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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens."
What about those who eat the food from the knife, whilst using it in the left hand?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
What about those who eat the food from the knife, whilst using it in the left hand? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business. "
Are people really that rude? I'm completely shocked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business. "
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don;t block.
Ever.
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Well get you.
We only currently block if people nag after we've deleted their initial message. We used to be tougher about blocking but we're now more relaxed. Apart from maybe 'fab straight' fabbers, but that usually depends on their reasons.
We certainly wouldn't block if somebodies preferences didn't match ours. It doesn't mean they want to do those things with us. |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
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It's getting more embarrassing by the minute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?"
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
It's getting more embarrassing by the minute "
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"Anything that makes someone want to block deserves a block. It's just a tool and we all use it differently.
People worry about being blocked too much."
People spend too much time justifying it, tbh.
I think it just serves to make you feel as if you have control over a situation or a person when the reality is that you don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We very rarely block. Instant blocks for random men who message in a sexually aggressive or explicit way. We've blocked a few people who made a nuisance of themselves or who messed us about, but not very many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they send a third message when I've not answered the previous 2...or if it's something offensive ( although I've only had that a couple of times) nothing else is instant block. |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
It's getting more embarrassing by the minute
Soz "
I think I broke that one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
It's getting more embarrassing by the minute
Soz
I think I broke that one "
I'm already broken  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone rude
Anyone that doesnt take no for an answer
Anyone that tellse I have too many tattoos
Anyone that calls me names based on the fact I love sex
Anyone that I'd a time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business. "
Wow aggressive - shame because youre a beautiful woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you looking for?
Read the bloody profile!!!
I know....i wish people would read mine  "
I find these people have read the profile but just don't know how to have a proper conversation do ask this instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone who continues to ask after a third time of saying no ..i block
Anyone who is rude
And when mother nature calls ...well its close my eyes and block lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
Wow aggressive - shame because youre a beautiful woman"
Aggressive? Yeah, you'd be a little pussy cat in the same situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
Wow aggressive - shame because youre a beautiful woman"
I'd call it more assertive than aggressive |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Anything that makes someone want to block deserves a block. It's just a tool and we all use it differently.
People worry about being blocked too much.
People spend too much time justifying it, tbh.
I think it just serves to make you feel as if you have control over a situation or a person when the reality is that you don't.
imo"
Whilst I see your point, and some do use it that way, I think that's a very male perspective. It completely misses the experiences many women have on here where blocking is the only way to prevent some people from hassling us.
And even then a few nutjobs create new profile after new profile to carry on stalking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything that makes someone want to block deserves a block. It's just a tool and we all use it differently.
People worry about being blocked too much.
People spend too much time justifying it, tbh.
I think it just serves to make you feel as if you have control over a situation or a person when the reality is that you don't.
imo
Whilst I see your point, and some do use it that way, I think that's a very male perspective. It completely misses the experiences many women have on here where blocking is the only way to prevent some people from hassling us.
And even then a few nutjobs create new profile after new profile to carry on stalking."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
Wow aggressive - shame because youre a beautiful woman"
Hardly aggressive!! I think shes perfectly entitled to be a tad pissed off if that's the first question. The photos quite clearly show a chair, it's no-ones business why she uses it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry. "
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
Wow aggressive - shame because youre a beautiful woman"
She's asserting her right to privacy.
It's a shame when some men see any assertion by a woman of her rights as aggressive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
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What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business. "
People never cease to amaze me..They actually ask that? Saw your pic on another post where you we're getting big compliments and I thought wow lucky girl gorgeous looks.. Go girl |
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"Anything that makes someone want to block deserves a block. It's just a tool and we all use it differently.
People worry about being blocked too much.
People spend too much time justifying it, tbh.
I think it just serves to make you feel as if you have control over a situation or a person when the reality is that you don't.
imo
Whilst I see your point, and some do use it that way, I think that's a very male perspective. It completely misses the experiences many women have on here where blocking is the only way to prevent some people from hassling us.
And even then a few nutjobs create new profile after new profile to carry on stalking."
True, the numbers and dynamics are different for men & women...
But I have my own ways of dealing with persistent offenders.
Just don't fuck with me - or if you do, be sure to carry a long spoon |
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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry. "
The first thing I noticed in your pics was the beautiful lady in them! |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
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Come now chap,at least TRY and remember who you have met! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens."
