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Is how many fab's important to you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most."
Yep...this sums it up for me too.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I sometimes look,when I'm flicking through my profile,at who fabbed them,but numbers isn't important. My photos aren't inspiring or novel anyway. "
You do have a lovely profile and that's an interesting word "inspiring" maybe it's good to feel inspired or encouraged by people liking other peoples pictures. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most."
This pretty much says it for me. I don't care about the number of fabs. I like knowing that people whose opinions I value like a pic, though.
I'm also a bit of an exhibitionist sexually so putting up new pics is fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I switched them off recently only to be told off in multiple messages by random men for doing so.
So now I've switched filters to no messages from men and fabs on.
Ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I sometimes look,when I'm flicking through my profile,at who fabbed them,but numbers isn't important. My photos aren't inspiring or novel anyway.
You do have a lovely profile and that's an interesting word "inspiring" maybe it's good to feel inspired or encouraged by people liking other peoples pictures. x"
I don't have many photos though. People who talk to me don't do it because of my photo collection on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit mixed here, I never look to see if any of our pics have been fabbed, but my partner looks and he sometimes mentions if any have more than usual.
I rarely fab others pics either, but i know he likes to  |
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
Not in the slightest.
But some people do take it very seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wouldnt ask people to fab my pics but its nice when they do and then i look at their profile and maybe fab some of theirs too, its a bit of fun."
Mmmmm natural pics so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have recently switched it off. Lost interest in it.
I remember the hoo haa when fab brought it in!
It's good to give the massed ranks of single males something to do "
The devil makes work for idle hands.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't say I'm not smiling if I get in the top photos but for me that's an extension of my love of being an exhibitionist and sharing a good time with a wider audience
It doesn't bother me that some of my photos don't get fabbed that much.... they are all ones I like and make me smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice to get and I feel very humbled that one of mine was fabbed so much.
I like the one with the red dress.
Thank you
It is a lovely dress "
Yes, its no wonder really that the photo got fabbed.
BTW, did anyone interested, it's a union jack and by Vivienne Westwood.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be truly devastated if I had no fabs at all in any 24 hour period.
Now then..... where did I put that bloody rope 
Suzi xxxxxx"
You can definitely forget that rope now lolol.
Was a pleasure to fab your hot pics. |
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"Nice to get and I feel very humbled that one of mine was fabbed so much.
I like the one with the red dress.
Thank you
It is a lovely dress
Yes, its no wonder really that the photo got fabbed.
BTW, did anyone interested, it's a union jack and by Vivienne Westwood.
Laughing "
Oh I didn't mean it like that . You look very elegant in it,I thought maybe that would not come across right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice to get and I feel very humbled that one of mine was fabbed so much. "
well I love your pics but can't fab because of your filters  and you live local  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most."
Fabbed all of yours. You're a hotty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on fab to share pics.
Fabs are an indication of how good they are and how much people like them.
So they aren't important, but it's a bit annoying when I upload what I think is a good pic and very few people fab it - especially compared to the pics in the first few pages of the hot pics.
However, if a pic gets very few fabs I'll delete it and replace it |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I take pics for me. Fabs are nice (otherwise I'd turn the ability to fab them off) but I quite like floating under the fab radar and just posting what I like when I like without thinking about what others may think. The ones I take and really like tend to sink without a trace but it doesn't stop me liking them. I'll never bother the upper pages of most fabbed and I'm happy like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My picture of a roast chicken has almost 100 fabs, I appreciated those fabs over pictures that have 7 thousand odd fabs.
Why?"
Because I cooked it with love, it's something I made and put effort into, pictures of my tits and arse are just tits and arse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My picture of a roast chicken has almost 100 fabs, I appreciated those fabs over pictures that have 7 thousand odd fabs.
Why?
Because I cooked it with love, it's something I made and put effort into, pictures of my tits and arse are just tits and arse. "
I'll cook for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have got onto page 7 of the most fabbed in 24 hours. Was quite chuffed about that. It does fascinate me though what men tend to fab. A bit of boob always seems to work wonders. Legs are less popular, which is a shame cos their my best feature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wouldnt ask people to fab my pics but its nice when they do and then i look at their profile and maybe fab some of theirs too, its a bit of fun."
Wish you would msg me because I can't msg you |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"My picture of a roast chicken has almost 100 fabs, I appreciated those fabs over pictures that have 7 thousand odd fabs.
Why?
Because I cooked it with love, it's something I made and put effort into, pictures of my tits and arse are just tits and arse. "
It does look a juicy bird Teabags..... don't know how it got passed by admin though xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My picture of a roast chicken has almost 100 fabs, I appreciated those fabs over pictures that have 7 thousand odd fabs.
Why?
Because I cooked it with love, it's something I made and put effort into, pictures of my tits and arse are just tits and arse.
It does look a juicy bird Teabags..... don't know how it got passed by admin though xxxxx Suzi"
Put my nipple in the picture  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not important at all, especially as I don't get any lol. I do fab my hotlist though. If someone takes the time to put some hot photos up then only fair I show my appreciation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not important but I do like receiving them, I'd be lying if I said I didn't.
As for it being a competition I don't upload enough on a regular basis to compete. If I did I might think differently about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very nice to have my pics appreciated, especially by people on my friends list and also people I have recently started chatting to in the Forums.
The numbers don't matter though as it's just a bit of fun but honestly, I do look to see who has shown an interest and who is noticing me. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most."
