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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this place will knock your confidence if you let it.
i know myself personally i do tend to go for hunkier guys who are older than you.
this place is all about fulfilling your fantasies for me really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're very young to be on here - maybe its not the place for you til you have a lot more confidence in yourself.
Fab is a hard world for the best of us
Get down the pub/club on a Saturday night and see whats going on.
I wish you luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with your pics/profile.
Only factor that will be raised by many folks - is your age. There are folks looking for your age group - but they're far outnumbered by those looking for experienced, mature folks.
Happy Hunting  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
You seem to have a lot of doubt and anxiety. Is this the right place for you to be?
Some will fancy you and others won't. Some will be put off by your age and others won't.
If you focus on the ones that don't want you then you will feel insecure. Let it go and just accept that you're not for them.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are worthy OP. don't let the actions (or not) of strangers determine your worth.
If you're getting frustrated just take a little break and come back to it later x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"this place will knock your confidence if you let it.
i know myself personally i do tend to go for hunkier guys who are older than you.
this place is all about fulfilling your fantasies for me really."
Yeah i know that what my head is like sometimes i know who i am as a person and countless people have said to me your a beautiful person with a beautiful soul but most women don't look for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your pictures are more creative than some I've seen so well done for that. Just be genuine when sending messages and be patient. Take a look at some other males on the forums profiles look at how they portray themselves.
Good luck buddy and there's someone for everyone aslong as your respectful genuine and a nice person you will do fine X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your pictures are more creative than some I've seen so well done for that. Just be genuine when sending messages and be patient. Take a look at some other males on the forums profiles look at how they portray themselves.
Good luck buddy and there's someone for everyone aslong as your respectful genuine and a nice person you will do fine X "
Okay thank you for that advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important "
You cannot measure your worth by the attention or lack of on Fab.
Live, get out into the world. (Sorry it's a bit patronising)
Websites like this sometime seem to push some folk further apart.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this place will knock your confidence if you let it.
i know myself personally i do tend to go for hunkier guys who are older than you.
this place is all about fulfilling your fantasies for me really.
Yeah i know that what my head is like sometimes i know who i am as a person and countless people have said to me your a beautiful person with a beautiful soul but most women don't look for that "
good. at least you've got your priorities right when it comes to confidence.
some women will be looking for what you have to offer, it's just finding them people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're very young to be on here - maybe its not the place for you til you have a lot more confidence in yourself.
Fab is a hard world for the best of us
Get down the pub/club on a Saturday night and see whats going on.
I wish you luck "
I do have confidence but sometimes i do feel like this i know who i am as a person and i wish lol saturday nights hardly get them off work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not all looks as I can prove. Show your personally and make them laugh your half way there
Oh ello you  "
I'm back rahhhhhhhh . And OP you've only been on here 2 weeks and had a meet that's bloody fantastic. Chin up kid and keep going x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not all looks as I can prove. Show your personally and make them laugh your half way there
Oh ello you
I'm back rahhhhhhhh . And OP you've only been on here 2 weeks and had a meet that's bloody fantastic. Chin up kid and keep going x"
I ain't had a meet lol |
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Just noticed how old you are. Please don't take this as a dig as it's far from it. If your feeling like that and it's knocking your confidence in think you should take some time and think if this is the place for you at this part in your life. Best of luck mate |
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"It's not all looks as I can prove. Show your personally and make them laugh your half way there
Oh ello you
I'm back rahhhhhhhh . And OP you've only been on here 2 weeks and had a meet that's bloody fantastic. Chin up kid and keep going x"
I missed you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just noticed how old you are. Please don't take this as a dig as it's far from it. If your feeling like that and it's knocking your confidence in think you should take some time and think if this is the place for you at this part in your life. Best of luck mate "
Yeah it definitely is the place for me dunno guess I've got to have a bit of faith that things will work out as people say I've only been on here 2 weeks just running on faith is the key i love this site i love the people on here believe me life without fab now can't see it lol |
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"Just noticed how old you are. Please don't take this as a dig as it's far from it. If your feeling like that and it's knocking your confidence in think you should take some time and think if this is the place for you at this part in your life. Best of luck mate Yeah it definitely is the place for me dunno guess I've got to have a bit of faith that things will work out as people say I've only been on here 2 weeks just running on faith is the key i love this site i love the people on here believe me life without fab now can't see it lol "
