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over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means? "
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone know what it means?
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them! "
Ah I thought so. Hence my confusion. |
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over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means?
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them!
Ah I thought so. Hence my confusion."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a salt bath. |
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a saltt bath." yes, i had a message from someone the other day announcing he was a sapiosexual the other day and when i checked his profile it was littered with spelling mistakes and generally not worded well
Obviously hoping opposites attract |
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a saltt bath.yes, i had a message from someone the other day announcing he was a sapiosexual the other day and when i checked his profile it was littered with spelling mistakes and generally not worded well
Obviously hoping opposites attract"
...quickly checking profile for grammatical errors... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a saltt bath.yes, i had a message from someone the other day announcing he was a sapiosexual the other day and when i checked his profile it was littered with spelling mistakes and generally not worded well
Obviously hoping opposites attract"
The other day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone know what it means?
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them! "
AIDS is worse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means?
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them!
AIDS is worse"
Fair dues Chad, love your profile picture. That's a great shot. |
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a saltt bath.yes, i had a message from someone the other day announcing he was a sapiosexual the other day and when i checked his profile it was littered with spelling mistakes and generally not worded well
Obviously hoping opposites attract
...quickly checking profile for grammatical errors..." see spelling mistakes dont bother me but when someone messages me saying they are a sapiosexual im not expecting to see a two bit profile littered with spelling mistakes |
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a saltt bath.yes, i had a message from someone the other day announcing he was a sapiosexual the other day and when i checked his profile it was littered with spelling mistakes and generally not worded well
Obviously hoping opposites attract
...quickly checking profile for grammatical errors...see spelling mistakes dont bother me but when someone messages me saying they are a sapiosexual im not expecting to see a two bit profile littered with spelling mistakes"
iTs a gOoD job i cAn spelL KereKtly tHen InNit ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means?
Intelligence is sexy.... there is nothing worse, than a person who is so stupid that you cannot hold an intelligent conversation with them!
AIDS is worse"
Well, yes AIDS would be worse!! ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Seems to be a trend thing at present, being described as a Sapiosexual. I suppose it goes with the Geek fashion thing of glasses, beards, and t!
Intelligence is a turn on though; nothing worse than a pretty lass who is as mentally stimulating as a slug having a salt bath."
Thought that said Greek and was confused
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The second definition on urban dictionary:
"A shibboleth used by poseurs attracted to the appearance of intelligence rather than actual intelligence. People genuinely attracted to intelligence know that the word “intelligence” is derived from the Latin “intelligere”; that the Latin participle for wisdom is “sapiens,” not “sapio”; and that the Latin “sapio” means something that tastes good." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was speaking to two women on here both said they wanted to meet me, but the conversation was that one sided I left it. Nothing worse then messaging someone and only getting one word answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was speaking to two women on here both said they wanted to meet me, but the conversation was that one sided I left it. Nothing worse then messaging someone and only getting one word answers "
sucks |
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By *ark074Man
over a year ago
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"It's an arsehole word used by arseholes to describe being up your own arsehole.
Erm, "their own arsehole", I'll think you'll find! "
A simple missed quotation mark and I would not have been pulled on this. Just before "own.
You are really harsh on here.
Am I really doing this?
Might join the the other thread and and say for feck's sake? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was speaking to two women on here both said they wanted to meet me, but the conversation was that one sided I left it. Nothing worse then messaging someone and only getting one word answers
sucks"
True. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. |
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over a year ago
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. "
You had me moist at "grammatically"..... ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means? "
What it means is someone who is attracted to intelligent people irrespective of their physical features
What I have seen it used here is to hint at his own self-proclaimed intelligence ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. " someone once told me the sign of intelligence is being able to communicate with the masses. Whats the point of using words noone else understands |
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area.
You had me moist at "grammatically"..... "
5 syllable words always hit the spot ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"It's an arsehole word used by arseholes to describe being up your own arsehole. "
I hear you but beg to differ.
People are allowed to want to talk to someone that doesnt just live for match of the day or what the latest ladies shoe is.
I even know girls that have never been to a museum. . Like wtfaaaaaack!
Apparently they dont do 'educational' lol total turn off for me.
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. "
Intelligence also isnt being 'street smart'. ive heard a lot of people who say 'im not clever but im street smart'
Thats not intelligence im afraid.
Lol
Just because you know how to not get mugged comes from experience not being intelligent.
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over a year ago
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. someone once told me the sign of intelligence is being able to communicate with the masses. Whats the point of using words noone else understands"
It makes them fancy you apparently ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone know what it means?
Someone to avoid because they're more interested in my massive brain than my massive norks and arse?"