Haha my dad just had ago at me for this today. "He said why are eating like a left handed person?". (I'm actually right handed). I have no idea why I do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha some of the men that have posted on here make me laugh...
Instant block for us is any crude first message, otherwise if they persist in messaging when turned down, or think they can make us change our mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
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Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Haha my dad just had ago at me for this today. "He said why are eating like a left handed person?". (I'm actually right handed). I have no idea why I do it! "
Because you rock, don't anyone take that away from you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Haha my dad just had ago at me for this today. "He said why are eating like a left handed person?". (I'm actually right handed). I have no idea why I do it! "
Same here.
I'm ambidextrous but do things the way I first learnt to do them, so I do some things right handed and some things left handed.
A teacher at my junior school actually tried to force me to learn to eat right handed, telling me I was being "rude". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know??? "
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block people for all kinds of shit. Mostly if I think they might be a bit of a cunt for whatever reason. I'm sure none of them are crying themselves to sleep about it. |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
It's getting more embarrassing by the minute
Soz
I think I broke that one "
We're chatting away - I'm still none-the-wiser as to who they are 
I'll ask for a face pic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !"
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Haha my dad just had ago at me for this today. "He said why are eating like a left handed person?". (I'm actually right handed). I have no idea why I do it!
Same here.
I'm ambidextrous but do things the way I first learnt to do them, so I do some things right handed and some things left handed.
A teacher at my junior school actually tried to force me to learn to eat right handed, telling me I was being "rude"."
I'm not ambidextrous though lol. I do everything with my right hand. Except use a knife. For some reason my dad finds this very annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!"
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"• asking for bi/gay experiences (profile says I am not interested in that)
• blood or water sports play
• rude people
•using slang in a non banter way
• racist people"
You would block somebody who was into water sports?
Do you not realise that all because people like watersports they don't have to do it on every meet or do you think they will turn up skinking of piss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block people for all kinds of shit. Mostly if I think they might be a bit of a cunt for whatever reason. I'm sure none of them are crying themselves to sleep about it."
Some cry over spilt milk so I'm sure there's at least one bloke out there now sobbing into his tatty hash whilst wondering why you blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would. "
Thats generally why guys ask me about my mobility issues. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would. "
There are acceptable ways to ask that though and not so acceptable ways.
Making it a first question and phrasing it in a tactless way is not the best way to ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would. "
I would wonder too. I wouldn't want to waste their time if we weren't compatible.
Other things would put me off too. Such as attitude. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me."
I think it's overly personal and intrusuve and certainly shouldn't be asked in a first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
There are acceptable ways to ask that though and not so acceptable ways.
Making it a first question and phrasing it in a tactless way is not the best way to ask."
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
There are acceptable ways to ask that though and not so acceptable ways.
Making it a first question and phrasing it in a tactless way is not the best way to ask."
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Only ever blocked one person she was a 'very special case,
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would. "
If it were an issue, I wouldn't be here!
People are often voyeuristic, and love rubber necking at another's misfortune. Using concern as a front for their morbid curiosity. I'm not public property, no one has the right to ask me why. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me."
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
Thats generally why guys ask me about my mobility issues."
Why would someone ask you about your mobility issues no where on your pro does it state that your disabled and you have no visible pics. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
I would wonder too. I wouldn't want to waste their time if we weren't compatible.
Other things would put me off too. Such as attitude. "
I'm sure yours would stop the question ever coming up. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
I think it's overly personal and intrusuve and certainly shouldn't be asked in a first message."
I agree that would bother some people. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
I would wonder too. I wouldn't want to waste their time if we weren't compatible.
Other things would put me off too. Such as attitude.
I'm sure yours would stop the question ever coming up. "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Whatever. I'm going to block you before you block me "
Does the site have a limit on how many times you can block the same person? Have you not reached it with Lib! yet? |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business. "
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
Thats generally why guys ask me about my mobility issues.
Why would someone ask you about your mobility issues no where on your pro does it state that your disabled and you have no visible pics."
My profile used to mention it. |
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Whatever. I'm going to block you before you block me
Does the site have a limit on how many times you can block the same person? Have you not reached it with Lib! yet? "
That's why he had to open a new profile, I think  |
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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago
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"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
What about those who eat the food from the knife, whilst using it in the left hand?
Insta-hotlist. "
What if they've got no hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business. "
I had already fabled pic in the wheelchair.....it don't matter either way! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People who eat using their knife in their left hand.
Fucking heathens.