OK in that case show your personality on here and get to some socials. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just noticed how old you are. Please don't take this as a dig as it's far from it. If your feeling like that and it's knocking your confidence in think you should take some time and think if this is the place for you at this part in your life. Best of luck mate Yeah it definitely is the place for me dunno guess I've got to have a bit of faith that things will work out as people say I've only been on here 2 weeks just running on faith is the key i love this site i love the people on here believe me life without fab now can't see it lol
OK in that case show your personality on here and get to some socials. "
I do try show my personality on here one thing I'm best at is showing how loving and caring i am would always help someone out if they needed it and yeah definitely need to try to get to some socials and show what I'm like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have only been here 2 weeks. Give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day. True "
be a little more patient. You never know what or who's waiting for you xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have only been here 2 weeks. Give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day. True be a little more patient. You never know what or who's waiting for you xx"
Yeah true patience is the key maybe I'm ticking someone's boxes without even realizing it never know until the day comes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have only been here 2 weeks. Give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day. True be a little more patient. You never know what or who's waiting for you xx Yeah true patience is the key maybe I'm ticking someone's boxes without even realizing it never know until the day comes "
exactly x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have only been here 2 weeks. Give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day. True be a little more patient. You never know what or who's waiting for you xx Yeah true patience is the key maybe I'm ticking someone's boxes without even realizing it never know until the day comes exactly x"
Thank you. Really lifted me back up that has thank you all for the messages feeling that confidence coming back definitely
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have only been here 2 weeks. Give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day. True be a little more patient. You never know what or who's waiting for you xx Yeah true patience is the key maybe I'm ticking someone's boxes without even realizing it never know until the day comes exactly x Thank you. Really lifted me back up that has thank you all for the messages feeling that confidence coming back definitely "
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Honey you are very young. When i was your age i still didn't really know myself very well, never mind know what swinging was lol
The biggest problem for guys your age is that there are not many single ladies or couples on here of a similar age group, they are mostly at least 10 years older. We all have restrictions on the age of people we want to meet. They are not always set in stone but you have to really stand out to even make us consider you. The vast majority of us don't want to meet someone young enough to be our child or old enough to be our parent.
All single males find it hard here but the younger ones find it even harder. I've not been go a club myself yet, but i have heard it's much easier for young guys there than it is on here. At least that way you have the opportunity to try and impress people with your personality. When you speak to people face to face age is less important.
You do need to have a very thick skin to be on here. You will be rejected and possibly insulted far more times than you will meet. Single ladies are very much in the minority here but we still get it too. If you are struggling with this then maybe you shouldn't be on here. Its like a highly concentrated form of rejection that can make you feel so bad about yourself and have an adverse effect on your wellbeing.
Maybe taking a little break for a few weeks will help. People who have been on here for years still do this from time to time.
Whatever you decide to do i hope everything works out good for you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honey you are very young. When i was your age i still didn't really know myself very well, never mind know what swinging was lol
The biggest problem for guys your age is that there are not many single ladies or couples on here of a similar age group, they are mostly at least 10 years older. We all have restrictions on the age of people we want to meet. They are not always set in stone but you have to really stand out to even make us consider you. The vast majority of us don't want to meet someone young enough to be our child or old enough to be our parent.
All single males find it hard here but the younger ones find it even harder. I've not been go a club myself yet, but i have heard it's much easier for young guys there than it is on here. At least that way you have the opportunity to try and impress people with your personality. When you speak to people face to face age is less important.
You do need to have a very thick skin to be on here. You will be rejected and possibly insulted far more times than you will meet. Single ladies are very much in the minority here but we still get it too. If you are struggling with this then maybe you shouldn't be on here. Its like a highly concentrated form of rejection that can make you feel so bad about yourself and have an adverse effect on your wellbeing.
Maybe taking a little break for a few weeks will help. People who have been on here for years still do this from time to time.