Sorry I disagree your totally wrong you missed out the word MAGNIFICENT, here let me show you, see below
Someone to avoid because they're more interested in my massive brain than my MAGNIFICENT massive norks and MAGNIFICENT arse?
Now doesn't that look better.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area.
Intelligence also isnt being 'street smart'. ive heard a lot of people who say 'im not clever but im street smart'
Thats not intelligence im afraid.
Lol
Just because you know how to not get mugged comes from experience not being intelligent.
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Intelligent people have the mental capacity to evade the muggers,by planning in their brains though,don't they? Or is it learned behaviour? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Is anyone saying you have to hide it? I can work out for myself whose intelligent without them having to tell me" people conform in all sorts of ways, on here its rife. i don't mind people telling me their interests, one of them being sapiosexual or not,could be any preference. i'm glad some men get turned on by intelligence, i definitely don't get turned on by someone as shallow as a muddy puddle, labels are labels..like the concept or not, it still exists and is useful as a filter, either way.
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area.
Intelligence also isnt being 'street smart'. ive heard a lot of people who say 'im not clever but im street smart'
Thats not intelligence im afraid.
Lol
Just because you know how to not get mugged comes from experience not being intelligent.
Intelligent people have the mental capacity to evade the muggers,by planning in their brains though,don't they? Or is it learned behaviour? "
My point was about people who say they are not intelligent.
But claim being street smart makes them intellgent somehow.
I then ask them to get me some cos they are street smart and they cant even do that. Haha
I think its just a cliche phrase now . . Like people on Fab that claim they want 'quality over quantity'
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over a year ago
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Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. |
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"Is anyone saying you have to hide it? I can work out for myself whose intelligent without them having to tell mepeople conform in all sorts of ways, on here its rife. i don't mind people telling me their interests, one of them being sapiosexual or not,could be any preference. i'm glad some men get turned on by intelligence, i definitely don't get turned on by someone as shallow as a muddy puddle, labels are labels..like the concept or not, it still exists and is useful as a filter, either way." but if soneone is a sapiosexual why cant they work it out for themselves. I like intelligent people but my version of intelligence might be different to someone elses
If someone said to me they are a sapiosexual i wouldnt really know what they meant. If they expected me to be musically intelligent or mathematically intelligent then im buggered if they where looking for emotional/interpersonal intelligence then id be great.
Finding someone you match with is intelligent.
Stimulating someones mind is intelligent
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Is anyone saying you have to hide it? I can work out for myself whose intelligent without them having to tell mepeople conform in all sorts of ways, on here its rife. i don't mind people telling me their interests, one of them being sapiosexual or not,could be any preference. i'm glad some men get turned on by intelligence, i definitely don't get turned on by someone as shallow as a muddy puddle, labels are labels..like the concept or not, it still exists and is useful as a filter, either way.but if soneone is a sapiosexual why cant they work it out for themselves. I like intelligent people but my version of intelligence might be different to someone elses
If someone said to me they are a sapiosexual i wouldnt really know what they meant. If they expected me to be musically intelligent or mathematically intelligent then im buggered if they where looking for emotional/interpersonal intelligence then id be great.
Finding someone you match with is intelligent.
Stimulating someones mind is intelligent
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. "
I too need conversation to be attracted to someone. A fair point my lady.
But banging a 'thicko' as you have put it just because they look good isnt my cup of tea.
This is why people have horrific stories of bad meets on here.
They see a huge willy or a 6pack and just go with that criteria.
Then they wonder why the person was a douchebag when they met them and the meet was terrible.
No sympathy ! |
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. " i wouldnt meet anyone i thought was thick
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone know what it means? "
Definition of Sapiosexual. One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature; behaviour of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.(Collins dictionary)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. i wouldnt meet anyone i thought was thick"
I wouldn't call someone thick,I was using the word to make my point. I'll meet someone who doesn't have a large vocabulary or hasn't had much of an education,if we talk and I like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck.
I too need conversation to be attracted to someone. A fair point my lady.
But banging a 'thicko' as you have put it just because they look good isnt my cup of tea.
This is why people have horrific stories of bad meets on here.
They see a huge willy or a 6pack and just go with that criteria.
Then they wonder why the person was a douchebag when they met them and the meet was terrible.
No sympathy !"