Whatever. I'm going to block you before you block me
Does the site have a limit on how many times you can block the same person? Have you not reached it with Lib! yet?
That's why he had to open a new profile, I think "
That was nice of him, creating a new profile so you can carry on blocking him |
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Just had my first person that's clearly made a new account just cos I've blocked the first one. Joined 2 weeks ago same pictures and messaged just to say strange weird and clearly fake well well. Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile? |
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"Just had my first person that's clearly made a new account just cos I've blocked the first one. Joined 2 weeks ago same pictures and messaged just to say strange weird and clearly fake well well. Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile? "
Maybe.
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
What's to ask, clearly she uses a chair, what else is there to know???
I'm sure there are many questions they may want to ask. However as i'm not the one asking her the question i can't tell you what they would be asking for !
Mobility issues may or may not affect how someone has sex, so maybe they are wondering about this, I know i would.
If it were an issue, I wouldn't be here!
People are often voyeuristic, and love rubber necking at another's misfortune. Using concern as a front for their morbid curiosity. I'm not public property, no one has the right to ask me why."
If they're total randoms asking it as their first question when they've no intention of meeting you, I'd agree. But I've met a man with a spinal injury before and I have to admit one of my first queries on receiving his message was the extent of the injury and how it affected sexual activity because I'm here to have sex with people not get into a lasting relationship with them. Might sound cold but that's the nature of sex on the internet. I don't think it's fair to write off every single person asking as having a bad attitude. Some of them undoubtedly will have a bad attitude. |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile? "
Unlikely unless they were up your fanny. Maybe he's a vulcan?
*Bird in a bird* |
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"Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile?
Unlikely unless they were up your fanny. Maybe he's a vulcan?
*Bird in a bird*"
Behave, they're in a roasting tray and my nipple is in the shot to get it approved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only ever blocked 3 ppl, two being the same person he asked me to fuck is dog.
The other was incredibly insulting about me on the forums. "
Fuck his dog??? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"If they're total randoms asking it as their first question when they've no intention of meeting you, I'd agree. But I've met a man with a spinal injury before and I have to admit one of my first queries on receiving his message was the extent of the injury and how it affected sexual activity because I'm here to have sex with people not get into a lasting relationship with them. Might sound cold but that's the nature of sex on the internet. I don't think it's fair to write off every single person asking as having a bad attitude. Some of them undoubtedly will have a bad attitude."
I'm certain you would have asked in a tactful way though, rather than sounding like it was some sort of voyeuristic interest, or something.
I think that's what Lady T meant, that she objects to the people who regard her as some sort of curiosity and want to "rubber neck".
There's a difference between "what's with the wheelchair?" as a first message and asking if a physical limitation or disability would affect sex, when it's relevant (i.e. when you're actually discussing meeting). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything that makes someone want to block deserves a block. It's just a tool and we all use it differently.
People worry about being blocked too much."
As said it's just another filtering tool used in different ways. Each person doesn't need to justify how they wish to use filters on fab....but so many are concerned they they're not getting a fair look in as a result. Who cares |
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"Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile?
Unlikely unless they were up your fanny. Maybe he's a vulcan?
*Bird in a bird*
Behave, they're in a roasting tray and my nipple is in the shot to get it approved!"
There's a chicken and a roasting tray in that pic??? |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Joining fab, immediately send a friends request, and then instantly block the couple you send the request to before they can even look at your profile.
Nothing stranger than people on fab as that is what somebody did to us yesterday. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business. "
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely) |
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'Can I fuck you and call you Mummy?' Followed by furious flapping of hands whilst I try to locate the block button before I lose the contents of my stomach. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry. "
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)"
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)"
And I utterly disagree with you. No one has the right. If they want to meet, they're more than welcome to ask if I can still have sex the way they want to, but apart from that, it's personal, private and none of your business.
And after you tell them that, you'll be subject to abuse. As I am. I block to prevent it.
A bit much? Where's the guidelines on blocking? |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)
And I utterly disagree with you. No one has the right. If they want to meet, they're more than welcome to ask if I can still have sex the way they want to, but apart from that, it's personal, private and none of your business.
And after you tell them that, you'll be subject to abuse. As I am. I block to prevent it.
A bit much? Where's the guidelines on blocking? "
surely you mean none of their business? I don't wish to know |
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I blocked a guy because he had a fairly detailed fantasy about kidnapping me and then my husband would have to try and find me. His profession meant he would have been very good at it too (police).
