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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wana say since i started using fab last few weeks been some great chat an msg's.
however is it just me or some ppl rude lol dont even read a msg or anything and delete straight away, now fair enough i know am not perfect an sexy looking but seems shocking people just delete soon as you send a pleasant msg.
am not one to ask for sex or anything so my msg is a general hi wana chat an see lol,
maybe am ugly and not good at this stuff but just curious cos chatted to some nice and amazing ppl so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never check our sent mail to see if its been read or deleted..it seems a bit anal to be honest
Can you actually tell if a mail has been read before its deleted it or do some people juat keep hitting refresh til its gone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single fem I have found trying to be polite and reply doesnt always get you anywhere because then you get a message back saying please give me a chance or what am I doing wrong and it turns into email tennis when you have already said you are not interested, I am very polite but unfortunately a lot of guys egos will not take the thanks but no thanks message so sometimes I will just delete so apologies on behalf of the single ladies but this is just the way it is, take it that it wasnt meant to be and move on babe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never check our sent mail to see if its been read or deleted..it seems a bit anal to be honest
Can you actually tell if a mail has been read before its deleted it or do some people juat keep hitting refresh til its gone?"
It shows in your sent mail as deleted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well when you send mail it always takes to read so sometimes ive clicked sent to see who i mailed prior so not send to same ppl time again lol
and you see goes from unread to delete
lol maybe i just to chatty lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never check our sent mail to see if its been read or deleted..it seems a bit anal to be honest
Can you actually tell if a mail has been read before its deleted it or do some people juat keep hitting refresh til its gone?
It shows in your sent mail as deleted "
yes but if someone read it then instantly deleted it you wouldn't know if it had been actually read or not surely?
A one liner takes 3 seconds to read and delete. unless the sender is sitting on their sent box how could they tell?
a lot of threads have the 'deleted without reading' line,just wondered how they know
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i read a message and sometimes they can take some reading
i look at the profile and look at the message and photos if im intergued i will reply
if not could be the profile or message or photo if im honest i will delete
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wana say since i started using fab last few weeks been some great chat an msg's.
however is it just me or some ppl rude lol dont even read a msg or anything and delete straight away, now fair enough i know am not perfect an sexy looking but seems shocking people just delete soon as you send a pleasant msg.
am not one to ask for sex or anything so my msg is a general hi wana chat an see lol,
maybe am ugly and not good at this stuff but just curious cos chatted to some nice and amazing ppl so far "
you're gonna find that their are many egos on this site buddy who are just after the physical attraction and good sex, therefore if u don't fit the intial tick box criteria then u aint getting the chance for the second. those people that don't reply fit into one of 2 catagories...1) rude and lack empathy 2) genuinely have too many emails from simalar guys and havn't got the time to reply. either way, it's a swingers site and there is someone for everyone. i go with the mentality that we can't please everyone all the time, and it's just a process of elimination to find those that u can click with! look at it as a good thing buddy! basically....i've just given u a long version of what the previous few have said "forget it and move on" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we tend to look at the profile of the person sending the message first, if the profile has little to say then we assume that that person can't put any effort into a profile what effort will they put into a meet so we don't bother reading the message and just delete.
that might be anal but we don't care, everyone has their own way of sorting things out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we tend to look at the profile of the person sending the message first, if the profile has little to say then we assume that that person can't put any effort into a profile what effort will they put into a meet so we don't bother reading the message and just delete.
that might be anal but we don't care, everyone has their own way of sorting things out"
When I was meeting I used this process too. Before reading a message I looked at the profile. If they were outside what I'm looking for instant delete without reading.
My profile stated that I wouldn't reply to anyone outside my criteria as I was looking for something specific. If they couldn't be bothered to read my profile, then that's there look out.
If someone had obviously read my profile, but I didn't want to play with them for whatever reason I'd always send a nice "thanks, but no thanks" type message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys write in the first instance and add at the end.... "I know you ladies get lots of mails but please read my profile and if you like what you see and are interested in getting to know me better please write back".
I look, I don't fancy what I read/see so I don't write back. Couple of days later comes another.
"Think you're too good to reply do you? Fuck off bitch!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys write in the first instance and add at the end.... "I know you ladies get lots of mails but please read my profile and if you like what you see and are interested in getting to know me better please write back".
I look, I don't fancy what I read/see so I don't write back. Couple of days later comes another.
"Think you're too good to reply do you? Fuck off bitch!" "
ive had that 
and messages asking " how am i finding fab" |
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"yer few ppl i chat so say they get abusive mail cos dont reply
i be happy with a no thanks lol
but am not pushy or want anythin that not offered lol"
My dear young man, you have to realise some people on here get tons of messages a day and it's simply not possible to read them all and reply to them, you just have to move on and don't take it personally hun, hugz, Ruby, xxxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too "
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling...."
strange lol not bitching no biting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we tend to look at the profile of the person sending the message first, if the profile has little to say then we assume that that person can't put any effort into a profile what effort will they put into a meet so we don't bother reading the message and just delete.
that might be anal but we don't care, everyone has their own way of sorting things out
When I was meeting I used this process too. Before reading a message I looked at the profile. If they were outside what I'm looking for instant delete without reading.
My profile stated that I wouldn't reply to anyone outside my criteria as I was looking for something specific. If they couldn't be bothered to read my profile, then that's there look out.
If someone had obviously read my profile, but I didn't want to play with them for whatever reason I'd always send a nice "thanks, but no thanks" type message. "
should have added that if profile has effort put into it then we read the message but if we don't think it'll go anywhere we will reply with a no thanx |
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling...."
I blame the gobby tranny darling, she has no idea when to shut up!!!!, xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling....
I blame the gobby tranny darling, she has no idea when to shut up!!!!, xxx "
what there is a gobby tranny here |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling....
I blame the gobby tranny darling, she has no idea when to shut up!!!!, xxx "
see that's no fair... funky monkey ain't online to defend him/her self.... play nice |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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am not one to ask for sex or anything
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Maybe thats where you are going wrong
You could search for the word "reply" in the forum search when you are bored, you might find lots of answers to your question. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"so i should msg sayin want sex use me
well any takers lol"
Isn't that why most of us are here?
I would rather get a first message saying what they are after than want to talk about knitting or the weather.
Nothing bores me more than " hi how are you? " you answer fine thanks and you?, they come back with "Fine here thanks, how was your day?"
It could take hours before they say why they are in our inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you're gonna find that their are many egos on this site buddy who are just after the physical attraction and good sex,
bugger me! Im in the wrong place...  "
sure that wasnt a typo and meant to say....bugger me its in the wrong place..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haha ta ppl
i was just curious an stuff am bein forum chatty today lol
but it nice to chat to you all too
The forums are positively chatty and euphoric today - its puzzling....
strange lol not bitching no biting "
Im doing a survey while I watch to see if the atmosphere changes with the arrival of different species to the waterhole as the sun shortens. I feel like David Attenborough at a wildebeest convention... |
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