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Stood up! A new record!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was let down 3 TIMES Last night, first went to pub to meet a couple, who then claimed they had just left before i arrived! Fair enough they might have seen me and didnt fancy me! Then got chattin to a lady who promised the esrth then when it came to meeting up said she was too tired! I then managed to hhok up a couple in Erdington, when i arrived they wanted me to PAY FOR IT! Not happening is this a new record or does anyone have any similar stories! If so pls share and makeme feel bettet! Im not giving up yet! I will find that pot of gold at the end of the tainbow, one day!!!!!!
Jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember one couple told me I had to pay for the parts for there car and fix it for them free of charge just to fuck the wife when the job was done, If I was that desperate I would use escorts lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did the couple want you to pay for?"
Sorry being a bit dim here. Obviously they wanted you to pay for sex. I thought you meant pay for something like a hotel.  yup report to admin if they were charging for sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They claim to want him to watch her get fucked! Git there and the bloke meets me outsade and says i gotta pay up front! I told him im not into tgat and tbanx for wasting my time!!!! Thought this was a swinging site not a escort site! Hey you live and learn
Jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Promising the earth and delivering it does have a fairly high energy cost, so it's somewhat understandable that she was tired.
Report money seekers to admin.
Consider arriving early for meets too."
 agreed first 2 are what they are! 3rd time wasters! Thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should do realy but im not a grass! They will get found out soon enough!
Jayxxx"
How are they going to get found out? If your not going to report them then they get to continue to do it to the next fella who thinks his lucks changed.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fair play for managing to set up three 'potential' meets in the space of an hour"
Lol! That was a new record too! But im not gunna let it count as they all came to nowt! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should do realy but im not a grass! They will get found out soon enough!
Jayxxx
How are they going to get found out? If your not going to report them then they get to continue to do it to the next fella who thinks his lucks changed. "
I hear you but it goes against my nature! Live & let live! Im sure some1 will report them soon enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So the best way to prevent soneone walking out is to make you you arrive on time, text them when you leave home. Any delay text them.
The second meet. Well you were only chatting, and she was too tired to see you that night. That wasn't an arrangement made in advance. Sounds like you put some good ground work in. Maybe keep in touch with her and arrange to see her when you both have a clear diary.
The third one. Yes they are breaking Fab rules, but this is the sort of thing that happens if you go scrabbling for sex at the last min. You are right Fab is not an escort agency, and very few woman on Fab will be available to meet complete strangers at such short notice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was let down 3 TIMES Last night, first went to pub to meet a couple, who then claimed they had just left before i arrived! Fair enough they might have seen me and didnt fancy me! Then got chattin to a lady who promised the esrth then when it came to meeting up said she was too tired! I then managed to hhok up a couple in Erdington, when i arrived they wanted me to PAY FOR IT! Not happening is this a new record or does anyone have any similar stories! If so pls share and makeme feel bettet! Im not giving up yet! I will find that pot of gold at the end of the tainbow, one day!!!!!!
Jayxxx"
Yes that's a record I have never heard of a single guy on here getting three meets in the same day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should do realy but im not a grass! They will get found out soon enough!
Jayxxx
How are they going to get found out? If your not going to report them then they get to continue to do it to the next fella who thinks his lucks changed.
I hear you but it goes against my nature! Live & let live! Im sure some1 will report them soon enough "
So your OK with other people having their time wasted like that? OK. Says a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got blown out on Friday, does it look like I give a shit  "
Not really, however when its 3 times in ond day i think at least half of a shit should be given! Lol
Seriously, im over it and just wanted to share my dayus horriblus with you all jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should do realy but im not a grass! They will get found out soon enough!
Jayxxx
How are they going to get found out? If your not going to report them then they get to continue to do it to the next fella who thinks his lucks changed.
I hear you but it goes against my nature! Live & let live! Im sure some1 will report them soon enough
So your OK with other people having their time wasted like that? OK. Says a lot. "
REALY!!!
If this couple want to use this site to make a few quid thats there business and not mine! I appriciate i have been stung by there scam but it doesnt overly bother me! If someone else gets caught out and is more bothered than meim sure they will report them! What this says about you is that your an ultra keen nark and very judgmental
Live and let live! Jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got blown out on Friday, does it look like I give a shit
Not really, however when its 3 times in ond day i think at least half of a shit should be given! Lol
Seriously, im over it and just wanted to share my dayus horriblus with you all jayxxx"
Hope you feel better now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What did the couple want you to pay for?
Grouting
Bloody hell fire, you have a full face!
And what a handsome young looking chap you are  "
NO its not true! Im just a pair of lips, all the rest is purely CGI!
Jay xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I got blown out on Friday, does it look like I give a shit
Not really, however when its 3 times in ond day i think at least half of a shit should be given! Lol
Seriously, im over it and just wanted to share my dayus horriblus with you all jayxxx
Hope you feel better now. "
Much better today thanks and theres always tomorrow jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was let down 3 TIMES Last night, first went to pub to meet a couple, who then claimed they had just left before i arrived! Fair enough they might have seen me and didnt fancy me! Then got chattin to a lady who promised the esrth then when it came to meeting up said she was too tired! I then managed to hhok up a couple in Erdington, when i arrived they wanted me to PAY FOR IT! Not happening is this a new record or does anyone have any similar stories! If so pls share and makeme feel bettet! Im not giving up yet! I will find that pot of gold at the end of the tainbow, one day!!!!!!
Jayxxx"
Desperation leads to irrationality and also leads to being manipulated by unscrupulous individuals.
