people have said already, context is key..,
I usually get told I seem like a really nice person just after I have rejected someone for not being _hat I'm looking for...
Although _hat that says about me, I have no idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As most people have said already, context is key..,
I usually get told I seem like a really nice person just after I have rejected someone for not being _hat I'm looking for...
Although _hat that says about me, I have no idea "
I think it means you are nice to people ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"As most people have said already, context is key..,
I usually get told I seem like a really nice person just after I have rejected someone for not being _hat I'm looking for...
Although _hat that says about me, I have no idea "
_ell in that context they are probably saying you are a nice person, _hilst furiously hate _anking about you. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I get called nice, s_eet etc alot I accept the compliment but I understand your.point I _ish it _asn't the first _ord that people thought particularly on a s_inging site "
You're smoking hot shaggable sexy fuckin funstuff.
I _uv you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Context is key. If someone I kno_ or had some form of rapport _ith said I _as nice I _ouldn't mind in the slightest. A random saying 'you look nice' or 'you seem nice' just seems a generic blah sort of comment.
See: You sound like fun. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As most people have said already, context is key..,
I usually get told I seem like a really nice person just after I have rejected someone for not being _hat I'm looking for...
Although _hat that says about me, I have no idea
_ell in that context they are probably saying you are a nice person, _hilst furiously hate _anking about you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you _ere described as nice, _ould you find it insulting or a compliment?
after all, nice is such an average _ord...,and there are so many other more descriptive _ords that could be used "
I used to find it insulting cos like you said, it means average-ish.
But I've learnt to be comfortable in my o_n skin these days.
If peeps don't like it, they can lump it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I _ouldn't find it insulting. Just...disappointing."
It depends on ho_ _ell the person kno_s you and ho_ long they've kno_n you I think.
A compliment doesn't become one until it's said to the intended recipient so if you think it just say it....._ell _eigh up if it might your face slapped for coming on to them first of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On here it comes do_n to ho_ you project yourself to others, a generic _ord used to describe someone on the _hole unkno_n.
It doesn't really bother me unless it's used in a oh yeah she's nice, thro_a_ay couldn't think of another _ord context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I take nice as a compliment, I'm often told I'm too nice. But it's nice to be nice. You can regret a lot of _ords and actions but you can never regret being nice or kind. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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I drink coffee & I like biscuits. My favorite biscuit _ith coffee is a "Nice" one.
So if I say you are nice you should take it I mean the thought of you makes me salivate, makes my heart beat a little faster & the sugar hit from your very presence _ould give me a massive rush!!
Or I could just think your not an arsehole & _e are over thinking it
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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calling ne nice, is like calling me normal..you obviously don't kno_ me that _ell.its a insipid pleasantry _hich i accept graciously, from those _ho haven't met me yet, _hile i chuckle in_ardly... ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a very dim minimal _ord, it's not that it's insulting as a _ord it's just that there are loads of other _ords to use to describe someone _eather it be good or bad super sexy stunning "
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