This |
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No. It doesnt bother me
But i do like getting compliments on my photos as they must be the least sexual photos on here
Ive been in fab pics three timez (that i know of) once was a silly picture that we pleaded and begged fabs for and it got to page 2 the othet two made me giggle cause one i was wearing my coat and the other was picture i literally took as i was on my way out to the shops. It was a quick one take snap and its still my most fabbed picture yet. It still amuses me a midflr aged woman dressed to go to tesco got in the top fabs |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
Been here 10 months and someones done a comprehensive study. Across a fleet of profiles of they dont know, never met, never spoke to and the conclusion is - lots of profiles are in a verification competition
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As i said earlier the amount of fabs isn't important but sometimes the speed in which you get them is amazing! I had a nude pic up which got over 300 fabs in an hour.. and over 1000 in 12 hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As i said earlier the amount of fabs isn't important but sometimes the speed in which you get them is amazing! I had a nude pic up which got over 300 fabs in an hour.. and over 1000 in 12 hours "
im not suprised with your assets xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most."
I thought this seemed familiar That was me, and that still applies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it's not important or a competition, but they're nice to get. Otherwise I'd just switch the fabbing facility off. There's not usually much correlation between the photos I like best and the ones which get fabbed most.
I thought this seemed familiar That was me, and that still applies."
Fabbed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
Not important at all.
PS please fab me - I got none today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
Not really no yeah we all like to know that we look nice but fabs ain't a major thing for me now |
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Not hugely important to me now - but I'll freely admit that several months ago on an old profile I was pretty addicted to posting pictures and cared far too much how many fabs they got - right from April when a pic got to page one of hot photos. Knowing thousands of people are fabbing your photo is hugely flattering! Over the next few months I got on page one pretty regularly - and noticed the statuses etc that some page one regulars/wannabes will put up to get fabs. For some it seems to be far more important than getting meets!
Now when I post a picture it's in the hope that guys I'm interested in will see it and maybe message. Though I still find fabs flattering and welcome them - it's no longer a huge deal - and getting on page one gets you a phenomenal amount of messages from people hundreds of miles away - which isn't ideal for everyone! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes hugely important to me its all i care about end off.
I'll assume you're being ironic - but I fab bed some pics anyway!  "
Me ironic never.
Thanks kitten much appreciated. |
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It's not important but for a man when you notice someone has fabbed your photos you can't help but get your hopes raised that it's some gorgeous sexy lady who has picked you out of all the thousands of men on fab, it's such a shame and downer when you then find out it's just another bi guy trying his luck despite me being straight lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't give a hoot about how many fabs I get. I put up new pictures weekly then others can get a realistic _iew of what my body looks like as I'm on a health kick & my body is changing ...for the better but not my boobs they just stay small |
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
Only bothers me if someone steals a pic and gets more fabs, lol. Someone done it last week and had as many as the original pic within a couple hours
Jim |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"To all those that say they don't care.
Turn your fab button off.
[I dare you]
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But as others have said, we care more about who they are from than how many we get, very few from single ladies though we get a few & as most are straight we assume, like you should, that they just like the picture..
Amazing isn't it, the concept that someone just likes a pic & doesn't actually want to fuck you, might be a lesson for a lot of guys & some women on here to be fair
S |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"To all those that say they don't care.
Turn your fab button off.
[I dare you]
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But as others have said, we care more about who they are from than how many we get, very few from single ladies though we get a few & as most are straight we assume, like you should, that they just like the picture..
Amazing isn't it, the concept that someone just likes a pic & doesn't actually want to fuck you, might be a lesson for a lot of guys & some women on here to be fair
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's always flattering having pics fabbed, bit of thought goes into trying to make them stand out .
But its even better when some1 says "oh u look even better in person" after all with Photoshop etc pics alone can be deciving  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a paddy and cry my eyes out if my pics dont get fabbed over 3000 on each one ... i have a hissy fit and throw my dummy out of the pram
Seriously though .... no im not bovvered |
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"Noticing a lot of profiles going out of their way of collecting as many "fab's" as possible... are fabs important to you? I know it's nice to be acknowledged that you look nice, but does it come down to the person having low self esteem?
Do you see it as competition?"
I'd like to have more fab because it's nice to know people appreciate my pics, but I'm too lazy to seek them out and I'm not bothered enough about it! |
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"I am not needy although it's nice to get one or two fabs on the pictures occasionally. "
Sorry I should clarify..I meant in the extreme. The daily uploads, repeat pics etc..obviously a few fabs is nice and can be a confidence boost |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
Nope. I'm forever changing my profile pics as I like to "redecorate" it, so irrespective of the number of Fabs I'll dump some to put up new ones I like. It's nice to see folk appreciate them but I certainly wouldn't go out of my way to request them as the OP has noted of some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Essential for my fragile ego.
I most enjoy seeing what other people think of my photos compared to me. Some of my more popular pictures wouldn't be my personal favourites and vice-a-versa. It's kinda cool seeing how that unfolds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like being fabbed, it's more who by than overall amount.
when i was fatter i got a lot more fabs (like 90 within a minute of putting up a pic). as a non-bbw i expect to be less popular on here now, plus people get bored over time sexually and that's just how it is.
at least they get fabbed as well and somebody likes them. i just took them to show what i look like but i wouldn't switch off the fabbing feature.
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God no. I don't care at all. I don't even know how many I have got. I'm sure I could easily get loads if I wanted to. You just have to do a good pic. I sometimes check them to see if anyone I fancy had fabbed them. But apart from that, I never look. |
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