Whatever you decide to do i hope everything works out good for you
Xxx "
Thank you for the suggestion much appreciated but now through the kind people of fab having my back as always(love them to bits) I've pushed through it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This place can be brutal at times lovely. Sometimes its good to take a step back and really think what it is you want in life right now of its more like dating / relationships that you want its going to be very hard to find anyone suitable.. Not impossible mind. Relax, take a break by hiding your profile if you need to and decide what it is you're hoping to get from the site.
Sending hugs xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This place can be brutal at times lovely. Sometimes its good to take a step back and really think what it is you want in life right now of its more like dating / relationships that you want its going to be very hard to find anyone suitable.. Not impossible mind. Relax, take a break by hiding your profile if you need to and decide what it is you're hoping to get from the site.
Sending hugs xx"
Thank you beautiful definitely not on here for dating/relationship there's plenty of other sites for that i know what i want just want to have a good time with some women and to explore our sexual fantasies or desires and also to have a nice network of friends on here there is some truly lovely beautiful people on this site who i can tell things to them which i wouldn't be able to tell to my day to day mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are worthy OP. don't let the actions (or not) of strangers determine your worth.
If you're getting frustrated just take a little break and come back to it later x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are worthy OP. don't let the actions (or not) of strangers determine your worth.
If you're getting frustrated just take a little break and come back to it later x
This "
Bang on that is actually love that myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are worthy OP. don't let the actions (or not) of strangers determine your worth.
If you're getting frustrated just take a little break and come back to it later x"
Love this needed to see that thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are worthy of being here just this place is overrun with men there's 1000's of them on here running wild.
I would just wait for people to come to you because I don't know how many unanswered/deleted messages you can take before it gets to you. Get involved in the forums, fab people's pictures in your area and see if you can get people to message you first.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are worthy of being here just this place is overrun with men there's 1000's of them on here running wild.
I would just wait for people to come to you because I don't know how many unanswered/deleted messages you can take before it gets to you. Get involved in the forums, fab people's pictures in your area and see if you can get people to message you first.
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Yeah probably my best bet i do get involved in forum a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important "
Meh. Screw everyone. You can't help how you look. Learn to be comfortavke in your own skin. Best advice anyone can give ya mate
Confidence is attractive. Well a lot of the time anyway.
You are worthy. Just haven't found some one who alpreciate you for what/who you are.
Don't give up mate. You'll be fine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important
Meh. Screw everyone. You can't help how you look. Learn to be comfortavke in your own skin. Best advice anyone can give ya mate
Confidence is attractive. Well a lot of the time anyway.
You are worthy. Just haven't found some one who alpreciate you for what/who you are.
Don't give up mate. You'll be fine "
Thanks for that mate really appreciate them kind words |
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"Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important
Meh. Screw everyone. You can't help how you look. Learn to be comfortavke in your own skin. Best advice anyone can give ya mate
Confidence is attractive. Well a lot of the time anyway.
You are worthy. Just haven't found some one who alpreciate you for what/who you are.
Don't give up mate. You'll be fine Thanks for that mate really appreciate them kind words "
It's true. Apologies for the poor spelling. Had a few this evening.
All the best mate. You just be positive. Watch how things change for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Op you seam like a really nice chap and that is shining thro. Chillax and enjoy. All good things cum to those who wait. Xxx"
Thank you for that yeah patience is definitely the key
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"Sometimes i feel so unattractive like maybe women don't like me i send a face picture to them and they can see my body yeah i might not be blessed with with the looks or body like most people on here i try my best to look good in photo's each time it seems like i get deflected like I'm not worthy or something or not important
Meh. Screw everyone. You can't help how you look. Learn to be comfortavke in your own skin. Best advice anyone can give ya mate
Confidence is attractive. Well a lot of the time anyway.
You are worthy. Just haven't found some one who alpreciate you for what/who you are.
Don't give up mate. You'll be fine Thanks for that mate really appreciate them kind words
It's true. Apologies for the poor spelling. Had a few this evening.
All the best mate. You just be positive. Watch how things change for you."
No worries mate never thought anything of it and yeah all about positivity isn't it thanks mate |
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