I didn't say they looked good,had six packs or big willies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. someone once told me the sign of intelligence is being able to communicate with the masses. Whats the point of using words noone else understands"
I think that's just good communication skills rather than intelligence. When it comes to intelligence, I think Forrest Gump nailed it with "stupid is as stupid does" |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Intelligence isn't just knowing some big words and being able to facilitate them in a long,boring,grammatically correct sentence; thereby,fooling people of lesser intelligence into thinking they are more intelligent than them and making them a bit wet in the knickers/pants area. "
I type like I speak. Long words, swearwords, colloquialisms or whatever in a stream of consciousness. It's not an attempt to fool people into thinking I'm clever; I just happen to like words. A lot. It's got fuck all to do with intelligence and everything to do with the fact I relish language and books. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I would be ideal for a sapiosexual, until I met one. I am a bit of a Renaissance man myself. But she wouldn't stop talking about her favourite Shakespeare play whilst all I wanted was to roll her over and take her from behind. Again. I gave up and fell asleep. She took umbrage and left sometime in the night. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ultimately the thread really has one conclusion and that is people like what they like irrespectively.
However human nature can mean that we can change our perspective from the norm. In relation to a sapiosexual on occasions they can suddenly become shallow towards a certain person and say, they are not my normal type but I like them. It's just the way we are and hence, we like what we like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought I would be ideal for a sapiosexual, until I met one. I am a bit of a Renaissance man myself. But she wouldn't stop talking about her favourite Shakespeare play whilst all I wanted was to roll her over and take her from behind. Again. I gave up and fell asleep. She took umbrage and left sometime in the night. "
I had amazing sex with a man after chatting in the lounge of his hotel about water sewage treatment and a Zombie apocalypse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again... ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ultimately the thread really has one conclusion and it is simply this, that some people like to label themselves in a manner, which they think will impress others, however if the labelling proves to be false advertising, then they end up looking a fool. Some people are no more "sapiosexual" than poor old Clem here, is a BBC.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again... "
According to the logic of those on the forum who shout the loudest:
Picking someone based on genitals is a "preference". Wanting to swing with like minded people makes you a "fascist".
Hope that clarifies things for you. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again... "
Self assertion that they are worthy and choosy. I'm a "fuck anything" woman because I don't choose my partners to justify my worthiness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again...
According to the logic of those on the forum who shout the loudest:
Picking someone based on genitals is a "preference". Wanting to swing with like minded people makes you a "fascist".
Hope that clarifies things for you."
Thickos can't be sapiophiles? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people like to distance themselves from mere lust. Me, I don't care, if it means I can write and talk my way in, not quite having the obligatory six pack. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again...
Self assertion that they are worthy and choosy. I'm a "fuck anything" woman because I don't choose my partners to justify my worthiness."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again...
Self assertion that they are worthy and choosy. I'm a "fuck anything" woman because I don't choose my partners to justify my worthiness."
Anything?
Or anyone?
Mind you, you did post about your dildo the other day so maybe you really do mean anything ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I don't understand how picking someone for cock size is considered shallow but picking them for their intelligence is seen (by some) as more meaningful and more acceptable.
It's still just a 'like'. Why is one like considered better than the other?
Guilt complexes again...
According to the logic of those on the forum who shout the loudest:
Picking someone based on genitals is a "preference". Wanting to swing with like minded people makes you a "fascist".
Hope that clarifies things for you."
Uh, I shout pretty loudly and I don't agree with that at all.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. i wouldnt meet anyone i thought was thick
I wouldn't call someone thick,I was using the word to make my point. I'll meet someone who doesn't have a large vocabulary or hasn't had much of an education,if we talk and I like them. "
Having a large vocabulary or a good education are not necessarily intelligence though.
Intelligence is a capability. Education develops it but intelligence can still be there without education, and can manifest in many ways than just highbrow academia.
It's entirely possible to be intelligent yet unable to read, for example.
I am attracted to people who interest me. Intelligent people are more likely to interest me. Whether they are formally educated to a particular level or have an extensive vocabulary is less of an issue. |
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"Without conversation I can't feel any sexual attraction to someone. What we talk about determination whether there's attraction and the tone in which the person speaks. I've spoken to intelligent men who come across as creepy and lascivious; which I don't like. Intelligent men can be driven by their ball fullness as much as thickos. I actually like some thickos,cos they can make me laugh and some are great to fuck. i wouldnt meet anyone i thought was thick
I wouldn't call someone thick,I was using the word to make my point. I'll meet someone who doesn't have a large vocabulary or hasn't had much of an education,if we talk and I like them.
Having a large vocabulary or a good education are not necessarily intelligence though.
Intelligence is a capability. Education develops it but intelligence can still be there without education, and can manifest in many ways than just highbrow academia.
It's entirely possible to be intelligent yet unable to read, for example.
I am attracted to people who interest me. Intelligent people are more likely to interest me. Whether they are formally educated to a particular level or have an extensive vocabulary is less of an issue."
I know. I left school at 14½ and haven't got one qualification to my name. |
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