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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say repeat, rather than regular.
Don't want to rely on anyone, but I much prefer getting to know and trust someone. A level of closeness and knowledge about each other helps make those times together really special. |
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"I'd say repeat, rather than regular.
Don't want to rely on anyone, but I much prefer getting to know and trust someone. A level of closeness and knowledge about each other helps make those times together really special. "
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"I'd say repeat, rather than regular.
Don't want to rely on anyone, but I much prefer getting to know and trust someone. A level of closeness and knowledge about each other helps make those times together really special. " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im lucky if I can get them to turn up once let alone regularly
That is sooooo hard to believe
I think the wedding dress puts them off
Southeners for ya you should move further north "
i agree - move north |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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regular, but only one guy off here has been regular enough for me to enjoy him, like at least a couple of times a week.
one offs can be ok but they tend to want to meet again at some point so you've got to be careful not to have too many regulars, at one point i couldn't cope coz my regulars weren't regular enough and my so called one offs wanted to meet again. most guys are ok with you saying you can't meet coz you've already planned a meet but the problem is more you have to choose which guy you wanna prioritise and that can be hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My idea of regular isn't really that regular & I wouldn't like to feel pressure to meet on that basis.
I've had some pretty awesome one off meets that will hopefully be repeated at some point, I am in no rush.
So I guess overall I'm also saying I prefer repeats as opposed to regular.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We like mainly repeat but irregular meets. As in, when we all get round to it again, great. We enjoy building friendships and pushing boundaries with those we know.
With the odd one off / new meet thrown in occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Im lucky if I can get them to turn up once let alone regularly
That is sooooo hard to believe
I think the wedding dress puts them off
Southeners for ya you should move further north
i agree - move north "
Ahhh will you all take me under your wings |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
I prefer regular, and I already have a few regulars I meet at least once a week.
Its a much easier way to develop trust, and you can experiment with each other.
Having regulars saves all the time and rigmarole of swapping pics and the stress of the other person nor turning up with one-off meets.
I do one-offs occasionally when I go to a club / party once in a blue moon |
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" Im lucky if I can get them to turn up once let alone regularly
That is sooooo hard to believe
I think the wedding dress puts them off
Southeners for ya you should move further north
i agree - move north
Ahhh will you all take me under your wings "
I'll definitely take you somewhere not sure about wings though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My idea of regular isn't really that regular & I wouldn't like to feel pressure to meet on that basis.
I've had some pretty awesome one off meets that will hopefully be repeated at some point, I am in no rush.
So I guess overall I'm also saying I prefer repeats as opposed to regular.
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Oh i took regular to mean repeats.....jeez i don't have time for regular sex with my husband let alone someone from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im lucky if I can get them to turn up once let alone regularly
That is sooooo hard to believe
I think the wedding dress puts them off
Southeners for ya you should move further north
i agree - move north
Ahhh will you all take me under your wings
I'll definitely take you somewhere not sure about wings though "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im lucky if I can get them to turn up once let alone regularly
That is sooooo hard to believe
I think the wedding dress puts them off
Southeners for ya you should move further north
i agree - move north
Ahhh will you all take me under your wings
I'll definitely take you somewhere not sure about wings though "
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!! "
Oooook I'm on my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way "
You coming to Alton towers petal? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer repeat meets. So far been lucky, the few I have met have been good fun and I met them again, but if a 1st meet wasn't great, it would be a 1 off. |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X"
Yes I am. You still going ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?" She's coming to mine remember lol |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
If you'd asked me five years ago at the start of my journeyI'd have said one offs..
Now.. I'd prefer regular meetings, especially if they're local... sometimes the distance and logistics of things mean one offs are the only option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?"
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then?? " Ahh 8th september flying to Magaluf 2 weeks to go |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then?? "
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot "
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go. |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go. "
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something "
I can't read. Mines October. Can I still come? It's a big 1 this yr. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something "
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more! "
Yes mum! |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
I have a regular tgirlfriend that I see at least once a month, sometimes just us, sometimes 3somes, 4somes or moresomes... All depends on how many actually turn up on the evening! |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more! "
Joy's of a forum anyone can post as they choose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more!
Joy's of a forum anyone can post as they choose "
Oh I know...some posts are just so puerile though it's cringeworthy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more!
Joy's of a forum anyone can post as they choose
Oh I know...some posts are just so puerile though it's cringeworthy "
I'm prolific at puerile posting, perhaps I'll persist!! |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more!
Joy's of a forum anyone can post as they choose
Oh I know...some posts are just so puerile though it's cringeworthy "
My heart bloods for you. All that cringing can't be good for you |
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"Well as I'm not getting either at the moment it's a moot point!
But I DO want chocolate - regularly! Am half an hour into my diet (since I finished my chippy tea!) and I need chocolate! Who's got some?? Perleeeeeeease??
Oh - and none of your 'dark coz it's healthier' crap either!!
Oooook I'm on my way
You coming to Alton towers petal? X
Yes I am. You still going ?
Hoping to! My birthday 8th sept so if I can afford it it'll be my birthday treat to myself!
Can I have the chocolate then??
Mines the 29th. I'm planning on being on my bike so might melt a little leathers get a bit hot
Mines 10th, but not looking like I can go.
There's loads of us with September bd. We should organise something
Jeez start a new thread or pm instead of hijacking the OP's one!
My meets are mostly repeats or semi-regular, but sometimes a one-off is nice too...the buggers just keep coming back for more!
Joy's of a forum anyone can post as they choose
Oh I know...some posts are just so puerile though it's cringeworthy
My heart bloods for you. All that cringing can't be good for you "
You killed the thread! Bad boy! |
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