Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts. |
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With my soul mate, after 20 years apart I didn't know what to expect?
Our sex life 20 years ago was amazing!
Would it still be amazing?
Very much so.
Not sure if that answers your question. |
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"With my soul mate, after 20 years apart I didn't know what to expect?
Our sex life 20 years ago was amazing!
Would it still be amazing?
Very much so.
Not sure if that answers your question. "
Sounds like you truely are fortunate, hope it continues that way for you.
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts."
My husdand and iv have been together 11 years. We married very young. He was far from my forst sexula partner. Our first time was crap... i thought it would get better. I loved him every other way needed.
11 years on iv now realised how important sexula gratafaction is... some people just dont match sexually. But they can still the one in other ways... well so.i think so |
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts."
My husdand and iv have been together 11 years. We married very young. He was far from my forst sexula partner. So had something to compare it to.
first time was crap... i thought it would get better. I loved him every other way needed.
11 years on iv now realised how important sexula gratafaction is... some people just dont match sexually. But they can still the one in other ways... well so i think |
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts."
When you find your soulmate, you will realise that individual 'performances' do not matter. Not even the first one. Sex with your partner encompasses the whole gamut from quickies to long, lingering, romantic caresses.
I find the sex with strangers far more stressful
Mr ddc |
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts.
My husdand and iv have been together 11 years. We married very young. He was far from my forst sexula partner. So had something to compare it to.
first time was crap... i thought it would get better. I loved him every other way needed.
11 years on iv now realised how important sexula gratafaction is... some people just dont match sexually. But they can still the one in other ways... well so i think "
That's been my experience and I agree wholeheartedly. I love my wife so very much and I tell her so every moment I'm with her with words and actions....but sexually we are on totally different levels... |
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts.
My husdand and iv have been together 11 years. We married very young. He was far from my forst sexula partner. So had something to compare it to.
first time was crap... i thought it would get better. I loved him every other way needed.
11 years on iv now realised how important sexula gratafaction is... some people just dont match sexually. But they can still the one in other ways... well so i think
That's been my experience and I agree wholeheartedly. I love my wife so very much and I tell her so every moment I'm with her with words and actions....but sexually we are on totally different levels..."
Nice to know im not im not the only one in this wired predicament.
In am ideal scenario sex would get better with age and time. But in some case it just dont.
However i wont want to have kids with anyone else, chill on the sofa, go holiday, or have by side.  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts.
My husdand and iv have been together 11 years. We married very young. He was far from my forst sexula partner. So had something to compare it to.
first time was crap... i thought it would get better. I loved him every other way needed.
11 years on iv now realised how important sexula gratafaction is... some people just dont match sexually. But they can still the one in other ways... well so i think "
I totally get this and I totally agree great post and I couldn't have put it better myself  |
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"Was,nt sure how to put this into words....... But here goes...
When you think you,ve found that special person...
Is preverence for first sex encounter to be brilliant or mediocre. ..'
Fantastic has potential to go down hill..
Mediocre can be improoved upon and something to look forward to..
I think ( my self includedd) we get to hung up on being great.....often feeling we,ve fallen short of our exspectations and nervous that partner is harbouring same thoughts.
When you find your soulmate, you will realise that individual 'performances' do not matter. Not even the first one. Sex with your partner encompasses the whole gamut from quickies to long, lingering, romantic caresses.
I find the sex with strangers far more stressful
Mr ddc"
I totally agree you'll be pleased to hear!
After all variety is the spice of life they say. I find the overwhelming sense of well being sex gives me, is just the best. 
Mrs DDC |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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all my LTR's have been instant connection followed by great sex from the first time in..when you know they 'fit' energetically, the body aligns itself...sizzling all the time for years, it never changes... |
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I totally agree you'll be pleased to hear!
After all variety is the spice of life they say. I find the overwhelming sense of well being sex gives me, is just the best.
Mrs DDC"
Well, I've used that posh apple n mandarin shampoo on me pubes, and now I smell like one of those expensive fruity ciders that you like. So if the Olympics has finally finished, shift yer arse upstairs and we can work off some of tomorrow's excess calories...
(now there's 'romance' ) |
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