Definitely time to look in different places |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Three in one night has to be at least a podium finish......don't think I've had that many in five years....in fact I know I haven't!"
LOL Gives me an idea for an alternative FAB olympics with sports like: longest wait for a meet, most unrealistic profile picture compared to real life, most fake tan..ect theres gotta be more! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was let down 3 TIMES Last night, first went to pub to meet a couple, who then claimed they had just left before i arrived! Fair enough they might have seen me and didnt fancy me! Then got chattin to a lady who promised the esrth then when it came to meeting up said she was too tired! I then managed to hhok up a couple in Erdington, when i arrived they wanted me to PAY FOR IT! Not happening is this a new record or does anyone have any similar stories! If so pls share and makeme feel bettet! Im not giving up yet! I will find that pot of gold at the end of the tainbow, one day!!!!!!
Jayxxx
Desperation leads to irrationality and also leads to being manipulated by unscrupulous individuals.
Definitely time to look in different places"
Yhat is definatley the best reply yet! Spot on!!!! Jayxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the common denominator in these wasted meets is you OP if change tact if I were you
You could be right, any help on that regard!
Jayxxx"
On the bright side be thankful you never actually met them, you don't really need messy people like that in your life(or do you?) The quick meet scenario is Russian roulette |
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"Re_iew your selection process "
People say that,but is it not in some cases just flipping bad luck. I've been fortunate,but I don't know if that's me being lucky and don't attract the idiot's to much or what |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Re_iew your selection process
People say that,but is it not in some cases just flipping bad luck. I've been fortunate,but I don't know if that's me being lucky and don't attract the idiot's to much or what "
Luck always comes into it but I think the point is to try and maximise your chances by stop wasting time doing what isn't working and try a new approach/place...something needs to change |
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"They claim to want him to watch her get fucked! Git there and the bloke meets me outsade and says i gotta pay up front! I told him im not into tgat and tbanx for wasting my time!!!! Thought this was a swinging site not a escort site! Hey you live and learn
Jayxxx"
That's pretty shitty actually! I don't suppose that made you feel great  |
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"the common denominator in these wasted meets is you OP if change tact if I were you
You could be right, any help on that regard!
Jayxxx"
Take tour time to chat to people so you get a feel for who they are and focus on those people, instead of desperately taking whatever comes your way after an initial let down, remember if it seems too good to be true it usually is
Works for me |
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"Should do realy but im not a grass! They will get found out soon enough!
Jayxxx"
It's worth never stating who you will and won't report in the forum.
If someone like you had reported them before, then you may not have had a wasted meet. I always report inappropriate user behaviour, as the site relies on us to maintain high standards |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for an amazing response people and i include EVERYONE! Taking on board what has been said and suggested. Still in 2 minds weather to report ir name or shame or just forget about the players! Will mull it over a lil more i think!!! Have a great time people and thanks agin for your time and invaluable input
Jayxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for an amazing response people and i include EVERYONE! Taking on board what has been said and suggested. Still in 2 minds weather to report ir name or shame or just forget about the players! Will mull it over a lil more i think!!! Have a great time people and thanks agin for your time and invaluable input
Jayxxx
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Name and shame will only blowback on you. I personally would always report, if only to stop the next person showing up to a wasted meet.
But yeah, my meets are planned days in advance (I have a couple that are weeks in advance). Last minute meets only rarely go well from what I can gather. |
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"So the best way to prevent soneone walking out is to make you you arrive on time, text them when you leave home. Any delay text them.
The second meet. Well you were only chatting, and she was too tired to see you that night. That wasn't an arrangement made in advance. Sounds like you put some good ground work in. Maybe keep in touch with her and arrange to see her when you both have a clear diary.
The third one. Yes they are breaking Fab rules, but this is the sort of thing that happens if you go scrabbling for sex at the last min. You are right Fab is not an escort agency, and very few woman on Fab will be available to meet complete strangers at such short notice.
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Thanks for taking the time to teply. The story goes like this. I was Blackpool on a lafs night out! Been swapping messages with a girl i had nessaged previously from dudley all day she was telling me how much she wished i was with her instead, Almost ( but not litterally) begging me to come and see her! It was a rubbish night and spent the majority of it on me phone on FAB! Noticed a couple from up the road had posted a neet request so i replyed wirh a picture and the responded by inviting to a lub for a social only! Thats cool, i told them i would be there In 30mins and was prompt on time. Because they had no face pics on their profile i got a drink and messaged them to let them know i was there and to introduce themselves to me as i didn't know what they looked like. I had a reply to say sorry must have missed you maybe next time. I didnt mind, they probably saw me but didnt like the look of me for whatever reason and i can respect that so i started in my car back to bham still messaging this girl from dudley. Once i suggested to her that i might pop in she messaged back too say she was too tired! Again thats cool and her perigative however i felt i had been led up the garden path a little there! I pulled over at the services and had a browse again another meet request, so i responded! This is where the desperate and irrational brain kicked in, they replied straight awsy asking me to call them! I checked their profile and read their veris, all seemed cosha! So i called. he seemed like a well chilled bloke and i arranged to call round! It did cross my mind this might be one if those but dismissed this as he didnt mention it on the phone and none if there19 vetis mentioned it either and i thought it rude to ask?! Anyway got there snd the blokes asking me for money! Give him a round of fucks but not too bad as only 20 from home, put that down to expirience!
Phew!
Thats how it played out, still onwards and upwards! This time next year ill be a FABNIN Millionaire
Jay xxx |
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