I block scary people. |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)
And I utterly disagree with you. No one has the right. If they want to meet, they're more than welcome to ask if I can still have sex the way they want to, but apart from that, it's personal, private and none of your business.
And after you tell them that, you'll be subject to abuse. As I am. I block to prevent it.
A bit much? Where's the guidelines on blocking? "
We rarely block because most people actually respond well to a polite decline.
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over a year ago
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry. "
I think you look gorgeous. At least you're being honest about your mobility issues. If other people have an issue with that its their problem. Happy Fabbing |
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"Me.
I've just entered into a convo with someone who's come on strong and I'm like, Yeah, yeah! If it looks too good to be true...!
And then they said, "Don't you remember our last encounter?"
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I've had guys pretending they know me and we've met before. Fab says otherwise |
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"Just had my first person that's clearly made a new account just cos I've blocked the first one. Joined 2 weeks ago same pictures and messaged just to say strange weird and clearly fake well well. Do you think the strange and weird comment is cos I have a picture of a cooked chicken and roast potatoes on my profile? "
Tell me how you cooked the chicken and paired it with roast potatoes and I'll tell you whether that's weird or not! |
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Don't think I've blocked anyone. Only time I'd consider it is if the messages were abusive or threatening.
The environment is massively different for women though so I'd expect the tolerance levels to be much lower |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)
And I utterly disagree with you. No one has the right. If they want to meet, they're more than welcome to ask if I can still have sex the way they want to, but apart from that, it's personal, private and none of your business.
And after you tell them that, you'll be subject to abuse. As I am. I block to prevent it.
A bit much? Where's the guidelines on blocking? "
Lady T I admire your confidence mental toughness, you are an inspiration and make others with far less issues that they feel down about hang their heads in shame. I'm sure you are an example to others: 'if she can get her act together so can you' |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?
You miss the point. Like the people who ask the question. It's downright rude to ask such a personal question and no one has the automatic right to know why I use a wheelchair.
However, I'm aware that people have attraction preferences and being with someone who clearly has mobility issues can be an issue. By showing I use a chair sometimes allows them to make an informed choice. But if still doesn't give anyone the right to pry.
I think that because everyone can see the pic then they do have the right to ask about the wheelchair. However you have the right to ignore the question too.
Why? She's in a chair so what? No one needs to know why they just need to know that she is capable of indulging in sex which I'm sure she is or she wouldn't be here!
They have the right to ask though the same as anyone can ask any of us questions.
Its an open forum.
If they were abusive then thats different of course.
If anyone asks me questions i dont like i simply ignore them but they have the right to ask the question as long as they arnt abusive.
I have had many similar questions asked about me. Sometimes i answer them and sometimes i dont. Depends on my mood.
I guess im very open about my mobility so generally the questions dont bother me.
Sorry I don't agree. It's rude to ask why she is in a chair. It's no ones business.
sorry I don't agree... although it is rude to ask about it in a certain way, once a picture appears on a profile it becomes public and therefore anyone can ask...
however, blocking someone for it is a bit much..I'd just say its none of your business if it was me (only much less politely)
And I utterly disagree with you. No one has the right. If they want to meet, they're more than welcome to ask if I can still have sex the way they want to, but apart from that, it's personal, private and none of your business.
And after you tell them that, you'll be subject to abuse. As I am. I block to prevent it.
A bit much? Where's the guidelines on blocking?
Lady T I admire your confidence mental toughness, you are an inspiration and make others with far less issues that they feel down about hang their heads in shame. I'm sure you are an example to others: 'if she can get her act together so can you'"
Guess your hoping you have a chance but a beautiful speech though well done, |
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When allowed anyone to message me yet I get messages from.men saying I want to suck you dry after my profile states I am straight and even after men still do it so blocked all men now. |
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I don't want to fuck my way through fab looking for quality not quantity. Only so much time in a day, time is pressure. I block if not interested, I block if people don't read my profile and I block anyone who posts a cock picture with the first message. Think I am getting more picky in my old age x |
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"People who's first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' completely irrelevant and none of their fucking business.
shoot me for saying this but its on your public pictures...people are bound to ask so if it really annoys you don't show the pic?"
I think she meant that quite rude way of asking about why she has a wheelchair. |
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"Anyone daring to eat Maynards instead of Haribo "
I have a confession to make my name is Rob and I do not like Haribo's and I would much rather have Maynards.
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